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joseph-ny
09-21-2007, 06:15 AM
what do you think? i've never been in a relationship with a t-girl but fantasize about being in one for numerous reasons - i'd love to be real intimate and get close, i'd love to swallow (never have), i'd love to suck her cock every night...but, i've never bottomed...

would you consider a relationship with a guy who wouldn't bottom for you if he pleased you in every other way?

T5000
09-21-2007, 06:27 AM
what do you think? i've never been in a relationship with a t-girl but fantasize about being in one for numerous reasons - i'd love to be real intimate and get close, i'd love to swallow (never have), i'd love to suck her cock every night...but, i've never bottomed...

would you consider a relationship with a guy who wouldn't bottom for you if he pleased you in every other way?No you don't have to bottom. i don"t bottom and my girl actually prefer's that i dont because she considers bottoms as sissy's. I know a few other girls who are this way as well. So don't worry. Your ass is safe ;)

Hara_Juku Tgirl
09-21-2007, 06:56 AM
would you consider a relationship with a guy who wouldn't bottom for you if he pleased you in every other way?

Most tgirls would want to feel like a real woman. So guys who only want to be "TOPS" i.e. the penetrator..makes us feel the women that we are! Then again, being open and uninhibited inside the bedroom and doing some "role reversal" from time to time wouldnt hurt. Hehe.. :wink:

~Kisses.

HTG

mbf
09-21-2007, 09:00 AM
most certainly NOT. what you see in TS-porn (TS impaling helpless guys)is, like any movie, mainly a product of fiction.

although, even with very fem TS-girls you might be surprised after some time of a working relationship her wishes regarding sexual-pleasure - may - include a bit of role-reversing every now and then. :twisted: 8)

Ecstatic
09-21-2007, 05:19 PM
Definitely not. Most transwomen, as Hara points out, prefer to receive than to penetrate (though with occasional reversals for some). A percentage are either truly versatile or even prefer to/are exclusively top, but your ass, as T5000 says, is safe.

hwbs
09-21-2007, 05:59 PM
they are messing with u ....its a sacred ritual like joining a fraternity...be prepared to walk funny 4 a couple weeks , lmao

joseph-ny
09-21-2007, 06:20 PM
hmmm...quite a varied response albeit only a few...i guess if it really comes down to it and i'm intimate with a ts-girlfriend i would be willing to try anything if it pleases her.

i'd really like to be able to meet some ts girls socially but don't know where to go. those parties seem like it would be impossible to try and actually meet meet someone considering all the dudes gawking and lusting after the hot girls. i am looking forward to going to my first party sometime soon though...

as i'm sure many on the site would, i'd love to just go on a date with a ts and even just make out...i've actually never made out with a ts. sadly, my only experience has been with an escort.

MonsieurValentine
09-21-2007, 06:47 PM
Take it like a...

Vicki Richter
09-21-2007, 08:40 PM
I can tell by your responses you are masterbating right now thinking about it. When you said, "I would want to do anything to please her", I knew exactly where your head was. You basically want to think you would say no, but you masterbate to saying yes...

"but but but... I'm not a bottom.." - you

"too bad, you take it you little fag boy" - random TS

"but I'm not gay... I don't want cock in my ass. I am a virgin" - you
(note that for the fantasy guys will say this even after being fucked 100 times and sticking bowling pins up their asses - are you reading this ValaTS?)

"shut up and take it" - random TS

It's an old story.

I think most TS prefer to bottom. Again I will say most... However, I know girls like Holly Sweet and Jessie who seem to prefer to top.

TrueBeauty TS
09-21-2007, 08:51 PM
what do you think? i've never been in a relationship with a t-girl but fantasize about being in one for numerous reasons - i'd love to be real intimate and get close, i'd love to swallow (never have), i'd love to suck her cock every night...but, i've never bottomed...

would you consider a relationship with a guy who wouldn't bottom for you if he pleased you in every other way?


Don't listen to what anyone else says. There are rules for having a relationship with a TS. Here are just some of the most important ones I got from www.gov.sex/ts/rules.org

1. You MUST bottom.

2. You must always swallow. (Please don't choke, it shows inexperience.)

3. You must be willing to "take it" any way the girl wants you to. Even bareback. No crying.

4. You have to make sure that her pleasure is more important than yours.

5. The male must always be submissive in all sexual acts, unless otherwise deemed by said transsexual.


These are not opinions. They are established rules & laws that can be found on most goverenment websites, although I don't know if I agree with all of them. The were established by a panel of experts.



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redtiger
09-21-2007, 09:15 PM
Are you sure that wasn't the IRS (not TS) homepage you got those rules off of? :lol:

ts lola
09-21-2007, 10:29 PM
actually i do not see a guy being more feminine cause he bottoms or a ts being more masculine cause she is a top that is so passe to think like that....
i just think whatever floats your boat .....i know that for me if i had a relationship which i am not into .....but if i would be i would have to fuck my man on the regular ......

biguy4tvtscd
09-22-2007, 01:34 AM
These are not opinions. They are established rules & laws that can be found on most goverenment websites, although I don't know if I agree with all of them. The were established by a panel of experts.

And don't forget, those "experts" are really just jack-booted thugs who will taser your ass in a heartbeat if you don't follow that list to a T.

That's all they know how to do, cause it's what their superiors tell them.

youcancallmeclaire
09-22-2007, 01:35 AM
These are not opinions. They are established rules & laws that can be found on most goverenment websites, although I don't know if I agree with all of them. The were established by a panel of experts.

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This made me lol.
I loves this fucked up place.

cockcraver
09-22-2007, 01:36 AM
i think tgirls prefer to be submissive but i personally like to be dominant myself but if u pay u can be what u want!!!

mikejones
09-22-2007, 01:48 AM
I think most prefer bottoming. I've only had one girl ask to top me. In my experience if you treat the girl like a woman she will respond like one.

62des
09-22-2007, 05:52 AM
what do you think? i've never been in a relationship with a t-girl but fantasize about being in one for numerous reasons - i'd love to be real intimate and get close, i'd love to swallow (never have), i'd love to suck her cock every night...but, i've never bottomed...

would you consider a relationship with a guy who wouldn't bottom for you if he pleased you in every other way?


Don't listen to what anyone else says. There are rules for having a relationship with a TS. Here are just some of the most important ones I got from www.gov.sex/ts/rules.org

1. You MUST bottom.

2. You must always swallow. (Please don't choke, it shows inexperience.)

3. You must be willing to "take it" any way the girl wants you to. Even bareback. No crying.

4. You have to make sure that her pleasure is more important than yours.

5. The male must always be submissive in all sexual acts, unless otherwise deemed by said transsexual.


These are not opinions. They are established rules & laws that can be found on most goverenment websites, although I don't know if I agree with all of them. The were established by a panel of experts.



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WTF!!?? Is this a fucking joke! lol

SXFX
09-22-2007, 06:34 AM
No you don't have to bottom!
But you do have to cook, clean and take them shopping on every day that ends in a Y!
And on sundaY you do have to bring them breakfast in bead and comb their hair while they watch the Oxygen chanel.

justatransgirl
09-22-2007, 07:15 AM
Thank you TB - good rules... :-)

If you are paying me, it's your party honey, whatever you want is my pleasure.

Otherwise don't even think about me topping you, it won't happen. I'm a girl who loves greek and I have a cock so ignore it, roll me over spread my legs and fuck my tight ass until your cock can't take any more!

If there are any REAL MEN out there - you know how to reach me.

Please bring your wallet.

Giggle,
TS Jamie :-)

mbf
09-22-2007, 09:01 AM
i just think whatever floats your boat .....i know that for me if i had a relationship which i am not into .....but if i would be i would have to fuck my man on the regular ......

poor ts lola. her pm box is brimming right now ....

slinky
09-22-2007, 11:10 AM
what do you think? i've never been in a relationship with a t-girl but fantasize about being in one for numerous reasons - i'd love to be real intimate and get close, i'd love to swallow (never have), i'd love to suck her cock every night...but, i've never bottomed...

would you consider a relationship with a guy who wouldn't bottom for you if he pleased you in every other way?


Don't listen to what anyone else says. There are rules for having a relationship with a TS. Here are just some of the most important ones I got from www.gov.sex/ts/rules.org

1. You MUST bottom.

2. You must always swallow. (Please don't choke, it shows inexperience.)

3. You must be willing to "take it" any way the girl wants you to. Even bareback. No crying.

4. You have to make sure that her pleasure is more important than yours.

5. The male must always be submissive in all sexual acts, unless otherwise deemed by said transsexual.


These are not opinions. They are established rules & laws that can be found on most goverenment websites, although I don't know if I agree with all of them. The were established by a panel of experts.



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Are you usually this funny? I appolise for not having noticed before.

slinky
09-22-2007, 11:12 AM
..i know that for me if i had a relationship which i am not into .....but if i would be i would have to fuck my man on the regular ......

I read this 5 times and still can't figure it out.

TrueBeauty TS
09-22-2007, 11:37 AM
what do you think? i've never been in a relationship with a t-girl but fantasize about being in one for numerous reasons - i'd love to be real intimate and get close, i'd love to swallow (never have), i'd love to suck her cock every night...but, i've never bottomed...

would you consider a relationship with a guy who wouldn't bottom for you if he pleased you in every other way?


Don't listen to what anyone else says. There are rules for having a relationship with a TS. Here are just some of the most important ones I got from www.gov.sex/ts/rules.org

.

Are you usually this funny? I appolise for not having noticed before.


Thanks! :) I just wonder how many people actually clicked on the link. lol


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joseph-ny
09-22-2007, 01:03 PM
i appreciate all the feedback...and vicki, i did masterbate after reading your comment fantasizing about you (lol)! i guess truthfully, i've never been anally fixated, but i've also never dated a ts so it's never been brought up with any of my girlfriends.

and i have absolutely no issue about being called gay if some hot hot ts like yourself were to fuck me in the ass. in fact if some super hottie were to give it to me, i wouldn't care what anyone calls me...however, i am not attracted to men but beautiful ts is a completely different story.

this is a somewhat new fascination for me and i simply cannot wait to a) suck a cock and swallow b) lose my ass virginity c) date a ts!

ts lola
09-22-2007, 04:35 PM
well danny partridge i just mean that i am not into relationships ...never had never will ,they are just not for me but if i would be in one,i dont think i could bottom for a boyfriend since i am a 100% top.....but hey, thats just me.....i just love fucking.....

mbf
09-22-2007, 09:13 PM
I just wonder how many people actually clicked on the link. lol


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everyone did

after all, its from the government, and anything comin from the government is good!!!

anything, but not their servers. the sudden popularity of that site made their puters crash on a reg basis, so nobody cant access it now :( :( :(

tomorrow is sunday, let us all pray in church that this problem will be handled

Ponyboy
09-26-2007, 01:02 PM
When I have met a TS I always say 'I'll do what you want' - sometimes this leads to 69, and once I met one who wanted to bottom. I also met one who liked frotage.

But every other time, I have had to give them a blow job then take it up the ass - and there have been lots like this.

You obviously can't generalise - and part of it will come down to what your personality brings out in her. Also what are your best physical attributes? If you have a big dick she might want to suck you. If you have a tight curvy ass, she will possibly want to fuck you.

I have met many dominant TS. This does not undermine their femininity - just think of those female dominatrixs, school teachers, etc.

If I have spotted a trend it is that those early in the transition are keen to emphasise their femininity and will be willing to bottom. Those further into the transition phase, prefer to give pain rather than take it. And those who have had so many hormones that it effects their erection will want to bottom.

Has anyone else had similar observations?

BBaggins06
09-26-2007, 05:21 PM
These are not opinions. They are established rules & laws that can be found on most goverenment websites, although I don't know if I agree with all of them. The were established by a panel of experts.


Now that's just mean. :)

Bigshot88
03-05-2013, 03:32 PM
I can tell by your responses you are masterbating right now thinking about it. When you said, "I would want to do anything to please her", I knew exactly where your head was. You basically want to think you would say no, but you masterbate to saying yes...

"but but but... I'm not a bottom.." - you

"too bad, you take it you little fag boy" - random TS

"but I'm not gay... I don't want cock in my ass. I am a virgin" - you
(note that for the fantasy guys will say this even after being fucked 100 times and sticking bowling pins up their asses - are you reading this ValaTS?)

"shut up and take it" - random TS

It's an old story.

I think most TS prefer to bottom. Again I will say most... However, I know girls like Holly Sweet and Jessie who seem to prefer to top.

this is awfully judgmental for someone in the porn industry, isn't it? If the guy is masturbating to the responses, daydreaming about being called a faggot, he's really only guilty of the same sort of thing you seem to desire above all else. Why do you have to look down on him for it? I can understand your disillusionment as you suffer from the catch 22 most trans women suffer from. Men wanting to touch and please a part of your body that makes you repulsed by them. Try to remember that just like yourself, they can't control what their wants are. Show some compassion.

MrsKellyPierce
03-05-2013, 03:44 PM
Umm no...

I honestly care more about the guys personality and how he treats me and acts...

I don't care if he is a bottom or a top...as long as I cum at the end of the day...

My husband is a top...first top I've ever been in a relationship with..all my others were bottoms..but that was their choice..

nysprod
03-05-2013, 03:53 PM
Umm no...

I honestly care more about the guys personality and how he treats me and acts...

I don't care if he is a bottom or a top...as long as I cum at the end of the day...

My husband is a top...first top I've ever been in a relationship with..all my others were bottoms..but that was their choice..

Kelly, I think you and Mason have a very unique situation...I can't a see that there wouldn't be a cable station out there somewhere who wouldn't do a reality series with you guys...

MrsKellyPierce
03-05-2013, 03:57 PM
Kelly, I think you and Mason have a very unique situation...I can't a see that there wouldn't be a cable station out there somewhere who wouldn't do a reality series with you guys...
I would be for that :P

I have nothing to hide.

nysprod
03-05-2013, 04:04 PM
I would be for that :P

I have nothing to hide.

Have you guys ever thought about it?

elchingon8
03-05-2013, 11:12 PM
I LOL'd especially after reading the first post. It's all a personal preference. My gf would never top and I would never want her to. If I was a total bottom the relationship would definitely not work. But some girls are 100% tops. All depends on the person

serial138
03-07-2013, 01:41 AM
Holy necro thread Batman!

robertlouis
03-07-2013, 03:00 AM
Nope.