my first date with a transsexual........help!

[56k]

I finally gain the courage to ask a shemale out. Guys, I'm new to this and don't know what to do. :? Should I treat her like I would normally treat a woman or should I treat her kinda like a tomboy? :?

[BBaggins06]

Look in your heart for the answer you seek. If it's not readily apparent, go to your toolbox and repeatedly hit yourself in the head hard with a hammer until you see the light. Mahalo

Matt

[Anubis1079]

like a woman

[56k]

A shemale or a transgendered woman (aka tgirl?)


I finally gain the courage to ask a shemale out. Guys, I'm new to this and don't know what to do. :? Should I treat her like I would normally treat a woman or should I treat her kinda like a tomboy? :?

Ah................ A guy that's gay to the point that he decides to dress like a woman on a daily basis.

I guess my question is do shemales like to be treated like a girl or do they prefer being treated more tom boyish?

[56k]

like a woman

Thanks! 8)

[Tomfurbs]

Refrain from calling her a shemale, and you'll do fine boss.

[SXFX]

Refrain from calling her a shemale, and you'll do fine boss.
+1!
And just smile and treat her with respect.
And make sure you open doors for her...you know so you can see how her ass looks!

[LBCDO]

Treat her like a female, and ignore that she is a TS. Dont use that shemale word, dont ask her how big her dick is, as a matter of fact, dont even ask about her dick. And if your long life fantasy is to be fucked in the ass, forget that shit, at least in the beginning. Dont ask about her friends, dont ask if shes been in any movies, or modeled, any shit like that. Sex should be the last thing on your mind. ANd dont say that you cruise online ads, look at TS porn, none of that.

I dont give a fuck what anyone else says to you, follow this advice and you cant go wrong

[56k]

Whats wrong using the word shemale? Its plastered all over this site. I did ask her if she was one when I stopped her on the street and, she didn't get upset. :? I now know her name so I won't call her a shemale again. But, if it's degrading in any way why is the word shemale endorsed all over this forum???

Thanks for the advice on what not to say btw. :wink: As far as getting fucked in the ass, no siry! I'm not into that kind of stuff. I'm more of an Alpha male in a pretty boy body if that makes sense.

I just don't want to make any mistakes why I'm asking. I'm a total newbie to same sex dating 8)

[bezane]

Treat her like a female, and ignore that she is a TS. Dont use that shemale word, dont ask her how big her dick is, as a matter of fact, dont even ask about her dick. And if your long life fantasy is to be fucked in the ass, forget that shit, at least in the beginning. Dont ask about her friends, dont ask if shes been in any movies, or modeled, any shit like that. Sex should be the last thing on your mind. ANd dont say that you cruise online ads, look at TS porn, none of that.

I dont give a fuck what anyone else says to you, follow this advice and you cant go wrong

Cannot beat this advice. Only thing to add is make sure you are very very clean. Don't be a scumbag.

[BeardedOne]

As for treating her like a tomboy: Is she one? Take her bowling.

As for the term 'Shemale': This is a porn-driven site, dude, use your wits.

Best of luck on your date.

[56k]

The word shemale is considered offensive by many transgendered women. It's like calling blacks "Colored." Trust us, avoid it from now on, whenever you are in a conversation with a transsexual girl.



Oh. I never knew that. I won't use it again. Thanks for the tip! :D

I changed the wording in the title not to offend anyone. :wink:

[MrsKellyPierce]

Shemale is a porn term.

[LBCDO]

yea, if you are caught saying "Yea, this is my first date with a shemale" its like saying "this is my first date with a pocket pussy and a dildo" It makes it look like you're after the ass and thats it. The best thing to do is ignore the sex talk 100% and only hit it if she makes the cue.

And just dont be ran over. As long as you show you got a set of balls, and dont talk with your head down you should be aight. Good luck

[TrueBeauty TS]

I finally gain the courage to ask a shemale out. Guys, I'm new to this and don't know what to do. :? Should I treat her like I would normally treat a woman or should I treat her kinda like a tomboy? :?


Whooooooo - boy.......!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

:roll:



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[Ecstatic]

I just don't want to make any mistakes why I'm asking. I'm a total newbie to same sex dating 8)
Treat her as a woman because that's what she is. The advice above is all good. It's not same sex dating, as you are not dating a man but a woman who happens to have different, umm, features.

Be wary of what you read about transsexual women on porn-related websites. There is a wealth of very valid and insightful information here, but be discriminating. Check any of Peggy's posts, that's a good place to start.

[justatransgirl]

Information to ALL men, which was once passed to me by a very wise man.

Treat a lady like a whore and treat a whore like a lady and you will never go far wrong.

But treat a whore like a whore and she will make your life miserable.

And yes, shemale, ladyboy, tranny, etc are terms only appropriate for porn advertising.

In real life we prefer t-girl, GIRL, transsexual, transgendered, and simply trans.

Hugs,
TS Jamie :-)

[56k]

Hey, I want to thank everyone for taking the time to answer my wet behind the ears question. I will treat my lady friend no different than I would treat any other woman without the extra features. :wink:



Cheers. :D

[dskreet2]

If you you treat her as a "decent human being", the same way you treat everyone at least the first time you meet, the rest will be natural. Just like the other thread when the issue was about "where were all the gentlemen". You will naturally know how to react, based on their reactions to your decency.

If they are decent in return, go with that. If they pull out a gun to rob you, turn your hat around and run like a cheetah! :lol: Hopefull, you can run faster than Dr. Nevilles in "I Am Legend"

[Mr_Choc69]

Show her your meat when she answers the door. See how she reacts. LOL

No ~ Seriously, treat her like a human being. It's not rocket science.