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bulldog
03-03-2008, 02:21 PM
I thinks so. If one topic has been over used it is this one. And to the guys that are still asking themselves that very question, only you can make that decision, so stop asking us to make it for you. :roll: I get the freedom of speech, and agree with it more than you know, but this is becoming unbearable. :frustrated
Ben

praetor
03-03-2008, 02:31 PM
Up.

scroller
03-03-2008, 05:00 PM
Only if we also ban people posting "You're a fag!" whenever someone has a differing taste in women/tgirls.

lisaparadise
03-03-2008, 05:07 PM
yes i agree this topic is pathetic, fags dont belong here go find your own forum to pick up guys dont use ours.its this simple if your with a tgirl who actually looks like a woman talks like a woman acts like a woman then your straight if you like cds then your a fag thats my opinion if ya dont liked it oh well thats life.

Caleigh
03-03-2008, 06:21 PM
Ok, just because SOME of you guys have KINDA come to some
level of self understanding or acceptance doesn't mean that you
can just close the door on guys who are just recently coming to
terms with their interest in Tgirls.

From the number of threads along this line it's obvious that
it is the #1 issue that "straight" guys who start to get interested
in Tgirls have to deal with. To start with in themselves and
later if they begin to date etc. they have to deal with family
and friends reactions.

Just like FT girls shouldn't be all critical of girls who are just
starting out, you guys who are experienced shouldn't be all
down on the newbies. Maybe 3 or 4 or 10 years ago you
were in the same place as they are now.

Where's the love and support?

Hank147
03-03-2008, 08:30 PM
I would be gay to restrict "am I gay" threads.

Just kidding.

I am who I am, label me as you see fit, then shut up.

justatransgirl
03-03-2008, 08:36 PM
Say, I was just wondering, because I'm in a same sex relationship with my TS lover Jessica - does that make me gay? Will it then make me a lesbian after my sex change or will I always be seen as gay by the religious right?

Also who decided to name gay people gay anyway? Some are not very happy. These questiions keep me awake at night, don't you too?

Oh, what was the original question?

Giggle,
TS Jamie :-)

francisfkudrow
03-03-2008, 08:50 PM
We should nominate someone to put together a definitive cohesive answer to "am I gay?" and put it under sticky topics.

tiger
03-03-2008, 09:20 PM
first time making a post (been reading for about a year now).
To quote the first ts escort I had the pleasure of visitng..."
if you were gay baby, you would have never picked up the phone".

yodajazz
03-04-2008, 01:14 AM
We should nominate someone to put together a definitive cohesive answer to "am I gay?" and put it under sticky topics.

I can give a definitive answer; Anyone who doesn't like exactly what I like is gay. But this also applies to everyone else.

Great answer too Caleigh!

Actually like she says, this question is too basic to this forum. I have found myself responding to a thread, then realizing later that it a variation on the "am I gay" theme.

And when you have girls here calling people gay, and men calling each other fags, the question will still be relevant

62des
03-04-2008, 01:23 AM
I have an answer. If a person has to even ask if they are gay, then yes, they are.

JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel
03-04-2008, 01:37 AM
The love and support from me went out the door when you had that "Has any guy ever slept with another guy?" thread posted.......................

slinky
03-04-2008, 03:11 AM
This thread is so gay.

timxxx
03-04-2008, 03:22 AM
Just add it to HungAngels F.A.Q

BeardedOne
03-04-2008, 03:26 AM
This thread is so gay.

Well....Yah. :shrug

OK, so we ban amigay threads. That would be right up there with other, unenforceable laws against stoopidty such as no texting/using a cell phone when driving.

At least amigay threads don't result in injury and death as the others do.

I had my amigay phase more than thirty years ago, somewhere between my sucking on my first ten-inch cock and having said ten-incher in my ass. I came to the conclusion that if it feels good and doesn't disrupt the lives of others then just fucking play a Nike on it: JUST DO IT!

Fuck what other people think.

Yes, I am in a fucking mood right now. :x

Fuck you and the horse you went to bed with last night. :soapbox

NYCe
03-04-2008, 03:33 AM
Ok, just because SOME of you guys have KINDA come to some
level of self understanding or acceptance doesn't mean that you
can just close the door on guys who are just recently coming to
terms with their interest in Tgirls.

From the number of threads along this line it's obvious that
it is the #1 issue that "straight" guys who start to get interested
in Tgirls have to deal with. To start with in themselves and
later if they begin to date etc. they have to deal with family
and friends reactions.

Just like FT girls shouldn't be all critical of girls who are just
starting out, you guys who are experienced shouldn't be all
down on the newbies. Maybe 3 or 4 or 10 years ago you
were in the same place as they are now.

Where's the love and support?


:claps :claps :claps :claps

justatransgirl
03-04-2008, 05:19 AM
Ok NYCe's post above has shamed me... well a teeny bit... So here's a response I recently put on TER - where I tend to present a more serious side than here in the clown house... :-)


Am I gay if I like a chick with a dick? The age old question men have asked themselves since... well since a long time ago.

My answer as stated above is - NO! If you like a person and relate to her as a girl, what's between her legs doesn't matter. Would you love your wife less if she had a huge wart above her vagina? (Ewwww - don't answer that the visual just grossed me out...)

The clinical answer is - yes. If you have sex with another person with the same genetalia you are gay.

The reality is what does it matter.

I have sex with men, strictly as a woman, so I'm a straight girl. I have sex with my TS lover Jessica and we both have cocks so that makes us gay. We like girls too. So I guess that makes us lesbians, except when we are top, then we are... ick I don't even want to consider what that might mean.

OK - so I'm Bi-sexual!

We are all Bi. So now you can tell your friends and they won't think you are gay. Oh yes they will.

Life sucks and then you die - so go ahead and enjoy it and let the closed minded little people wallow in their own misery. Remember you are getting laid and they aren't - they're just jealous.

Giggle,
TS Jamie

Str8ninterested
03-04-2008, 05:29 AM
We are all Bi!I can deal with that ;)

Personally my definition of "gay" is if you have emotional attachment/feelings to a member of the same sex. If you are, cool deal. If you're not, cool deal.

dan_yearsgone83
03-04-2008, 05:32 AM
The love and support from me went out the door when you had that "Has any guy ever slept with another guy?" thread posted.......................

QFT

bulldog
03-04-2008, 07:07 AM
The love and support from me went out the door when you had that "Has any guy ever slept with another guy?" thread posted.......................

who posted that thread?

bulldog
03-04-2008, 07:12 AM
I understand where you are all coming from, but who wants to be the guy/girl to answer that same subject thread over and over and over. after a while you just get sick of it, and mad at the people who posted the thread because they are unwilling or unable to look inside themselves to find the answer.

Str8ninterested
03-04-2008, 07:50 AM
as far as the "Have you Ever slept w/ another guy thread," whoever made it probably just wanted to see who else was gay/bi. I don't think it was a "I've fucked X number of guys, I'm not sure if I'm gay or not" thread


if you're aggrivated with the number of what seem to be "Am I gay?" threads, here's an easy answer...don't bother reading/responding to them! I know this board isn't as busy as some other boards I'm involved in, so you're tempted to reply to every thread (if you're a computer junkie like me), but there are some threads where you don't need to respond