any advice?

[norcalchillin]

whats goin on everyone, im just looking for a little insight.

ive been in the military for the past four years and am about to get out in a week. im moving back up to northern california which is home, after living in japan, south korea and southern cali for the past few years. ive had a thing for t-girls for years (i cant remember when i realized that i liked them, i just kinda always have i guess), and consider myself a straight guy. at least as straight as i can be i guess. im not really into the whole escort thing, because ive never had to pay for sex before, so why start now? i dated a t-girl once for a little while and it seemed pretty normal to me. we broke up after a while because of normal reasons like me being gone all the time because of my job and whatnot. since im getting out of the military and i can do whatever i want now, im more open to the thought of maybe having a relationship with someone again. it doesnt matter to me if its a gg or a tg, i just like women pretty much.

but im wondering if anyone can give me advice or something on what norcal is like for guys like me that are just looking to meet or talk to girls. cause like i said before i dont see myself paying to hang out with someone for sex. and id like to think im a good looking guy that shouldnt have a problem meeting the ladies.

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

dude I can't give you advice on Northern Cali but welcome back................
as a veteran myself it's always good to see another brother come back home

as far as dating a chick, I think it's fair to say go to a place where the chick(s) aren't escorting but are just out to have a good time and take it from there

pick up bars are THE WORST for trying to establish a relationship, I've seen and laughed several times at the attempts made in bars here in NYC

[norcalchillin]

dude I can't give you advice on Northern Cali but welcome back................
as a veteran myself it's always good to see another brother come back home

as far as dating a chick, I think it's fair to say go to a place where the chick(s) aren't escorting but are just out to have a good time and take it from there

pick up bars are THE WORST for trying to establish a relationship, I've seen and laughed several times at the attempts made in bars here in NYC


i live pretty much right next to the bay area, so hopefully someone knows a little bit about the place. but thanks man, appreciate the props on getting otu of the marines. its been a long time coming.

[slinky]

a place where the chick(s) aren't escorting but are just out to have a good time

- A gay bar?
- A coke dealer's apartment?
- Tiffany & Co.?
- Fantasy Island?

[hwbs]

or underneath my avatar :lol:

[evilash]

a place where the chick(s) aren't escorting but are just out to have a good time

- A gay bar?
- A coke dealer's apartment?
- Tiffany & Co.?
- Fantasy Island?Yeahyah yo you got me rollin yo that shit was funny forhizay!!! Yo but tru dat, I met a few honeys on adultfriendfinder.com, be careful tho some of these bitchs are ho's but not all.