An observation among straight men....

[ohioboy]

...I was celebrating my b-day today and as my friends were talking about past female relationships, I realized I felt awkward. They kept talking about the pussy they have gotten, and I remained silent. I have gotten pussy before, but lately its been all about transsexuals.
I realized how out of place I felt. One of my friends said to the other,"you watch gay porn" and i thought to myself.....he should be saying it to me. They seemingly know nothing, but they have to be thinking things, since I haven't brought a girl around in about a year.
I love t-girls, and I'm really thinking about expanding on my fantasy and making it a reality.....I don't even look at GG porn anymore. Its all TG porn...Any advice?

[Vicki Richter]

...I was celebrating my b-day today and as my friends were talking about past female relationships, I realized I felt awkward. They kept talking about the pussy they have gotten, and I remained silent. I have gotten pussy before, but lately its been all about transsexuals.
I realized how out of place I felt. One of my friends said to the other,"you watch gay porn" and i thought to myself.....he should be saying it to me. They seemingly know nothing, but they have to be thinking things, since I haven't brought a girl around in about a year.
I love t-girls, and I'm really thinking about expanding on my fantasy and making it a reality.....I don't even look at GG porn anymore. Its all TG porn...Any advice?

Either hide it, or tell them you think shemales are hot. They'll make fun of you, but at least some of them think the same thing, guaranteed.

[ohioboy]

Thats true.....cuz im not into men..and im not saying that to coverup 'gayness' or whatever. Im ONLY into transsexuals. But again...these are cousins AND lifelong friends since kindergarten....its not that cut and dry...u know? The thing is also...I still like beautiful women. They turn me on. Im very confused right now....I dont know what to do.

[GroobySteven]

Either hide it, or tell them you think shemales are hot. They'll make fun of you, but at least some of them think the same thing, guaranteed.[/quote]

Yep - guaranteed. I'd say over 50% of my friends have expressed an "I would".

seanchai

[ohioboy]

U guys are so on point....and if they saw some of the TS's ive seen.....i know they'd do it. But....you know, there is always taht difficulty in bringing this out...

[GroobySteven]

U guys are so on point....and if they saw some of the TS's ive seen.....i know they'd do it. But....you know, there is always taht difficulty in bringing this out...

Ok, it's not worth bringing it "out" unless you actually have something to bring out. ie; if you end up having a TS girlfriend and you want to introduce her (and she's clocked) then obviously be open and cool about it - but to simply shout it out for the sake of it, probably isn't worth it. Same as the guy who really likes SSBBW girls but doesn't want to tell anyone.

seanchai

[ohioboy]

EXACTLY....I guess until it comes to that point, if it does, then it will be my little secret.....but the way i see it now...FUCk it. I like it and im not about to feel guilty.

[62des]

Show them a picture of Athena. They'll get a hard-on and then tell them that she's a tranny; and observe how they remain with hard-ons. :D LMFAO! I've been to plenty of forums about different subjects and the only guys who say they wouldn't do a TG are those who've only seen the ones that look like men with breasts. If they seen a passable TG like Athena, Sunny or others, they'd think otherwise. I for one never thought about TS because that's the same perception I had on TS until one day I was clicking on this thumbnail from this pornsite and this chick was a dime. There were no naked pictures and I was turned on like hell. A few minutes later I saw the same girl and I finally found out it was a TG. I saw her dick but I wasn't exactly turned off. Her ass was stunning. That's when I got hooked.

[Tanuki]

Well,. we have dicks.. I am not exactly terrified when I see my own,

This relates to another thread but I have been meaning to say. this...

Looking at Shemale porn and dating a shemale are two seperate things I think..
There is something about a shemale that is sort of like looking at a woman that is sexual aroused.. I mean.. You cant really tell by looking at a ggwoman if she is turned on or not..
Shemale porn sort of solves that dilemma.. Once your turned on to that then your future is sort of open ended..

[Coroner]

Happy birthday, Ohioboy. Since you´re somewhere in Ohio, I wouldn´t recommend a "coming-out". You know, it´s worth if you´re far away from your standard friends and family but you seem to live close to them, so it could put you into a shadow. But all in all, it depends on how your friends/cousins think, what they accept and what not. Well, all the best.

[ohioboy]

im up in cleveland, so its not like im in a red area of the state....Being that its just a fantasy and whatnot, there really is no need to 'come out'...but sometimes its almost like they don't know what they are missing u know?? Cuz ive always liked girls, never had a crush on guys or anything like that, and once i discovered TG's....i can't get enough..

Like the above poster said...you can tell when a TG is aroused and cumming...thats part of what i like.

[Coroner]

im up in cleveland, so its not like im in a red area of the state....Being that its just a fantasy and whatnot, there really is no need to 'come out'...but sometimes its almost like they don't know what they are missing u know?? Cuz ive always liked girls, never had a crush on guys or anything like that, and once i discovered TG's....i can't get enough..

Like the above poster said...you can tell when a TG is aroused and cumming...thats part of what i like.

Look, it´s the issue if they don´t know what they´re missing. Maybe they´d rather miss it? You should care about yourself because you´re the only one in your circle.

[ezed]

...I was celebrating my b-day today and as my friends were talking about past female relationships, I realized I felt awkward. They kept talking about the pussy they have gotten, and I remained silent. I have gotten pussy before, but lately its been all about transsexuals.
I realized how out of place I felt. One of my friends said to the other,"you watch gay porn" and i thought to myself.....he should be saying it to me. They seemingly know nothing, but they have to be thinking things, since I haven't brought a girl around in about a year.
I love t-girls, and I'm really thinking about expanding on my fantasy and making it a reality.....I don't even look at GG porn anymore. Its all TG porn...Any advice?

Say nothing. Nod your head. Be non judgemental on what they reveal.
You should follow your desire.

[TJT]

Sounds like you need to make new friends.

[sucka4chix]

Sounds like you need to make new friends.
That's such an "ideal" response, but not very realistic. It's possible to have very good friends (and family) that you'll never be able to find any one close to replacing them, but they have that one issue that they can never get past. Some times that may be worth trashing, most of the time it's not. I love t-girls but if I thought they would cause me to lose my friends and family, I'd let them go. One has to decide what's important to them.
Anyway, Ohioboy, when I talk to guys about sex, I interject my ts escapades into the mix! Just leave out the dick part, (that's the key). Sometimes I think I'll stumble and say "yeah, I saw this chick and man her dick was sooo nice", lol, but it hasn't happened yet.
Your story is so common... you're going through the typical progression. Think long and hard though, 'cause after a while it'll be all T-girls and GGs will pale in comparison!

[FiremanforTS]

Just go with the flow brother and don't get all stressed out. It's your life, not theirs after all.

:smoking

[62des]

Normally I would say it doesn't matterbut you're saying that you don't like GG's anymore. That would cause a problem. I think you should kind of hint around at it. Maybe show them a sexy pretty TG and jokingly ask if they'd do her but without revealing the secret until he answers or something.

[JHANIAH L0VE]

i LOVE straight men!

[archineer]

Personaly I was in this position about a year ago. I'm now 'out' and I have to say its the best thing I ever did. Most of my friends don't care, and one in particular would come out clubbing if he wasn't in a relationship. I've had offers of threesomes off some straight couples I now being bisexual (well polysexual). I'd go so far as to say its given me some real sexual qudos.

The only person who reacted negatively tried to embarass me, but I just acted completely unfazed by it and he hasn't said a word since. I'd add hes quite religious and has had a sheltered upbringing. I think having absolute confidence and not caring what anyone thought was the key. My true friends accept me no matter what.

Having said all of that I do live in the gay capital of Europe, and religion is pretty much non-existant in the U.K.

[MacShreach]

i LOVE straight men!

You do realise you went back nearly two years to exhume this thread?

If you ask me you're bored and you need a good seeing-to. 8)

[MacShreach]

i LOVE straight men!

You do realise you went back nearly two years to exhume this thread?

If you ask me you're bored and you need a good seeing-to. 8)

PS the sentiment's cool though, and I was j/k

:lol: :lol:

[Marilyn]

...I was celebrating my b-day today and as my friends were talking about past female relationships, I realized I felt awkward. They kept talking about the pussy they have gotten, and I remained silent. I have gotten pussy before, but lately its been all about transsexuals.
I realized how out of place I felt. One of my friends said to the other,"you watch gay porn" and i thought to myself.....he should be saying it to me. They seemingly know nothing, but they have to be thinking things, since I haven't brought a girl around in about a year.
I love t-girls, and I'm really thinking about expanding on my fantasy and making it a reality.....I don't even look at GG porn anymore. Its all TG porn...Any advice?

Either hide it, or tell them you think shemales are hot. They'll make fun of you, but at least some of them think the same thing, guaranteed.

Very much so! Some of them might be into ts women as well! It happened to my ex when he opened up about his preferences to his friends.... 2 of them dated ts women as well... :) that made them 3 out of 6!

[archineer]

i LOVE straight men!

You do realise you went back nearly two years to exhume this thread?

If you ask me you're bored and you need a good seeing-to. 8)

Oh yeah! I didn't notice. :oops: