just a couple of questions (I'd love to hear from a t-girl)

[qm]

Hi there, I'm new on this board.

I have a couple of questions about shemales. First of all, do they only become shemales for making porn or working as an escort or prostitute? When I look at the party photos it doesn't seem like that, but when I look around in the net I never find them in another context. Ok, there are transgendered people, and they show up in many contexts, but they usually hate shemales if my impression is correct. It doesn't seem like true transgenderism and "shemaleism" is the same.

Do shemales really enjoy sex? Or is it all just for show? I met a transexual once, and she hated her having a penis still. Loved to kiss and cuddle, and to please me, but felt bad about her genitals. Are shemales just the same, but without problems with their penises?

Is it possible to have a real love relation with a shemale? I don't mean barbie and ken love, just something more romantic. I feel kinda stupid ... but isn't it a turnoff to get attention just because of your "gender"?

I might know the answer already, since one of my fantasies is being a woman, and when I think about such fantasies for a time I usually end up imagining to have hot sex as a woman. However, I think with 26 I am way too old already to become a pretty transgender woman or t-girl. I wouldn't want to be a "butch" woman. Is that autogynaekophilia? I'm just glad that I can also be happy as a man. To be a man can be great. To feel the hair on my chest, my muscles, my penis. I even like my way of thinking. If I could exchange all that for being a sexy and still intelligent woman I'd probably do the exchange ... if not for something other then for the kick ... but as this seems impossible I just laugh and decide for life as a man. The fantasies remain, as fantasies.

I've read about anal orgasm once. Is it that which shemales can experience by anal sex? I even had an anal orgasm once myself, by a girl who gave me a blowjob while stimulating my anus with her fingers. It was mindblowing. Can't compare with my "normal" orgasms that only involve my penis most of the time. My whole abdomen fell into spasms of some sort, and my penis felt like a volcano. It was very very pleasing. However, if I check the normal shemale porn I never see such a thing. It seemed like the orgasms of the shemales were negligible. Could be because it's just porn, but who knows. All I know is that a real anal orgasm would look differently than in the porn movies.

What is this whole business with hardcore porn anyway? Why is there no softcore shemale porn? Would LOVE that. Always just guy meets shemale, going to a location, blowing and fucking, cumshot. I get it that this simply sells best nowadays, but I really think there's a niche for good softcore.

Are there intellectual shemales? I read an interview with Allannah Starr once, and she appeared to have intellectual interests, almost existentialist ones. Is this rare amongst shemales? Or do they just kinda hide it?

I'm an active participator, or inactive reader, at a lot of discussion boards, yet I never see transgendered people or shemales there. I realize a lot of people have problems with them, and t-girls might just want to evade these other people. But I don't think there'll ever be a more open scene if this continues.

Oh, and it seems that t-girls get prettier and more feminine by the days. I first saw a shemale in a sexshop 7 years ago. I didn't find them very exciting. Most of them had no hips to speak of. When they had nice breasts it was an unusual surprise. Nowadays ... wow, they can be utter sexbombs.

Another question: What's the biggest breastsize a t-girl had gotten to only with hormones? Do you have a picture of a t-girl with such big natural breasts? I'm not a big-breasts-fetishist, at least, not always 8) . I also have a crush on t-girls with small but natural breasts. Somehow this can look very exciting, can make a girl, whether genetic girl or not, appear more horny.

Is there a directory of private sites of shemales somewhere? Where I can learn about their thoughts and normal life? Would be very interested, but googling for it seemed like a waste of time.

Ok, that's all for now. If some intelligent shemale wants a messenger friend, please feel free to contact me. I'm not looking for a partner right now, sexual or romantic, just for friends.

Have a good day!

[hwbs]

my first suggestion is to read past posts on the forum....im sure everything has been adressed more than once.......

[Adam_Thompson]

Hi there, I'm new on this board.

I have a couple of questions about shemales. First of all, do they only become shemales for making porn or working as an escort or prostitute? When I look at the party photos it doesn't seem like that, but when I look around in the net I never find them in another context. Ok, there are transgendered people, and they show up in many contexts, but they usually hate shemales if my impression is correct. It doesn't seem like true transgenderism and "shemaleism" is the same.

Do shemales really enjoy sex? Or is it all just for show? I met a transexual once, and she hated her having a penis still. Loved to kiss and cuddle, and to please me, but felt bad about her genitals. Are shemales just the same, but without problems with their penises?

Is it possible to have a real love relation with a shemale? I don't mean barbie and ken love, just something more romantic. I feel kinda stupid ... but isn't it a turnoff to get attention just because of your "gender"?

I might know the answer already, since one of my fantasies is being a woman, and when I think about such fantasies for a time I usually end up imagining to have hot sex as a woman. However, I think with 26 I am way too old already to become a pretty transgender woman or t-girl. I wouldn't want to be a "butch" woman. Is that autogynaekophilia? I'm just glad that I can also be happy as a man. To be a man can be great. To feel the hair on my chest, my muscles, my penis. I even like my way of thinking. If I could exchange all that for being a sexy and still intelligent woman I'd probably do the exchange ... if not for something other then for the kick ... but as this seems impossible I just laugh and decide for life as a man. The fantasies remain, as fantasies.

I've read about anal orgasm once. Is it that which shemales can experience by anal sex? I even had an anal orgasm once myself, by a girl who gave me a blowjob while stimulating my anus with her fingers. It was mindblowing. Can't compare with my "normal" orgasms that only involve my penis most of the time. My whole abdomen fell into spasms of some sort, and my penis felt like a volcano. It was very very pleasing. However, if I check the normal shemale porn I never see such a thing. It seemed like the orgasms of the shemales were negligible. Could be because it's just porn, but who knows. All I know is that a real anal orgasm would look differently than in the porn movies.

What is this whole business with hardcore porn anyway? Why is there no softcore shemale porn? Would LOVE that. Always just guy meets shemale, going to a location, blowing and fucking, cumshot. I get it that this simply sells best nowadays, but I really think there's a niche for good softcore.

Are there intellectual shemales? I read an interview with Allannah Starr once, and she appeared to have intellectual interests, almost existentialist ones. Is this rare amongst shemales? Or do they just kinda hide it?

I'm an active participator, or inactive reader, at a lot of discussion boards, yet I never see transgendered people or shemales there. I realize a lot of people have problems with them, and t-girls might just want to evade these other people. But I don't think there'll ever be a more open scene if this continues.

Oh, and it seems that t-girls get prettier and more feminine by the days. I first saw a shemale in a sexshop 7 years ago. I didn't find them very exciting. Most of them had no hips to speak of. When they had nice breasts it was an unusual surprise. Nowadays ... wow, they can be utter sexbombs.

Another question: What's the biggest breastsize a t-girl had gotten to only with hormones? Do you have a picture of a t-girl with such big natural breasts? I'm not a big-breasts-fetishist, at least, not always 8) . I also have a crush on t-girls with small but natural breasts. Somehow this can look very exciting, can make a girl, whether genetic girl or not, appear more horny.

Is there a directory of private sites of shemales somewhere? Where I can learn about their thoughts and normal life? Would be very interested, but googling for it seemed like a waste of time.

Ok, that's all for now. If some intelligent shemale wants a messenger friend, please feel free to contact me. I'm not looking for a partner right now, sexual or romantic, just for friends.

Have a good day!

I like how your subject heading says "just a 'couple' of questions"

[partlycloudy]

no, yes, no, depends, yes, sometimes, maybe, i guess, money, boring, yes, depends, sometimes, i don't know, probably, yes, yes.

[Caleigh]

QM, you really might want to see a psychologist
a few times. They might be able to help you really
face some aspects of yourself.

[Ecstatic]

QM, you pose a lot of good questions, but what grabs my attention is your apparent insecurity about who you are: you profess both feminine and masculine tendencies, and fantasize about becoming a TS woman, yet not really, you also seem content to be a man. I think you should be or become whoever you deeply feel yourself to be, but if you're truly uncertain, then as Caleigh suggests a psychologist might be able to help you understand those conflicting aspects of yourself.

That said, I do understand the wistful pondering about being a Tgirl myself; that is, if Star Trek technology were available so that with a little help from Dr Beverely Crusher I could temporarily transform myself into a beautiful woman, and then back again, I would love to see what life might be like as a beautiful woman. But transformation is a lifelong process and committment, not something entered into lightly, and I am quite content as who I am. So there's a huge difference between curiosity about how it might be and the need to become that which you are not at present.

[qm]

Hey Ecstatic, you're a really cool guy. Read some of your other posts, you have an interesting mindset.

If I ever decide to go down the female path I'll remember you!

As I said, if I could become a woman without the great hazzles I'd do it very soon. One of the big turn-offs in that is thinking about old age. I can easily think of myself living life as a woman up until 45 or so. But afterwards ... I don't know.

I like philosophy, and it teaches about wisdom. I think it would be really great if I'd go down the path ... but would it be wise?

[Ecstatic]

Thanks, qm. Good to have you on the board; your first post certainly was far more thoughtful and provocative (in a good way) than most. Good luck and best wishes if you do make that decision, but I hear you about the age issue; the older you are, the harder it is to transition, but if it's truly who you are, I should think late is better than later. I've read about the travails of many men in their 40s and even 50s who have finally decided that they had to transform, and while making that decision at 26 is harder than at 16, it just gets harder as time goes by. Not every girl is going to become Allanah (and even she readily admits to over 100 medical procedures to get to where she is today), but then would being a pornstar or escort be your goal? \

But only you can answer that question for yourself (though a counselor or psychologist may well help if you are serious about it).

[qm]

Ecstatic,

no, doing porn or escorting is pretty much out of the question, I don't like the shadyness of this business. A good softcore movie ... that would be an entirely different question. I have checked some of the photos from Allannah's parties, and I admit I gotta love that girl. These photos where she seems to do some singing are hilarious. I'm glad she has her humour. Although I don't find her body as attractive as anyone else here seems to do. Very pretty face, but for example her abdomen ... well, to each his/her own. Perhaps I shouldn't have mentioned it, seems kinda rude, but I already wrote it down and I don't like to take back stuff I thought.

As for a TOTALLY and SHOCKINGLY beautiful ts-girl, I normally go with post-op girls. I don't actually mind cock, not at all, but it seems like the girls who finish the run are more interesting. The only "bad" thing is that these post-op girls usually seclude themselves from anything related to porn. That's not bad at all ... it only deprives me of the opportunity to learn more about all that, life as a woman through the eyes of a being that also knows what it's like to be a man.

As for the age thing, no, that's not what I had in mind. I just meant I can easily picture myself as a woman ... just not as an old woman. I guess this might be a prejudice if you will, but I simply feel like that. About 1 or 2 years ago I read about a transexual which around 45 simply desired to be a man again. She had been post-op, and enjoying life as a woman so far. But she went to the doctor and let her breasts get amputated. Stopped taking hormones, stepped back into living as a man. What will happen? Unless she finds a very good partner, she'll be treated like an outlaw, or only get pity. I really don't want to get in such a situation, I imagine it to be hell. And with the insecurity in me, which you rightfully noted, something like this could happen to me too.

Uh, long post again. Maybe later. Have a good day anyone, especially you, Ecstatic.

[TeeLover]

qm - you should Google up kathoey (note the "H"). It will provide you with some interesting reading Although not directly related to your questions, it sheds much insight to how society, or rather diferent cultures in society, view them.

And for you Ecstatic - if you had Star Trek tech available to you, you would NEVER leave the damn Holodeck as "they" lined up for you one after the other after the other after the other ... ... ...

Hmmm... Bajoran T-girls. Hot damn!

[romeo]

no, yes, no, depends, yes, sometimes, maybe, i guess, money, boring, yes, depends, sometimes, i don't know, probably, yes, yes.

:lol: :lol: