What's it like to take someone from their lover?!?

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

What's that shit like?

Do you get a rush from the steps leading up to it?
Do you only do it for the sex?
Or do you mainly do it because based on looks alone you are handed the pussy/dick with little to no effort?

[hondarobot]

I don't think it would be a good thing to do.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

I would be lying if I said it doesn't..cos it does! You feel beautiful and powerful in more ways than one. ;) But the downside to that is: After awhile, you feel really bad and guilty and project yourself in the other woman's shoes..how she might have felt, how hurt she was etc. So I wouldn't really suggest it to anyone. Coming from a broken family..I just don't have the heart to hurt another girl's feeling. ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

Understood but sometimes the mind of the individual you're taking is a stronger factor than you initially thought possible. People often blame the person who takes the lover from another person yet they often ignore the actions of that lover and the feelings they expressed at the time. Making the outside party feel guilty for something that was inevitable.

[hondarobot]

All is fair in love and war, to an extent. Personally, I could accept a loss, but I'd break a beer bottle over the head of the guy who beat me, if I ever met him.

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

lol, but Honda he might be doing you a favor.............
let's face it some people are not meant to be with others and if they get taken you might be getting off the hook and letting someone else take on your present or future headaches

[alex97]

4 me it was an ego thing. im not proud of it but i hung out with the guy not to say we where friends but in the back of my head i kind of liked the fact that i was banging the guys wife. im not that guy anymore u live and u learn and i wouldnt do that again but at that time in my life i thought i was a stud 4 doing it.

[hondarobot]

lol, but Honda he might be doing you a favor.............
let's face it some people are not meant to be with others and if they get taken you might be getting off the hook and letting someone else take on your present or future headaches

Fine. I accept the loss. I never won her prize anyways.

I wish her the best.

[justatransgirl]

Who wants a lover who will leave their lover for you - they will leave you just as easily for the next one who piques their fancy.

But (almost) nothing is forever.

And a wise man once told me, "It's not when she leaves that you have to worry... it's when she comes back."

Giggle,
TS Jamie :-)

[Quinn]

Though I’m not particularly proud of it now, the fact is that I used to consider it great sport. The challenge of it all used to be a real rush. I never did it where friends or associates were concerned – such an act would not only be dishonorable, it might also get you killed – but anyone’s woman not in that circle was fair game if she was striking enough. If it was the woman of a competitor or an adversary, then I took particularly pleasure in it. These days, I have little time for that sort of ego-centric nonsense, which is good because, being a workaholic, I have even less free time on my hands. If I do it now, it’s only because the woman is someone truly special whom I intend to have in my life for a long time. She has to be more than just another dime-a-dozen pretty face; she has to speak to my soul on some level.

-Quinn

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

Understood but sometimes the mind of the individual you're taking is a stronger factor than you initially thought possible. People often blame the person who takes the lover from another person yet they often ignore the actions of that lover and the feelings they expressed at the time. Making the outside party feel guilty for something that was inevitable.

I know what you're saying JWBL. I've dated a few married men awhile back. It was thee perfect relationship for me then because I am NOT tied down to any man and could still see other men and go out on dates. Kevin for example, the guy I met back in MN was perfect in every way. He was good looking, intelligent, funny, hung, tall, loving and good in bed. So I went along with it - NSA. We would get together at his convenience. But the downside to that is the fact that he still wasn't mine. So after seeing him for about 6-8 months I've decided to call it quits. alex97Is right..It's about ego boosting. You'd feel good at first and eventually your conscience will bug you.

Besides, I have had an ex bf who left his then gf for me back when I lived back east. She called and hound him like a police dog. LOL Calling at all hours on his cell, his house, work etc. which really bugged me after awhile. Especially after finding out my damn ex bf didn't do a clean break up with her and left her hangin'. :evil:

~Kisses.

HTG

[hwbs]

i have had a few people on here try and fail on me....i figure if she loves some guy and is willing to sleep with me that she would probably turn the tables on me also...i believe this girl i am seeing now is pulling this now..she says she is single ..i am sure i am a side dish...she doesnt call me her bf...she just calls me :)

[Quinn]

i figure if she loves some guy and is willing to sleep with me that she would probably turn the tables on me also

The truth...

-Quinn

[BADAZZBODY]

PERSONALLY I HAVE ALOT OF STANDARDS WHEN IT COME TO OTHER PEOPLE PROPERTY AND I FELL TOTALLY DIRESPECTED WHEN SOMEONE MAN TRIES TO GET AT ME ..IT DISGUST ME..ILL YUK FUK THAT ..

SO MANY TIMES BOYFRIENDS, TRADE PEICES OF MY GIRLFRIENDS HAVE TRIED BUT GOT SHUT DOWN ..AND I WILL LET THE GIRL KNOW INSTANTLY..

I HAVE HAD IT DONE TO ME ..MOST GIRLS GET SOME TYPE OF EMOTIONAL THRILL AND IT MAKES THEM FELL LIKE..

OH HE WANTS ME..THAT BITCH AINT ALL THAT IF HER MAN WANTS ME ..LOW SELF ESTEEM MOTHER FUKERS...

I GET MY THRILL OFF OF GOING OUT SIDE OF A CIRCLE..IF I WAS TO MESS WITH SOMEONE IT SURE WOULD BE THE MOST STRAIGHTS MAN. SOMETHING MORE CHALLENGING THAT I WOULD HAVE TO TELL HIM A TS..

NOT THE EASY ROUTE OF SOMEONE ELSE MAN..OF A GIRL I KNOW..AND IF ITS SOMEONE THAT U KNOW MAN ..AND U KNOW THE GIRL WELL AND WHAT SHE DOES AND WHAT THEY MIGHT DO IN THE BED..OMG..I WOULD VOMIT AT THE THOUGHT OF WHAT THEY DO..

NO ON THE OTHER NOTE IF HE GOT SOME CASH I GOT CONDOMS PAY ME AND BOUNCE..I WONT KISS N TELL..BUT IF THEY ON SOME TRING TO GET AT ME..THEY ARE WACK..

I REALLY THINK PEOPLE THAT MESS WITH OTHER PEOPLE PROPERTY OF PEOPLE THEY KNOW HAVE LOW SELF ESTEEM..AND THATS THEIR EGO BOOST.

[KiraHarden]

Im in that situation now, and dating a engaged man. It was not my goal to destroy their relationship.

[suckseed]

It's my experience that unhappily married women will say they are divorcing when they are not. If I'm unhappy with someone, I break it off. I don't get staying together if you want to fuck around. But with open relationships things get even more complicated. I sleep (only) with an ex lover at the moment with two lovers in other parts of the country. She tried to make it sex the first couple of times, but I'm not into polyamory.

Feels nice to sleep with her though!

[justatransgirl]

Well, I don't think it counts because I'm not interested in keeping them from their SO's, but I date a lot of married men. But I don't feel it's a cheating thing. I've simply got something they want that their SO can't provide.

I dunno, what do you guys think. If a guy sees an escort does that mean she's stealing him from his SO? Or just that he's a phillanderer?

Giggle,
TS Jamie :-)

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

We got the same thing back at the BDSM club TS Jamie. Some nights there are a lot of couples in attendance. And so as long as their partner's were cool with it then everything should be fine (sometimes their partner even participates)! SoI guess consensual philandering is acceptable. LOL ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

Badazz be glad i understand Jive/Ebonics because those nails of yours combined with those typing skills............
http://s41.photobucket.com/albums/e269/zaidenwinters/th_airplane7a.jpg

what I like about this thread is that most of you have admitted to involvement in this scenario, most of the time a thought is thrown out there and the women totally avoid the thread, and the men that do reply act like little bitches because they're afraid their favorite fantasy fuck tranny won't give them any sex after they read what they typed..............

look it is what it is, ladies if you're hot and some guy is throwing himself at you it's a temptation, but be honest about it there are some guys you might not take from a relationship but you'll fuck because he made the initial move and you feel less guilty since he took the 1st step...............

guys
my fellow brethren of HA
cut the shit

the majority of you (I'll just keep this to the TS world, the GG's aren't in this equation) have been in a situation where you'll be hanging out at a spot and one chick comes up to you, then her friend comes up and the chick that walks up 1st gives you her #, then on another visit to that spot when chick a isn't there but chick b is, chick b is throwing herself all over you.........
do you
a. turn her down?
b. fuck her brains out knowing she's gonna tell her friend?

most guys will say B in reality but I already know for the sake of saving face on HA.com the majority will say A.........

sigh

[trannybanger]

Badazz be glad i understand Jive/Ebonics because those nails of yours combined with those typing skills............
http://s41.photobucket.com/albums/e269/zaidenwinters/th_airplane7a.jpg

what I like about this thread is that most of you have admitted to involvement in this scenario, most of the time a thought is thrown out there and the women totally avoid the thread, and the men that do reply act like little bitches because they're afraid their favorite fantasy fuck tranny won't give them any sex after they read what they typed..............

look it is what it is, ladies if you're hot and some guy is throwing himself at you it's a temptation, but be honest about it there are some guys you might not take from a relationship but you'll fuck because he made the initial move and you feel less guilty since he took the 1st step...............

guys
my fellow brethren of HA
cut the shit

the majority of you (I'll just keep this to the TS world, the GG's aren't in this equation) have been in a situation where you'll be hanging out at a spot and one chick comes up to you, then her friend comes up and the chick that walks up 1st gives you her #, then on another visit to that spot when chick a isn't there but chick b is, chick b is throwing herself all over you.........
do you
a. turn her down?
b. fuck her brains out knowing she's gonna tell her friend?

most guys will say B in reality but I already know for the sake of saving face on HA.com the majority will say A.........

sigh

oh i will will cop to B for sure. nothing is better for a promotion than good references.

[hondarobot]

I thought of this thread as soon as I got into work today. A friend of mine, I've known the guy for ten years, texted my phone late last night. I suspected he's been having problems with his gf lately. The text read:

PLEASE CALL

Every guy knows when another guy sends something like that, it means "my girl just dumped me, let's get drunk". I left him a message, waiting for the call back.

Love is a pretty damn stupid thing to get involved in, really.

:?

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

right, and the women that do it are cunts if that's the case
and they deserve whatever treatment they get considering women do it more than men

[DaLonelyGuyNJ]

I had it happen to me, I was involved with a GG and she left me for another man. I found out she was dating him and me at the same time. My only solace is what comes around goes around. As a result, I am completely finished with GG and now only date TG. Women who truly appreciate a good man.

[peggygee]

What's that shit like?

Do you get a rush from the steps leading up to it?
Do you only do it for the sex?
Or do you mainly do it because based on looks alone you are handed the pussy/dick with little to no effort?

Nah, I ain't down for it. :smh

For 2 reasons:

A. If he cheated on the other woman, I get the feeling that at some point
he will cheat on me.

B. I'm not up for all the drama of cheating. I don't do creeping, hiding and
looking over my shoulder very well, and I damned sure don't want some
heifer running upon me talking about you done stole 'my babies daddy'.

:roll:

[LBCDO]

Ive been in that situation a thousand times over. A handful of times I can say that I knew the girl had a man and I just didnt care.

A few years back I met a girl and we had common interest, like 100%. This girl was THE TRUTH. Super thick and everything. I got to know her, and her personality was the truth too. So I met up with her and her friends and found out that she was dating a guy that I knew and did business with.

Me and her went out one day, and I did me. Had some crazy, wild, outdoor sex. Then she felt guilty, I really didnt because I wanted her, but her bf is the guy that took her virginity. They were highschool sweethearts and everything, been together like 5 years.

Then it got crazy. This girl was a straight NYMPHO. Im talking about we were all around ATL fucking here, there, everywhere. Then come to find out shes into TSs too.

Well, of course since I knew the dude, she wanted us to get cooler, and I felt like shit because of it. BUt it got worse because then she hooks me up with her friend, and I fucked her and found out she was a virgin. I tell the girl, and she wanted it like that so between me being with her and her friend I wouldnt have time being with someone else.

Long story short, it ended, but it was ugly. I felt like shit a lot of the time becuase I wanted something I couldnt have. Thats life, right?

Then its like every relationship Ive gotten into I find out later the girl is married, living with her bf, etc. WEEKS after we have our relationship. Soo... it is what it is. Thats why you gotta be careful who you choose to wife up