For the guys that see Escorts!

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

this was a reply on another shemale review site and I laughed then just like I'm laughing now..............

dude talked about the whole shebang and when he got to the climax he said "fuck I just wasted $300 on this!!!"

braveman: you summed it up, I just wanted to add to it

[BeardedOne]

I just compare it to the thousands upon thousands (Tens? Hundreds of thousands?) of dollars I wasted on dead-end relationships over the years. It's a relative bargain and she's far less likely to be found sleeping in your car, stalking you at work, or having you worry if she even remembers who you are or where you live when she gets out of jail for having murdered a member of her family (All of these, and more, are on my dating resume').

Now, you'll have to excuse me while I step off of this why-pay-for-what-you-can-have-for-free thread and find another amigay thread to amuse myself.

[Night Rider]

After you see a girl have you ever felt or thought to your self did i really just waste 300$ on a Nut?

That's why I don't see escorts. Plus, 99% of escorts have nothing but contempt for you.

Video rental: $5.00

Lube: $4.00

Savings: $291.00

Nut: Priceless

My philosophy: You either get the tg or gg on your charms or you go home and take care of yourself.

Well said Braveman. But if you want the real thing, then all you need is:

*condoms £4.00

*smirnoff blue £16.00

Total cost £20.00

[if you're really desperate add on date rape pills] j/k

[tsntx]

thats like asking if buying a luxury sports car is a waste


if you have the money to spend, you dont mind spending it on something you want

[BeardedOne]

thats like asking if buying a luxury sports car is a waste


if you have the money to spend, you dont mind spending it on something you want

I wanna hear from the guy that gets all the luxury sports cars he wants for free. :lol:

[tsntx]

thats like asking if buying a luxury sports car is a waste


if you have the money to spend, you dont mind spending it on something you want

I wanna hear from the guy that gets all the luxury sports cars he wants for free. :lol:


:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

[Night Rider]

you deserve your TV show for that pic alone Jen :whoa

[62des]

thats like asking if buying a luxury sports car is a waste


if you have the money to spend, you dont mind spending it on something you want

Yea but the car can be put to use and the nut was just a moment of relief with nothing to show for it.

[ed_jaxon]

I personally very rarely regret spending the money.

But sometimes you get bad service and you have to wonder.

I enjoy my memories of great times spent

[bezane]

Honestly I don't think it's fair to generalize on this subject. I don't see escorts but I'm somebody that was hopelessly in love and living with one for a long time. Okay, two of them.

Someone mentioned dating costs a bunch of money too. Very true. Most dates go nowhere as well. So true. But the experience is worth it.

But if you're serious about having sex with a TS and don't want to date one you need to find a regular. Someone that it becomes more than a sexual encounter. My suggestion is to negotiate their fee as "flat." This doesn't mean trying to get it cheaper, just getting rid of the idea of tipping. that way you pay, done. No sliding scale in your mind or theirs. bring something nice. Wine, a bottle. not necessarily for you to share at the moment.

Let's be nice here guys. Many many many girls here escort and while I hate the idea of it, it's their choice. They are adults. There are sweet ones and harsh ones. I think the atrocious behavior by society and "clients" over the years has put many escorts on edge. Don't add to the stereotype. If you're just looking to get cum out of your cock then go with the masturbation. Use escorts for sex and human interaction also called companionship. Because thats what they are good at.

And 500 dollars say, for twice a month for your regular girl will keep you from being a total head case and for the price of a decent car payment, I'd rather have the girl.

[BeardedOne]

I've been lucky, I guess, and had no head cases in my commercial ventures (Unlike my 'regular' love/sex life which was rampant with psychos).

Someone said that escorts view their clients with contempt. Ask me if I care. :x Some of my 'lovers' treated me far worse than the gurls I've been with on a share-the-roses basis. To date, the ones I've been with were polite, intelligent, sweet, interesting, and hot-to-trot in the events department.

Sometimes, you get what you pay for. I've spent a fair amount on travel, dinner, a movie, etc. with a date that didn't charge by the hour and ended up being one hell of a letdown because she was (Pick one or more) shallow, stupid, rude, skanky, whatever. On the other hand, I've spent an hourly rate and sometimes a dinner on a gurl that was kind to me, fun to talk with, and who popped my cork in ways few of my 'lovers' ever came close to.

Other times, it's not about the 'nut'. Had a most wonderful evening out with a gurl recently where no clothing was shed and no 'roses' were exchanged. Dinner and drinks: $250 including gratuity. I had a fine time in excellent company and felt as satisfied as if I'd shot a load across the room. Perhaps, next time, I'll do just that with this lady. :wink:

Generally, I'm not one to spend more than ten bux on burgers and beer, but there are times when the company is worth the investment.

In the end, TANSTAAFL rules.

[Nikka]

hookers are a waste

[Fox]

I personally can't justify it. It's too much money for something so fleeting. One thing is true, we'll all end up paying up one way or another, but I'd rather she kick it with me because she genuinely likes me instead of being paid to.

I don't judge though because I'm sure some would say buying video games is a waste of money (at least its permanent though).

[BeardedOne]

hookers are a waste

You are only saying that 'cuz you get it all for free! :P

[ScubaSteve00S]

Ya...way too much money. I mean....way way way too much.

[alwaysforyou]

i have done it twice and each time have felt like shit after i left their hotel rooms. I don't know what it is that makes me feel like shit afterward but it just bothers the hell out of me.

[flabbybody]

I'll tell you what makes me feel like shit. You take a girl on a date to dinner. $150 in NYC if you include alcohol (a must in my case).
20 minutes into the conversation, you realize the person is insane and you just want the night to be over.

for a mere $50 more, you can be with someone who is guaranteed action and you can leave as soon as you're done.

[slinky]

Don't forget you're talking to mainly an audience who won't fork over $14.95 for a dvd to jerk off to.

[MacShreach]

I'll tell you what makes me feel like shit. You take a girl on a date to dinner. $150 in NYC if you include alcohol (a must in my case).
20 minutes into the conversation, you realize the person is insane and you just want the night to be over.

for a mere $50 more, you can be with someone who is guaranteed action and you can leave as soon as you're done. :rock2 :rock2

[BeardedOne]

I'll tell you what makes me feel like shit. You take a girl on a date to dinner. $150 in NYC if you include alcohol (a must in my case).
20 minutes into the conversation, you realize the person is insane and you just want the night to be over.

for a mere $50 more, you can be with someone who is guaranteed action and you can leave as soon as you're done.

:lol: :lol: :lol:

So painfully true.


Don't forget you're talking to mainly an audience who won't fork over $14.95 for a dvd to jerk off to.

That too. :)

[blckhaze]

i dont knock it at all, both from he view of a good client or a good provider.
From the view of a client, its how many (including me) get our first official taste of this lifestyle. We're mostly average guys (ad some girls) looking to try something new and exciting. While we'd all love to just go to a party and scoop the best girl there, chances are unless you've got great charisma or dashingly good looks, and even then its not enough most of the time. this overlaps in to my second point
From a providers veiw, shes trying to make a living providing a service. Some girls don't have the means or the luck to get high paying jobs to further their transition. So they choose to provide a service to guys and girls. It may not be on the same level as being a teachee or doctor, but everyone is entitled to making a living to the best of their abilities. In my opinion, and i may be wrong, but without quality escorts, many would miss out on the physical connection, both sexual and non-sexual, that one has with a REAL PERSON, and there would be ALOT more tranny chasers. Got to remember other than the big cities, there aren't too many places we guys can go to to interact with tg women. my two cents.

[Redkondor]

Its not a nut but an experience. But I know the sentiment!

[NRT]

Its only worth it if money is no problem and you can easily afford it or wont miss it. What if you cant afford a holiday or car or some other luxury, or you realise you have no savings in the bank. Yet in a 6 month period you spend over a grand on escorts. You have the memories. But they are just that. Nothing to show for it. ITs either the sex, or buzz you get from the encounter.

The debate reminds me of that scene in Apocalypse Now. Two GIs blew their fuel rations on Playboy hookers who were flown over. When they got back on the gun boat, the officer said to them: 'When we get in to a gunfight, tell me what she was like!'

[TJ347]

After you see a girl have you ever felt or thought to your self did i really just waste 300$ on a Nut?

About 90% of the time I felt that way within an hour... 5% of the time it took longer for that thought to take hold.

If it's something you want to do just so you can say you did it or whatever, there's worse ways to spend $300. Personally, looking back on it now, I think I'd have been much better entertained in most cases had I spent that money on an XBox or PS2, and this despite the fact I haven't been interested in playing a video game for over eight years.

[justatransgirl]

i have done it twice and each time have felt like shit after i left their hotel rooms. I don't know what it is that makes me feel like shit afterward but it just bothers the hell out of me.

I can tell you what it is honey. There was no real connection on an emotional level. She was mostly after your money, and you knew it. And she maybe didn't realy want to be there or truly like what she was doing.

You guys need to do your homework. don't date girls that aren't reviewed on TER, or who don't aprticipate in this or other reputable web forums. When you date off CL you are rolling the dice and usually you will crap out. giggle.


Don't forget you're talking to mainly an audience who won't fork over $14.95 for a dvd to jerk off to.

Giggle, ain't that the truth honey... giggle - actually I just took a look at my web stats and HA is my #1 source for page views, followed by Eros, and TER. Interesting.

Giggle,
TS Jamie :-)

[Floyd R]

I assume you are referring to the first date if not then my comments are inapplicable. Instead of spending $150 why not take the woman out to Starbucks and simply have a conversation to see if you are compatible with her. I always keep the first date simple. I personally don't believe a first date should ever involve spending an excessive amount of money.




I'll tell you what makes me feel like shit. You take a girl on a date to dinner. $150 in NYC if you include alcohol (a must in my case).
20 minutes into the conversation, you realize the person is insane and you just want the night to be over.

for a mere $50 more, you can be with someone who is guaranteed action and you can leave as soon as you're done.

[justatransgirl]

Honestly I don't think it's fair to generalize on this subject. I don't see escorts but I'm somebody that was hopelessly in love and living with one for a long time. Okay, two of them.

Someone mentioned dating costs a bunch of money too. Very true. Most dates go nowhere as well. So true. But the experience is worth it.

But if you're serious about having sex with a TS and don't want to date one you need to find a regular. Someone that it becomes more than a sexual encounter. My suggestion is to negotiate their fee as "flat." This doesn't mean trying to get it cheaper, just getting rid of the idea of tipping. that way you pay, done. No sliding scale in your mind or theirs. bring something nice. Wine, a bottle. not necessarily for you to share at the moment.

Let's be nice here guys. Many many many girls here escort and while I hate the idea of it, it's their choice. They are adults. There are sweet ones and harsh ones. I think the atrocious behavior by society and "clients" over the years has put many escorts on edge. Don't add to the stereotype. If you're just looking to get cum out of your cock then go with the masturbation. Use escorts for sex and human interaction also called companionship. Because thats what they are good at.

And 500 dollars say, for twice a month for your regular girl will keep you from being a total head case and for the price of a decent car payment, I'd rather have the girl.

2 nuts a month over a 500$ car payment? :? thats hard to believe but im not here to argue, just cool seeing everyones opinion! I'm not against it i saw my first escort about a month ago, and it was a great time and 200$ well spent with a beautiful girl, body to die for and GFE, but then i think to my self i have been with about 40 GG's and im 21 and i have yet to have any problems in that field, especially when i only dated probably less then 10 of them

Ok - more comments.

Exactly, dating costs $$ and what do you get afterwards, a handshake at the door.

Honey I'm a sure thing. Giggle.

And yes, if you want more than what I call the Tijuana, or ghetto experience, which more often than not will leave you lacking in emotional enjoyment and quite posibly exposed to things you'd rather not catch, you need to date a higher end professional who truly loves what she does.

And it's funny because it goes both ways.

One time Jessica and I had a date with this younger guy. We hand't planned to date, it was our pool time, but he called and seemed sweet so we said to come on over and bring his bathing suit. We all went down to the pool, he drank my beers (multiple) then went up to our apt. While I took a shower and got ready for the main event he and Jessica played video games.

I come into the room, ready for some nooky and the guy stands up and announces that he's "in love" with Jessica and can't have sex with us like that, demands his money back and leaves - not even paying me for the three Heiniken he drank.

So boys, there is just no way for anybody to win everytime.

And remember, you can pay in installments or you can pay for the house and car, or you can pay after the divorce - but one way or another we will surely make you pay... and that goes for ALL girls, think about it...

Giggle,
TS Jamie :-)

[justatransgirl]

I assume you are referring to the first date if not then my comments are inapplicable. Instead of spending $150 why not take the woman out to Starbucks and simply have a conversation to see if you are compatible with her. I always keep the first date simple. I personally don't believe a first date should ever involve spending an excessive amount of money.

Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha... now that's real class, do you get a lot of dates honey?

Giggle,
TS Jamie

[Floyd R]

I have never purchased the services of an escort because a part of me feels it's a waste of money plus I'm fearful of catching STD's. Spending $300 to cum in 5 minutes with someone I have no emotional connection seems meaningless.

[Floyd R]

I get enough dates. I'm willing to spend money if there are dates following the first. I view the first date as a feeling out process to determine if I'm compatible with the person.



I assume you are referring to the first date if not then my comments are inapplicable. Instead of spending $150 why not take the woman out to Starbucks and simply have a conversation to see if you are compatible with her. I always keep the first date simple. I personally don't believe a first date should ever involve spending an excessive amount of money.

Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha... now that's real class, do you get a lot of dates honey?

Giggle,
TS Jamie

[Colorado Dan]

There is NO-WAY I would go with an escort (female or TV) here in the USA! The reason being it is NOT socialy accepted here, and that seems to affect the escorts and the clients attitude! In countrys where prostitution is not only legal but accepted as a natural activity, a guy can actually have very good times with escorts! As far as over-seas TV escorts, a guy can have good times for very little money in Brazil, Thailand and the cheapest and over all sweetest escorts are in Argentina! An old buddy once told me that you are not paying a hooker for sex, but paying her to leave!! Thats why so many rich and famous guys hire them!!! later

[qeuqheeg222]

yeah jamie yer right,we are gonna pay on some end of the angle,somewhere.the cheap date or the dinner date,the bad divorce with two or three lil shits who want to go to college and the such...why not one stop shop if it suits the need...all pussy will come with a price..however i dont think the 300 or 400 dollar eros/pornstar cost will always translate into a quality GFE or whatever..shit, the best head i ever got was from a gg hooker roundabout tchopitoulas st. for 40 buckss..i kept to that block for quite a while and never had to worry about "getttin serious and settlin down for a lifetime of the same borin pussy and shitty head(if any)....

[MacShreach]

Spending $300 to cum in 5 minutes with someone I have no emotional connection seems meaningless.

Man you have definitely been hanging around the wrong sort of girls. A talented, skilled, experienced whore--is fucking AWESOME.

And, after the first few times you suddenly realise that sex and love are not the same thing at all. That is a very liberating thing, for both parties.

Consider the very first time I had a black girl....she was from Sudan....I knew black people, colleagues, friends....but I had never touched one, never been intimate, never known the softness of the skin or the amazing pinkness of her inside her vulva (she was GG), like a turkish delight, pink and chocolate.....never looked in those dark dark eyes and been amazed by what I found there....And it was a beautiful prostitute who gave me that, in an hour of our lives spent together. It was a moment I will never ever forget.

Fucking right it was worth the money. (And she made me come twice as well. 8) 8) )

Yes I have had indifferent girls, disinterested girls, inexperienced girls and very occasionally one who was a right PITA, but over the piece, TG and GG....I don't regret one penny. Not one.

It's not for everyone, but don't write it off. And remember-- a whore costs what she costs and that's it.....A bunny-boiling mistress could cost you everything you have.

[TJ347]

Of course most guys can get laid without paying for it up front! We all know that. The problem as I see it is, in a thread like this, clearly directed to guys who've actually been with an escort, there's always some guy who hasn't weighing in to say that he's never had to pay to get some and never would, which is missing the point entirely.

I don't think the majority of guys who use the services of escorts do so because they can't get laid, but because they want to experience things they might not otherwise be able to experience without a lot of aggravation, if at all. For example, maybe a guy wants to be topped every now and again... Who better for the job than a TS escort? What, is there a spot you know of where TS who dream of topping men hang out, waiting to find a boyfriend who'll let them do it? And besides, you can't build a relationship on sex anyway. Not a real one, that is.

So, if you want to bang a blonde Asian chick, fool around with a six foot tall German dominatrix, or any variety of other exotic types, rather than waste countless weeks trying to find such people, let alone get in a position to fuck 'em, escorts are the best way to go, which is what those who have used escorts know and everybody else can't for some reason come to understand.

[alwaysforyou]

the girl i was with was a t girl i had seen a few times at Allanah's party. she was on Eros and i decided to visit. She is a cute looking girl with a attractive body. I enjoyed the whole experience but when i left the hotel room I just felt completely empty. I am known for wanting to have that emotional attachment to the person i am sleeping with. The experience was fine but just having sex to have sex is simply a shitty feeling when your not sleeping with the person you care for.

[hwbs]

buyers remorse hahahahahahaha !!!!!!!!!!! :twisted:

[Rod la Rod]

For example, maybe a guy wants to be topped every now and again... Who better for the job than a TS escort? What, is there a spot you know of where TS who dream of topping men hang out, waiting to find a boyfriend who'll let them do it?

It's funny because I used to know a TS who was constantly trying to fuck me every time I was at her apartment. I would have paid her to stop trying to stick it my ass every time I fell asleep. No joke, I never knew there were so many "straight guys" who were into that. Now I realize she could have made a small fortune just servicing the guys on the HA sight.

Who knew?

[stewmeat]

i have done it twice and each time have felt like shit after i left their hotel rooms. I don't know what it is that makes me feel like shit afterward but it just bothers the hell out of me.

Man, this is one of those threads that hit home! I have done it many, many times and felt like shit afterwards also.

But I keep going back and spending the cash though. Help me!

The most I spent at any one time was $200 though.

[solohansoso]

thats like asking if buying a luxury sports car is a waste


if you have the money to spend, you dont mind spending it on something you want

spoken like a true luxury car! ;)

[solohansoso]

buyers remorse hahahahahahaha !!!!!!!!!!! :twisted:

i wonder, can you get a return on your nut and get your money back if you get buyers remorse?

[shiwarrior]

After you see a girl have you ever felt or thought to your self did i really just waste 300$ on a Nut?

no becuase it could be the best fucking hour of my life! (no pun intended)

If you were in my position with life, you'd understand just one of the reasons why :)

[MacShreach]

In countrys where prostitution is not only legal but accepted as a natural activity, a guy can actually have very good times with escorts!

Yessir! A guy sure can. :D

I think a lot of the guys on this thread either

a) know some really, really bad escorts. Take a tip-- listen to what Jamie said. She knows what she's talking about.

b) are confused between sex and love-- They are NOT the same thing...Look, you have an hour, a night, a weekend of great sex with a girl, that's it, you don't ever have to see her again if you don't want to, and you don't have to feel guilty about it....AND THAT'S THE FUCKING POINT!!!!!!!!!!

d) have a problem with spending the money-- Christ if I go to the races and blow a couple of C's and win nothing do you think I regret it? Fuxake I own a boat-- which has been compared to standing in cold shower tearing up money. I like spending money on whores. It's a guaranteed high..

or (and I suspect this is the majority)

d) have never even been with a whore and are basing their responses on prejudice and hearsay. :smh

[BeardedOne]

Fellas heres an outrageous theory, you can visit a club or bar that is frequented by TGirls instead of requesting the services of a prostitute

Fair suggestion. After train fare/gas/tolls/parking/hotel/drinks there's about a 50% chance of a date with someone you've never seen or talked to before and likely never will again and (Based on my research) it saves...Nothing. Even using hotel points for the room, the parking in NYC can be as much as $75 a night, plus tolls and other expenses (Train/cab is not that much cheaper). I think my $$ is better spent on the gurl.

Besides, I've had enough tours of the graveyard of dates gone bad.

[Biker222]

No regrets. Even if it was a bad experience, I try to learn from it.

[BeardedOne]

I...Am drawn...To this...Thread...IT'S BEAUTIFUL!!! :shock:

Damn, this puppy rears its head at odd moments. :lol:

I just re-read the whole thing (Yah, my life is empty and worthless and I just got off the phone with a fast-talking IRS rep) and the only thing I can think of is:

How many gurls think to themselves, "Damn! $300 and all I got was =this= nut!"? :lol:

I've been truly fortunate in my commercial dates. Every gurl was polite, intelligent, sharp-witted, sharp-LOOKING, and was more than capable of fulfilling my fantasies of the moment. I think of a couple of them as 'friends' (Though by a rather loose definition of that term, from their perspective) and hope to visit with them often (Schedule, geography, and finances permitting).

My biggest concern on this subject matter is over a gurl that I am obsessing over that recently got the *SNIP*. No, not =THAT= gurl. ;) I've been wanting to meet her for ages, but fate decreed otherwise. Now that she's all the way =she=, I'm not at all sure how to proceed. One has to wonder: With the other gurls, was I paying for inches? And if so, would I now be footing the bill for depth? :?