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soul4real
11-22-2007, 12:35 AM
How open are you with them?

Do you have freinds who also like them?

My friends found out once they seen me and a girl I was talking to in a pic together.

They just shrugged it off like if thats your thing.

It felt good not caring.


Fellas have you told anyone or are you waiting for that right lady?

Or are you gonna live in the shadows forever?

Ladies how many of yoru bf's family have you met?
were you ever met with hostiltiy or resentment?

How do you weed out the guys who want to keep you in a closet?

I mean who wouldnt take jennief paris or Janira to meet hey moms?

It seems like being black, our community is not as accepting
but I live to make me happy

alphanumeric
11-22-2007, 12:44 AM
back in alberta I had one friend who was cool with it, and here my family doesn't know about them being transsexuals but I have talked about them with my mother and sister, I am at a bit of a crossroads with one of the TS' I knew back in AB. I want to help her but don't know if she's ready yet.

My mom and I had the "gay" chat long ago and my sister was a sixties radical so I know there are no problems with them on that front.

they just don't like her current lifestyle, and don't want her to bring her problems out here to deal with i.e. drug abuse

wombat33
11-22-2007, 01:26 AM
i HAVE TOLD MY GIRLFRIEND AND I HAVE TOLD ONE OF MY BEST FRIENDS WHO IS PRETTY MUCH OPEN TO ALL THINGS. HE IS HETERO, BUT ME AND MY FRIENDS ALWAYS THOUGHT HE WOULD BE THE MOST LIKELY TO SUCK A COCK. I SHOWED HIM PHOTOS OF A TG I WAS WITH AND ASKED HIM IF HE WOULD HAVE SEX WITH HER. HE PAUSED SEVERAL TIMES AND SAID "I DON'T THINK SO" BUT I THINK I KNOW THE ANSWER.

I THINK AT LEAST 50% OF MEN WHO HIT ON A TS GIRL NOT KNOWING SHE WAS TS, AND FOUND OUT ON THE SPOT WOULD KEEP GOING AND TRY IT OUT AT LEAST TO GET A BLOW JOB..........OF THOSE MANY WOULD SURPRISE THEMSELVES BY WANTING TO GIVE ONE.

soul4real
11-22-2007, 01:30 AM
i HAVE TOLD MY GIRLFRIEND AND I HAVE TOLD ONE OF MY BEST FRIENDS WHO IS PRETTY MUCH OPEN TO ALL THINGS. HE IS HETERO, BUT ME AND MY FRIENDS ALWAYS THOUGHT HE WOULD BE THE MOST LIKELY TO SUCK A COCK. I SHOWED HIM PHOTOS OF A TG I WAS WITH AND ASKED HIM IF HE WOULD HAVE SEX WITH HER. HE PAUSED SEVERAL TIMES AND SAID "I DON'T THINK SO" BUT I THINK I KNOW THE ANSWER.

I THINK AT LEAST 50% OF MEN WHO HIT ON A TS GIRL NOT KNOWING SHE WAS TS, AND FOUND OUT ON THE SPOT WOULD KEEP GOING AND TRY IT OUT AT LEAST TO GET A BLOW JOB..........OF THOSE MANY WOULD SURPRISE THEMSELVES BY WANTING TO GIVE ONE.



Yeah im not doubting the fact that 50% or more mhy thoughts would stay

But how many would let it be known

BeardedOne
11-22-2007, 02:12 AM
Most of my closest friends either know or suspect. My family and coworkers don't know, but I doubt they'd be all that surprised and I don't think there'd be any negative repercusions. If there were, then fuck 'em, it's not their life that concerns me.

I recently spent a day with a very nice gurl during which I introduced her to many friends and colleagues and lolled about at the bar and had a fine evening dining. I had no qualms about sharing her with the people I know or in being seen in public with her. Some knew she was T, some may not have. Heads turned when we entered the restaurant. That's a good feeling, even to a severe agorophobic such as myself.

Anyone got a problem wit' dat? Fuckyuz! :evil:

johnb
11-22-2007, 02:14 AM
good for you, o great bearded one

crayons
11-22-2007, 02:26 AM
Some knew she was T, some may not have. Heads turned when we entered the restaurant. That's a good feeling, even to a severe agorophobic such as myself.



you know this and the other thread where kelly shore "owned" some guy got me thinking about something:

should tgirls or those they are dating introduce them as tgirls or girls? if a tgirl says shes a girl (to none t-speakers thats gg) is that considered fooling them? also how do you say they're transsexual without making it sound like a syndrome? and don't mistake this as announcing it.

discuss

62des
11-22-2007, 03:09 AM
i HAVE TOLD MY GIRLFRIEND AND I HAVE TOLD ONE OF MY BEST FRIENDS WHO IS PRETTY MUCH OPEN TO ALL THINGS. HE IS HETERO, BUT ME AND MY FRIENDS ALWAYS THOUGHT HE WOULD BE THE MOST LIKELY TO SUCK A COCK. I SHOWED HIM PHOTOS OF A TG I WAS WITH AND ASKED HIM IF HE WOULD HAVE SEX WITH HER. HE PAUSED SEVERAL TIMES AND SAID "I DON'T THINK SO" BUT I THINK I KNOW THE ANSWER.

I THINK AT LEAST 50% OF MEN WHO HIT ON A TS GIRL NOT KNOWING SHE WAS TS, AND FOUND OUT ON THE SPOT WOULD KEEP GOING AND TRY IT OUT AT LEAST TO GET A BLOW JOB..........OF THOSE MANY WOULD SURPRISE THEMSELVES BY WANTING TO GIVE ONE.

This is why we shouldn't bother telling friends because deep down, we know that they'll lie anyway when we can see the obvious attraction in their eyes.

Bic
11-22-2007, 04:17 AM
i told 1 girl flat out and i hinted to another but i think she thought i was joking.
we were talking and being goofy. i made a joke and she said "suck my dick" i said ok. she goes "you would?" im like "yea if you had one" (see she wont give head. she thinks its gross) but she then says "if i put on a strapon you would" i said" yea its just plastic" she goes "well its the meaning"
so i dont know if she knows or not. i dont care either :) i feel good that came out :D

Coroner
11-22-2007, 04:32 AM
I only told my sister and she was like "aha, ok" but asked me what this is supposed to mean. She was getting at my orientation...... the question I asked myself when I found out about my desire for T-girls. I tried to explain it the best way but I donīt care about the label anymore. I know what I like and dislike and I donīt need terms to move on.

crayons
11-22-2007, 04:46 AM
i girl i flat out told, i hinted to another but i think she thought i was joking.
we were talking and being goofy. i made a joke and she said "suck my dick" i said ok. she goes "you would?" im like "yea if you had one" (see she wont give head. she thinks its gross) but she then says "if i put on a strapon you would" i said" yea its just plastic" she goes "well its the meaning"
so i dont know if she knows or not. i dont care either :) i feel good that came out :D

are you and her 12?

Bic
11-22-2007, 04:51 AM
i told 1 girl flat out and i hinted to another but i think she thought i was joking.
we were talking and being goofy. i made a joke and she said "suck my dick" i said ok. she goes "you would?" im like "yea if you had one" (see she wont give head. she thinks its gross) but she then says "if i put on a strapon you would" i said" yea its just plastic" she goes "well its the meaning"
so i dont know if she knows or not. i dont care either :) i feel good that came out :D

are you and her 12?

not the answer i was expecting but thats :lol:

21 and im 29

she says she had her sexual experiences from age 12 to 19 or something sleeping with over 50 guys. i on the other hand lack in that are being with only 5.
it annoys me about her attitude toward giving head. she also complains about have a bad gag reflex. what a joke that is

soupdragon351
11-22-2007, 05:58 AM
My wife is the only 0ne that knows ,i figure the secret is safe with her . We sort of started experimenting with some stuff in our marriage ,like 3somes with other girls and she dicovered she was bi .So i figuered i could tell her what i like and she was cool with it . No 3ways with a ts as of yet though. :(

Somedude21
11-22-2007, 06:00 AM
My mother, my sisters and my closest cousins. I really don't want to tell my grandfather or father...I really don't want to think about what would happen if I did. >_<

CORVETTEDUDE
11-22-2007, 06:01 AM
My brother...he's been to Brazil and I'm somewhat jealous.

Jackal
11-22-2007, 06:45 AM
I told a good friend of mine once that I am attracted to transgendered women, but he didn't judge or bring up the issue much. I haven't told any other confidants, yet. (Though I always found it uncomfortable to talk about sexual subjects to a platonic female; probably a madonna whore complex). My mother knows I used to XDress, and she might have stumbled upon some of the porn I had off the internet back in my high school days.

LBCDO
11-22-2007, 07:33 AM
I got a homegirl who is a lesbian, and she used to hook me up with her TS friends. Her and her LTR girlfriend. But Im at the point that I dont even introduce GGs to my family and friends because I never know when they might flip the fuck out. If the relationship came to the point where I had to let them know whats good, I would. But until then...