Topped by a T-girl

[culeame28]

Hi all,

I've been considering taking the plunge and having a t-girl top me. Although I've played with a few vibrators and some spare fingers in my ass before, I've never been penetrated by a real cock before.

I was wondering if anyone had any advice they'd like to share before I have my ass torn apart!!! Some of the questions I have are:

1. In terms of hygiene, is there anything that you recommend I do before visiting the girl?

2. In terms of preparation, is there anything I can do so it doesn't hurt as much the first time?

3. Also, should I be worried about any diseases even if I plan on using a condom? What should I look for on her cock to ensure I don't catch anything!

etc, etc.

While I'm on this note, does anyone have any girl that they would recommend for a first-time experience in London?

I look forward to your comments!

an amateur!! :)

[culeame28]

Any thoughts, comments, feedback? anyone?

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

DO

[canihavu]

Make sure you wash your wash thoroughly and use plenty of lube. Then enjoy the ride.

[Ecstatic]

Search the forum, as this topic has been discussed in detail many times before. Also visit SER, they have some excellent advice in their forum on the subject. Wash-condom-lube. More lube. Still more lube. Don't eat beans the night before.

Try to build up to it by working up from smaller to larger vibrators, until you get to one the size (or a little larger) than you expect to encounter. Don't try for a 9.5"x7" monster snake the first time out.

[culeame28]

Thanks all! I'll let you know how it goes. I've been practicing with my wife's vibrator and my fingers and I think it's working. I should be ready any time soon. I'll let you know how things work out once I take the plunge...or more like once I get plunged!

[Cedricbi01]

Yeah actually I had the same questions before my first time !
So summarising :

1- wash your butt
2- make sure you're lubed enough - check it's not ANY cream but proper lube
3- make sure SHE uses a proper condom
4- better position (my point of view) is doggy style (you)
5- relax when she comes in
6- ENJOY !

...I personally really did ! :oops:

[BlackAdder]

Dont listen to ecstatic...your going to want someone 9x6 or bigger for your first time, preferably over 10 if you can find it...and as thick as you can get it. Make sure you use the minimum amount of lube you can because your going to want to feel it right??

[ptyseminole]

have a drink (one or two) to help you relax before the experience...Use KY and look a for a Shemale that really excites you...

[ToyBoy6669]

Dont listen to ecstatic...your going to want someone 9x6 or bigger for your first time, preferably over 10 if you can find it...and as thick as you can get it. Make sure you use the minimum amount of lube you can because your going to want to feel it right??


lol you must be joking

[Vicki Richter]

Yes. Also kiss you wife on the cheek before you "go to the gym" and tell her that the vows you made during the wedding didn't apply to TS girls.

Don't worry about an enema or cleaning yourself up in any way. Most TS girls will give you a discount for scat. Better if you were to enema and just hold it in until that magic moment.

[hondarobot]

All these people are just trying to get this guy in trouble.

Here's my advice: the night before, insert a stick of frozen butter up your ass, and forget the lube. That's how Marlon Brando would do it.

[calebshung]

All these people are just trying to get this guy in trouble.

Here's my advice: the night before, insert a stick of frozen butter up your ass, and forget the lube. That's how Marlon Brando would do it.
no no no that's how Marlon Brando did do it.

[tsntx]

All these people are just trying to get this guy in trouble.

Here's my advice: the night before, insert a stick of frozen butter up your ass, and forget the lube. That's how Marlon Brando would do it.
no no no that's how Marlon Brando did do it.


hahaha

[fhsjazztrumpet2]

Wow....that explains a lot, actually.

[hondarobot]

This photo was taken of Marlon the following morning:

[ARMANIXXX]

How come you people are bein "holes" to this guy?

[ARMANIXXX]

Oh....he's a Brit.



Carry on then.

:lol:

[BlackAdder]

Were being holes because like...with 10-15 minutes of searching he would have found his answer and not have been subjected to our abuse...

Ask a stupid question yadda yadda...particularly in THIS venue.

[Nooksack]

What? Abuse from this forum from lack of common sense? NEVER!!!!

[dskreet2]

Maybe he can do the Richard Gere "gerbil manuever"? And if the gerbil doesn't work, you can use the tubes.

[florida_raul]

lol u ppl are so evil :D

[EdelweissFan]

Here's a bit of advice that may sound strange, but unlike others, I am completely serious.

You might want to consult a genetic girl dominatrix for your first time. Many pro-dommes tend to take a more "theraputic" and educational approach toward their clients and the exploration of their fantasies. Also, many are "set up" in their dungeons/studios to teach you how properly to prepare including how to take an enema. They also typically have a very wide range of dildos to work you up to human size penetration, and they have much more experience with first timers and beginners than transsexual escorts who can be a bit brusque. Through their apprenticeships, skills, training and "edge play" experiences, many dominatrixes have learned more about anal sex than most sectors of the sex industry and have managed to get things in asses that transexual escorts can only dream about. Almost all dominatrixes pride themselves on giving you exactly the amount of time you requested and paid for, and therefore your training will take as much time as necessary and as you agree to. Contrary to popular imagination, most dominatrixes do not have the "shut up you worm" type stereotype personas and will tailor their approach to your needs. If you were in NYC, I would refer you to Rapture Studios, which specializes in this.

After you have been trained by a dominatrix -- it's sometimes called "sissy slut training" or "pegging" -- you'll be an old pro when you decide to be topped by a tgirl.

I have no first hand experience with this particular dominatrix activity, but participate in a forum in which it is discussed often and it's remarkable how "service oriented" dominatrixes who specialize in this seem to be.

To learn more you can go to the biggest dominatrix directory and forum on the web, Maxfisch.com . Go to "discussion" and enter the forum for more advice, if this sounds useful to you.