First time being topped- need suggestions

[blimey7]

Hey,

I am looking for a great Tgirl in the Northeast area(preferably Pennsylvania/Maryland) that would be great for a first time experience of being topped. I have a fantasy of being completely taken and giving over all control to a busty voluptious Tgirl. If you have any names of escorts that could fulfill my needs , let me know. Or if there is a Tgirl that is listed on this forum who specializes in first time topping, contact me!!

Blimey

[LG]

I'd recommend you check out Eros, then double check your favourite on Shemale Escort Review or a similar site. Damn you're lucky- you're so spoilt for choice.For the Washington DC area, including Baltimore, Maryland:

http://www.eros-dc.com/sections/tvts.htm

For Philadelphia:
http://www.eros-philly.com/sections/tvts.htm

.ca Foxx ( http://www.eros-dc.com/files/dc-monica72.htm ) is absolutely gorgeous, but I'd give my right arm for a night with Lola, although I have read that she doesn't give what they call a good "GFE":

http://www.eros-philly.com/files/hs-lola19.htm
and
http://www.shemalesxxx.com/lola/

Yeah, that girl rocks my world.

Let me know how it goes.

[blimey7]

Have you been with Lola? Is she really big or medium size cock?

[LG]

No, I've never met Lola. I'd need to cross the Atlantic to do that, but she has some good reviews on SER and one pretty bad review on this forum.

I would try her. She looks amazing. As for her cock, looks pretty thick to me

[popperluv]

I have met her ,and she has a regular size cock and she knows how to use it.
Really cool person to be with and very versitile.
I highly recomend her.
Im still waiting for her to come back to NYC :wink:

[blimey7]

When you say normal size, did it hurt when she fucked you or just right? Was it your first time?

[Vicki Richter]

You guys forgot the most important suggestion... Do an enema. First timers... sheesh. :P

Vicki

[blimey7]

Is it best to do the enema a day before or several hours before?

How much can I expect it to hurt the first time being topped?

[hondarobot]

A day before, as in 24 hours? What the hell good would that do?

For crying out loud, just Google some answers.

[Ecstatic]

Think about what happens down there: the closer to the occasion you can, err, prep yourself, the better. The day before? Too early. Probably a couple of hours is fine. And you don't actually need an enema as in a Fleet enema; a rectal syringe will work just as well. There's some very detailed posts on this subject over at SER (shemaleescortreviews.com) (http://www.shemaleescortreviews.com/), no need to go into details here.

As for how much it hurts, most of the hurt (unless the girl is very well endowed) comes from anticipation which leads in the uninitiated to tightening up. I suggest buying a laytex dildo and loosening yourself up first; in fact, I'd start small, then build through 2 or 3 to the size you expect to encounter. Oh, and talk about first timers, two words: lube and condoms. Use lots and lots of water-based lube (oil-based will break down the laytex in the condoms). And if you're worried about it hurting, don't go to a girl with an 8"x6" or bigger package the first time around; see a girl with a more modest endowment (maybe 6"x4"). It's not the length but the thickness that will getcha.

[NYCe]

Lola is in new york this week according to eros.

[hondarobot]

I just had to post again on this one, because this sort of stuff just leaves me puzzled.

It's that common sense kinda thing. Like the guys who wonder if they should shave their balls.

Girls generally don't like guys to have hairy balls, or a hairy ass for that matter. A little bit of homework goes a long ways.

I'm not trying to be a jerk here, but come on. It's not rocket science.

[Vicki Richter]

honda baby... you would be surprised at how little guys know about this stuff. ;p

[hondarobot]

:p

[blimey7]

Hey Honda,

Just in case you were not aware, this forum is for people to get real answers to questions like this. Just because you went through it and it is obvious to you, does not mean it is obvious to people who have never done it!!

Do all of us a favor on this board and don't waste your time commenting on how things are just so obvious to you and people arent using common sense. If we are such idiots, don't bother interacting with us poor intellectual midgets.

By the way, it is hard enough as it is to ask these questions without dopes like you throwing in your two invaluable cents.

[hondarobot]

blimey, that was just the reaction I was hoping to get from you, it was obvious to me that you would eventually say that from the beginning of this thread.

I'm a fricken super-genius!

Muahahahah!

8)

[hondarobot]

OK, now I feel bad, thanks a lot blimey.

Here is my suggestion for preparation for buggery (that means getting nailed in the ass, for all those unfortunate enough not to possess the Super Genius Gene ;))

If you want to have something up your butt, then just go ahead and do it. It's your ass and you can do whatever the hell you want with it. I imagine the easiest method to start things off would be to order a dildo online. I wouldn't suggest buying one in a sex shop because, like it or not, a guy buying a dildo is going to get laughed at. It might not be to your face, but those tatooed hipster kids working the counter are gonna have a pretty good time with that. Do go buy some lube though, you'll need it.

A perfectly viable alternative is to build something yourself. Get a wooden handle, like for a plunger or something with a rounded end (Just hold on, I'm going somewhere with this). Pick up a Foam Wind Screen at an audio store. It's something a person ordinarily puts over a shogun microphone. Place this over the handle thingy, then take a condom and wash/dry it to get the lube off (lube on the inside, contacting the foam, would be gross). Place condom over handle/foam contraption. Secure the whole thing together with gaff tape or a clamp of some sort, and TaDa! You've got your own sex toy to practice with. If you have a particular girl in mind, you can even make it to match her specifications.

Now lube it up, relax, and start figuring things out. Trial and error will result in you becoming a true pro in no time.

And, as has already been said, good hygiene is always something a person should practice.

Please note, this is all mearly speculation on my part. If I ever had something crammed up my ass, I certainly wouldn't be posting about it publicly. Some things are just not discussed in polite company. Not to mention the fact that the ghost of John Wayne is watching all of us, and the duke just wouldn't understand.

8)

[hondarobot]

Oops. I meant to say "shotgun" microphone. "Shogun" microphones are only available on the japanese market.

:)

[Ecstatic]

Honda, that's a lot of detail for someone who's never gone there before! :evil:

[hondarobot]

Ecstatic, in the words of the great philosopher, Sergent Schultz:

"I. . .Know. . .Noooothing!"

BTW, how did the writers ever pitch the idea for Hogans Heroes to the studio execs?

Writer: "Ok, it's a sit-com set in a nazi prison camp!"

Suit: "And it's funny?"

Writer: "Oh, it's a laugh riot!"

Suit: "Hmmm, thinking outside-the-box, I like it. Will the gestapo be involved? Those guys were a bunch of kooks, I tell ya!"

[Ecstatic]

HH was one of my favorite sitcoms back in the 60s, the best military sitcom between The Phil Silvers Show (Sgt. Bilko) and M*A*S*H. I thought it particularly interesting that Robert Clary (Cpl LeBeau) was an actual concentration camp survivor in real life. Not a subject one would expect to find funny, but they pulled it off.

Great comeback, Schultz!

[texas4000]

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[blimey7]

Hey,

Good info regarding appropriate size for first time being topped. Any girls out there you know of that are in the Philly,Maryland area that might be about 6" x 4"?

[tsluva]

Think about what happens down there: the closer to the occasion you can, err, prep yourself, the better. The day before? Too early. Probably a couple of hours is fine. And you don't actually need an enema as in a Fleet enema; a rectal syringe will work just as well. There's some very detailed posts on this subject over at SER (shemaleescortreviews.com) (http://www.shemaleescortreviews.com/), no need to go into details here.

As for how much it hurts, most of the hurt (unless the girl is very well endowed) comes from anticipation which leads in the uninitiated to tightening up. I suggest buying a laytex dildo and loosening yourself up first; in fact, I'd start small, then build through 2 or 3 to the size you expect to encounter. Oh, and talk about first timers, two words: lube and condoms. Use lots and lots of water-based lube (oil-based will break down the laytex in the condoms). And if you're worried about it hurting, don't go to a girl with an 8"x6" or bigger package the first time around; see a girl with a more modest endowment (maybe 6"x4"). It's not the length but the thickness that will getcha.

but if this well- endowed tgirl doesn't advertise her size and the
guy is in for very big suprise ? should he immediately change courses
by just topping her or back out til a later date?
i used to just bring condoms with me because i assume the
escorts would have legit lube available. You'd be suprised to find out
several of them will just use ordinary,cheap,dollar store lotion as a
substitute for lube. That's why i now carry pocket-sized lube in my
wallet as well.

Getting topped also depends a lot upon the girl doing the topping.
some can be gently patient and can break you in easy.
and a few can be rushed, forceful and painful to work with.
You are right about both the water-based over the oil lube, as well
the girl's thickness vs length.