Do guys ever consider the female's orgasm?!?

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

Had an interesting convo last night with a chick who told me about the rarity of an orgasm she had and how she literally had to beg the dude (who'd just had his own orgasm) to just leave his meat up inside her while she got hers off.................

I'm just curious: what guy wouldn't do this? I mean with the chick in question that NEVER would have happened with me. I take way too long to have an orgasm but say it did, I'd be happy to leave it in, what's the big deal?!? LMAO

I'd probably get a 2nd surge and go at her again just for saying that, but the general thought seems to be that most guys once they cum are too weak to continue on with anything sexual. That's not always the case..............

[innavoice]

Personally my thoughts are, if she hasn't come...you haven't really done anything.

ESPECIALLY......knowing that there are ALOT of orphaned lil' orgasms out there.....looking for homes.

Seriously though......if she's someone i intend to seek an encore performance with.....i get on my job.

Oral....Anal....Clittoral....Neck rubbal.....Prayer....Raindance....whatever it takes to make it come down.

[peggygee]

From a previous post, but it's as true today as it was then.

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If you know me, you know there isn't going to be a simple answer. :smh

And I will have to get back to you on the statistical averages for post op
women.

But I can attempt to give you the answer, but as per my usual, it's
complicated.

If I am masturbating I may have either a vaginal or clitoral orgasm.
What's the difference you ask?

The difference between a "clitoral" and a "vaginal" orgasm is where
you are being stimulated to achieve orgasm, not where you feel
the orgasm..

Thus if I or someone else is fucking me vaginally, without much clitoral
stimulation I may come that way.

If while I am fucking, or if oral sex is being performed on me and
attention is being paid to my clitoris I may reach orgasm that way.

Also something interesting that happens to me is that I tend to have a
fairly high number of wet dreams, and may have an orgasm while I am
sleeping. Pre and post op I have had nocturnal emissions.

Additionally if properly stimulated I may be able to have a second or
third orgasm, in a fairly short period of time, though the latter ones will
not be as strong as the first one.

As with many women I am far more apt to come via masturbation, as I
know what gets me off. Though if my partner knows my body, and
they're a 'man or woman with a slow hand' they will be able to bring me
to orgasm.

Do I have orgasm every time I have sex?

No.

I would say about 85% - 90% through masturbation, and perhaps
60% - 70% with a partner, though the average improves as my partner
knows my needs. Time of day, if I am fatiqued, etc are also variables.

Though 99.9% of the times, the journey is as great as the destination. http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l2/magi43/smiley-faces1-1.gif

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

Personally my thoughts are, if she hasn't come...you haven't really done anything.

Exactly!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

IMO it isn't about my orgasm, it's about hers. If it takes me however long to make her shake like a New Orleans Voodoo Priestess during a spell incantation while cumming then it will take that long, but she will cum. I can wait, and if I don't bust a nut, oh well, i can live with that (women can't but I can, HA HA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)

[Ecstatic]

I figure the dame's gotta take care of her own needs......



....joking! Hell, there have been many times when I haven't climaxed but my partner has, and that's fine by me. I really enjoy helping my partner get off, it's at least half the pleasure.

[Alchemist]

Females can orgasm?

[62des]

^^ God I really hope you're playin dumb...

[Alchemist]

^^ God I really hope you're playin dumb...

Whoooosh!


You hear that? That's the sound of a joke going completely over your head. Thanks for coming down though.

[Solitary Brother]

This thread is a joke right?

[SXFX]

God gave me a few fingers and a tong.
I've yet to meet a girl who I culdn't give an orgasm to.
Now that's not to say some girls made it difficult for me and I felt like slapping them upside the head for being so dam stuipd but still.
But still a femal orgasam is a complicated thing, it's probably the one and only time in a womans life where she is compleatly out of controll. And most if not all women like to be in controll.
Some more than others.
Those we call bitches.

[Odelay]

I've had a couple of gf's who would have vaginal orgasms during normal intercourse. That's a trip. It's always fun shoving it in harder as their pussies are trying to squeeze me out. :twisted:

Other gf's it's easy enough to hit their g-spot with my fingers or the end of my dick, and bring them off that way. Still others it's all about the clitoris.

It's all good. Any guy who doesn't care about his partner's orgasm is missing half the fun.

[peggygee]

Other gf's it's easy enough to hit their g-spot with my fingers or the end of my dick, and bring them off that way. Still others it's all about the clitoris.



Mein Gott in Himmel, the G-spot orgasm.

:jawdrop

[CORVETTEDUDE]

I have always been concerned about my partners achievement of pleasure. I was taught well by an older woman when I was just getting into intimacy with the opposite sex. I can speak from experience when I say, "Things are alot more fun(and meaningful) when both parties achieve ultimate pleasure."

[tsntx]

a lot of the guys ive been intimate w/ loose their hardon IMMIEDIATELY after orgasm... i had one bf that as soon as he came his dick would be soft b4 he could even pull it out... its odd to me i guess bc i stay hard a while after i cum and sometimes so long that i just get off again... why let it go to waste? ... thankfully for me tho i can cum on demand and i just go when they go.

[TJT]

That's what those battery operated devices she keeps in her drawer are for.

[werwt22]

Had an interesting convo last night with a chick who told me about the rarity of an orgasm she had and how she literally had to beg the dude (who'd just had his own orgasm) to just leave his meat up inside her while she got hers off.................

I'm just curious: what guy wouldn't do this? I mean with the chick in question that NEVER would have happened with me. I take way too long to have an orgasm but say it did, I'd be happy to leave it in, what's the big deal?!? LMAO

I'd probably get a 2nd surge and go at her again just for saying that, but the general thought seems to be that most guys once they cum are too weak to continue on with anything sexual. That's not always the case..............



LOL I knew a shitload of guys were gonna be bragging as soon as I read the title. Nothing like a good ol' pissing contest lmao.

Honestly it all depends on your attraction to the woman your dealing with and how much she turns you on, the situation your in, and how much foreplay you've had. Some girls my dick wont stay hard for one orgasm b/c they just don't do it for me sexually and some I can get 5-7 nuts in a row but usually just 2-3. Sometimes I just want a quickie.

I had just had this unbelievable sex with a woman I know and she wanted to continue to play with herself after sex, so that got me turned on and I started stroking. Then she said, bust on my face (huge turnon) Then she says do it again and keeps rubbing her face over my dick as I bust and from then on I just start busting on her face every 30 secs-minute.

My point is I always take my partners pleasure into account but her considering mine is a huge factor also. If she can't get you aroused enough to continue and make your experience as exhilarating as your trying to make hers then you'll end up with the typical one nut and be on your way.

[Ecstatic]

its odd to me i guess bc i stay hard a while after i cum and sometimes so long that i just get off again... why let it go to waste? ... thankfully for me tho i can cum on demand and i just go when they go.
How many PM's have you gotten since posting this, Jenn? ;)

I cannot cum on demand; in fact, if my partner is crying out "Cum for me!" the opposite happens and it takes me longer to bust a nut. But the longer it takes, the deeper the release.

[hwbs]

well for me with gg's i usually mess around with girls that are in touch with their sexuality... u know there are a lot of cold fish out there who can't even give themselves orgasms ...then they goto their friends and tell them how bad the guys are ,lol....


u don't have to be super hung or anything...that is some macho shit ....u just have to get in the girls head and concentrate on her...i can keep it going even after the party is over...i was lucky that i had a friend of mine who was kind of a self proclaimed sex expert....she showed me the ropes and i have been making toes curl ever since..


there is Viagra and all that other shit out there ....the guys should have no more excuses , lmao...

[houstonshemalefan]

I ALWAYS get women off with my mouth prior to fucking their pussies. It's only fair, you know!

[sam2982]

I think I got lucky... my wife cums in like 2 minutes or less so I never run into that problem

[Nooksack]

In my personal opinion, the lady always comes first (double entendre intended). I just know that in some cases, if I blow my load, I MIGHT be spent. I don't want to worry about that. I would rather she got her rocks off than I did because I find a certain satisfaction in making my partner happy. By that same token, I TOO want to get off, but not at the expense of the person I'm with not having it all out, too.

[BlackAdder]

I would agree with Sam....My last girlfriend was multi orgasmic and could have vaginal, oral and anal orgasms quite easily....I told her how lucky she was compared to other girls and it makes it ALOT easier on a guy. Ive had some girls that ive really had WORK for even one orgasm, and it does get old after awhile.

I also always tell girls to put away the fucking toys!!! weeks before we have sex....A girl thats accustomed to toys is going to have a much tougher time orgasming naturally in my experience.

All that being said, its a much much better relationship if she can get off on me as well.