Let's Bring This Tranny Chasing and Gay Thing to a Head

[dafame]

I'm sure there are a number of people that are tired of this whole (Tranny Chaser) debate, but I have a few things that I want to get off my chest about this topic and feel that they deserved there own post. I was having a conversation about this with my girlfriend recently (who happens to be a ts). Some of the things that she said amazed me because I know that many girls that I've talked to share her feelings on what a "Tranny Chaser" is or better yet what warrents one to classify a man as "being gay". I know there are so many different explainations of Chaserism but hers explaination was anyone who strictly dates and attempts to meet transsexuals for the purpose of relationship, sex, or otherwise. Huh? So my question was "Then if I was never exposed to transsexualism and therefore never established an attraction to "the girls", does this then mean that I would be considered a "cunt" (as she calls genetic females) chaser. Well I never got an answer to that question and was hoping that maybe some of the girls could chime in on that one. In continuing the conversation I learned that I'm gay and that most of the other guys that she's been with on a personal level have not been. She says that I'm gay for two reasons. One, because I have stimulated her penis either by touching it or orally (which she asked me to do), and two (and this is the main reason) because she's not the first girl that I've been with. Now this statement perplexed me simply because the guys that she was referring to all knew that she had a dick. I'm a man that is attracted to nothing but femininity, but obviously there has to be some attraction (or we can even say tolarance) to dick otherwise there would be no way that I could stick my dick in my girl, kiss my girl, eat my girls ass, etc... Someone please correct me if I'm wrong on this but transsexuals were born as someones "babyboy" at least in appearance the same as we were right fellas. Now I don't mind the label if you want to slap it on me but how could you say that there are other men that you've been with that don't deserve the label. If there is any man that would get an erection from and subsequently penetrate a transsexual knowing that she has a penis (regaldless to whether or not he touched it), he would have to be gay as well right? As a black man I have been exposed to bigottry and discrimination first hand. When you yourself have been have suffered this you sometimes grow an appreciation for people that have had similiar experiences and you find it difficult to discriminate people who have had similiar experiences. This is why I believe that other members of the gay community sometimes have a negative view of transsexuals. Through my experience in dealing with transsexuals of determined that many (but not all) transsexuals view themselves as being something other than gay. Which may infact be true, but based on the simple fact that they were born with penises and that "Society" views them as being gay, you would think that these same transsexuals wouldn't view themselves as not only something other than gay but "above gay". I say that because many transsexuals that I known or dated have expressed the same sentiment that they don't want a gay man. They want a man that has never been with a transsexual and would never be with one after them. Seems a little bit fantasy land to me but maybe there are men out there like that. But doesn't it make you beg the question "if he's been with you, then on some level is that not what you have".

[mikejones]

Well put dafame. The negative attitude that some Tgirls take towards men who like them is baffling. It's like GGs finding guys who are only into GGs distasteful.

Granted, some men are rude and obnoxious and deserve to be ignored. But it is troubling to think that gentleman who are attracted to Tgirls start out with two strikes against them with some girls.

[sparky357153]

I don't think of my self as a tranny chaser! Nor am I gay! I'll eat pussy or suck dick . It doesn't matter which, as long as it belongs to a totally hot girl! T-girls ARE girls! If it walks like a duck, talks like a duck, it IS a duck. I do prefer t-girls simply because they are (to me) a rare find. I talk to hot g-girls all the time at the gym,store, etc.

[Bandyspring]

Well put. It's baffled me as well as I've read through the forums. Certain people's attitudes just don't make sense to me. Where tolerance and a lack of name calling would seem to be the best way to handle some issues and stances, they just don't seem to be practiced.

[TomSelis]

Well man, all I'm going to say is: Welcome to the board. Transexuals have fantasies just like guys do. A trans scoring a guy that has no idea she is a trans is like the ultimate rush, because it says she's arrived at the pinnacle of femininity. It's also an element of danger.

The second thing I'm going to say is: Never ask anyone about your sexuality.

Third: Loved the analogy of black people and trans.

Last: Yes, break your post up into paragraphs. Lots of good stuff in there, but hard to read.

[tsntx]

Well put dafame. The negative attitude that some Tgirls take towards men who like them is baffling. It's like GGs finding guys who are only into GGs distasteful.

Granted, some men are rude and obnoxious and deserve to be ignored. But it is troubling to think that gentleman who are attracted to Tgirls start out with two strikes against them with some girls.

this whole topic is so tired, stupid, and absurd.. mike alluded to it but didnt dig deep enough...

the only guys that have the right to be pissy when girls call guys "chasers" or "fags" or "insert derogatory name here" are the guys that live up to those names...

guys that only date women ts or gg are NOT chasers

a chaser, fag, etc is a guy who will take dick wherever he can get it
a chaser, fag, etc is a guy who sees cock first and the girl second
a chaser, fag, etc is a guy who is married or in a relationship w/ a woman and chases escorts and girls online around
a chaser, fag, etc is a guy who lives in a fantasy world that he never intends on fufilling
a chaser, fag, etc is a guy that will use a line on girl a and when it fails he will turn to the girl b who watched the first one shoot him down and use it on her as well and so on and so on (this applies online too, dont think that bc you live in kentucky and i live in tx and girl b lives in new york that me and girl b dont compare notes... were a small family and we protect, share our secrets, and warn each other like a small family should)
there are more things that could be said but ill leave it at that... for now.

i dont see why guys that are really looking for a ts gf get offended by this topic at the girls... its the guys giving yall a bad rap that yall should be pissed off at... if youre a good guy and genuinely looking for a gf... eventually a girl will see that... and if she doesnt... then shes either not looking for a bf or your approach is all wrong

[mikejones]

Well put dafame. The negative attitude that some Tgirls take towards men who like them is baffling. It's like GGs finding guys who are only into GGs distasteful.

Granted, some men are rude and obnoxious and deserve to be ignored. But it is troubling to think that gentleman who are attracted to Tgirls start out with two strikes against them with some girls.

this whole topic is so tired, stupid, and absurd.. mike alluded to it but didnt dig deep enough...

the only guys that have the right to be pissy when girls call guys "chasers" or "fags" or "insert derogatory name here" are the guys that live up to those names...

guys that only date women ts or gg are NOT chasers

a chaser, fag, etc is a guy who will take dick wherever he can get it
a chaser, fag, etc is a guy who sees cock first and the girl second
a chaser, fag, etc is a guy who is married or in a relationship w/ a woman and chases escorts and girls online around
a chaser, fag, etc is a guy who lives in a fantasy world that he never intends on fufilling
a chaser, fag, etc is a guy that will use a line on girl a and when it fails he will turn to the girl b who watched the first one shoot him down and use it on her as well and so on and so on (this applies online too, dont think that bc you live in kentucky and i live in tx and girl b lives in new york that me and girl b dont compare notes... were a small family and we protect, share our secrets, and warn each other like a small family should)
there are more things that could be said but ill leave it at that... for now.

i dont see why guys that are really looking for a ts gf get offended by this topic at the girls... its the guys giving yall a bad rap that yall should be pissed off at... if youre a good guy and genuinely looking for a gf... eventually a girl will see that... and if she doesnt... then shes either not looking for a bf or your approach is all wrong


OK, fair enough. Thanks for the clarification.

[PatrickFromNYC]

The "chaser" term is WELL deserved. These girls aren't stupid!!! A lot of NYC guys tell some of the NYC TS's that they are looking for a GF. They will date the girls, buy them dinner and drinks, treat them nicely and have sex with them. But if they run into the same girl when they are with their "football" buddies they will avoid them or act like they don't know them....I know two girls who told me the same story as above and they were deeply hurt...Who wouldn't be?

[Alex99]

Seems kind of like a self-hate attitude for some people. If you are raised thinking being gay is repulsive or pathetic, and come to think of being transexual as not being a guy attracted to men, but a woman being attracted to men, it's easier to discriminate against gays. You see this sometimes with guys, for instance, who come, or are pushed, out of the closet. Sometimes their "straight" persona was very homophobic or even offencive towards gays.

On the other hand, a lot of people just don't like people who are promiscuous. A lot of guys out there are "players." Nobody wants their boyfriend or girlfriend sleeping around with other people behind their back if they are seriously trying to be in a relationship, it defeats a lot of the purpose, not to mention it's easy to catch diseases. That's the main reason I'm hesitant when it comes to a relationship, and I think that goes for a lot of people.

Just a thought.

[BrendaQG]

TSNTX had it right.

@Alex

Your way off. Us ts's who like men want men who see us as women in every way. Chasers and gay men do not.

In fact Alex gay men usually pose the question the way you did. :-?

[Luna555]

this whole topic is so tired, stupid, and absurd.. mike alluded to it but didnt dig deep enough...

the only guys that have the right to be pissy when girls call guys "chasers" or "fags" or "insert derogatory name here" are the guys that live up to those names...

guys that only date women ts or gg are NOT chasers

a chaser, fag, etc is a guy who will take dick wherever he can get it
a chaser, fag, etc is a guy who sees cock first and the girl second
a chaser, fag, etc is a guy who is married or in a relationship w/ a woman and chases escorts and girls online around
a chaser, fag, etc is a guy who lives in a fantasy world that he never intends on fufilling
a chaser, fag, etc is a guy that will use a line on girl a and when it fails he will turn to the girl b who watched the first one shoot him down and use it on her as well and so on and so on (this applies online too, dont think that bc you live in kentucky and i live in tx and girl b lives in new york that me and girl b dont compare notes... were a small family and we protect, share our secrets, and warn each other like a small family should)
there are more things that could be said but ill leave it at that... for now.

i dont see why guys that are really looking for a ts gf get offended by this topic at the girls... its the guys giving yall a bad rap that yall should be pissed off at... if youre a good guy and genuinely looking for a gf... eventually a girl will see that... and if she doesnt... then shes either not looking for a bf or your approach is all wrong

CO-SIGN.

I dont get why guys get so upset about this. If it does not apply to you and you know it then dont argue about it. IT DOESNT APPLY TO YOU.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

a chaser, fag, etc is a guy that will use a line on girl a and when it fails he will turn to the girl b who watched the first one shoot him down and use it on her as well and so on and so on (this applies online too, dont think that bc you live in kentucky and i live in tx and girl b lives in new york that me and girl b dont compare notes... were a small family and we protect, share our secrets, and warn each other like a small family should)
there are more things that could be said but ill leave it at that... for now.

:lol: Kudos girlie! :claps haven't we all been there?!? LOL Experience is the best teacher. Live and learn! ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

[evilash]

this whole topic is so tired, stupid, and absurd.. mike alluded to it but didnt dig deep enough...

the only guys that have the right to be pissy when girls call guys "chasers" or "fags" or "insert derogatory name here" are the guys that live up to those names...

guys that only date women ts or gg are NOT chasers

a chaser, fag, etc is a guy who will take dick wherever he can get it
a chaser, fag, etc is a guy who sees cock first and the girl second
a chaser, fag, etc is a guy who is married or in a relationship w/ a woman and chases escorts and girls online around
a chaser, fag, etc is a guy who lives in a fantasy world that he never intends on fufilling
a chaser, fag, etc is a guy that will use a line on girl a and when it fails he will turn to the girl b who watched the first one shoot him down and use it on her as well and so on and so on (this applies online too, dont think that bc you live in kentucky and i live in tx and girl b lives in new york that me and girl b dont compare notes... were a small family and we protect, share our secrets, and warn each other like a small family should)
there are more things that could be said but ill leave it at that... for now.

i dont see why guys that are really looking for a ts gf get offended by this topic at the girls... its the guys giving yall a bad rap that yall should be pissed off at... if youre a good guy and genuinely looking for a gf... eventually a girl will see that... and if she doesnt... then shes either not looking for a bf or your approach is all wrong

CO-SIGN.

I dont get why guys get so upset about this. If it does not apply to you and you know it then dont argue about it. IT DOESNT APPLY TO YOU.We wouldnt have to chase yall if you would jus stop running away from us....Yeahyah!!!

[evilash]

We wouldnt have to chase yall if you would jus stop running away from us....Yeahyah!!!

Let them all run away, and live in cuckoo land, LMFAO :lol:Yeahyah!!!
They all crazy man, They always make me laugh! Crazy girls are the best in bed though yo!!!

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

We wouldnt have to chase yall if you would jus stop running away from us....Yeahyah!!!

Let them all run away, and live in cuckoo land, LMFAO :lol:

:roll: I guess that makes sense..so you can have all the chasers to yourself Sil! LOL That actually isnt a bad idea if you think about it :!: You'll be in COCK Land heaven. :lol:

~Kisses.

HTG

[ls1290]

guys that only date women ts or gg are NOT chasers

a chaser, fag, etc is a guy who will take dick wherever he can get it
a chaser, fag, etc is a guy who sees cock first and the girl second
a chaser, fag, etc is a guy who is married or in a relationship w/ a woman and chases escorts and girls online around
a chaser, fag, etc is a guy who lives in a fantasy world that he never intends on fufilling
a chaser, fag, etc is a guy that will use a line on girl a and when it fails he will turn to the

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if youre a good guy and genuinely looking for a gf... eventually a girl will see that... and if she doesnt... then shes either not looking for a bf or your approach is all wrong

Excellent points tsntx, I totally agree with you.

[Dark32]

a chaser, fag, etc is a guy who lives in a fantasy world that he never intends on fufilling
oh snap, caught me. I must go after men now!

[andyuk]

i have not got a clue what a chaser is
and it"s the first time i have heard this expression,lol.
but i have noticed a lot of the guys on here do seem a bit obsessed by cocks,lol.
also i think a lot of guys not just the ones into ts girls ,would also have sex with any gg they could.
for me it all boils down to respect.both for yourself and the other person.
i"m new to all this as you might have gathered,and i have only come across one ts girl(who i consider female)who i would date.i dont know if i would ever want to date another ts girl,who knows?i just take people on there merits.

[dafame]

TSNTX had it right.

@Alex

Your way off. Us ts's who like men want men who see us as women in every way. Chasers and gay men do not.

In fact Alex gay men usually pose the question the way you did. :-?

Great point. Only in my post as I stated I don't mind the labels. You can call me gay, a straight up faggot, the only thing that really matters to me as a man I how I view myself and that I'm respected.
Now as far as liking men that see you as women in every way that where you lose me.
I treat my girl probably better than I've treated any GG but the fact still remains that she a "TG" not a "GG". So I hate to burst the girls bubbles but believe me when I tell you the men that you're referring to are no more heterosexual as the guys that fit txsm's definition of a chaser, fag, ect..

[andyuk]

i have not got a clue what a chaser is
and it"s the first time i have heard this expression,lol.
but i have noticed a lot of the guys on here do seem a bit obsessed by cocks,lol.
also i think a lot of guys not just the ones into ts girls ,would also have sex with any gg they could.
for me it all boils down to respect.both for yourself and the other person.
i"m new to all this as you might have gathered,and i have only come across one ts girl(who i consider female)who i would date.i dont know if i would ever want to date another ts girl,who knows?i just take people on there merits.
p.s
i hate using labels,that was just to get my point across.

[CORVETTEDUDE]

tsntx wrote:

this whole topic is so tired, stupid, and absurd.. mike alluded to it but didnt dig deep enough...

the only guys that have the right to be pissy when girls call guys "chasers" or "fags" or "insert derogatory name here" are the guys that live up to those names...

guys that only date women ts or gg are NOT chasers

a chaser, fag, etc is a guy who will take dick wherever he can get it
a chaser, fag, etc is a guy who sees cock first and the girl second
a chaser, fag, etc is a guy who is married or in a relationship w/ a woman and chases escorts and girls online around
a chaser, fag, etc is a guy who lives in a fantasy world that he never intends on fufilling
a chaser, fag, etc is a guy that will use a line on girl a and when it fails he will turn to the girl b who watched the first one shoot him down and use it on her as well and so on and so on (this applies online too, dont think that bc you live in kentucky and i live in tx and girl b lives in new york that me and girl b dont compare notes... were a small family and we protect, share our secrets, and warn each other like a small family should)
there are more things that could be said but ill leave it at that... for now.

i dont see why guys that are really looking for a ts gf get offended by this topic at the girls... its the guys giving yall a bad rap that yall should be pissed off at... if youre a good guy and genuinely looking for a gf... eventually a girl will see that... and if she doesnt... then shes either not looking for a bf or your approach is all wrong

tsntx...Thanks for your objective insight. I've always been able to count on you and Hara to keep things real. I personally would like to pursue an ltr with a lady of special destinction, not chase their dick. I'm not into a wham-bam, escort event, but really want to get involved with someone in transition to whatever level she desires. I enjoy jackin' around here but, would rather spend the time in a meaningful relationship.

A few ladies running through the digital pages of this forum give me hope that there ARE ladies running around that haven't become serious nut cases, due to their choice in life. The two that appeal to me most are you and Hara_Juka_Tgirl. Not suckin' up, just stating my perception of the envornmental reality. This is not to slight any of the other ladies on the forum, merely my personal taste. The way both of you conduct yourselves on the forum, coupled with your commitment to your goals is what appeals to me most. There is no denying, the fact that you both look great, is also a factor. If you're going to set goals, set them high!

That's my point of view, for the record. There are a few boneheads on HA that will give me flack...to them, I say FOAD!

Corvettedude

P.S. Could have PMd you, but wanted the HA world to know.


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[Dark32]

The two that appeal to me most are you and Hara_Juka_Tgirl. Not suckin' up, just stating my perception of the envornmental reality. This is not to slight any of the other ladies on the forum, merely my personal taste. The way both of you conduct yourselves on the forum, coupled with your commitment to your goals is what appeals to me most. There is no denying, the fact that you both look great, is also a factor. If you're going to set goals, set them high!

if you don't want to use that word we could come up with some others.

[evilash]

If all you tgirls on this forum be hatin tranny chasers then why you here talkin to us? shouldnt yall be with yo boyfriends??? Yeahyah!!!! Evilash is smart yo!!! I jus gave yall a paradox!!!

[tsntx]

can an iq test be mandatory as part of the login process here... PLEASE?

[evilash]

can an iq test be mandatory as part of the login process here... PLEASE?Yeah but aren't you worried dat you not gonna pass...Yeahyah!!!

[Realgirls4me]

... I jus gave yall a paradox!!!

Is there something one can take for it?




:wink:

[evilash]

... I jus gave yall a paradox!!!

Is there something one can take for it?




:wink:Take 2 Tylenol.

[dgtlmstry]

This is all b/s and nothing really is as it seems. This is a pretty tired thread, however such is the forum world. Most people do not search for topics, because it's easier to just post your own question/experience...and I think that should be fine. Afterall, anyone who is really tired of such a thread could just ignore it and not respond.

Either way, I don't think anyone should really be offended by labels. Why? What is the point? Especially in a forum where the person(s) trying labeling you are, for the most part, total strangers who know nothing about you except for the front that you put forth while online. It seems to me that people who find a need to label others, are just trying to slough over their own demons. You can't label a person, and box them up into your own definition. You can't do that with a real person whom you've known maybe for years, because people are too complex and put forth to many fronts. So how can you pretend to do it online?

Granted you have folks who apparently fall into similar patterns, but why should that affect you if you are secure in yourself? So if someone comes to a TS forum to ask for pics, chat with a 'real life' TS, or look for a date, so be it. This is what the forum is here for. Why do some people want to regulate it down to the bone? Once you know who to avoid, then avoid them. It really is that simple. On the other side of the coin some people may like to come in here and take no real stance of their own, but instead take whatever stance the ladies in here have. Why? Maybe to try and score a date as well...or maybe they just have no self esteem. Either way, I can't say and neither can anyone else. Just let people be.

Lastly, I'm not sure that anyone in here (though I will admit I could be off) has an objective view. For that you need someone not connected to this 'world'.

DGTL

[slinky]

There is no loathing like self loathing.

There are some TS's who are running as far as they can from being gay men. Would it be surprising for them to show disdain for gay traits in men who are chasing them?

[slinky]

a chaser, fag, etc is a guy who is married or in a relationship w/ a woman and chases escorts and girls online around

There are 10's of thousands of guys who do this with GG's (escorts and non-escorts); are they gay/chasers too?

[slinky]

There is no loathing like self loathing.

There are some TS's who are running as far as they can from being gay men. Would it be surprising for them to show disdain for gay traits in men who are chasing them?

BTW, if you don't believe this, look at the parallel of the Larry Craig situation.

[mbf]

the debate that will never stop lol, I have to chime in nevertheless.....

a few points:

some guys seem to take that whole thing deep to their hearts. I dont understand why tho. Yes, there are some T-ladies out there who would write you off immediately if you were with a TS before, or even only visit this board etc. So, if you are genuine, confident and NOT a chaser-type, why do you care? Its their loss I say.....not yours.

for some ladies that only date str8, go strictly to str8 places etc. : how do you think do guys get into liking TS???? I am speaking from personaly experience here, I was "str8" (apart from some bi/homosexual phantasies when I was about 14/15 - which anybody has....) untill I met a TS in the flesh and had lots of fun with her.

so, you, hot TS-ladies-make us "chasers" :wink: :D (ok, probably a bad jokes, nevertheless a grain of truth in there)

as yodajazz (I think it was him - he is a fav poster of mine) wrote in another thread - many men who happen to like Ts-ladies do like and love GGs as well.

I do know I have lots of love for TS-ladies :D

[tsntx]

a chaser, fag, etc is a guy who is married or in a relationship w/ a woman and chases escorts and girls online around

There are 10's of thousands of guys who do this with GG's (escorts and non-escorts); are they gay/chasers too?

she doesnt have to have a cock for you to be CHASE-ing her...

[Bandyspring]

Wow. I rescind some of my earlier lack of understanding for some of the girls attitudes after reading this trainwreck of a thread. Being new to the boards and non-existant to the scene I hadn't fully absorbed how... "unique" some of the other members are. It's a shame that terms are thrown around so easily, but it's also a shame the way a lot of the members here act toward the girls. Actually, shameful and creepy is more accurate.

[Chaotic]

Well put dafame. The negative attitude that some Tgirls take towards men who like them is baffling. It's like GGs finding guys who are only into GGs distasteful.

Granted, some men are rude and obnoxious and deserve to be ignored. But it is troubling to think that gentleman who are attracted to Tgirls start out with two strikes against them with some girls.

this whole topic is so tired, stupid, and absurd.. mike alluded to it but didnt dig deep enough...

the only guys that have the right to be pissy when girls call guys "chasers" or "fags" or "insert derogatory name here" are the guys that live up to those names...

guys that only date women ts or gg are NOT chasers

a chaser, fag, etc is a guy who will take dick wherever he can get it
a chaser, fag, etc is a guy who sees cock first and the girl second
a chaser, fag, etc is a guy who is married or in a relationship w/ a woman and chases escorts and girls online around
a chaser, fag, etc is a guy who lives in a fantasy world that he never intends on fufilling
a chaser, fag, etc is a guy that will use a line on girl a and when it fails he will turn to the girl b who watched the first one shoot him down and use it on her as well and so on and so on (this applies online too, dont think that bc you live in kentucky and i live in tx and girl b lives in new york that me and girl b dont compare notes... were a small family and we protect, share our secrets, and warn each other like a small family should)
there are more things that could be said but ill leave it at that... for now.

i dont see why guys that are really looking for a ts gf get offended by this topic at the girls... its the guys giving yall a bad rap that yall should be pissed off at... if youre a good guy and genuinely looking for a gf... eventually a girl will see that... and if she doesnt... then shes either not looking for a bf or your approach is all wrong

Makes sense to me. If full transformation is the eventual goal, what t-girl wants to waste her time with some schmuck that's going to be gone once her dick is?

Kinda like dumping your GG girlfreind/wife/concubine/significant other for gaining 20 pounds, IMO.

[Felicia Katt]

A chaser is a guy who orders a banana split, and tells them to hold the ice cream LOL

meow

FK

[SarahG]

so, you, hot TS-ladies-make us "chasers" :wink: :D (ok, probably a bad jokes, nevertheless a grain of truth in there)

I don't fully buy that. I'll buy the idea that guys experiences may open them up to being interested in tgirls but, I don't see how you can make the case that this is the cause for the guys (and I am NOT saying everyone is like this) who do not care about what the person with the cock is, just so long there is a cock and the person with it is in girls' clothing.

For a guy being interested in ts girls who are passable, good looking etc is one thing.

For a guy being interested in virtually any guy who happens to be wearing girl clothes for whatever reason (be it cds, the Scottish games, etc) is an entirely different situation completely.

edited for spelling.

[marissaazts]

agree w/jen 100%

[onthefence]

It seems to me that the reason there are so many posts about this is because nobody really has the answer as to why they are attracted to who they are attracted to.

When I try to define my sexuality and morality based on the fact that I am attracted to fit, female forms with or without a dick - I get confused. I don't know what inate or learned part of my being made it kinda kewl if a sexy lady has something hanging under her dress.

Do I chase it? Well, I don't really chase women at all. I'm introduced to them or meet them on planes, at parties or clubs. I have noticed that the TGirl "scene" sets men up for the "chaser" title. It's a small scene where people know each other. I went to my first NY party and was amazed at the number of avalable, sexy women. They may not be available to date as girlfriends, but I can think of no other scene like it. It's like going shopping! So, you have this promotional situation that consists of marketing girls with dicks in a club setting - if you go back to the club, or bite, you are a chaser.

This site is deditcated to that marketing and promotion. The sale of all things that bring TGirls and images of TGirls to those in the market for them. It REQUIRES as many of what the girls here define as "CHASERS" to exist. So, remember the power "chasers" have here in that when you feel slighted by the term (lol).

I'm new to the scene, but I like it. I like the girls, the shows, the colours. The fact that the girl sitting next to me has a dick under her skirt is more about her history than mine. If GG's went to the parties - I would be just as likely to hit on one of them. I went out with a couple of girls after a party and one told the other that I was a chaser. She explained that it was because she had seen me a couple of times. It felt like a slap in the face. Then I thought about it and...

WHO CARES! I have the resources to go where I want, date who I please, and treat myself to who ever I desire. If the right TGIRL comes along, I may just spend the rest of my life with her. I can assure you that if she's in a healthy place, she will determiine if I am sincere or not and all the issues about being a chaser or being gay will not matter in the least.

[TheOne1]

whats worse.... a tranny chaser label, or an escort label-- bangin the ugliest dudes randomly in mass quantities for 200 bux? :shrug


both sides of the spectrum pose an ugly side...

[tsntx]

whats worse.... a tranny chaser label, or an escort label-- bangin the ugliest dudes randomly in mass quantities for 200 bux? :shrug


both sides of the spectrum pose an ugly side...

apples and oranges

[evilash]

whats worse.... a tranny chaser label, or an escort label-- bangin the ugliest dudes randomly in mass quantities for 200 bux? :shrug


both sides of the spectrum pose an ugly side...

apples and orangesRemember one thing though, the tranny chasers are the ones payin yo bills!!!!

[tsntx]

whats worse.... a tranny chaser label, or an escort label-- bangin the ugliest dudes randomly in mass quantities for 200 bux? :shrug


both sides of the spectrum pose an ugly side...

apples and orangesRemember one thing though, the tranny chasers are the ones payin yo bills!!!!

most chasers never even meet a ts... a few might but most stick to online games and bullshit

[onthefence]

whats worse.... a tranny chaser label, or an escort label-- bangin the ugliest dudes randomly in mass quantities for 200 bux? :shrug


both sides of the spectrum pose an ugly side...

apples and orangesRemember one thing though, the tranny chasers are the ones payin yo bills!!!!

most chasers never even meet a ts... a few might but most stick to online games and bullshitI can't imagine what it would be like "bangin the ugliest dudes randomly in mass quantities for 200 bux" - but it is a choice that an escort can make if they so desire. They choose to be and advertise escort services. Tranny Chasers are labeled by others based on subjective observation.

Not apples and oranges.

[Toro]

if a girl likes you (gg or ts), she won't label you ANYTHING negative.

[evilash]

whats worse.... a tranny chaser label, or an escort label-- bangin the ugliest dudes randomly in mass quantities for 200 bux? :shrug


both sides of the spectrum pose an ugly side...

apples and orangesRemember one thing though, the tranny chasers are the ones payin yo bills!!!!

most chasers never even meet a ts... a few might but most stick to online games and bullshitAnyone payen to be wit a tranny escort is a chaser yo! you jus don't like being wrong do you? You wrong alot a times! Maybe you got apples an oranges in yo head instead of an actual brain!!!!

[tsntx]

whats worse.... a tranny chaser label, or an escort label-- bangin the ugliest dudes randomly in mass quantities for 200 bux? :shrug


both sides of the spectrum pose an ugly side...

apples and orangesRemember one thing though, the tranny chasers are the ones payin yo bills!!!!

most chasers never even meet a ts... a few might but most stick to online games and bullshitAnyone payen to be wit a tranny escort is a chaser yo! you jus don't like being wrong do you? You wrong alot a times! Maybe you got apples an oranges in yo head instead of an actual brain!!!!

w/e you say ... BLACKMAGIC

[SarahG]

whats worse.... a tranny chaser label, or an escort label-- bangin the ugliest dudes randomly in mass quantities for 200 bux? :shrug


both sides of the spectrum pose an ugly side...

apples and orangesRemember one thing though, the tranny chasers are the ones payin yo bills!!!!

most chasers never even meet a ts... a few might but most stick to online games and bullshitI can't imagine what it would be like "bangin the ugliest dudes randomly in mass quantities for 200 bux" - but it is a choice that an escort can make if they so desire. They choose to be and advertise escort services. Tranny Chasers are labeled by others based on subjective observation.

Not apples and oranges.

Depending how desired that 200 dollars is, I don't think I am off base by saying that people can chose not to take a customer if the guy is really nasty looking, poor hygiene whatever. I also don't buy the argument that only "the ugliest people in the world" seek out such transactions.

[Vicki Richter]

I am above gay men. Who wants a guy talking with a lisp or wearing leather chaps out in public with a hairy ass? Gay is a whole lifestyle subculture that I can't imagine most transsexuals or transsexual admirers wanting a significant part of.

So yes, I as a TS, am above gay and I would never want to date a guy I even remotely perceived as being gay.

The whole chaser thing is an entirely different thing all-together. You can try to lump chaser and gay together, but they are two entirely different things.

[62des]

Vicki for pres.! The hell with any tranny asshole that agrees with what your girlfriend said. Its her if she considers herself as a man.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

whats worse.... a tranny chaser label, or an escort label-- bangin the ugliest dudes randomly in mass quantities for 200 bux? :shrug


both sides of the spectrum pose an ugly side...

apples and orangesRemember one thing though, the tranny chasers are the ones payin yo bills!!!!

LOL Funny comment. :lol: But I disagree evilash! Not all trannies rely on men to pay for their bills (though that would be a sweet gesture if given without even having to ask). ;) I know Maggiegee, Felicia Katt to name a few who are highly independent TG's would feel slighted by your comment.

You're generalization of transexuals as if they got nothing better to do than to sell their body and have sex for $ is just wrong.

~Kisses.

HTG

[francisfkudrow]

I am above gay men. Who wants a guy talking with a lisp or wearing leather chaps out in public with a hairy ass? Gay is a whole lifestyle subculture that I can't imagine most transsexuals or transsexual admirers wanting a significant part of.

So yes, I as a TS, am above gay and I would never want to date a guy I even remotely perceived as being gay.

The whole chaser thing is an entirely different thing all-together. You can try to lump chaser and gay together, but they are two entirely different things.

Vicki, with all due respect, don't you think that saying your are "above gay" is a bit disturbing? Say your different from gay, fine. But saying you are above gay sounds like something someone from the religious right would say. No one is superior to anyone else just because of who they sleep or don't sleep with.

[Chaotic]

I am above gay men. Who wants a guy talking with a lisp or wearing leather chaps out in public with a hairy ass? Gay is a whole lifestyle subculture that I can't imagine most transsexuals or transsexual admirers wanting a significant part of.

So yes, I as a TS, am above gay and I would never want to date a guy I even remotely perceived as being gay.

The whole chaser thing is an entirely different thing all-together. You can try to lump chaser and gay together, but they are two entirely different things.

:lol: :lol:

Once again, subtle, tongue-in-cheek sarcasm is lost on the overly literal minded! :wink:

[BlackAdder]

I make it simple, if a girl, t or not, doesnt want to deal with me because im interested in her for whatever reason...

I move the fuck on..

Theres plenty more where she came from that dont have so many issues about being hung up on classifications/labels. I truly percieve that whole thing as mind game, and I for one, aint playin'.

TRUST ME when i say this, I do not want anymore challenge in my relationships then usual right now, so why deal with a girl that makes this an issue guys??????????

[CORVETTEDUDE]

I make it simple, if a girl, t or not, doesnt want to deal with me because im interested in her for whatever reason...

I move the fuck on..

Theres plenty more where she came from that dont have so many issues about being hung up on classifications/labels. I truly percieve that whole thing as mind game, and I for one, aint playin'.

TRUST ME when i say this, I do not want anymore challenge in my relationships then usual right now, so why deal with a girl that makes this an issue guys??????????


Well said, SnakeMan(BlackAdder)!!

[peggygee]

whats worse.... a tranny chaser label, or an escort label-- bangin the ugliest dudes randomly in mass quantities for 200 bux? :shrug


both sides of the spectrum pose an ugly side...

apples and orangesRemember one thing though, the tranny chasers are the ones payin yo bills!!!!

LOL Funny comment. :lol: But I disagree evilash! Not all trannies rely on men to pay for their bills (though that would be a sweet gesture if given without even having to ask). ;) I know Maggiegee, Felicia Katt to name a few who are highly independent TG's would feel slighted by your comment.

You're generalization of transexuals as if they got nothing better to do than to sell their body and have sex for $ is just wrong.

~Kisses.

HTG

Good points and thanks Hara. :wink:

Alright, indepedent ladies sing with me:

Question: Tell me what you think about me
I buy my own diamonds and I buy my own rings
Only ring your cell-y when I'm feelin lonely
When it's all over please get up and leave

Question: Tell me how you feel about this
Try to control me boy you get dismissed
Pay my own car note, I pay my own bills
Always 50/50 in relationships

The shoes on my feet
I bought it
The clothes I'm wearing
I bought it
The rock I'm rockin'
I bought it
'Cause I depend on me
If I wanted the watch you're wearin'
I bought it
The house I live in
I bought it
The car I'm driving
I bought it
I depend on me (I depend on me)

Chorus
All the women who are independent
Throw your hands up at me
All the honeys who makin' money
Throw your hands up at me
All the mommas who profit dollas
Throw your hands up at me
All the ladies who truly feel me
Throw your hands up at me

[BeardedOne]

Spent some time with a gurl recently where this question (Did she consider me a 'chaser') came up.

She thought about it for some bit and said, I believe honestly, "No".

In further conversation, I pointed out that I do, honestly, have a people-to-do list, am poly, and am bisexual. Meaning that she is not the be-all-end-all of my TS experiences, I am far from monogamous, and by nature, can't be monogamous so long as there are at least two genders.

She pondered the matter further, determined that I was still not a 'chaser' in her book, and then called me 'adorable' (Subject to individual bias, of course).

It was either Johnny or Hollywood that said "If you have to ask, you are one", yet that is only half-true.

In the end, it is not the culture or community that defines the 'chaser', but the individual gurl, in their individual and relative situation that determines who is or isn't a 'chaser'.

Many, many posts ago, some weak-handed individual passed me off with the simple comment: "Chaser". At the time, I embraced it and said something akin to "Ooh, I've been promoted!".

Was I 'promoted'? Or did my backhanded sarcasm cost me a great deal of respect amongst the gurls?

[bluepeter]

I just love to fuck.

[ezed]

I just love to fuck.

Here is an Honest man!

[slinky]

This is going to be perceived as just a catty comment, but it's a real question: I wonder what percentage of the girls who are quick on the "chaser" trigger (i.e. call lots of guys chasers) can be had for a few $? In other words, are girls who only see tricks more apt to call guys chasers than girls who actually date guys who see TS's?

[hwy61]

My take on all this:

I haven't really posted here, just stop by to look at porn once in a while, but i enjoy reading all the debates that go on with this topic.

I'm 30 and I've been in 2 long term relationships with TS girls (currently single). I got into TS girls when I was 18 or 19 and it took me a few years to come to terms with it. I love to explore all things sexually. I'm versitile. I like giving and recieving both oral and anal. There's times I like to be totally submissive and just get fucked, even pretending that i have a vagina , and then an hour later I'll turn the tables and bend my girlfriend over the couch and fuck her brains out, enjoying both experiences equally. This kind of variety = a fullfilling sex life for me, especially when its with someone i truelly love. I've been lucky to meet a few girls who feel as i do.

I'm not attracted to men, but i'm not homophobic about it either. I could have sex with men without being totaly repulsed but I'm not able to make a romantic connection with a man, and i'm also not prone to casual sex so this won't happen. Of course I'm attracted to alot of GG's but they can't give me everything i like sexually, but if i fell in love with a GG i could overlook this. I'm also 6'4 so tall girls really do it for me :).

I think some guys have to realize that being TS isn't an easy thing. Coming out and changing genders is WAY more difficult than coming out as gay. The societal stigma against a non-passable TS woman is huge. I think any guy who wants to be with a TS romantically and wants to be at all fair to her has to undertake some of the burden. This means coming out to your friends and family, many of whom will view you as being gay. I've been through this but luckily i have alot of ultraliberal cool-ass friends LOL.

I kinda forgot where i was going with this LOL...

Oh yeah.. I stopped worrying a LONG time ago about what the label for my sexuality is. I have lots of gay friends, and i consider myself part of the GBLT community because I love the T. I even go to pride parades. So if i'm gay thats fine, if i'm a "tranny-chaser" thats fine too, but i think in general the tg's should be happy i'm out there. I also think that guys who aren't willing to make lifestyle changes should stick with purchasing there ts fun as opposed to dating it. And they should also not worry about whether they're gay or not all the time.. this society is just too damn repressed.