GIRLS: How would you handle this?

[wombat33]

I know many of you have had (happily) told stories of how well your family handled your transision. That is really great.

However..........how would you feel if your dad was to tell you he was unhappy and had a TS lover and wanted a life with a TS girl.

COuld you handle it? It is a stretch perhaps..........but I am just asking you to be honest about how you would feel to know dear old dad was bottoming for a hot TS girl with a 9 inch whip.

[wombat33]

I know many of you have had (happily) told stories of how well your family handled your transision. That is really great.

However..........how would you feel if your dad was to tell you he was unhappy and had a TS lover and wanted a life with a TS girl.

Could you handle it? It is a stretch perhaps..........but I am just asking you to be honest about how you would feel to know dear old dad was bottoming for a hot TS girl with a 9 inch whip.



VERY interesting that no one answered so far. I am just curious.

[MrsKellyPierce]

Of course I'd handle it, I love my father and mother, and if that made them happy. I'd be all for it.

[blonde zombie]

I am sorry this is sick. My Daddy is a top.

[tgirlzoe]

Could you handle your dad, inspired by your transition (or that of your girlfriend's), finally coming out and deciding to become a woman?

Alternatively, you meet the man of your dreams, marry him and five years later he comes out as TS.

I couldn't.

I could see my mom becoming a man more than my dad becoming a woman. It's a weird thought though.

One of my MTF net friends had their little brother come out as MTF as well and my friend thought it was bizarre ("You are so not a girl!"). My little sister is bi and my mom was bi in college (she never gave me many details, I know she slept with women, I don't know if she fell in love with any).

[SarahG]

I thought the question in the OP was rather or not you could hadnle Dad being WITH a tgirl for life, not being a tgirl for life.

No way I could handle it, if my dad ever told me he wanted to be with someone for the rest of his life (no matter what they were) he'd either be lying to me, or it would be my sign to go stock up on supplies for the end of the world (if he meant it, it would have to be the apocalypse on the horizon).

It would be worse than when I learned Santa Clause doesn't exist.

[Ecstatic]

Santa doesn't exist?! Oh my word, my world just fell apart....

[irishgirl]

So I'm assuming this a problem your wrestling with.

A few things:

1) As has been mentioned before - outside of pornos, t-girls dont' normally go walking around with thier bits all out. If you're dating a tgirl that is doing this around your kids, maybe she isn't marraige materials. So, you dont really need to tell your kids if she passes.

2) If she doesn't pass, well if your kids are grown up I would just be quiet about it and let them make it an issue or not. If the kids are young, maybe some "birds and bees"convo would be in order.

Just a few thoughts!

[peggygee]

I am sorry this is sick. My Daddy is a top.

I kinda would prefer it if my Dad was a top too. But if he
was happy, and the woman and the relationship was stable
I would be happy for them.