(For the ladies) Would you be able to handle ...

[JANIRA]

Your boyfriend being accepting of job :Escorting /Adult business? Ok , I know some Girls that would & some that can't Why well.. ok, I have heard from my fellow Tgirl friends that if a guy is accepting of what she does that he does not really care for her ,& I also have heard that if the guy loves her he has to understand that it is only a job. Its kinda of a double ended sword. What is your take on this.?

[MrsKellyPierce]

I agree with the last part. I do porn to raise money for surgeries. It's a job.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

Your boyfriend being accepting of job :Escorting /Adult business? Ok , I know some Girls that would & some that can't Why well.. ok, I have heard from my fellow Tgirl friends that if a guy is accepting of what she does that he does not really care for her ,& I also have heard that if the guy loves her he has to understand that it is only a job. Its kinda of a double ended sword. What is your take on this.?

It's a hard situation to manage IMO. I see it this way: If a guy is "inlove" with you he would have no choice but bite his tongue close his eyes and ears and pretend everything's fine on his end dating you. Eventually though (through time) he wouldn't be able to deny the fact that you are having sex with different men and that would cause him to question his relationship with you. E.G. If he allows you to sleep with other men wouldn't he be allowed to do the same and sleep with other transexuals or women? And If you are OK with it (just to keep the relationship with him) then it's become an open relationship where both of you are at RISK of falling for another guy or girl. This is sorta like when a couples invites a third for a 3 way. The dynamics of your whole relationship changes. I mean, could you really "share" the guy you are inlove with with someone else? It's the same thing just in complete reverse when it comes to guys. Any guy who says it's OK are lying through their front teeth because they either don't really care for you enough to admit it or they're just buying time (crunching numbers) for when the right girl tgirl comes along. ;)

~Kisses.

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[JamesHunt]

forget it :roll:

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

I agree with the last part. I do porn to raise money for surgeries. It's a job.

That's TRUE. But aren't there any other job that won't add complications (As if dating a TG isn't complicated enough) and would allow you to have an LTR type of relationship with a guy without the unnecessary drama involved? ;)

~Kisses.

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[TJ347]

That's TRUE. But aren't there any other job that won't add complications (As if dating a TG isn't complicated enough) and would allow you to have an LTR type of relationship with a guy without the unnecessary drama involved? ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

None that don't involve actual work, which is why you'll be waiting a good while I imagine for a response, much less one that isn't a scathing attack on you as a person given that you dare say what I've gathered should never be said here... GET A REAL FUCKING JOB.

Thank you.

Sorry... this thread was for the ladies, wasn't it? Pardon the interruption... I'll now let Hara continue being the voice of reason on her own.

[MrsKellyPierce]

I agree with the last part. I do porn to raise money for surgeries. It's a job.

That's TRUE. But aren't there any other job that won't add complications (As if dating a TG isn't complicated enough) and would allow you to have an LTR type of relationship with a guy without the unnecessary drama involved? ;)

~Kisses.

HTG I work also, but I'd like to be young still lol

However I just can't see this being true. To love someone is one thing, and people do OPEN RELATIONSHIPS all the time and it works for them. So whats the difference?

We all love differently and only we can tell US what is the perfect relationship and what works. Noone else can judge you or take that gratification from you, if you are truly in love.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

LOL Well No one said escorting is a dead end job. Girls could use it as a stepping stone..make those coins, save it and use part of it to go back to college and get a degree. Then get a decent job and quit escorting all together.

The problem is not every girl wants to work hard to get the proper education they need to ready themselves before their beauty fades. ;)

~Kisses.

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[MrsKellyPierce]

That's TRUE. But aren't there any other job that won't add complications (As if dating a TG isn't complicated enough) and would allow you to have an LTR type of relationship with a guy without the unnecessary drama involved? ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

None that don't involve actual work, which is why you'll be waiting a good while I imagine for a response, much less one that isn't a scathing attack on you as a person given that you dare say what I've gathered should never be said here... GET A REAL FUCKING JOB.


Sorry... this thread was for the ladies, wasn't it? Pardon the interruption... I'll now let Hara continue being the voice of reason on her own. TJ I like you the other day, now not so much once again. I have a real "fucking" job. But I'd be working till I was 30 for all the surgeries I want. And I live my life for me and not through other people's eyes.


And if you don't think what Allanah does or Vicki does isn't hard work and dedication. You are fucking stupid. I've only done a few and porn is a lot harder than I thought it was gonna be.

Same with escorting girls there is it's hard points too, so for you to demean them you are a crackjack and blowing your own horn.

Thank you.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

Kel I think you're over reacting. The opinions given according to what Janira posted..The situation she gave were answered and addressed in a general tone and was NOT aimed particularly at you or anyone on this board.

But seriously though, An escort is only a hot commodity while she is beautiful, thin and young. Once those selling points are all gone..well you get the picture. ;)

~Kisses.

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[MrsKellyPierce]

Are you talking just escorting? I am talking more about porn in my case. Like no I don't think my boyfriend would deal with me escorting cause it's more personal. Porn you go there you do your job and you leave. I don't tend to talk that much to my male counterpart. I talked more to the director lol

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

Are you talking just escorting? I am talking more about porn in my case. Like no I don't think my boyfriend would deal with me escorting cause it's more personal. Porn you go there you do your job and you leave. I don't tend to talk that much to my male counterpart. I talked more to the director lol

Escorting..doing porn..potato..po-ta-to same! LOL I recalled Yasmin Lee posted something awhile back about her then bf having a had time accepting the fact that she does porn and has a 'fluffer' on the set! LOL ;)

~Kisses.

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[TJ347]

TJ I like you the other day, now not so much once again. I have a real "fucking" job. But I'd be working till I was 30 for all the surgeries I want. And I live my life for me and not through other people's eyes.


And if you don't think what Allanah does or Vicki does isn't hard work and dedication. You are fucking stupid. I've only done a few and porn is a lot harder than I thought it was gonna be.

Same with escorting girls there is it's hard points too, so for you to demean them you are a crackjack and blowing your own horn.

Thank you.

If you choose to escort, you accept everything that goes along with it, the bad and the good. I trust you agree. Now then, is escorting difficult work? I'm sure the hazards of the job make it considerably stressful, but then, that's accepted in exchange for $300 an hour. Whether that money is to be used for surgeries isn't the issue here as much as whether or not you can call escorting real work versus... well, real work. Sorry if that offends you, but it's just my opinion, and neither of us is relevant in the life of the other so it's no biggie.

I've talked in the past about using the services of escorts, and while it may seem that I occasionally make comments demeaning them, that isn't my intention. All I've been trying to say is that there are other options out there if one is willing to do legitimate work, which both Hara and Peggygee have also said. Note how I get flack for saying the same thing they've said... Wonder why that is? Anyway, you now don't like me so much anymore, Mimi's said she hates me and Vanessa has crossed me off her Christmas list as well. Yet, despite all of this I am not swayed by the sob stories I've heard, including the "If I had a legitimate job, I'd be working until I was 30 to pay for all my surgeries" tale of woe. And why should I be? I'll probably be working for thirty years to pay off the house I'm looking to buy next year... which is typical among people who have real jobs versus fucking jobs, and I certainly don't expect anyone to cry for me. So, if you want the fast money you can earn by escorting, by all means do it, but don't whine about how difficult it is as if you're some kind of construction worker, because I'm pretty sure erecting a building is harder than getting someone erect.

Thank you.

[JANIRA]

The reason I did this thread is to get POV from the tgirls.. as you saw i made a separate thread just for the gentlemen. You mainly hear the men speak about this very issue so i wanted also to have the Tgirls voice their opinions. Porn, escorting,, all in all it is a job that could or could not cause some sort of problems within a relationships. I know people who do porn and have been married and yes at first there was no problem sooner down the road they have some and divorced. Then you have the total oppisate, people that are completely aware of their profession,, and love them no matter what. I guess it just depends on the persons.

[MrsKellyPierce]

So whats your view on porn?