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Danielle Foxxx
11-15-2007, 08:39 PM
Well, after writting the moderators who by the way have been very accomodating to me after my tiff with the whole underage porn thing and my actions after being attacked and ridiculed by the Kitty Porn lovers I have no reason to be part of this board anylonger.

This has became a free for all, where people are free to insult, trash, pick, harrass and escalade their actions to what happend to me yesturday.

I requested the moderators take care of this prick, ban him and here is the reply.

" I sent the prick a warning message, we both agree that phone calls such as that should be handled by the local law enforcement, which seems trivial, but a trace might be exactly what's needed to get him to leave you alone. As far as the forum goes, as much as I hate to say this he hasn't come close to being what this site considers ban material. I will constantly check and most likely delete everything he puts up, I can't do anything about private messages or phone calls. That's the best I can do at the moment. "

There is nothing law enforcement will do - NOTHING - Trust me, I have had plenty of phone calls like that and also emails. I was not threatened with violence and it is not an ongoing offense by him. They will tell me that once he is in my house and kills me to call 911, that's basically it in a nut shell. Police will not act untill there is a crime commited.

I think this website has became a way for guys to trash on whoever they want and belittle women as freely as they may want and the moderators do what? Sit back and say " Let them at it - its fun to watch! "

We constantly have to sit here and read these idiots tell us we are fat, ugly, have big noses, have no inteligence because some of us are sex workers, we aren't worth anything, we are no body... And altho we all know these guys are pricks and don't deserve the time of day - it trully hits a very soft spot.

We are women, believe you or not, and we deserve the respect just like anyone you meet on the street, if you think we are ugly or stupid. We are humans with feelings and we do not deserve to be ridiculed by you.

I know alot of you are great guys and all but if you continue to back up these assholes who are allowed to harrass us over and over and over again with no consequence then you are just like them in my book.

I know this will never happend but I call on the ladies on this board to stand up to these pricks and tell them in a smart way how they make you trully feel, how their words really hurt us and how we will not stand for that kind of harrassment.

I don't understand how some of you ladies allow yourself to be ridiculed over and over again, but as for me... Sorry...

This is one of the main reason for me wanting to be more private, and I am trully sorry for having returned here. Trully trully sorry.

This place has became an ugly war zone!

PS: To the asshole who called me yesturday - Don't you ever think that this is your doing! This is a collective of continued abuse that I am ashamed of.

MrsKellyPierce
11-15-2007, 08:43 PM
I can agree on a lot of those points, but disagree on taking the site and what someone says on here serious.

echimandu
11-15-2007, 08:43 PM
Well, after writting the moderators who by the way have been very accomodating to me after my tiff with the whole underage porn thing and my actions after being attacked and ridiculed by the Kitty Porn lovers I have no reason to be part of this board anylonger.

This has became a free for all, where people are free to insult, trash, pick, harrass and escalade their actions to what happend to me yesturday.

I requested the moderators take care of this prick, ban him and here is the reply.

" I sent the prick a warning message, we both agree that phone calls such as that should be handled by the local law enforcement, which seems trivial, but a trace might be exactly what's needed to get him to leave you alone. As far as the forum goes, as much as I hate to say this he hasn't come close to being what this site considers ban material. I will constantly check and most likely delete everything he puts up, I can't do anything about private messages or phone calls. That's the best I can do at the moment. "

There is nothing law enforcement will do - NOTHING - Trust me, I have had plenty of phone calls like that and also emails. I was not threatened with violence and it is not an ongoing offense by him. They will tell me that once he is in my house and kills me to call 911, that's basically it in a nut shell. Police will not act untill there is a crime commited.

I think this website has became a way for guys to trash on whoever they want and belittle women as freely as they may want and the moderators do what? Sit back and say " Let them at it - its fun to watch! "

We constantly have to sit here and read these idiots tell us we are fat, ugly, have big noses, have no inteligence because some of us are sex workers, we aren't worth anything, we are no body... And altho we all know these guys are pricks and don't deserve the time of day - it trully hits a very soft spot.

We are women, believe you or not, and we deserve the respect just like anyone you meet on the street, if you think we are ugly or stupid. We are humans with feelings and we do not deserve to be ridiculed by you.

I know alot of you are great guys and all but if you continue to back up these assholes who are allowed to harrass us over and over and over again with no consequence then you are just like them in my book.

I know this will never happend but I call on the ladies on this board to stand up to these pricks and tell them in a smart way how they make you trully feel, how their words really hurt us and how we will not stand for that kind of harrassment.

I don't understand how some of you ladies allow yourself to be ridiculed over and over again, but as for me... Sorry...

This is one of the main reason for me wanting to be more private, and I am trully sorry for having returned here. Trully trully sorry.

This place has became an ugly war zone!

PS: To the asshole who called me yesturday - Don't you ever think that this is your doing! This is a collective of continued abuse that I am ashamed of. :sleep

altUKsteve
11-15-2007, 08:46 PM
It's a shame we will loose you again, and I am ashamed that there are men out there who would cause you to have these views. That said, I totally agree with everything you have said, and wish you all the peace you deserve, and should have been able to have here.

I hope one day that things will change and you will feel able to come back.

Till then, take care, and enjoy life. x

CORVETTEDUDE
11-15-2007, 08:49 PM
I agree the site has turned into a trash pile of insults and degraded behavior. Quite honestly, I lay responsibility for regulating the atmosphere and conduct on the site, firmly on the shoulders of the Mods. Gentlemen, if things continue, I believe you will lose your most valued participants...the girls. Should that happen, what purpose does the site serve? Let's get a grip here!!!

MrsKellyPierce
11-15-2007, 08:50 PM
Furthermore I think a lot of us girls will miss you, along with your fans. You bring a certain entertainment, quality, and comedy to the board.

I will say I am glad I found Hung Angels, I have met a couple friends on here, and a very special guy that has helped me out on numerous occassions with out any sexual favors etc. He is my age and cute, so that in itself shows me the kind of man he is and will be to his future wife and kids.

I think there are a lot of great guys on here, but girls segregate them into just the 'tranny chasers' and cock monglers. A lot of us don't talk to them more than just say a thank you or something to their compliments. But there is a real side there too to them, and they have feelings also.

It is a two-way street. But anyways Good luck Danielle!

2754tim
11-15-2007, 08:52 PM
Danni,Remember That All Of The Real Guys On The Board Are Here
To Defend You.Don't Let Some Moron Drive You Off.That's Exactly What He
Wants To Do.Don't Let Him Win.We'll Cover Your Back And Take Care Of You.

ottorocket
11-15-2007, 08:53 PM
Furthermore I think a lot of us girls will miss you, along with your fans. You bring a certain entertainment, quality, and comedy to the board.

I will say I am glad I found Hung Angels, I have met a couple friends on here, and a very special guy that has helped me out on numerous occassions with out any sexual favors etc. He is my age and cute, so that in itself shows me the kind of man he is and will be to his future wife and kids.

I think there are a lot of great guys on here, but girls segregate them into just the 'tranny chasers' and cock monglers. A lot of us don't talk to them more than just say a thank you or something to their compliments. But there is a real side there too to them, and they have feelings also.

It is a two-way street. But anyways Good luck Danielle!

Very well said Kel

2754tim
11-15-2007, 09:02 PM
Danni,We Just Devastated ball breaker For Disrespecting Nichole.We
Won't Let These Shitbags Fuck With You Girls.We Need You Here.Your A
A Good Person,A Real Character,Funny And Smart.So Please Stay,We Have Your Back.

LBCDO
11-15-2007, 09:08 PM
Im no mod, but Iv ebeen using the internet since like 93, and from the Dial Up BBSs to AOL 2.0 to now, and there is always trash talk. ITs unfortunate about someone calling you up, talking shit, whatever. But you gotta look at it like this. When someone used Yasmine Lee's pic on an escort ad like last week, NOBODY said "DONT CALL THE AD AND HARASS HER" Nobody stood up and said even though the situation is fucked up, dont take it to the next level. Shit, I wont front, I didnt even say, because I really didnt care. You posted something that pissed someone off on the internet and the dickhead called you, yea, its fucked up, but your grown, deal with that shit and keep it moving.

If you go on any board, people are going to talk shit. Im more than 100% sure that people say fuck me all day every day, but Ive never met them, shit, they dont even know what I look like. But hey, thats life. I think when people sit behind a computer, the world gets smaller and we feel like this shit here matters. It really doesnt. Your situation is a lot more fucked up than mine because its easy for someone to get your number because of your line of work. Cant knock the hustle, do you, I always say that. But just remember its a possibility for someone to send you fucked up VMs.

Its kinda like this. As someone with a public imagine, a wise business move would be not to be on any forum, dont say shit, and let pics and movies be your face. Thats why most celebs have PR people. So now someone has a reason to dislike you. It aint right, wrong, im not saying none of that shit, but leaving may be your best move, PR wise.

Calling the police and shit? I might come from a different environment, but that shit aint neccessary. Youve been escorting how long? And never got a fucked up call on your VM? Wait, an ESCORT calling the police for a harrasing call? And how do you explain how he got your number? Ive had my share of fucked up calls and thats never gone through myhead. But everyone is different.

All I gotta say is do you. Final point

suckseed
11-15-2007, 09:10 PM
Danielle, take care, good luck, and we hope to see you here down the road. I'm sorry that cowardly shitbag called you like that. You girls with your real photos and contact information are the truly brave ones on this board. Anyone that abuses that trust is a self-hating closet case. Au Revoir.

ed_jaxon
11-15-2007, 09:14 PM
I hope you'll stay. Your posts were funny and intelligent.

The more people who leave, leave us with only the bickerers and the stalkers, the people who start shit for shit's sake.

Keep being you.

Night Rider
11-15-2007, 09:27 PM
Danielle, I know we're not exactly best mates but good luck in the future...

andyuk
11-15-2007, 09:37 PM
ok i will have my say
for me Danielle,
your letting him win,pure and simple.
look at some of the past threads on here,where i have posted,i have been called names ,my mother has been insulted by comments such as i will cut her tits off,when she had already had a full masectomy due to breast cancer.,i wont let them win by not posting,in fact they just show themselves up.
keep posting,dont stop becasue of a few idiots,because whats the next thing they will stop you doing?
never mind them,and continue as you are.
never take no notice of words or name calling,it really means nothing.

Vicki Richter
11-15-2007, 09:38 PM
Danielle - who left that message? None of the posts say. Honestly, the guy was a little bit funny. It's not like you have to take anything like that seriously. The attacks weren't as personal as some that I have received on here. Recently, for example, someone posted a couple of my pictures with a Ms Piggy nose on them.

LBCDO
11-15-2007, 10:06 PM
Yea, I heard the message, and evn though the dude sounded upset, he didnt sound very, uh, threatening. Didnt really sound like someone Id worry about trying to overpower someone body. Sounded like he would kiss you before he would beat that ass

thx1138
11-15-2007, 10:14 PM
Danielle, pls. don't go. This site is not a hostile site. It's a group therapy site.

GroobySteven
11-15-2007, 10:15 PM
Danielle - who left that message? None of the posts say. Honestly, the guy was a little bit funny. It's not like you have to take anything like that seriously. The attacks weren't as personal as some that I have received on here. Recently, for example, someone posted a couple of my pictures with a Ms Piggy nose on them.

Yeah who was it who left the message? I'd like to know also.

Vicki - any chance of sending me or reposting the photo of you with a Ms. Piggy nose ... I find that somewhat erotic.

Ta
seanchai

CORVETTEDUDE
11-15-2007, 10:27 PM
1. ) Danielle....PLEASE, Don't Go!!!! Oh baby, Please don't go-wohh! (Sonny and Cher)

2. ) Vicki...I thought you posted that 'Miss Piggy' photo!?!?! I LMFAO!!!

house
11-15-2007, 10:35 PM
she's hot but come on, not that hot. She's not leaving permanently anyway. She'll be back in a little while. I think this is part of her yearly cycle.

alphanumeric
11-15-2007, 10:36 PM
I would just like to add this,

this is a scary world, and nobody deserves to get any message like that period. I know what it's like to recieve anonymous death threats but she should be thankful of one think whomever sent her that message is a fucking COWARD! and she should really not have to worry about him too much.

I try to live my life by a very simple code and I wish more poeple would too. It's this:

"Do nothing that harms another person mentally or physically"

if more people did this would be a better place.

also some people a more sensitive than others, and danielle appears to be a sensitive person who is probably a little afraid right now. and I can't blame her.

I personally wish that computer comapnies could figure out a way where if someone is an asshole to people and hides behind the internet, that there would be some way to fry that persons computer so they couldn't post for awhile anyway.

that way SOME people would be going through a computer a day :lol:

But I also think that the Moderators need to step up and do a better job than they are doing right now also.

CORVETTEDUDE
11-15-2007, 10:40 PM
I would just like to add this,

this is a scary world, and nobody deserves to get any message like that period. I know what it's like to recieve anonymous death threats but she should be thankful of one think whomever sent her that message is a fucking COWARD! and she should really not have to worry about him too much.

I try to live my life by a very simple code and I wish more poeple would too. It's this:

"Do nothing that harms another person mentally or physically"

if more people did this would be a better place.

also some people a more sensitive than others, and danielle appears to be a sensitive person who is probably a little afraid right now. and I can't blame her.

I personally wish that computer comapnies could figure out a way where if someone is an asshole to people and hides behind the internet, that there would be some way to fry that persons computer so they couldn't post for awhile anyway.

that way SOME people would be going through a computer a day :lol:

But I also think that the Moderators need to step up and do a better job than they are doing right now also.

Excellent, alpha!!! Co-Sign!!! :rock2

CORVETTEDUDE
11-15-2007, 10:42 PM
I would just like to add this,

this is a scary world, and nobody deserves to get any message like that period. I know what it's like to recieve anonymous death threats but she should be thankful of one think whomever sent her that message is a fucking COWARD! and she should really not have to worry about him too much.

I try to live my life by a very simple code and I wish more poeple would too. It's this:

"Do nothing that harms another person mentally or physically"

if more people did this would be a better place.

also some people a more sensitive than others, and danielle appears to be a sensitive person who is probably a little afraid right now. and I can't blame her.

I personally wish that computer comapnies could figure out a way where if someone is an asshole to people and hides behind the internet, that there would be some way to fry that persons computer so they couldn't post for awhile anyway.

that way SOME people would be going through a computer a day :lol:

But I also think that the Moderators need to step up and do a better job than they are doing right now also.

Excellent, alpha!!! Co-Sign!!! :rock2

the_corner
11-15-2007, 11:03 PM
Well Danielle, it's being nice having you back, at least for that short while.

It's really sad to see you go again, I would not like to see you go (and I believe I'm one of many), but if it is your decision, then it is, and will be respected.

I hope you change your mind, and decide to come back later.

whatislove
11-15-2007, 11:06 PM
Of all the things I've believed in,
I just want to get it over with,
tears form behind my eyes,
but I do not cry,
counting the days that pass me by.
I've been searchin' deep down in my soul;
words that I'm hearin' are starting to get old,
it feels like I'm starting all over again,
The last three years were just pretend,
and I said...
Goodbye to you,
goodbye to everything I thought I knew,
You were the one I loved,
the one thing that I tried to hold onto.
I still get lost in your eyes,
and it seems that I can't live a day without you,
closing my eyes,
and you chase my thoughts away,
to a place where I am blinded by the light,
but it's not right.
Goodbye to you,
goodbye to everything I thought I knew,
You were the one I loved,
the one thing that I tried to hold on to.
Ooh whoa....
and it hurts to want everything and nothing at the same time,
I want what's yours and I want what's mine,
I want you,
but I'm not giving in this time.
Goodbye to you,
goodbye to everything I thought I knew,
You were the one I loved,
the one thing that I tried to hold onto
Goodbye to you, (goodbye to you)
goodbye to everything I thought I knew, (goodbye to you)
You were the one I loved,
the one thing that I tried to hold onto,
(the one thing that i tried to hold onto)
the one thing that I tried to hold onto.
(the one thing that i tried to hold onto)
Oh, oh whoa, oh, oh (one thing that i tried to hold onto)
and when the stars fall I will lie awake,
you're my shooting star.

chefmike
11-15-2007, 11:15 PM
So Danielle is making yet another dramatic exit from HA...now there's a shocker... :boring

strokeitnow
11-16-2007, 12:17 AM
Danielle, I really hate to see you go. I also find it childish that people use this forum to be disrespectful to anyone. A little joke here and there is fine but anything disrespectful on this board in totally uncalled for. Having said that, let's face it folks, we can't control what other people do or say. What we can do is be nice to everyone and hope that the favor gets returned. If more people did that this board and our world for that matter would be a much better place.

2754tim
11-16-2007, 12:23 AM
Danni,C'mon There's Too Much Good Stuff Going On Right Now.He's
Just Another Punk

GIA LOVES RON
11-16-2007, 01:07 AM
I'm sorry to hear that Danielle, you we're someone that I look up to when it comes to principles and values in life. Thank you for being here with us and hopefully you'll find a more peaceful mind in leaving this forum. Thanks for everything and goodluck to everything you do. We will miss you.

Sincerely,
Gia

Night Rider
11-16-2007, 01:52 AM
:sadcry

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wVyggTKDcOE

Tanuki
11-16-2007, 02:30 AM
Danielle.dont be lame.. stand your ground.. geez

TheGuard
11-16-2007, 02:45 AM
Goodbye forever...


...and see you in a week

Dino Velvet
11-16-2007, 06:06 AM
Later gator. Best wishes on losing your Johnson. For some reason the movie Caligula comes to mind.

I'd say Merry Christmas in advance but I'm sure you'll be back posting on the board before then.

the Adrienne Barbeaubot
11-16-2007, 07:07 AM
You'll be missed hon.

BXCanada
11-16-2007, 07:32 AM
i agree with everything you siad danielle, the mods and admin have lots total control over this site. i have not been here for a long time and am rather new but even i can see that the mods have no control over this place. it is essentially a cyber bullies paradise and if this keeps up they are going to lose many good people.

i'm a co-admin on another GLBT forum and there are many people on here that would have been banned long ago if they acted on there as they do here. the actions of some people on here are discraseful and if they act that way on here it makes me wonder just how ignorant these people really are and how they act toward people in the RW.

ARMANIXXX
11-16-2007, 09:33 AM
From what I gather,

The mods won't ban the guy who pisses you off, thus, not meeting your "needs", you threaten to leave, AGAIN.........






See you sometime next year.

bob69
11-16-2007, 10:29 AM
I'm sad to see you go. I usually find your posts intelligent and amusing. I know what it's like to get so annoyed at the behaviour and drama of an on-line community that you just have enough of it. Still, some of the people that keep attacking so many girls are probably just angry and confused about themselves and choose to lash out at you ladies because you make an easy target. Growing up visibly different from the norm and having to deal with prejudice and ridicule is never easy. But if you let it alter your behaviour then you are the one loosing. I have seen drama and flames over the silliest things in forums.. from someone's avatar to their signature. There are people who enjoy that wherever you go.. good luck to you.

P.S. On a much lighter note.. I have seen your movies on TS Seduction.. do you have a vibrate button? How on earth do you do that for so long? I always enjoy seeing you do it.