Kinda quiet in here

[hondarobot]

Hey, what happened to the great people who use to post regularily? Felicia, Ecstatic, Vicki, Gia, Hillbilly, One World, among others?

I haven't been here that long, but with this Adult Transexual Awards idea in the mix, seems to me like a good time to blab about things. We could really do some good by exchanging some ideas right now.



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[joyboy123]

Hey, what happened to the great people who use to post regularily? Felicia, Ecstatic, Vicki, Gia, Hillbilly, One World, among others?

I haven't been here that long, but with this Adult Transexual Awards idea in the mix, seems to me like a good time to blab about things. We could really do some good by exchanging some ideas right now.



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Yeah, more talk would be good. My "submit" finger is worn out from posting 8)

[hondarobot]

I agree, let's get over the past and get on with the future.

[Felicia Katt]

I'll post if there is an ongoing discussion, but for the last week or so, the only active threads have been about pictures. I have nothing against guys looking at pictures, especially mine, but it doesn't really invite a lot of debate or rebuttal.

Having said that, I'm glad someone decided a few words were worth more than some more new pictures :)

Felicia

[hondarobot]

Hey Felecia, good to hear from you :)

What's your views on this Adult Transexual Awards thing?

It's a post higher up, but I'm sure you have some cool input on this whole thing.

[Chica]

yep the reason was 100% true by felicia... how are we gonna reply to a picture? lol... people making more conversations would boost the non picture posts... don't you think there's enough? lol

[canihavu]

I'll post if there is an ongoing discussion, but for the last week or so, the only active threads have been about pictures. I have nothing against guys looking at pictures, especially mine, but it doesn't really invite a lot of debate or rebuttal.

Having said that, I'm glad someone decided a few words were worth more than some more new pictures :)

Felicia

What do you guys wanna talk about. I am always down for a good discussion...

[Ironhead]

I have to agree. I'm loving the pic posts, but there's just been nothing posted worth discussion. I love the psychological analysis and debate on here, it's one of the things that drew me here originally. Being fairly new to the whole she-male world, I have a limited amount of knowledge to enter the lists with, but I'm more than willing to throw some good old opinions out there for everyone to dissect :lol:

[Ecstatic]

I've been thinking the same. Also I've been very busy lately: working with clients, interviewing potential contracts, photo editing (both for a local client and for a website in the works)...oh yeah, and taxes. Plus as Felicia said, most of the posts have been pics, no real dialogue for a while. Anyway, I'll bet things will pick up next week after taxes are behind us.

[LG]

Well, I for one am back, and I presume everyone is overjoyed about that. I've promised myself I'll be spending my time usefully from now on, so you'll be seeing fewer posts from me.

Can't think of anything controversial to discuss. Those kind of discussions often get out of hand anyway (a discussion supposedly on spelling became a flame war, and others have featured far too many unconstructive and often personal insults). It seems humans cannot have a civilized dicussion.

Trying to get the ball rolling for an attempt at a civilised debate, I'll ask a a few questions:

Guys: What do you want from Tgirls? Is it the cock? If so, does size matter? Is it more than that? Is it more than just sexual? Is it cause you're fed up with regular girls? Is it because tgirls make more of an effort? Please discuss, honestly.

And girls: What do you really want from us guys?

As for me, I'm not sure what it is. Maybe it's the overall package. What I do know is that I'd date Allanah or Gia in a second if I could.

Would I marry a tgirl? Maybe, if I found the right one. What about everyone else?

[Ironhead]

I guess I'll get the ball rolling with your questionaire ;)



Guys: What do you want from Tgirls?>
I guess I want the same thing any guy wants from any relationship; initial physical attraction leading to a more serious commitment and attraction because of personality and character.

Is it the cock?>
Here online or in porn, yes, I'd say it is. I like girls with big cocks. But, I like GGs too, and would never rule out dating someone because their physical attributes might not be what I think are perfect.

If so, does size matter?>
Again, yes, but not substantially. I mean, if I had to make a choice between 2 equally stunning, intelligent women, I'm taking the one who's hung, yes. But, otherwise, there are more important factors that go into the decision.

Is it more than that? Is it more than just sexual? Is it cause you're fed up with regular girls? Is it because tgirls make more of an effort? Please discuss, honestly. >
In my case, no, it's not that I'm fed up with regular girls; I'm just attracted to she-males, as well. I'm a big guy, an ex-jock that stays in pretty good shape and do pretty well with the ladies. I've never felt I was attractive, though so I tend to be drawn to the women who are picking my brain right from the start. I definitely go for the sensual, uninhibited type, but I want a thinking, feeling person behind there and I seem to find it more often in she-males. Maybe it's because their life situations have prepared them better to look inside those around them, maybe it's just wanting to be a better partner, whatever it is they seem to have it.

[Ecstatic]

I've answered this question many a time. As a bisexual male who is deeply attracted to beautiful women but who also loves cock, a beautiful Tgirl is the ultimate partner for me, sexually speaking. On the surface level--that is, not yet knowing the person--I'm attracted to beauty and orientation: I want a girl to look, feel, and--as much as possible--sound female, while being both horny and versatile. I love breasts, but want them proportionate to a girl's body and hopefully soft enough to feel real. Smooth, soft skin is great. But beauty is first among physical traits.

The size of her cock isn't all that important, but I do like it hard and I love a girl who wants to and knows how to use it. 6"-8", not too thick, is ideal for me as a bottom; more than that (say, over 6.5" thick) is probably too much. But I'll very happily go down on a big cock; I once had one over 12" long and gods, maybe 8" or more around: great oral session. I love being both top and bottom, so I like the same in a girl; if she's top only or strongly prefers topping, that's totally fine with me, so if I had to choose a girl who's either top or bottom, I'd go for top.

Of course, that's all the surface, as I say. What I value most is getting to know a girl, becoming friends to whatever degree circumstances allow. So I prize personality, intelligence, diverse interests, the ability to make me feel that I matter to her, at least while we're together. Chemistry. Conversation. Cuddling.

Hmm, I of course took your question sexually in terms of "what I want from a Tgirl" as a sexual partner. But I also really do value friendships and conversations with Tgirls who are not looking for a sexual liaison, but want to be accepted for who they are and to cultivate friendship, dialog, understanding with others. So it's not just sexual for me at all; it depends upon the girl and what she wants. For instance, here on HA I greatly enjoy conversing with Felicia and Caleigh, who I think are wonderful people that I am proud to know, at least in this limited capacity. Sex certainly doesn't have to be part of the equation (though being a horny guy I always love the opportunity, lol).

[gaiseric]

As I seem to be having my own small posting frenzy tonight' I'll give you my reasons for liking t-girls.

What do I want from a Tgirl - If I'm visiting an escort, I just want to be spoilt by the sort of girl I adore which more often than not is an asian TS. Ultimately I suppose I want a lasting relationship which is hopefully happening with a Malaysian TS, wish me luck.
Is it the cock - initially yes because I find the whole thing fascinating. As I get to know the lady, it's not so important. I think of my lady as a beautiful woman first and a stunning ts second.
Is size important - Not to that extent. I know one escort who has a lovely 8 inch cock which is great for sucking but I tend to go for Asian TS's and most of them that I have met have smaller cocks.
Why am I attracted to Tgirls. Difficult to say - I have been interested in TS's for about 15 years but only started to do anything about it last year. The first time I was with a TS it was not only a great experience but it felt that it was the most natural thing in the world to be doing. Because of that I don't have any worries such as 'should I be doing this' or 'is this right' etc. I just take it as the direction life is guiding me and leave it at that.

[hondarobot]

hehe, I'd be careful with this thread, guys. It's the kinda thing, if you're in a relationship or become involved in one, the girl will find this, print it out, fold it up and keep in her underwear drawer to potentially use as ammunition later.

Girl: "Oh, so from what you wrote, apparently you only love me for my cock! You wouldn't love me if I had a pussy?!"

Guy: "Uh, yes. . . I mean no! Shit! I mean. . . I'd love you either way!"

Girl: "So you don't care if I have a cock or not?! It doesn't mean anything to you?!"

Guy: "I. . .ahhh. . . have I ever told you how pretty you are when you're mad?"

:evil: SLAP!!! :shock:

Guy: "Yah, ok, the couch will be fine for a few days. . .I kinda like sleeping on the couch sometimes. . ."

Girl: "Now you're saying you don't want to sleep with me anymore!!!"

Guy: "Groan."

hehehe. . .

[Ecstatic]

See, for all who doubt, they really are women after all! Ain't no way you're going to survive that argument, let alone win it. :twisted:

Of course, in my case, my woman (wife) may think that I wish she had a cock....oops, now I'm in trouble....got a spare blanket for the couch? :)

[canihavu]

I'll answer that question like this:


I love tgirls for THE DICK. I love to suck it, play with it, stroke it. Now over the years, I have know many tgirls and GG's who were very nice, easy to talk to and were great friends and whatnot, but the question was not, "why do I like females?" or "why do I like the opposite sex?". Like I said, I like tgirls for THE DICK. Why did I used to go downstairs at Show World in NYC when it was open? To see WOMEN WITH DICKS. Why did I go to SALLY's II?? Because I knew WOMEN WITH DICKS hung out there.

[Mugai_hentaisha]

See, for all who doubt, they really are women after all! Ain't no way you're going to survive that argument, let alone win it. :twisted:

Of course, in my case, my woman (wife) may think that I wish she had a cock....oops, now I'm in trouble....got a spare blanket for the couch? :)

Nope Ecstatic but your in luck my Girlfriend and I just finished repairing a doghouse your welcome to it :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
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When posed with questions such as the ones forementioned i respond with, "Hey baby I love you plain and simple.......now get in there and bake me a pizza!." :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: