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Hara_Juku Tgirl
01-20-2008, 04:34 AM
How do you decide which one's are dateable and the ones that are not?!? :?

For the girls: What makes a GUY - boyfriend (dating) material?

1.
2.
3.
etc.

For the guys: What makes a GIRL - girlfriend (dating) material? ;)

1.
2.
3.
etc.

~Kisses.

HTG

blckhaze
01-20-2008, 04:38 AM
1) hot body. kinda obvious
2) good personality. if a lady doesnt have anything really spectacular physically, but has a great personality and is able to relate to me, shell get increasingly hot.

TrueBeauty TS
01-20-2008, 04:39 AM
How do you decide which one's are dateable and the ones that are not?!? :?

For the girls: What makes a GUY - boyfriend (dating) material?

1.
2.
3.
etc.



1. Honesty
2. Sense of humor
3. Loyal
4. Educated
5. Cultured
6. Nice person
7. Secure with who he is
8. Secure with who I am
9. non-drug user
10. Decent looking





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Legend
01-20-2008, 04:41 AM
1.Sense of Humor
2.Kindness in her heart
3.Personality

Hara_Juku Tgirl
01-20-2008, 04:45 AM
How do you decide which one's are dateable and the ones that are not?!? :?

For the girls: What makes a GUY - boyfriend (dating) material?

1.
2.
3.
etc.



1. Honesty
2. Sense of humor
3. Loyal
4. Educated
5. Cultured
6. Nice person
7. Secure with who he is
8. Secure with who I am
9. non-drug user
10. Decent looking





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I like your top 10 TrueBeauty TS..I might have to use that now as guidelines! LOL ;)

Thanks girlie. :P

~Kisses.

HTG

TrueBeauty TS
01-20-2008, 04:51 AM
How do you decide which one's are dateable and the ones that are not?!? :?

For the girls: What makes a GUY - boyfriend (dating) material?

1.
2.
3.
etc.



1. Honesty
2. Sense of humor
3. Loyal
4. Educated
5. Cultured
6. Nice person
7. Secure with who he is
8. Secure with who I am
9. non-drug user
10. Decent looking





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I like your top 10 TrueBeauty TS..I might have to use that now as guidelines! LOL ;)

Thanks girlie. :P

~Kisses.

HTG


Yeah well.... I'm not sure how usefull that list is. I'm single.

:cry:


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Hara_Juku Tgirl
01-20-2008, 04:52 AM
:lol: I hear ya! Though I'm surprised you didn't mention financial security TrueBeauty TS! LOL ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

peggygee
01-20-2008, 07:09 AM
1. Not a substance user / abuser

2. Person of integrity

3. Intelligent

4. Stable

5. Great sense of humor

6. Easy to talk to / with

tgirlzoe
01-20-2008, 08:39 AM
1. No drug abuse / overuse (incl. alcohol, tobacco, caffeine)
2. Vegetarian / Vegan (I'm Vegan)
3. Christian (I'm Episcopalian)
4. Taller than me (I'm 5'6", I prefer guys 6'+)
5. Masculine in appearance, no emo boys (although they can be cute)
6. If FTM, 2yrs+ T and post-op top
7. Honesty, Integrity
8. Openness, Emotional availability
9. Emotionally and financially stable (not saying you have to be rich, just have a steady job)
10. Creative (we all have an art)

Hara_Juku Tgirl
01-20-2008, 08:46 AM
Hmm..all the girls seems to be dishing out a pretty good list! :P

And where are all the other men at?!? Have they all fallen deaf and mute on the subject??? LOL :wink:

~Kisses.

HTG

tgirlzoe
01-20-2008, 08:55 AM
Hmm..all the girls seems to be dishing out a pretty good list! :P

And where are all the other men at?!? Have they all fallen deaf and mute on the subject??? LOL :wink:

~Kisses.

HTG

1. Breathing or at least still warm
2. Big cock
3. Looks vaguely feminine

Fox
01-20-2008, 08:55 AM
1. Open-minded
2. Sense of humor (doesn't take herself too seriously... important! Bye-bye divas)
3. Attractive (looks aren't everything, but it is important)
4. Tolerant of people who are different
5. Emotionally mature (omg please)
6. Generally caring

Unfortunately, some of these things you don't find out until you date someone. Ironic, ain't it. :p

Hara_Juku Tgirl
01-20-2008, 09:01 AM
Hmm..all the girls seems to be dishing out a pretty good list! :P

And where are all the other men at?!? Have they all fallen deaf and mute on the subject??? LOL :wink:

~Kisses.

HTG

1. Breathing or at least still warm
2. Big cock
3. Looks vaguely feminine

Lmao :lol:

~Kisses.

HTG

Dino Velvet
01-20-2008, 09:18 AM
For the guys: What makes a GIRL - girlfriend (dating) material?

1) Attractive(Appearance is the first thing I notice and will make or break my interest.)
2) Clean with good hygiene and knows how to wipe her butt properly.
3) Fun personality, good sense of humor and laughs at my jokes.
4) She doesn't need to know a ton of English. As long as she knows when I'm hungry, horny, or sleepy, that's fine.
5) Low self-esteem is a turn on but not suicidal as that would be annoying. I like a girl who knows that I'm the best guy she will ever have. I'll keep telling her until it sinks in.
6) No f'n kids! If she has made one or more mistakes, she'll make more.
7) Doesn't have a current ad on EROS

justatransgirl
01-20-2008, 09:52 AM
What makes a GUY - boyfriend (dating) material?

M-O-N-E-Y!

Giggle,
TS Jamie :-)

TrueBeauty TS
01-20-2008, 10:00 AM
For the guys: What makes a GIRL - girlfriend (dating) material?

1) Attractive(Appearance is the first thing I notice and will make or break my interest.)
2) Clean with good hygiene and knows how to wipe her butt properly.
3) Fun personality, good sense of humor and laughs at my jokes.
4) She doesn't need to know a ton of English. As long as she knows when I'm hungry, horny, or sleepy, that's fine.
5) Low self-esteem is a turn on but not suicidal as that would be annoying. I like a girl who knows that I'm the best guy she will ever have. I'll keep telling her until it sinks in.
6) No f'n kids! If she has made one or more mistakes, she'll make more.
7) Doesn't have a current ad on EROS



I.... hope..... you're.... joking?? :shock:

mbf
01-20-2008, 10:07 AM
How do you decide which one's are dateable and the ones that are not?!? :?

For the girls: What makes a GUY - boyfriend (dating) material?

1.
2.
3.
etc.



1. Honesty
2. Sense of humor
3. Loyal
4. Educated
5. Cultured
6. Nice person
7. Secure with who he is
8. Secure with who I am
9. non-drug user
10. Decent looking





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hey TBTS! That list makes me your ANTI-date :P

TrueBeauty TS
01-20-2008, 10:10 AM
hey TBTS! That list makes me your ANTI-date :P


Yeah.... I had that feeling about you.

8)


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justatransgirl
01-20-2008, 10:49 AM
For the guys: What makes a GIRL - girlfriend (dating) material?

1) Attractive(Appearance is the first thing I notice and will make or break my interest.)
2) Clean with good hygiene and knows how to wipe her butt properly.
3) Fun personality, good sense of humor and laughs at my jokes.
4) She doesn't need to know a ton of English. As long as she knows when I'm hungry, horny, or sleepy, that's fine.
5) Low self-esteem is a turn on but not suicidal as that would be annoying. I like a girl who knows that I'm the best guy she will ever have. I'll keep telling her until it sinks in.
6) No f'n kids! If she has made one or more mistakes, she'll make more.
7) Doesn't have a current ad on EROS

I.... hope..... you're.... joking?? :shock:

Oh honey - Dino knows we all love him, but he's obviously serious - let me finish his post for him... :-) :-)

1) Attractive(Appearance is the first thing I notice and will make or break my interest.)

Yes, it's another man of deep character...

2) Clean with good hygiene and knows how to wipe her butt properly.

That's cause he doesn't like the salty taste of old poo on his tongue...

3) Fun personality, good sense of humor and laughs at my jokes.

Well of course, that's a girls "job" to laugh at your jokes - and your tiny penis...

4) She doesn't need to know a ton of English. As long as she knows when I'm hungry, horny, or sleepy, that's fine.

Dino honey you forgot the most important thing - that she knows when you want to jump her bones!

5) suicidal would be annoying.

Yeah it's hard to explain a dead girl hanging in your shower...

6) No f'n kids! If she has made one or more mistakes, she'll make more.

I don't think you will have to worry about too many t-girls getting pregnant...

7) Doesn't have a current ad on EROS

But Craigslist is OK, so long as he get's 1/2.

Giggle,
TS Jamie :-)


PS - Dino honey - I apologise in advance but this was just too good to pass up... :-)

Dino Velvet
01-20-2008, 10:54 AM
For the guys: What makes a GIRL - girlfriend (dating) material?

1) Attractive(Appearance is the first thing I notice and will make or break my interest.)
2) Clean with good hygiene and knows how to wipe her butt properly.
3) Fun personality, good sense of humor and laughs at my jokes.
4) She doesn't need to know a ton of English. As long as she knows when I'm hungry, horny, or sleepy, that's fine.
5) Low self-esteem is a turn on but not suicidal as that would be annoying. I like a girl who knows that I'm the best guy she will ever have. I'll keep telling her until it sinks in.
6) No f'n kids! If she has made one or more mistakes, she'll make more.
7) Doesn't have a current ad on EROS



I.... hope..... you're.... joking?? :shock:

Interested? I forgot one thing. Do you have tattoos? I don't mind a tramp stamp or a little one around the ankle but if you're tatted up like a Yakuza boss you're out the door, comprendo?

Go ahead and PM me some pics so I can get a look at you. If I like what I see, I'll unchain the lady I'm in a relationship with now. Just please stop by a 7/11 on the way over here and pick up some sunglasses so I can give them to her before she leaves. We've been together for awhile and her eyes will have to readjust to sunlight. I still have feelings for her and want to leave a good impression.

We can have a few brews and if we hit it off I'll Crisco up your tooter and take you for a test drive. After you swallow my paste, I'll show you the cellar and see if your ankles are slim and feminine enough to fit into the shackles. I'll sweep off the floor so you'll have a comfortable place to sleep.

Dino Velvet
01-20-2008, 10:59 AM
For the guys: What makes a GIRL - girlfriend (dating) material?

1) Attractive(Appearance is the first thing I notice and will make or break my interest.)
2) Clean with good hygiene and knows how to wipe her butt properly.
3) Fun personality, good sense of humor and laughs at my jokes.
4) She doesn't need to know a ton of English. As long as she knows when I'm hungry, horny, or sleepy, that's fine.
5) Low self-esteem is a turn on but not suicidal as that would be annoying. I like a girl who knows that I'm the best guy she will ever have. I'll keep telling her until it sinks in.
6) No f'n kids! If she has made one or more mistakes, she'll make more.
7) Doesn't have a current ad on EROS

I.... hope..... you're.... joking?? :shock:

Oh honey - Dino knows we all love him, but he's obviously serious - let me finish his post for him... :-) :-)

1) Attractive(Appearance is the first thing I notice and will make or break my interest.)

Yes, it's another man of deep character...

2) Clean with good hygiene and knows how to wipe her butt properly.

That's cause he doesn't like the salty taste of old poo on his tongue...

3) Fun personality, good sense of humor and laughs at my jokes.

Well of course, that's a girls "job" to laugh at your jokes - and your tiny penis...

4) She doesn't need to know a ton of English. As long as she knows when I'm hungry, horny, or sleepy, that's fine.

Dino honey you forgot the most important thing - that she knows when you want to jump her bones!

5) suicidal would be annoying.

Yeah it's hard to explain a dead girl hanging in your shower...

6) No f'n kids! If she has made one or more mistakes, she'll make more.

I don't think you will have to worry about too many t-girls getting pregnant...

7) Doesn't have a current ad on EROS

But Craigslist is OK, so long as he get's 1/2.

Giggle,
TS Jamie :-)


PS - Dino honey - I apologise in advance but this was just too good to pass up... :-)

Good one. Don't sweat it. I can take it as good as I can give it(but not in the way you're thinking). Hey Jamie, I'm also a tit man so let's get a gander at your new headlights.

KiraHarden
01-20-2008, 02:58 PM
1) Have a job
2) Attractive looking
3) Must be 6-0 and taller
4) Physically fit
5) Masculine and a dominate top in bedroom only
6) Outgoing and secure with his sexuality to date me
7) Emotionally stable
8) Drug free, non smoker, and not a big drinker
9) Charming quick wit
10) Size matters over 7 in

TrueBeauty TS
01-20-2008, 07:47 PM
1) Have a job
2) Attractive looking
3) Must be 6-0 and taller
4) Physically fit
5) Masculine and a dominate top in bedroom only
6) Outgoing and secure with his sexuality to date me
7) Emotionally stable
8) Drug free, non smoker, and not a big drinker
9) Charming quick wit
10) Size matters over 7 in



LOL, Your list sounds as impossible as mine does!

franks
01-20-2008, 07:47 PM
How do you decide which one's are dateable and the ones that are not?!? :?

For the girls: What makes a GUY - boyfriend (dating) material?

1.
2.
3.
etc.

For the guys: What makes a GIRL - girlfriend (dating) material? ;)

1.
2.
3.
etc.

~Kisses.

HTG

reasonable
intelligent (native intelligence/common sense; I'm not crazy about the pseudo/over intellectual kind
common interests (some things, not everything)
no vices
health conscious (I'm vegetarian, but she doesn't have to be. just health conscious.
any most importantly: conscious in general (to be aware of, to some degree, what's going on around you and the world.
the general perception of beauty isn't important; as long as I find you attractive, that's all

KiraHarden
01-20-2008, 07:55 PM
1) Have a job
2) Attractive looking
3) Must be 6-0 and taller
4) Physically fit
5) Masculine and a dominate top in bedroom only
6) Outgoing and secure with his sexuality to date me
7) Emotionally stable
8) Drug free, non smoker, and not a big drinker
9) Charming quick wit
10) Size matters over 7 in



LOL, Your list sounds as impossible as mine does!
:lol: I will take that chance and wait. He's out there I know it :)

iloveshemales77
01-20-2008, 08:25 PM
Bloody hell. A whole lotta non-smokers, tea totalers, no coffee types here. Sounds extremely wholesome but wahdya you do for fun? (Apart from sex)

JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel
01-20-2008, 08:28 PM
I watch Mission Impossible daily, I tivo that shit
great series, sorry Tom fucked up the movies

anyways:

1. She has to have her own thing going on financially.
2. She needs to be comfortable with her own sexuality.
3. She needs to have some level of computer literacy.
4. She needs to know how to give a blowjob. One of those knock a guy unconscious b/j's.
5. She needs to know how to dress, whether it's for a quiet night at home OR a night on the town.
6. She can't have horrid feet, if she does she needs to visit madame [insert name here]'s nail salon on a regular basis.
7. She needs to have her own transportation.
8. She can't get involved and suddenly not go to the gym anymore!!!!!!!
9. She needs to know how to cook at least 2 meals, I can cook the other 5.
10. She needs not question running with me to Blockbuster for fear of me getting spooked because she's on my arm, we're together no shame in that.
11. She can't do drugs. My personal preference and i know in this world that's near impossible to find..................
12. If she's feeling weird before or after an event occured with work/family/whatever she has to let me know so I can know what's ahead.
13. If she invites me out & her girlfriend is there she's toast........... To guys that's the endgame.........
14. If she's horny and wants to fuck she won't beat around the bush with the shit, she'll open the door in her bra and panties, drop to her knees and get things started!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

sorry if I went off, I've had that on my mind way too long

great fuckin thread

BrendaQG
01-20-2008, 08:59 PM
1.) Personality - dominant but not abusive.
2.) Inteligence/education/wisdom - compatible with me in that area
3.) Economic stability- They have to at lest have a realistic long term plan if not a decent job.
4.) sexual compatability.
5.) looks

EyeCumInPiece
01-20-2008, 08:59 PM
Great post, Hara always makes good ones.

1. Beautiful face
2. Great body
3. Intelligent
4. Swallows
5. Doesnt bust my balls

am i askin for that much??? In my 25 years of life ive never met a woman that can meet at least 4 of these.

RevolveR.
01-20-2008, 09:06 PM
attractive
nice body (make the most of it until she gets too comfortable in the relationship)
well mannered
non-gossip queen
not obsessive
STD free

things that don't matter - money, education, race

justatransgirl
01-20-2008, 10:39 PM
Note to Dino...

It's Sunday afternoon and I just popped in to see the latest mud. And I want to apologise for my mean comments of last night... I broke my promise to not post after my third marguarita, thanks for being a good sport.

I was in a really fiesty mood - now spank me please and I'll be good.

Giggle,
TS Jamie :-)

muhmuh
01-20-2008, 11:36 PM
1. Breathing or at least still warm
2. Big cock
3. Looks vaguely feminine

ill have what shes having
(and i dont mean that in the usual way which would imply shes on drugs)

although you can forget about the warm but... you could always put her on the radiator for half an hour before having sex

kalina
01-20-2008, 11:51 PM
1. Massive intelligence
2. Easy to talk to - on your level
3. Takes his life seriously and has goals, some of which have been reached, others yet to be reached

Dino Velvet
01-21-2008, 12:09 AM
Note to Dino...

It's Sunday afternoon and I just popped in to see the latest mud. And I want to apologise for my mean comments of last night... I broke my promise to not post after my third marguarita, thanks for being a good sport.

I was in a really fiesty mood - now spank me please and I'll be good.

Giggle,
TS Jamie :-)

Don't know if I want to spank you but there was no harm done. A firm handshake will do. Anyways, I was on my 4th mayonaise jar of Jack & Coke.

iloveshemales77
01-22-2008, 01:16 AM
Factors that make one datable??

For men: Money and/or looks
For women: Looks

As simple as that. Read Tony Curits' autobiograhy the other day. Movie Stars? Listen, he says: Rule nr. 1 Looks. Nr. 2 Looks etc. then around nr. 10. Acting ability.

For men, if you're pug ugly but rich: you'll get laid and subsequently get fucked. If you're handsome and broke ...you'll get laid.

For women: If you're ugly, you better be smart. If you're ugly and dumb...look into "Euthenasia"

peggygee
01-22-2008, 02:17 AM
3. Christian (I'm Episcopalian)


Spirituality actually is the number one characteristic
that I seek in a mate, from those some of the other
attributes (integirty, honesty, etc.) that I seek will
flow,

They don't have to be Christian, Muslim or Jew, but I
truly value and require a sense of spirituality in a mate.

iloveshemales77
01-22-2008, 02:48 AM
3. Christian (I'm Episcopalian)


Spirituality actually is the number one characteristic
that I seek in a mate, from those some of the other
attributes (integirty, honesty, etc.) that I seek will
flow,

They don't have to be Christian, Muslim or Jew, but I
truly value and require a sense of spirituality in a mate.

true... in our spiritual life...

but in day to day sordid life...
see above

Dino Velvet
01-22-2008, 06:57 AM
3. Christian

That too. I ain't fuckin nobody that don't like Jesus. No Christ Killer's gonna ride Dino's cock! That goes for Toweliban skanks with their little gloryhole veils too.

JamesHunt
01-22-2008, 07:02 AM
For the guys: What makes a GIRL - girlfriend (dating) material? :wink:

1. Massive cock
2. Cute face
3. thundering thighs

Hara_Juku Tgirl
01-22-2008, 07:20 AM
Well at least you were being honest Silvester! LOL

~Kisses.

HTG

NYTSJulie
01-22-2008, 08:17 AM
Must be goodlooking, smart, have good morals, have goals, can debate with me on topics, be able to have good conversation, has a job and can support himself lol.

If he is loaded then all the rules goout the window. He could be 94 with an eye patch and a wood leg lol.

Dino Velvet
01-22-2008, 08:34 AM
If he is loaded then all the rules goout the window. He could be 94 with an eye patch and a wood leg lol.

Does this work for 'ya?

http://www.inklingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/Image/marshall_anna_nicole_smith.jpg

http://estb.msn.com/i/81/F811CA66AA66CDEAC424F1A62277F.jpg

http://bp3.blogger.com/_EQXPQvxgn9A/RqF3eR8TivI/AAAAAAAABBw/eckfc_1Jgks/s320/tadpalbumfront.jpg

NYTSJulie
01-22-2008, 08:46 AM
If he is loaded then all the rules goout the window. He could be 94 with an eye patch and a wood leg lol.

Does this work for 'ya?

http://www.inklingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/Image/marshall_anna_nicole_smith.jpg

http://estb.msn.com/i/81/F811CA66AA66CDEAC424F1A62277F.jpg

http://bp3.blogger.com/_EQXPQvxgn9A/RqF3eR8TivI/AAAAAAAABBw/eckfc_1Jgks/s320/tadpalbumfront.jpg

now that is ture love

Hara_Juku Tgirl
01-22-2008, 08:55 AM
If he is loaded then all the rules go out the window. He could be 94 with an eye patch and a wood leg lol.

Rofl! :lol:

~Kisses.

HTG

Dino Velvet
01-22-2008, 09:14 AM
NYTSJulie, my face makes children cry, I'm fairly illiterate and try not to read anything that takes longer than a trip to the John, am certifiably insane and don't know right from wrong, am a total slacker and jealous when I meet someone lazier than me, my idea of debating is the good guy and the bad guy yelling at each other and using badly outdated catch phrases on Monday Night Raw, I usually have my headphones on and I converse with people by playing air guitar, and I don't have a job unless the King Of B & E is a job... but I swear I have a good heart. Would you be my Valentine?

iloveshemales77
01-22-2008, 01:09 PM
Must be goodlooking, smart, have good morals, have goals, can debate with me on topics, be able to have good conversation, has a job and can support himself lol.

If he is loaded then all the rules goout the window. He could be 94 with an eye patch and a wood leg lol.

Something tells me this gal aint joking.

NYTSJulie
01-24-2008, 01:12 AM
Must be goodlooking, smart, have good morals, have goals, can debate with me on topics, be able to have good conversation, has a job and can support himself lol.

If he is loaded then all the rules goout the window. He could be 94 with an eye patch and a wood leg lol.

Something tells me this gal aint joking.

I wasnt, if I landed a guy as loaded has Howard Marshall I would even change his diapers for him lol.

Caff_Racer
01-24-2008, 01:51 AM
At last I know why I'm single! Io! Triumphum!!

1.) I eat meat.
2.) I drink alcohol.
3.) I smoke
4.) I drink coffee
5.) I'm an atheist
6.) I'm a Socialist
7.) I dont have five gazillion quid to my name
8.) I'm a born cynic
9.) I'm not "politically correct"

Oh and the last young lady I was interested in cut the relationship short when she found out I ride motorbikes: apparently us bikies are all criminals!! :shock: right... off to have a wee dram 8)

cheers