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young4ts
01-22-2008, 09:57 AM
gcg

Proper
01-22-2008, 04:38 PM
how did they respond? So now you are the family freak? ;)

EDIT: fkn grammar

tgirlzoe
01-22-2008, 07:05 PM
my parents figured it out :P

legman
01-22-2008, 07:18 PM
No way. My addiction to Tran-women is my deepest secret. No one in my circles would understand or respect my feelings on the subject. My wife has has past comments about my sexuality before, and it offends me. I have to be "all-man" when I am with her. I hate not being free to express my own unique personality.

BeardedOne
01-22-2008, 11:16 PM
I haven't rented a billboard yet, but many friends and cohorts either know or have figured it out/guessed. I'm not that close to family, so they don't know (But only because I have been MIA to most of them for two decades). My ex knows, or at least I think she thinks she does. :roll: Depending on what his mom's told him, my son prolly just thinks I'm as gay as pink ink.

:shrug

flyboy
01-22-2008, 11:21 PM
I almost got caught on the computer with this stuff.... I forgot to erase a google search for "TS big cocks" and she saw it! Yikes. Luckily the night before we had watched (together) some 48 hours documentary thing on TS's and I told her I was just looking that stuff up based on what we were watching the night before . Don't know if she's on to it or not.... don't think so.

F


I haven't rented a billboard yet, but many friends and cohorts either know or have figured it out/guessed. I'm not that close to family, so they don't know (But only because I have been MIA to most of them for two decades). My ex knows, or at least I think she thinks she does. :roll: Depending on what his mom's told him, my son prolly just thinks I'm as gay as pink ink.

:shrug

KiraHarden
01-22-2008, 11:26 PM
I almost got caught on the computer with this stuff.... I forgot to erase a google search for "TS big cocks" and she saw it! Yikes. Luckily the night before we had watched (together) some 48 hours documentary thing on TS's and I told her I was just looking that stuff up based on what we were watching the night before . Don't know if she's on to it or not.... don't think so.

F


I haven't rented a billboard yet, but many friends and cohorts either know or have figured it out/guessed. I'm not that close to family, so they don't know (But only because I have been MIA to most of them for two decades). My ex knows, or at least I think she thinks she does. :roll: Depending on what his mom's told him, my son prolly just thinks I'm as gay as pink ink.

:shrug

The TS part I would think your secret would be safe, but I dunno about the Big Cock part... :)

Chaingunner
01-22-2008, 11:31 PM
My other half was intrigued that I named Danielle Foxxx and Vaniity on Maury! :lol: When asked how I knew I just said I had seen them one some DVD's or something and left it at that! :oops:

Hope the family thing works out for you at some point in the future maybe BeardedOne. :fc

KiraHarden
01-22-2008, 11:41 PM
My other half was intrigued that I named Danielle Foxxx and Vaniity on Maury! :lol: When asked how I knew I just said I had seen them one some DVD's or something and left it at that! :oops:

Hope the family thing works out for you at some point in the future maybe BeardedOne. :fc
I'm sure the jig is up on you and or she told her GF that you knew the name of trannies. :lol:

Chaingunner
01-22-2008, 11:47 PM
My other half was intrigued that I named Danielle Foxxx and Vaniity on Maury! :lol: When asked how I knew I just said I had seen them one some DVD's or something and left it at that! :oops:

Hope the family thing works out for you at some point in the future maybe BeardedOne. :fc
I'm sure the jig is up on you and or she told her GF that you knew the name of trannies. :lol:

Its a worthy cause :lol: Love your avatar KH :rock2

Quiet Reflections
01-22-2008, 11:49 PM
the ones that need to know are all up to date

KiraHarden
01-22-2008, 11:56 PM
My other half was intrigued that I named Danielle Foxxx and Vaniity on Maury! :lol: When asked how I knew I just said I had seen them one some DVD's or something and left it at that! :oops:

Hope the family thing works out for you at some point in the future maybe BeardedOne. :fc
I'm sure the jig is up on you and or she told her GF that you knew the name of trannies. :lol:

Its a worthy cause :lol: Love your avatar KH :rock2
I'm just learning how much woman talk about and share with there GF. She may not of thought much, but I'm sure her GF fed that fire ...

Chaingunner
01-23-2008, 12:05 AM
My other half was intrigued that I named Danielle Foxxx and Vaniity on Maury! :lol: When asked how I knew I just said I had seen them one some DVD's or something and left it at that! :oops:

Hope the family thing works out for you at some point in the future maybe BeardedOne. :fc
I'm sure the jig is up on you and or she told her GF that you knew the name of trannies. :lol:

Its a worthy cause :lol: Love your avatar KH :rock2
I'm just learning how much woman talk about and share with there GF. She may not of thought much, but I'm sure her GF fed that fire ...

Think i'm OK on that score, her best mate is an Evangelist so I dont think the subject would arise :fc She watches GG porn sometimes but perhaps TS porn is a step too far at present maybe :shrug

KiraHarden
01-23-2008, 12:16 AM
My other half was intrigued that I named Danielle Foxxx and Vaniity on Maury! :lol: When asked how I knew I just said I had seen them one some DVD's or something and left it at that! :oops:

Hope the family thing works out for you at some point in the future maybe BeardedOne. :fc
I'm sure the jig is up on you and or she told her GF that you knew the name of trannies. :lol:

Its a worthy cause :lol: Love your avatar KH :rock2
I'm just learning how much woman talk about and share with there GF. She may not of thought much, but I'm sure her GF fed that fire ...

Think i'm OK on that score, her best mate is an Evangelist so I dont think the subject would arise :fc She watches GG porn sometimes but perhaps TS porn is a step too far at present maybe :shrug
No its about you knowing the names, not what she watches... Thats what they will ?

Chaingunner
01-23-2008, 12:23 AM
My other half was intrigued that I named Danielle Foxxx and Vaniity on Maury! :lol: When asked how I knew I just said I had seen them one some DVD's or something and left it at that! :oops:

Hope the family thing works out for you at some point in the future maybe BeardedOne. :fc
I'm sure the jig is up on you and or she told her GF that you knew the name of trannies. :lol:

Its a worthy cause :lol: Love your avatar KH :rock2
I'm just learning how much woman talk about and share with there GF. She may not of thought much, but I'm sure her GF fed that fire ...

Think i'm OK on that score, her best mate is an Evangelist so I dont think the subject would arise :fc She watches GG porn sometimes but perhaps TS porn is a step too far at present maybe :shrug
No its about you knowing the names, not what she watches... Thats what they will ?

Thinking back now, I also managed to name Amaya and if memory serves Felicia also :lol: so I may be more busted than I thought perhaps!
Nothing's been mentioned since.....and Ive avoided Maury also :wink:

KiraHarden
01-23-2008, 12:27 AM
My other half was intrigued that I named Danielle Foxxx and Vaniity on Maury! :lol: When asked how I knew I just said I had seen them one some DVD's or something and left it at that! :oops:

Hope the family thing works out for you at some point in the future maybe BeardedOne. :fc
I'm sure the jig is up on you and or she told her GF that you knew the name of trannies. :lol:

Its a worthy cause :lol: Love your avatar KH :rock2
I'm just learning how much woman talk about and share with there GF. She may not of thought much, but I'm sure her GF fed that fire ...

Think i'm OK on that score, her best mate is an Evangelist so I dont think the subject would arise :fc She watches GG porn sometimes but perhaps TS porn is a step too far at present maybe :shrug
No its about you knowing the names, not what she watches... Thats what they will ?

Thinking back now, I also managed to name Amaya and if memory serves Felicia also :lol: so I may be more busted than I thought perhaps!
Nothing's been mentioned since.....and Ive avoided Maury also :wink:
4 for 4 your dead.

torakiki
01-23-2008, 12:31 AM
My sister knows, as well as some of my friends.
Considering that people love to gossip, I suppose that now all of my friends know...lol

Chaingunner
01-23-2008, 12:40 AM
My other half was intrigued that I named Danielle Foxxx and Vaniity on Maury! :lol: When asked how I knew I just said I had seen them one some DVD's or something and left it at that! :oops:

Hope the family thing works out for you at some point in the future maybe BeardedOne. :fc
I'm sure the jig is up on you and or she told her GF that you knew the name of trannies. :lol:

Its a worthy cause :lol: Love your avatar KH :rock2
I'm just learning how much woman talk about and share with there GF. She may not of thought much, but I'm sure her GF fed that fire ...

Think i'm OK on that score, her best mate is an Evangelist so I dont think the subject would arise :fc She watches GG porn sometimes but perhaps TS porn is a step too far at present maybe :shrug
No its about you knowing the names, not what she watches... Thats what they will ?

Thinking back now, I also managed to name Amaya and if memory serves Felicia also :lol: so I may be more busted than I thought perhaps!
Nothing's been mentioned since.....and Ive avoided Maury also :wink:
4 for 4 your dead.

I'm not going to chance it but I reckon she would be grudgingly OK with it,
after all it's not like I'm gonna ask her to watch 'Gay Bum Stuffers #53' or something.....perhaps i'll pop a copy of a Joey Silvera TS/GG into the DVD and see what happens :wink:

El Nino
01-23-2008, 01:04 AM
I am in the same exact boat as legman...

KiraHarden
01-23-2008, 01:26 AM
I understand, it has too suck knowing that you can never be who you are, due to persecution. :( I feel for yah

Darkwing Duck
01-23-2008, 01:30 AM
my ex-gf found my ts porn and was appalled (a bit hypocritical of her, considering she is bisexual)...

My current fuckbuddy (gg) shares my interest, but she's reluctant to actually be with one.

KiraHarden
01-23-2008, 01:34 AM
my ex-gf found my ts porn and was appalled (a bit hypocritical of her, considering she is bisexual)...

My current fuckbuddy (gg) shares my interest, but she's reluctant to actually be with one.Thats still cool.

BeardedOne
01-23-2008, 01:59 AM
I'm pretty lucky in that the woman commonly referred to as "The Wife" (We're not married, we just act that way) is not only accepting of my affection for Ts (And my sexuality as a whole), but encourages it. She has said that I am happier/livelier since I've been interacting with the folx on HA and in my occasional realtime meetings (Be they social or commercial) with the gurls. We've also had many TS/TG/IS friends in our lives, both mutually and individually, so gender and gender roles aren't really that much of an issue.

KieroTheHero
01-23-2008, 02:07 AM
yer i've told a few of my friends, and one of them is now of the firm belief that i must infact be a homosexual, and is trying to hook me up with guys. meh.

SXFX
01-23-2008, 03:16 AM
At university a few people had an idea.
My TA was a lesbian and the bar she use to go to had a a number of gorgeous TS girls there.
And when ever she needed a ride there I was more than happy to give her a ride.
But I still made her pay me back in drinks....you know to cover my tracks.
As for any of my gril friends....no clue.

Nowhere
01-23-2008, 03:21 AM
yer i've told a few of my friends, and one of them is now of the firm belief that i must infact be a homosexual, and is trying to hook me up with guys. meh.

hahaha!

That IS pretty much the consensus of what most people think of guys into tgirls = being gay and in denial (although I will agree that there are a subset of guys who think they're into tgirls - the ones REALLY into the c*ck - who are).

Personally, i've made fairly extreme efforts to come off as 'stupid' and uninformed about this world as anyone possibly could.

I remember once being at a party where they had some tg porn as a gag gift to a girl (it was some Brazilian one from like 2000), and a buddy of mine was a bit curious to take a glance and I just gave a fake attitude like "I don't wanna see any of that" and left the room (even though it wasn't the first time i'd seen it, ha! :wink: ).

I really wish things were different and I could be open, but I'm not destroying my life to be a trailblazer for what's just some mild personal pleasure to me.

Nowhere
01-23-2008, 03:25 AM
I've told my cousin and current SO about it. the cousin was cool with it, but the is not a fan.

I also told a huge online message board(non TS board) about it as well. That got mixed results.

I hope you weren't this guy (I still feel sorry for him):

http://www.hungangels.com/board/viewtopic.php?t=13569

wombat33
01-23-2008, 04:12 AM
I think a lot of people know. I think I bring it up too many times.

I have a few female friends and thy are so cool about (one being my GF) but there is only one male friend who knows and if you ask me he is probably into it too. I think 70% of guys would get hot for it if they knew no one was watching. I am sure there are many that would not go for it.

BeardedOne
01-23-2008, 04:30 AM
The people at work, though not privy to some of my idiosyncrasies, have pretty much guessed from a recent discussion about the Springer show where Gianna does this bit with an obsessed admirer.

The fact that I knew who G was, that the show was scripted, =HOW= I knew that it was scripted (That I knew she was really TS and not likely to fool the average human when she was nekkid), etc. were all pretty solid tells. There was some lighthearted ribbing, but they are pretty much playing the don't-ask-don't-tell game with me. Perhaps they really don't want to know, and I'm not exactly advertising.

wet_one6
01-23-2008, 09:32 PM
NO, This is my biggest secret. The only people that know are the ladies I've been with and Now, all of you!

ottorocket
01-23-2008, 10:20 PM
Yes i have...and wasn't a big deal to that person. But generally my sex life is private and i don't delve in others lives either...just no need to go there. Most of my adult friends now have moved on and only a few select friends exist from childhood, and we bond on a different level than friends i make in clubs or other environments where there isn't a deeper value. Told one of my long time friends and since havent talked much to him...pretty sad actually, we had good times and to let how someone prefers their ladies get in the way of life..love and happiness isnt right. I dont judge ppl unless they've done something ignorant, abusive, or callous...but guess my standards are too high for alot of so called friends and family.

boner
01-24-2008, 04:17 AM
I've only told one friend, a girl, and she was surprised but cool with it. It was a relief to let someone in on how I like t-girls.

runamok
01-25-2008, 10:45 AM
I had a girl friend that I shared this with and after watching some TS porn together, she took a strap-on to me and well...gawddamn do I miss her. Actually, I miss all the kinky girls now that I think about it.

<sigh>

callahac
01-25-2008, 01:13 PM
My wife knows all about my interest in shemales. She will even look at my porn with me from time to time.

quest
01-25-2008, 04:42 PM
Since living in Japan, my friends in Jamaica kept asking about my love life. I eventually told 3 friends, that I have beautiful (TS) girlfriend. They were shocked, but laughed. However, I cant tell my other "friends"; they would probably shoot me.

young4ts
03-11-2008, 07:45 AM
how did they respond? So now you are the family freak? ;)

EDIT: fkn grammar

Its almost like it never happend, we just don't ever talk about it.

blacktgirls
03-11-2008, 10:25 AM
i think my mom might have found some dvds in my room and possibly her and my sister might have seen what i was looking at on the computer. if they do know about it they have never thrown it in my face during an argument. but not knowing if they know i like TSs is the worst.

flowerboy
03-11-2008, 10:56 AM
...nice thread to start my postings with..

been a fan of this board for quite a while, yet am not that big on responding online... more of a quiet observer. :)

a few years back i decided to stop making a big deal of my sexual preferences (whether they be transsexuals, big girls, or just the occasional not-that-goodlooking chick that i happen to dig...) being a very sexual person with vast physical interests i felt i was suffocating on hiding and secrets.
this does not mean today i wear signs, but from my ex to my recent gf, i've told most of my feminine significant others and a big part of my male friends (which actually made some of them admit of an experience or fantasy they had) i am so open about it today, i don't really give the other side a chance or way to make me feel bad about it... mostly, its fun to see them slightly embraced and shy... and i must say, i feel so much better these recent years. today i'm in an open relationship (she is slightly crazier than i am) we share everything, from porn to fantasies. she knows and like my TS friends and lovers and i know hers.. its my best relationship yet. i suspected but never thought open monogamy would actually work so well.

the way i see it. the one thing you can say about most people pretty safely, is that they are rather secretive about their sex life, fantasies and experiences. the things i heard back from people i was being open to... damn, some make the hardest tranny porn look like old school erotica from the 70's ...

open up to them the right way, and they will open back up to you.

secrets of this sort tend to suck.

to the ones that react like jerks... i say, smile, raise your right fist, and cordially give them the finger.

peace and love

flower.

bossiernut
04-12-2008, 03:44 AM
My wife knows of my infatuation with t-girls. Told her I'd love to be with one of these pretty ladies on this site. Says she understands but says they are still men. I tell her they are women. She gets perturbed with that but tolerates my constant looking at the pics here of these gorgeous women.

dc_guy_75
04-12-2008, 03:58 AM
My brother knows as do my sister and brother-in-law.

I know this because my (gay) brother used to live in NYC, and when I'd visit him, I'd go to the tranny bars. I must've been seen by one of his friends because it was soon a topic of conversation, usually commenting on t-girls we'd see on the street.

Word got around to my sister and brother-in-law, and now transsexuals unusually come up in conversation, and (not knowing how to handle it) I tend to feign ignorance...

My attraction is something I wouldn't deny if asked, I know I'd "come out" if I had someone I really cared for, my attraction is not something I'm ashamed.

If you care for someone, it really doesn't matter...

whatsupwithat
04-12-2008, 04:21 AM
everyone. :)

dc_guy_75
04-12-2008, 04:37 AM
e-
True.

peggygee
04-12-2008, 05:23 AM
I almost got caught on the computer with this stuff.... I forgot to erase a google search for "TS big cocks" and she saw it! Yikes. Luckily the night before we had watched (together) some 48 hours documentary thing on TS's and I told her I was just looking that stuff up based on what we were watching the night before . Don't know if she's on to it or not.... don't think so.

F


I haven't rented a billboard yet, but many friends and cohorts either know or have figured it out/guessed. I'm not that close to family, so they don't know (But only because I have been MIA to most of them for two decades). My ex knows, or at least I think she thinks she does. :roll: Depending on what his mom's told him, my son prolly just thinks I'm as gay as pink ink.

:shrug

The TS part I would think your secret would be safe, but I dunno about the Big Cock part... :)

Yeah, nah, I don't think that dog will hunt. :smh

http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l2/magi43/Rover.gif

2754tim
04-12-2008, 05:40 AM
Some do,and I'm sure some are pretty damn sure...like I give a fuck :D

peggygee
04-12-2008, 05:40 AM
My other half was intrigued that I named Danielle Foxxx and Vaniity on Maury! :lol: When asked how I knew I just said I had seen them one some DVD's or something and left it at that! :oops:

Hope the family thing works out for you at some point in the future maybe BeardedOne. :fc
I'm sure the jig is up on you and or she told her GF that you knew the name of trannies. :lol:

Its a worthy cause :lol: Love your avatar KH :rock2
I'm just learning how much woman talk about and share with there GF. She may not of thought much, but I'm sure her GF fed that fire ...

Think i'm OK on that score, her best mate is an Evangelist so I dont think the subject would arise :fc She watches GG porn sometimes but perhaps TS porn is a step too far at present maybe :shrug
No its about you knowing the names, not what she watches... Thats what they will ?

Thinking back now, I also managed to name Amaya and if memory serves Felicia also :lol: so I may be more busted than I thought perhaps!
Nothing's been mentioned since.....and Ive avoided Maury also :wink:

What you really gotta worry about is being somebody's 'baby daddy' on Maury. :lol:

http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l2/magi43/maury_329.gif

Nowhere
04-12-2008, 05:51 AM
No effing way.

Just like they said in "Mujer De Mi Hermano", 10 locks on that!

I keep that sealed in a way that I make it sound as blissfully unaware of it as any "normal" person "should". :shock:

peggygee
04-12-2008, 06:02 AM
No effing way.

Just like they said in "Mujer De Mi Hermano", 10 locks on that!

I keep that sealed in a way that I make it sound as blissfully unaware of it as any "normal" person "should". :shock:

Nowhere, you surprise me.

From your previous posts you have always sounded so supportive and
knowledgeable abouts issues impacting transwomen.

I'm not saying that peoples sex lifes need to be on front street, but...

With some of the other guys it wasn't a surprise, but you caught me
flat-footed

nevadasmith74
04-12-2008, 06:16 AM
Never told anyone, mainly from fear of the reaction. It is something I am perfectly comfortable with myself but I don't want to be traeted as some type of freak. I hope I would find a tgirl wife where nobody will ask as really it is none of their business

redtiger
04-12-2008, 06:35 AM
Besides the ppl here on this forum and a couple other forums...nobody.

However, I hope I don't get sloppy or careless. Should my SO ever find the key to my lockbox or get nosey enough to look elsewhere I'm sure the jig would be up.

Shemale_luver_str8
04-13-2008, 06:19 AM
I told 2 of my friends and come to find out they showed me some I didnt even know about. I remember when I had a cd/ts come over and when she was leaving my house she was still kind of hard, and my friend showed up and I just barely covered her hardon up.

desolationangel
04-13-2008, 03:18 PM
I make no secret of the fact that I'm into transsexuals. Most of my friends know and it hasn't really affected their opinion of me in any way. People can be understanding and open if you give them a chance.

TSLoverUK999
04-14-2008, 05:57 PM
This is fascinating thread.

All my understanding & open minded friends know, are supportive & don't turn it into a drama.

I choose to keep numerous close friends in the dark because of their own failings rather than me being ashamed. Though it does piss me off when they start the stereotypical male crap for not having a "bird" or for not moving on a GG that likes me......... thats when I'd love tell them about the hot blond I've been nailing & her gorgeous tits, ass &........COCK...................................... ...which they have NO clue about !

I told one old close friend & we end up sleeping with each other & exchanging sexual experiences & desires, it looked like it was going to put our friendship on a whole new level but unfortunately other things got in the way.

Telling the right people was the best thing I did...........what can I say I love the female form.....Young or Old, GG or TG.

Be true to yourself guys ! :roll:

Dinand
04-14-2008, 06:10 PM
Online yes, in real life only 1 buddy because he saw some of my TS movies on my shelves. He doesn't understand why I watch it but that's not important because the most important thing is the fact that I love to watch it.

El Nino
04-14-2008, 07:17 PM
Its a big secret with me... oh yes, a BIG secret!

medmanus
04-14-2008, 08:39 PM
Most of the people in my life know. Some approving, some not. My attitude on it, and most things in general, is 'this is who I am, I'm not about to hide it or change it for anyone's approval'.

I first made people aware a few years ago when I was dating a girl and had a social function to go to. I thought it would be a bit better for all involved if I gave them a heads up, rather than having some shock value type of scene. I didn't want my friends to be uncomfortable, and I certainly didn't want to put more GF through any BS.

All of my friends were fine with it with one exception. The exception spent about a month lecturing me on how incredibly fucked up I was. After making zero progress that way, he went the route of informing everyone in my life that did not need to know, but would have a problem with it (family members, business associates, etc.). Naturally at this point, I dropped this person from my life, though he continued to make noise about for a time thereafter.

This is, of course, about the time a mutual friend of ours found his rather sizeable collection of TS porn.

I'm too old and just plain don't care enough about what people think to be playing the covert operations game. If you are enough a part of my life to meet the GF/date/friend I am with at the moment, whether she is TG or GG is not going to matter.

Azanti
04-14-2008, 11:10 PM
Yeah, my girlfriend, and my best friend.

El Nino
04-15-2008, 12:42 AM
what does your girlfriend think???

Nowhere
04-16-2008, 03:23 PM
No effing way.

Just like they said in "Mujer De Mi Hermano", 10 locks on that!

I keep that sealed in a way that I make it sound as blissfully unaware of it as any "normal" person "should". :shock:

Nowhere, you surprise me.

From your previous posts you have always sounded so supportive and
knowledgeable abouts issues impacting transwomen.

I'm not saying that peoples sex lifes need to be on front street, but...

With some of the other guys it wasn't a surprise, but you caught me
flat-footed

Ok, I believe you deserve the dignity of a response to this, and the easiest way to describe it is that it was a huge step in even posting at a board as this and there are serious complications to me being 'out' with this.

Not that I'm some sort of "John" with a family and kids (I'm the furthest thing from that), but given the fact that, legally, transsexuals have as much rights as gays did in the 1800s and the fact that many people who are "into" tgirls have "t" tendencies themselves, I pose risking my entire livelihood by being fully "out," forever.

I wish it could be different and I'm quite sure that if I owned my own company, were independently wealthy or lived in a country like Spain, I could have the LUXURY of such a thing, but right now i'm stuck with things as they are.

My apologies, but it is what it is (for the moment).

I'm crossing my fingers on a proper ENDA bill in the next administration which would radically change the situation.

peggygee
04-16-2008, 06:37 PM
No effing way.

Just like they said in "Mujer De Mi Hermano", 10 locks on that!

I keep that sealed in a way that I make it sound as blissfully unaware of it as any "normal" person "should". :shock:

Nowhere, you surprise me.

From your previous posts you have always sounded so supportive and
knowledgeable abouts issues impacting transwomen.

I'm not saying that peoples sex lifes need to be on front street, but...

With some of the other guys it wasn't a surprise, but you caught me
flat-footed

Ok, I believe you deserve the dignity of a response to this, and the easiest way to describe it is that it was a huge step in even posting at a board as this and there are serious complications to me being 'out' with this.

Not that I'm some sort of "John" with a family and kids (I'm the furthest thing from that), but given the fact that, legally, transsexuals have as much rights as gays did in the 1800s and the fact that many people who are "into" tgirls have "t" tendencies themselves, I pose risking my entire livelihood by being fully "out," forever.

I wish it could be different and I'm quite sure that if I owned my own company, were independently wealthy or lived in a country like Spain, I could have the LUXURY of such a thing, but right now i'm stuck with things as they are.

My apologies, but it is what it is (for the moment).

I'm crossing my fingers on a proper ENDA bill in the next administration which would radically change the situation.

I can actually understand and accept that answer, though I would quibble
on the degree of discrimination that transwomen or the men who love
them experience, but then again I would be basing that on my subjecitve opinion.

I will re-iterate that that from your various postings you appear to be
supportive of tramswomen and their issues, and for that you are to be
commended.

rt_saurus
04-18-2008, 02:35 PM
I have told my best friend (known him since we were in primary school together (ages 5-10)); he is cool with it, but then he is engaged and secretly pretty gay so he knows what it's like to keep a secret about liking cock ;-)

I haven't mentioned it to my girlfriend. She is very reasonable about strap-ons and such, even to the point of doing me with one sometimes because she knows how much I like it.

BUT, the difference is... with T girls, there is no way she can ever compete. She will never physically have a real cock that can get hard and shoot cum. She can match the girls I show her in strap-on movies, but she will never be able to match a Vicki Richter or Sheeba or Jo Garcia, etc., etc. I would not put on her the pressure of trying to live up to a need that I have that I know she cannot provide.

(Plus which, she has previously mentioned a fellow she knew who was "last with a transvestite" and she was quite negative about that.)

Guess I have to be just very happy that she views the strap-on play very positively :-)

djlunitik
04-21-2008, 02:36 AM
Well i told my current g/f and for the first time in my life that i live tgirls
at first she was fine with it and she even wanted to watch some movies to see what is the deal with tgirls but then! ... she started questioning what do i like in tgirls and what do i find attractive and if i am gay and all that questions... she loves me so much that she looked over the internet and forums (maybe this one even) about if i am stright and why do i like them.
so she sat me down for one of those talks and i had to explain her that tgirls have something she dosen't but its not all and that i can love a gg and a tgirl it dosent matter to me but i can never love a man or have sex with a man so she got much more relaxed.
she knows i have tons of tgirl porn and she justs over looks it.
well i guess she will never understand why i like to be bottom sometimes with a tgirl that makes her think i am gay but with her we have sex normaly i dont have the gutts to tell her that i sometimes want it to be like sex with a starpon or something like that
but hey you can't win everything in life can u ?

Dina Delicious
04-21-2008, 03:38 AM
sometimes i feel bad for the woman
and im sure its not easy on you guys either

DD