the "trophy" TS girlfriend....

[mbf]

fellow hungangelists, lets be honest. to have a GF has some benefits. among those the opportunity to blow ones ego, to boost ones vanity VIA showing your GF to friends and/or the family.

as the trophy, as a sign to show the world what studmuffin you are to make that hottie ur gf.

(and ladies, YOU like the trophy BF as well. admit it. you are not so different after all.....)

so, have you guys that actually HAD ts-GFs already used them as "trophies" and showed them around in ur friends circles? with or without disclosing her "T"-status?

this furthermore is a twisted take on the "TS in the str8 environment" thingie, if ya didnt tell.

I know this sounds a bit selfish, and uncool, but it is beeing done on a regular basis - the "look shes my GF, isnt she hottttt" act.

so, did you ever do that???

[ofGREATvalue2007]

I've never done that but a friend of my did that...thought he was the shit the whole night...you could tell that the gf wasn't happy with the way he was acting and by nights end he was alone....ppl were laughing at him cuz they knew what he was all about....felt he got what he deserved.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

Trophy bf/gf= always being tense, nervous and alot of headache!

Tensed because you have to keep up looking like a kodak moment 24/7. Constantly checking in the mirror for shiny spots on the face..doing touch up's, checking to see if your hair is all in the right place, your nails intact, your outfit looking sharp etc.

Nervous because your man introduced you to his family and friends but didnt mention anything about your being T. So after awhile the whole charade gets old and you dread hanging out with his friends and family feeling paranoid some of them already knew but still hasnt said any word to you or your bf. Then damn bf continues to "pretend" everythings fine! :roll:

Headache because you know "sluts" are just waiting for that perfect opportunity when you go to the bathroom to hand your man her number! :evil:

LOL

Been there done that!

~Kisses.

HTG

[BeardedOne]

I don't think I've ever really played the trophy game (And I seriously doubt I could be anyone's 'trophy' myself), but I got a taste of the feeling when I became aware that my date and I were attention-getters at dinner one night. We may have been better dressed than the rest of the clientele (Though an upscale restaurant, most there were tourists) and that can draw attention sometimes. Maybe we just looked good together. :)

I've also been out with some GG headtruners and I can relate to what Hara sez about the tension that can build through the evening (And not necessarily the good kind).

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

I can relate to what Hara sez about the tension that can build through the evening (And not necessarily the good kind).

Imagine the tension at a wedding. When one of your then bf's friend's sisters tells him.. "Oh I want your gf to be one of my bridesmaid"! Then walks over to you and ask you to be his bridesmaid. LOL I mean, How do you say NO! Im not going to wear those frilly, ridiculous pink bridesmaid outfits! :lol:

Or how about his friends asking the two of you when are you going to get hitched?

Or try feeling tensed because you were left at your then bf's house (he lives with his parents). Then his dad comes home around 3pm..and after half hour knocks on his son's bedroom door (where I'm at) asking me if I have a cellphone reception inside the house (They got me on their family plan)? Opens the door wearing nothing but a towel? :evil:

~Kisses.

HTG

[Trogdor]

Well, having a babe that everyone drools over and the guys being jealous of ya ( as opposed to the other way around ) would be nice........

[Caleigh]

What wonderful is feeling like you have a trophy
bf/gf regardless of what others might think. To
feel like you are the luckiest person to be with this
person.

[south ov da border]

it seems like too much work on all ends. I'm good on that. I had a trophy girlfriend once, it didn't end up well...

[Ecstatic]

Like the Bearded [W]one[der], the closest I've come is being out to dinner or shopping with a gorgeous TG friend and watching other guys stare at us. The first time this happened was with a friend who literally could have been a body double for Linda Carter as Wonder Woman (almost 6' tall, stunning body, beautiful). There I was, 5'8" and over 50, and I could just tell that several guys who saw us wondered how I managed to be with her. That is a good feeling, no doubt.

[slinky]

I think the reverse is more often true: TS's with trophy BF's. But only because more guys wont' show off their TS GF's to friends no matter how beautiful they are.

But also, in a slightly different vein, I think TS's are less likely to date (not "date") guys who are less than "all that" than guys are to date TS's who are not "all that" because there is more pressure from other TS's in that area than guys. I've seen more guys who were "catches" dating TS's who were nice girls than TS's who were "catches" dating guys who are "nice guys".

[Willie Escalade]

I was out on a date with this particular girl. Believe me, I had a lot of stares...and they were most likely positive, since this girl I was with was (and still is) stunning. She was my trophy that night. Now we're just friends.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

The same can be said in most heterosexual relationships. We see goodlooking women or men date less attractive men or women. Just because the goodlooking men or women feel more secure and confident about their partner's loyalty and know they're a good catch. Therefore would think twice about cheating or leaving them for another man or woman (less temptaion=less stress). LOL

It may NOT always be TRUE but it's called settling for less in exchange for some peace of mind. ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

[Caleigh]

http://www.songlyrics.com/song-lyrics/Kid_Creole_And_The_Coconuts/Kid_Creole_Redux/If_You_Want_To_Be_Happy/64431.html

[alpha2117]

My last GF would of been classed as a Trophy girl I guess. Really spectacular big islander girl who was over 6ft. I didn't show her off - it was more a case of fending off jerks who seemed intent on ignoring my existance and hoping I was "just a freind".

[slinky]

I was dating a trophy girl about 4 years ago, but it's hard to explain how it wasn't exactly the same without saying too much.



Boy do I still miss her.

[LBCDO]

I was in a relationship with a "Trophy" GG girl for 3 years. The relationship was falling apart after a while and I just enjoyed everyone always saying "DAMN" every time we walked in a room. I never cheated in the whole 3 years, and the last couple months the sex sucked. Like im talking once every 2 weeks. We broke up she went another guy that beat her and depressed her and she lost all her looks and now looks like shit. But thats life...

I had a trophy TS GF that was 100% passable. She met my pop and my sister. My sister thought she was a stripper, I just said she was a model, LOL. My pop was like "Damn, can I hit that!"

[foolish99]

lucky enough to have dated two tgirls who were trophies.

both were beautiful and very passable I think.

with one girl, she was beautiful and somewhat exotic-looking but unless she was wearing high heels, she just looked like a very pretty latin girl. She dressed and acted pretty low-key. Heads turned when she walked into a room b/c she was pretty but she did not generate whispers. if she were a car, she would have been an Audi S8.

the other girl was stunning -- sexy -- a bombshell. Her appearance, demeanor, and dress immediately filled a room when she entered. She was incredibly curvy, always dressed fashionably and provocatively, always in high heels. Stunning. But I wsa much more self-conscious when I went out with her. People always stared, not because they thought she was a ts, but because they thought she was someone famous or a porn star or a stripper or a diva of some sort. if she were a car, she would have been a lamborghini.

overall, though I really loved being with the second girl and she and I shared a lot of the same interests and she was the sexiest thing I have ever seen --- the public attention always made me (pretty low-key) a little uncomfrtable.

(btw -- the second girl was great insofar as she started making me over (clothes, diet, workout routine, haircut) so I would measure up to her standards when we went out. It made a huge difference --- she had a real gift for it and I have always told her she should go into that business).

[CORVETTEDUDE]

MBF...You get the idea HJT is not into the "trophy" GF/BF thing?? :shrug

Look at my post #, told ya is was right behind ya!!

[mbf]

MBF...You get the idea HJT is not into the "trophy" GF/BF thing?? :shrug

Look at my post #, told ya is was right behind ya!!

well, two more and you ve broken the barrier too!