to the men - how many have had real ts relationships?

[joseph-ny]

gents...as i'm relatively new to this community, i'm wondering how many of you have had a real relationship with a ts. or has most of your time been primarily with escorts?

so far i've only been with a couple escorts but since joining HA my infatuation has been evolving and i am very interested in dating for true intimacy...

have any of you developed relationships with ladies from this site? or from parties you heard from here?

thanks mates!

[mofungo]

Hi Joseph-ny

Let me be the first to say that most people on this forum have never even seen a TGirl, let alone had a relationship with one. The "Certified tranny experts" are generally unemployed, overweight losers who sit in front of their computers all day, jerking off.

If you've been with a couple TG escorts, then that's two more TG escorts than most people on this forum have experienced.

This forum isn't much different to others; meaning, there is no truth here. This forum's full of racists, sexists, troglodytes, old men posing as young TGs, married men lying to their wives, trolls looking for free pictures...

All that grizzliness aside, there is gold here. The "hot hung angels" are always fantastic, and the moderators are great folk.

[mbf]

Hi Joseph-ny

meaning, there is no truth here. This forum's full of racists, sexists, troglodytes, old men posing as young TGs, married men lying to their wives, trolls looking for free pictures...



hey, no reason to sell yourself short mofungo !!!! :D

[For_You]

I have had a few girls that i have had on a reg. basis. never a public thing just something to get rocks off.

[bellamy]

I had a lond distance relationship with a girl once that lasted 3 or 4 months, and would have been longer but we lived so far apart.

[brickcitybrother]

I have ... but she seemed to be lured more by other opportunities. I wonder what would have been, but this is life and we all have to live it.

[Ecstatic]

gents...as i'm relatively new to this community, i'm wondering how many of you have had a real relationship with a ts. or has most of your time been primarily with escorts?
Neither, really: yes, I have been with tg escorts, and no, I have not been in a relationship with a ts. However, more of my time has been with tgirls as friends, not as lovers of either the paid or the romantic kind. There's more than sex, y'know....

[ConradG]

I was in a relationship with a tgirl for two years (it wasn't my first either); its no different from any other, you go out to dinner, the movies, shopping, you stay at home and do laundry, ironing etc etc, and you worry about infidelity, money, jobs, etc etc, unless you are unlucky and hit a girl who is dysfunctional and obsessed with having her body morphed, its really no different from any other relationship.

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

I was going to reply but nevermind

[Bluejay]

Threads like this help me towards my "Certified Expert" status lol!

Yes : 7.5yrs and still going strong!!

[whatsupwithat]

yep.

13.5 years. lived together. grew together. grew apart. no longer together. just friends. better that way. :)

now. dating someone new. making plans. and happy.

[TJ347]

gents...as i'm relatively new to this community, i'm wondering how many of you have had a real relationship with a ts. or has most of your time been primarily with escorts?

so far i've only been with a couple escorts but since joining HA my infatuation has been evolving and i am very interested in dating for true intimacy...

have any of you developed relationships with ladies from this site? or from parties you heard from here?

thanks mates!

I've dealt with a few escorts, and a few TG women I met here and there. I in no way present myself as an authority, but I do have some experience, albeit limited.

[mikejones]

I was in a relationship with a tgirl for two years (it wasn't my first either); its no different from any other, you go out to dinner, the movies, shopping, you stay at home and do laundry, ironing etc etc, and you worry about infidelity, money, jobs, etc etc, unless you are unlucky and hit a girl who is dysfunctional and obsessed with having her body morphed, its really no different from any other relationship.

Very true. When I first started dating my GF I thought wow, this will be a lot cheaper than seeing escorts. The reality is that I spend a lot more now, on tuition, books for school, rent, visits to the doctor, etc. But now I don't feel like I am wasting any money. I have a girl who truly loves me and I am helping her grow as a person. I don't see her every day as I am away working for weeks at a time. When we are together though, the best part is planning a meal and then going to the grocery store, or finding a new restaurant to check out and having a romantic dinner. Really just having a normal life.

[andyuk]

never been with a escort and never would.not knocking it,but just would not feel right.
never even kissed a ts,i do like 1 ts girl ,who i talk to,but i think we will only ever be friends as i doubt very much i"m her type and she is about to start seeing someone i believe,but still really value her friendship.
would i have ever date another ts who i meet in the future?not got a clue to be honest.

[francisfkudrow]

I had a ts "friend with benefits" for a while, but we just didn't have enough in common other than sex. She liked R&B and show tunes. I like industrial, alternative, and techno. She liked romantic comedies. I like action adventure and sci-fi. Ah well, it was an interesting experience.

[dc_guy_75]

I've dated many t-girls (with no issues going out in public whatsoever), the longest was for 1.5 years.

Unfortunatly, its very, very difficult meet an intellectual/educated tgirl around DC. I've looked, but what can you do? Maybe one day.

[Chuck]

I've dated many t-girls (with no issues going out in public whatsoever), the longest was for 1.5 years.

Unfortunatly, its very, very difficult meet an intellectual/educated tgirl around DC. I've looked, but what can you do? Maybe one day.

Sad but true. I live in Maryland right outside of DC, so I feel your pain.

I have been in two relationships over the last 13 years. One lasted 7 years the other lasted 4. I loved them both. Don't get mad at me PLEASE but transsexuls tend to be so damaged by all the shit they go through in life. The straight world will only accept them in the rarest of instances and they're treated like the stepchild of the gay community. Even the nice ones become so jaded by the time they hit 30 that's it's damn near impossible to develop a trusting relationship with her unless you share a history that goes way back.

Like I said, don't get offended. I love them to death but can you please find a preferred profession other than ESCORTING? Is that like a requisite for being a transsexual???? I think so much more of them than that.

[Shining Star]

I've dated many t-girls (with no issues going out in public whatsoever), the longest was for 1.5 years.

Unfortunatly, its very, very difficult meet an intellectual/educated tgirl around DC. I've looked, but what can you do? Maybe one day.

Sad but true. I live in Maryland right outside of DC, so I feel your pain.

I have been in two relationships over the last 13 years. One lasted 7 years the other lasted 4. I loved them both. Don't get mad at me PLEASE but transsexuls tend to be so damaged by all the shit they go through in life. The straight world will only accept them in the rarest of instances and they're treated like the stepchild of the gay community. Even the nice ones become so jaded by the time they hit 30 that's it's damn near impossible to develop a trusting relationship with her unless you share a history that goes way back.

Like I said, don't get offended. I love them to death but can you please find a preferred profession other than ESCORTING? Is that like a requisite for being a transsexual???? I think so much more of them than that.Don't think escorting is the "preferred" profession of many TS girls, just the career choice of least resistance.

It takes allot of nerve, courage and guts to put one's self out there 24/7 as "female" and then spend those same hours trying hard to "pass", and the while wondering if you really are. Been there and done that and am here to tell you it is NOT fun.

Think the girls today, especially the young ones see what is going on in the community and go with it, and of course there are some with the mentality of why should they slog their guts out making $400 or so a week (if lucky), when they can make that much per hour hoeing.

[TJ347]

Don't get mad at me PLEASE but transsexuls tend to be so damaged by all the shit they go through in life... Even the nice ones become so jaded by the time they hit 30 that's it's damn near impossible to develop a trusting relationship with her unless you share a history that goes way back.

True, in my experience, all around. Once they've escorted, you're hard pressed to have a relationship with them, either because they're still escorting, making it hard on you emotionally, or because they're so anti-men, making it harder on you in the same respect.

Of course, there are exceptions I am aware of, such as Allanah. However, I would tend to think this is a rarity based on my personal experiences, which I have already acknowledged previously are not what I would call extensive by any means.

[PatrickFromNYC]

Yes, two different girls. One for 6 months and one for a year. Both ended badly but most relationships do.

[whatsupwithat]

I have been in two relationships over the last 13 years. One lasted 7 years the other lasted 4. I loved them both. Don't get mad at me PLEASE but transsexuls tend to be so damaged by all the shit they go through in life. The straight world will only accept them in the rarest of instances and they're treated like the stepchild of the gay community. Even the nice ones become so jaded by the time they hit 30 that's it's damn near impossible to develop a trusting relationship with her unless you share a history that goes way back.



A lot of truth in what you said. I can totally relate having seen what you stated time and time again. Thanks for being open and honest about it.

[mbf]

this ole me.....

lasted for roughly a year. she was a drama queen supreme. but when we made up it was always a fuck-fest.

but I never had it goin on with an escort.

wait, my ts-gf WAS an escort, but didnt tell me bout it - great stuff ey? :twisted: :roll:

a second one was a fuck-buddy and friend. she moved to another town so contact is im-yahooed.

[BiGuy4TS]

I've had two fairly serious TG girl friends. Neither were from here or any online forum for that matter. Met both at a club near where I live.

[qeuqheeg222]

i had my first tg girlfriend for about two years but couldnt get her to really commit beyond a "certain" level-she wouldnt move away from her honduran crack head ex husband because she knew he had no where to go so she always had him to at least keep her company..like someone said above,keepin afloat above the issues and such is really hard in these types of relationships...i had another for 5 yrs off and on -much drama and some serious fuckin but i stiill love her but cant be with her anymore..once again the issues and the ever present urge to go the escort route..ah what can you do?..

[Tail Gunner]

I actually had a date this past Friday night, she was not an escort just someone I ran into. The date was a bit of a mess since she had to work later than expected (floral artist for weddings) and on top of that I was late so by the time I got there, which was close to twelve she was quite tired. Had some wine that I brought and talked a bit. Very nice girl and hope to meet with her again.

[alpha2117]

I've had a few girlfreinds over the years. Not much difference between a t and a gg to tell the truth. My last gf was great fun but like a lot of girls very, very demanding and a bit self absorbed. That said i'm probably exactly the same.

[joseph-ny]

thanks for all the interesting feedback and comments...wondering, for those that have dates ts, do your friends and family know about them? were there any extremely negative reactions? hopefully everyone was very understanding but we don't live in a perfect world.

[TJT]

It matters what you call a relationship. I've been friends with one TG for nearly 30 years but we've had sex twice in that time.

Screwed around with? A decent number.

Escorts? 1 and that's been years ago. She had nice sized fake boobs showing beneath her blouse and I wanted to see 'em up close and personal.

Dated? 3-4.

Friends? Quite a number,but due to AIDS and other factors most are long gone

[TrueBeauty TS]

Friends? Quite a number,but due to AIDS and other factors most are long gone


That's sad. :cry:




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[Ecstatic]

Sorry to hear that, TJT. Very sad.

[alphanumeric]

I've known three girls, whom I was very close to but could never truly describe as a "real" relationship. They had their share of problems that I tried to help them with but in the end didn't really do much for any of them, and now I'm stuck here in BC missing them all terribly.

[TJT]

Thanks TB & Estatic.

My age group were the ones that got caught by the emergence of AIDS.