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[juggler47]

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[Jericho]

Question for all post ops or soon-to-be's....How would you want a straight man to show interest in you without lumping themselves into that taboo category of "chaser"?

[TrueBeauty TS]

Question for all post ops or soon-to-be's....How would you want a straight man to show interest in you without lumping themselves into that taboo category of "chaser"?

I have been interested in post ops and transitioning pre-ops just as much as GG's, but have never acted on the interest. I want different opinions on the approach. The issue is more complicated that simply running game in a bar because we're doing this typically through the Internet, which is a communication medium that doesn't allow the level of interactivity of face-to-face interaction. My interest is sincere and long-term focused if I find the right fit. Discuss.


It kinda depends on what type of girl you are looking for. Do you want a nasty, dumb-ass, whore-like girl? Then act like a player, a jerk, treat her bad, play games, cheat and lie to her. There ARE girls that like that sort of thing.

If you want to meet a girl that is stable, nice and educated, then be honest and be REAL. No game playing. No posturing. No dick pictures, no asking "how big are you" and "are you a top or bottom" all in the first 5 minutes.


Please realize that the youngest & prettiest girls (approx. 18 - 30) will probably fall into the first catagory. Girls that are in the 30+ age group will most likely be in the latter group.

There are, of course, exceptions. But don't go looking for an 18 year old escort if you want a deep emotional bond. It probably won't happen.


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[peggygee]

Question for all post ops or soon-to-be's....How would you want a straight man to show interest in you without lumping themselves into that taboo category of "chaser"?

I have been interested in post ops and transitioning pre-ops just as much as GG's, but have never acted on the interest. I want different opinions on the approach. The issue is more complicated that simply running game in a bar because we're doing this typically through the Internet, which is a communication medium that doesn't allow the level of interactivity of face-to-face interaction. My interest is sincere and long-term focused if I find the right fit. Discuss.


It kinda depends on what type of girl you are looking for. Do you want a nasty, dumb-ass, whore-like girl? Then act like a player, a jerk, treat her bad, play games, cheat and lie to her. There ARE girls that like that sort of thing.

If you want to meet a girl that is stable, nice and educated, then be honest and be REAL. No game playing. No posturing. No dick pictures, no asking "how big are you" and "are you a top or bottom" all in the first 5 minutes.


Please realize that the youngest & prettiest girls (approx. 18 - 30) will probably fall into the first catagory. Girls that are in the 30+ age group will most likely be in the latter group.

There are, of course, exceptions. But don't go looking for an 18 year old escort if you want a deep emotional bond. It probably won't happen.


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Truebeauty as per her usual speaks the truth. :wink:

I'm a middle-aged post op woman. I like to think of myself as stable,
devoid of typical 'tranny' drama. The issues that I deal with are akin
to those that any other woman in my demographiic would be dealing
with: career, family concerns, etc.

Thus to the OP and his question about how he or anyone that would be
interested in me should approach me, I would suggest that they approach
me like they would any other woman