Every Tgirls Journey is different

[BiancaStJames]

Im 22/Tgirl in NYC just starting out.... why do people have to be so ignorant...
This guy thinks a tgirl just wakes up one day and looks as amazing as Allanaha, or Vicki, or the rest of you gorgeous girls .. your all my hero's btw.. Im just starting hormones and my transition....
I dont look that bad do i??
This is what someone wrote to me and this is my response:

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PostPosted: Sun Mar 02, 2008 4:01 pm Post subject: Reply with quote
so every guy that throws on a wig and makeup is a tgirl now?
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PostPosted: Sun Mar 02, 2008 4:29 pm Post subject: Reply with quote Edit/Delete this post Delete this post
WOW ...... ur dead wrong.....
gr4phic4rtist08

I am just starting out trust me you may think You know what we go through but u have nooooo idea and everyones journey and struggle is different ... ask any of the girls on this site all the way up to allanaha she will tell u to....

keep an open mind and dont be so mean to people

[bat1]

you look fine the way you are!

hormones..have alot of side effects..some not so good
like depression..emotion problems..loss of sex drive.
weight gain..possable DVT's in the legs...money costs

been there done that...never again...

[mikejones]

Im 22/Tgirl in NYC just starting out.... why do people have to be so ignorant...
This guy thinks a tgirl just wakes up one day and looks as amazing as Allanaha, or Vicki, or the rest of you gorgeous girls .. your all my hero's btw.. Im just starting hormones and my transition....
I dont look that bad do i??
This is what someone wrote to me and this is my response:

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PostPosted: Sun Mar 02, 2008 4:01 pm Post subject: Reply with quote
so every guy that throws on a wig and makeup is a tgirl now?
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PostPosted: Sun Mar 02, 2008 4:29 pm Post subject: Reply with quote Edit/Delete this post Delete this post
WOW ...... ur dead wrong.....
gr4phic4rtist08

I am just starting out trust me you may think You know what we go through but u have nooooo idea and everyones journey and struggle is different ... ask any of the girls on this site all the way up to allanaha she will tell u to....

keep an open mind and dont be so mean to people

Sorry to hear that Bianca. Some people have no class. Don't dwell on it. Just a rude person doing what rude people do.

[flabbybody]

It's been an ongoing problem since HA first started.

creepy worms hiding behind their computers criticizing girls who are at various stages of transition and who they don't know personally. They're porn dogs who's entire exposure to girls is the internet and who will go to their graves never meeting a transperson in real life. God forbid, these guys would ever post a pic of what THEY look like. I'm always amazed at what would motivate someone like that to put energy into a negative comment about a person's physical appearance instead of just keeping the thought to themselves and moving on.

[Tomfurbs]

The thing is this 'graphicartistwhatever' wanker has posted his pic. He's just trying to curry favour with the cool kids over in the hen party that is userplane. Wonder how it's working for him.

I cannot understand people who hate on people going through their transition.

Just shows how fucking messed up people are that they have so much to prove. The same thing happened when cheri started posting. All the userplaners started cluck cluck clucking away. But you mustn't talk about fight club outside of fight club, right?

[tstv_lover]

Don't let the negative comments affect you Bianca. The reflect more on the source than the target.

You look great and I wish you well on your journey. Have faith in yourself.

[BiancaStJames]

Thank you everyone for your support... I love it hear on HA and I am meeting some great people... I hope to see alot of you at a party in the city or if you are far away would love to chat more....Thanks again for all of your support keep the love coming and I promise I will always return it=)

[Wombat]

I dont look that bad do i??



No you don't Bianca, you look fine. :wink:


Don't let what is essentially an anonymous comment from someone you are unlikely to ever meet in person worry you. Throw away comments should be treated as such, ignore it and move on.

[cheez]

Bianca you look good to me. I wish I could find the old page with Danielle Foxxx and her name was Gemma or something like that way back when she was first transitioning and all these guys who salivate over her now would find it funny to see her with no boobs and very early on.
Every girl has to start somewhere...

[BiancaStJames]

Thank you soo much everyone for the love..... I love it hear on HA and I am starting to make connections already just being on here less then a week... You all are great and Hope any of you that are in the NYC area I would love to hang sometime could always use some good positive people in my life as I transition,

and a little help never hurt

thanks everyone
muahz love u all

[BrendaQG]

Honey when people don't have self esteem they seek to tear others down. They cannot see the difference between trying to bring someone else down and elevating themselves. The people who will do that the soonest are some of the men who claim to admire us.

As for other girls and looks. Honestly you need improvement. Keep doing what you are and you will improve. We all have to go through it.

[justatransgirl]

Yeah honey - you just hang in there. You will be just fine, actually very fine! :-) When you are on sites like this one, especially this one, a very thick skin is in order - and sometimes even that's not enough.

As for you dear, a little hormones, and you'll be one sexy bitch!

Hugs,
TS Jamie :-)

Oh yeah - and here's what your detractor really looks like...

[JANIRA]

Many people are extremely ignorant. If this is what you want , and you are happy doing it,, That is al that matters!! No one is born looking like the image they have in their heads of what they want to aspire to look like or be, its a process you have to work , all the girls like you mentioned Allannah , Vicki, and so on,, had a certain look they wanted, or a they had a image of how they wanted to look like, want and went for it. People always assume if you are some what manly, or what have you that you shouldn't transition due to the fact that they are some what manly looking and so forth. Sweety i have seen the most manly with six packs abs and all become beautiful & passable TG'S. Don't let nobody ruin your plans , or put a damper on your dreams.. after all,, " A rose isn't born in full bloom , it needs certain elements to achieve that bloom and once it has reached its full beauty its there for all eyes to see" Best of luck in your transition "

[mimiplastique]

The same thing happened when cheri started posting...

yep, and within a week or two of being here I had made my connection and was signed to do my first SheMaleYum shoot while they still live in the ghetto and their trailer parks editing their pictures with photo shop talking about how fabulous they all are and how every man in this place is gay.. :lol:

dude she looks 10 times better than you ever will .... your and ugly boy .... a very ugly boy far from a hot hung angel ....

[mimiplastique]

Honey when people don't have self esteem they seek to tear others down. They cannot see the difference between trying to bring someone else down and elevating themselves. The people who will do that the soonest are some of the men who claim to admire us.

As for other girls and looks. Honestly you need improvement. Keep doing what you are and you will improve. We all have to go through it.



the last person to tell anyone they need improvement ...DAMN

[BrendaQG]

To the original poster:

Look above to what I wrote about self esteem.

You see the person who just replied has little self esteem. That's why they act the way they do (partially... the rest is because cocaine is a hell of a drug.) So instead of going out and showing how great they really are all they can do is try to tear down others. :smh:

You will find that the trans community has more than it's share of such people. Try to be gracious to wards them. You should rise above it and ignore them. Unlike how I am about to be........

@ mimi

BITCH THIS POST ISN'T ANYTHING ABOUT YOU YET TWICE YOU HAVE ASSUMED PEOPLE WERE TALKING ABOUT YOU. NOOOO!!! WE WEREN'T. YOU WEREN'T EVEN IN MY MIND. THEN YOU GO AND SHOW WITH YOUR ACTIONS THAT WHAT HAS BEEN SAID APPLIES TO YOU!

HONEY MOVE ON. I HAVE ALWAYS SAID YOU HAVE ALLOT OF TALENT. MAYBE IF I HAD SAID YOU WOULD NEVER AMOUNT TO ANYTHING THAT WOULD HAVE MOTIVATED YOU BETTER. (A bit of reverse child psychology for such an immature person. Hindsight is 20/20.) MOTIVATED YOU TO PROVE ME WRONG. I WONDER SINCE YOU MOVED OUT DO YOU HAVE ANY OF THE THINGS I IMAGINED FOR YOU WHEN YOU MOVED IN? HAS GETTING A KICK IN THE PANTS MOTIVATED YOU TO GET IN A POSITION WHERE YOU CAN NEVER BE KICKED AGAIN. OR HAVE YOU JUST SET YOURSELF UP AT ANOTHER PERSONS MERCY? (Of course you have because you like to rewrite history after the fact and make yourself out to be a total victim. It takes two to tango.) NOW I THINK I WAS WRONG. YOU HAVE NO TALENTS THAT GOD DIDN'T GIVE EVERY OTHER TS. ALL YOU WILL EVER BE IS A WHORE. YOU DON"T EVEN DREAM OF BEING MORE. THAT IS WHAT IS REALLY SAD. (Ok now show how wrong I am. Be more.... That's all I really connived for was that you would be more. :_( )

[lisaparadise]

i think your smokin hot for someone who is starting out on there journey trust me your luckier then most of us,and ya im partial to white chicks with blonde hair i dont really care for any other race but hey thats me lol,you look great and the ones who put you down are either very jelous or just plain rude whatever the case may be just keep climbing the latter and dont look down cause there will always be the nutcases who wanna see you fall and if your a kind heart then there will always be us sisters here to catch you.

[tsntx]

wtf does userplane and the "cool kids" have to do w/ this?

absolutely nothing.

cheri: nice try

[BiancaStJames]

Thank you to everyone that has said kind words... I am here to meet new people and to help in my transition along with promoting my business... thank you to everyone.. feel free to email me and or PM me anytime

[MrsKellyPierce]

wtf does userplane and the "cool kids" have to do w/ this?

absolutely nothing.

cheri: nice try Exactly

[Felicia Katt]

For some the journey is a smooth superhighway, for others its a bumpy dirt road. If you know in your heart where whatever path you are on takes you, why would you ever take directions or a detour from anyone who has no real idea where you are, or where you need to be?

FK

[blckhaze]

didnt know we "cool kids' on Userplane had so much pull. I just thought we were havin fun. And ms. cheri did join us one day so, welcome to the Evil Empire.

[mimiplastique]

To the original poster:

Look above to what I wrote about self esteem.

You see the person who just replied has little self esteem. That's why they act the way they do (partially... the rest is because cocaine is a hell of a drug.) So instead of going out and showing how great they really are all they can do is try to tear down others. :smh:

You will find that the trans community has more than it's share of such people. Try to be gracious to wards them. You should rise above it and ignore them. Unlike how I am about to be........

@ mimi

BITCH THIS POST ISN'T ANYTHING ABOUT YOU YET TWICE YOU HAVE ASSUMED PEOPLE WERE TALKING ABOUT YOU. NOOOO!!! WE WEREN'T. YOU WEREN'T EVEN IN MY MIND. THEN YOU GO AND SHOW WITH YOUR ACTIONS THAT WHAT HAS BEEN SAID APPLIES TO YOU!

HONEY MOVE ON. I HAVE ALWAYS SAID YOU HAVE ALLOT OF TALENT. MAYBE IF I HAD SAID YOU WOULD NEVER AMOUNT TO ANYTHING THAT WOULD HAVE MOTIVATED YOU BETTER. (A bit of reverse child psychology for such an immature person. Hindsight is 20/20.) MOTIVATED YOU TO PROVE ME WRONG. I WONDER SINCE YOU MOVED OUT DO YOU HAVE ANY OF THE THINGS I IMAGINED FOR YOU WHEN YOU MOVED IN? HAS GETTING A KICK IN THE PANTS MOTIVATED YOU TO GET IN A POSITION WHERE YOU CAN NEVER BE KICKED AGAIN. OR HAVE YOU JUST SET YOURSELF UP AT ANOTHER PERSONS MERCY? (Of course you have because you like to rewrite history after the fact and make yourself out to be a total victim. It takes two to tango.) NOW I THINK I WAS WRONG. YOU HAVE NO TALENTS THAT GOD DIDN'T GIVE EVERY OTHER TS. ALL YOU WILL EVER BE IS A WHORE. YOU DON"T EVEN DREAM OF BEING MORE. THAT IS WHAT IS REALLY SAD. (Ok now show how wrong I am. Be more.... That's all I really connived for was that you would be more. :_( )


a hell of a drug ??? what drug might that be ... you are making a major allegation when you say what you say about drug use... i have STOPPED smoking weed and could not imagine what you are talking about .
as for what you imagined for me .....bitch please police and fights ... unnecessary fights because of your autism you even admitted this
yourself. you even went so far as to make it so i can't have my baby :cry: :cry: :cry:
I WILL HATE YOUR NAME FOREVER BECAUSE OF IT ... I GIVE NOT A SHIT ABOUT A BEAUTY CONTEST RIGHT NOW ... YOUR WORDS ARE POISON

NOW @ NO TALTENT
WE SHALL SEE LITTLE GIRL WHEN I BRING IT TO THE STAGE THIS SUMMER AT A FEW PAGEANTS I INVITE YOU TO ENTER ....
1. SWIM WEAR
2. TALENT
3. EVENING GOWN
4. QUESTION AND answer (the only category you could win if not for your sever autistic state )


so Mrs. Trump .... bring it to the stage come for me in a constructive way that i know how .... with reinas help and a WHOLE LOT OF PAGEANT GIRLS rooting for me i honestly doubt you have a chance but go ahead and give it you bes shot .... YOUR A WINNER >>>>
also
the title that was "STRIPPED" from me was never .... I step down may 13
come and buy a pbr and enjoy the show
i would buy you a glass of vodka be we are not friends


p.s. i have already entered into a modeling competition and VAIN was my first challenge ... i make it through 20 people down to 16 so beauty is not
not my weak point and who knows i may just be the winner .

[mimiplastique]

This thread was originated by a user who felt disrespected by another because she is just starting out on her journey to transition. We as a Transgendered Community need to realize as the saying goes that is takes a village to raise a child and in the TG Community there are many that are very early on in their transition and are in that very early development stage.
Personally I decided a while ago when I first got here to just take the high road and accept that here as in any other area of life there will be those that feel a need to bring someone down or attack someone because they are not at a point that someone else deems them to be at nor are they the vision that someone else thinks that individual should be at but as long as the person who is on that quest and journey decides that they are comfortable and happy with wherever they are then no one else has a right to speak out against another individual.
We as a community do not get the type of recognition that we should because there is no united front, it's all attacks and cattiness and back biting and as long as WE as a community treat fellow TG's in such a manner WE as a community will never progress. Sure the individual might achieve that heightened level but if that person alone stands alone for too long that person will more than likely fall and there will not be anyone around to help that person in their time of need, whether that need is emotional, financial or what have you.
We should be uplifting one another and encouraging the newest person who has just entered as well as supporting the biggest names that are here. All people, not just transgendered are beautiful in their own unique way and if society took the time to realize that we all as humans should be more accepting of our fellow humans than we would be able to carry on in a manner befitting the so called higher intellectual form of life that we so claim to be. Sometimes those in our own communities judge and ridicule others unnecessarily because they themselves are not as secure in their own progression in life whether that be in your transgendered transition, financial stature, emotional stability, family ties or what have you so they feel that if they insult someone else that they will feel better about themselves. Most of the time the bully in the schools was always the kid with the crappiest clothes, parents in a lower social class, under educated etc...it's easier to bite your tongue and take the high road since most times people feed off of your own anger and if you don't feed into the ignorance most of those that try to bring you down will just move on to someone else, whither and die orr that individual will just look seriously foolish trying to attack someone who is not playing their games. Then people start to see that person's true colors and realize that what they might have seen has some how looked a little dull in comparison to how that individual used to shine just because of such character flaws.
People are people and until such a time as we as a society learn to love and accept others as an advancement towards Christian Courtesy we as a TG Community will never, NEVER advance and move forward.
~Nuff Said


:idea: :!: :idea: you know what cheri ???? You are sooooo right !!!!
so allow me to uplift your ass to a higher level of beauty and tell you to splash some water on your face and then go hide underneath a rock .... die ... and be born again ....
you have a lot to do
please make haste .
roflmao !!!!

[mbf]

I didn´t read any of the stuff, bc I guess its back and forth arguing, nevertheless I would like to ask mimi: is that you in hte pic with the date 01/01 2004 ?

[Ecstatic]

The same thing happened when cheri started posting...

yep, and within a week or two of being here I had made my connection and was signed to do my first SheMaleYum shoot while they still live in the ghetto and their trailer parks editing their pictures with photo shop talking about how fabulous they all are and how every man in this place is gay.. :lol:

Damn straight, and we had a great time doing the shoot! Cheri was a lot of fun.

Bianca, I'm glad you're not letting this idiot get to you. Be yourself. Don't let haters bring you down. You're looking good and you'll just keep getting better.

[Felicia Katt]

yep, and within a week or two of being here I had made my connection and was signed to do my first SheMaleYum shoot while they still live in the ghetto and their trailer parks editing their pictures with photo shop talking about how fabulous they all are and how every man in this place is gay.. :lol:

Guess there was a big dip in that high road you are taking?

FK

[tgirlzoe]

Many of us don't have a lot of money, don't have parental support, don't start until our late teens or early 20s (up to much later!), don't have the greatest natural facial structure, are significantly taller than the average American woman, etc.

If you want it, go for it. Don't let other people put you down for just starting out.

I acknowledge that some men want a TS who looks like a GG model but with a giant cock. That's not the reality, most of the time. Even as far as GGs go, porn is so full of makeup and retouching, not to mention plastic surgery. But even someone like me can pick up good looking men if you work with what you've got.

Passing is 75% confidence. When I was just starting out and prior to transition, bathrooms were very awkward. If I went into the men's, even dressed androgynously, they would stare and I stopped going in there once someone "corrected" me. But I've never been harassed in a women's bathroom and I use them all the time and have no problems carrying on conversations with the women in there or anything. Why? Confidence.

Confidence lets you move into the women's dorms at the university without telling anyone. It's not good looks. I had been on hormones only a year, I hadn't had any facial hair removal (laser/electro), maybe my roommates had me figured out but just didn't want to say anything, who knows? But I had confidence in myself and it worked.

Sometimes you will have people who put you down. Sometimes you will have people who harass you or call you a man. You know what? The most beautiful transsexuals have had people do that kind of crap when certain people find out that they're transsexuals. People suck, don't let them stand in your way.

Being a transsexual is not something we asked for, it is not a choice. We choose to do something about it, yes, but we're not trying to be anyone's fetish or freakshow. We're just trying the best we know how to be normal when society stands against us. We just want to be loved, like anyone else. Nearly all of us would push a button that would just make us instantly into normal, non-transsexual women. But here we are and there is no magic button. So we struggle and fight as hard as we can, just to be normal.

It sucks but hopefully you can find the joy in it. Ignore those who don't have a clue what transsexualism is all about and who put others down for how they look, whether they be men, GGs or other transsexuals. They are just insecure.

[BiancaStJames]

Thank you for everyones support and even for those who arent as supportive I really do love hearing from all of you any tips or advice is always welcome good or bad

thanks

[lilly_exohexoh]

girl, don't let those morons get to you. i've always been there for you and always will be.

[sy86]

yep, and within a week or two of being here I had made my connection and was signed to do my first SheMaleYum shoot while they still live in the ghetto and their trailer parks editing their pictures with photo shop talking about how fabulous they all are and how every man in this place is gay.. :lol:

LOL!! Owned!!

Couldn't agree more, Bianca looks fine, screw all the haters!!

Its your journey and your story thus the only opinion that matters is YOURS :)

[BrendaQG]

I can only cosign with Sweet Cheri.

Mimi say hello to home girl for me.

[BiancaStJames]

OMG again thanks everyone for the love... Your all amazing im soo glad to be on HA so much support hit me up anytime everyone

muahzz
Bianca

[mimiplastique]

I can only cosign with Sweet Cheri.

Mimi say hello to home girl for me. :?: :?: :?: :?: :?: :?: :?: :?: :?: :?: :?: :?: :?: :?: :?: :?: :?: :?: