Just Wondring Would Ladies Ever Consider To Date " Clie

[ziffy007]

:roll: Just Been Wondring , As The Searching For A Beautiful Transsexual Lady Is So Hard , As They Are Of Such Rarity And Scarcity In The Every Day Life ; :( Is It Possible Ever At All , A Lady Would Ever Consider To Date " Client " . :roll: Or Would It Just Be Far Too Unrealisitic And Just Way Too Much To Wish That The " Once A Client Always A Client Rule " ( Rule 21e In The Tranny Manual - Only Joking ) , Might Sometime Be Lifted Or Waived And Thererfore No Have To Apply, Always ?? :roll:
Ladies If You Wish May I Have Your Valuable Feedback And Input ?? :roll:
( Don't Blast Me - ANIYAH - IN CAPS - only jokin' Please !!! ) :roll:

[Adam_Thompson]

As one of the ladies stated in a prior post and as the Great Philosopher of bitches (Too $hort) once said "Never turn a hoe into a housewife"

[hondarobot]

I've been involved with strippers before on a casual sex basis, never with any escorts or porn stars, but from what I have seen it seems to be impossible to have a serious relationship with girls in the sex business.

You will never make them happy, and I know lots of guys who have tried.

I don't know why this is the case, certain things in life just suck and there's apparently nothing anyone can do to correct that.

[Ecstatic]

I think there is at least one fundamentally insurmountable barricade to developing a serious relationship with a working girl: she doesn't want you to have been attracted to her as a sexual fantasy (even though she markets herself that way), but as a woman you are attracted to long before you find out who and what she is. I think this is probably true of virtually all working girls, regardless of whether they love being "fully functional TS's" and never want SRS, or can't wait for SRS and are working merely as the quickest means to build money for their transformation. If you were attracted to them first because they have a penis and will fulfill your fantasy in exchange for cash, then they will never see you as a potential lover in the romantic sense.

Besides, this is basic to all escort relationships, not just TS/client, as the character of your relationship with the woman in question is predicated upon your initial approach to her as an object of sexual fantasy, not as a woman. I think the most you can hope for in virtually all cases with a working girl would be friendship, that she really cares about you as a person and enjoys your company and all, but sexual contact will likely remain a monetary transaction. I guess exceptions happen, but they are not the rule; if you really want to find a TS girlfriend, looking in ads for escorts or trying to hook up with porn stars because they're porn stars is the wrong way to go; you have to meet your girl casually, as you would any woman, and build from there. That has happened for quite a few guys (as witness several posters on this board), but it's not an easy path.

Friendship is what I'm looking for, and have found with a couple of girls, so I'm quite happy to part with some cash for sexual favors and otherwise enjoy their company as friends. One girl I know calls it "business friends"; we have a great relationship and have helped one another out in many ways as friends, but when I "see" her, I still pony up her donation (but hey, I've got the same kind of relationship with other friends, including my chiropractor, my hair stylist, and my carpenter/contractor (who is one of my closest friends), it's payment for services rendered, separate from our friendship). But I'm not looking for an LTR with anyone; I'm happily married these 24 years and seeing the girls is simply an extremely pleasurable sideline for me. Our friendship enhances our sexual encounters, no doubt, but you expect that from someone when you become a regular client.

[hwbs]

u are better off meeting a girl on a social level....as a client u are setting yourself up 4 the kill,lol

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

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I'm hoping this topic doesn't get http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v66/lou_cypher/the%20naughty/uglymama.jpg ugly..............................

[Ecstatic]

Hi Hollywoodbuckstrap, I like how you summed up my typically-long post in a single sentence. Well said!

And hey, it was great to meet you at Allanah's party. Cheers!

[el hermano]

clients see escorts. that's a red flag if there ever was one

[SexxxyJade]

I was debating rrather to respond to this post or not, but decided to add my opinion, as an escort many of us have strict rules we go by when seeing a client, one being never get intimate or serious, not to kiss and all that. Even tho i follow these rules myself quite vehemently, I wouldnt totally cancel out a "spark" happening during a business relationship.
As escorts we cant deny that sum of the guys that come to se us are very attractive at times, and may treat us better than the men in our own personal lives do. From my experience i can honestly say that i have went out to dinner and/or a movie with a guy who was once a client. Me being an adult who makes my own decision, this is my choice. Don't get me wrong, I don't go around seeking intimacy, or looking for "love" with clients ( i get enuff guys of the clock knocking down my door),I am very businessminded when it comes to what I do, but I am also a very open minded person and wouldn't totatly cancel out any type of relationship with anyone"male female, client,gorilla...lol". I mean if u meet a nice person and you two vibe, why not get to know each other. Im sure u all catch my drift. But hey thats my take on the situation.

[SexxxyJade]

P.S.
Im starting to think Johnny walker has a Fetish for Fat girls...no, extremely fat girls..

[Ecstatic]

Thanks for sharing your perspective, Jade. What I have encountered, fortunately, is real affection with a couple of girls, so that we have gone out to dinner, talk on the phone or IM one another, help one another in various ways (I can't get very specific, but I hope you catch my drift), and that's cool.

It's interesting about the kissing thing, though. Maybe 2/3 of the girls I've seen hold to the "don't kiss the client" rule, reserving that for those they are truly intimate with (and not merely sexually intimate), since all other physical action is "up for grabs" in the client-escort relationship. But 1/3 of the girls have been kissers, one even deep French kissing me like I've never been DFK'd in my life--within two minutes of the session beginning.

Now, my favorite girl, who I've known for a couple of years, has been greeting me with a big kiss, and she's not a kisser as a rule. A big kiss (no tongue, just a warm welcoming kiss) from her means so much to me because I know she doesn't kiss as a rule.