How do you think your world would be..

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

without computers and no ways to meet transexuals? LOL :lol:

This is a question for the guys who dont live in big cities like NYC, Florida, California, Thailand, Philippines etc.

How do you think would you go abouts meeting a transexual/s then? Anyone :?:

~Kisses.

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[LG]

Interesting topic...Like you said in another thread, at least we have computers. I'd say that if a girl seems worth it and if she is looking for a real relationship, and if I can afford the trip I'd be willing to go and visit her or pay her ticket to visit me. Or, if I'm lucky, I might be going there for business or some other reason.

So far I've rarely met any transgirls at clubs. But next time I'm in London or another large city I will make a point of visiting a TS-friendly club. And I'm planning to visit America soon (next year I hope) and travel around. LA, of course, would be first on my list of priorities Hara.

The question then is "what do you do once you've met her?" Assuming a guy wants a relationship rather than just a one-night stand (and a one-night stand can be mind-blowing but it isn't what I want right now) how can you keep it up if you live a thousand miles apart?

Sooner or later, I will probably have to answer these questions for myself and be willing to spend money and time to having a real relationship with a transgirl. After that, there are more things I will need to face up to, but I'll take it a step at a time.

What do you think? Do you think you could sustain a long-distance relationship? And, if and when it all gets pretty serious, what would be the next step? Would you want something more permanent?

[Jericho]

without computers and no ways to meet transexuals? LOL :lol:
This is a question for the guys who dont live in big cities like NYC, Florida, California, Thailand, Philippines etc.
How do you think would you go abouts meeting a transexual/s then? Anyone :?:
~Kisses.
HTG

We'd have to do it the old fashioned way.
Looking in the back of skin mags, seedy clubs, word of mouth, incredulous rumours...

Along the same lines, without computers/the internet would there be so many 'open' transsexuals? Apart from the 'pioneers', how many would be locked into living a life that's basically a lie?

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

The question then is "what do you do once you've met her?" Assuming a guy wants a relationship rather than just a one-night stand (and a one-night stand can be mind-blowing but it isn't what I want right now) how can you keep it up if you live a thousand miles apart?


Move? LOL Im old school when it comes to an LTR type relationships. I'm not moving for any guy! :lol: LD relationships are HARD. Most of it doesnt work cos both of you gets frustrated not being able to see and be with eachother. My 2 cents. LOL ;)

Oh and plan that trip after I get my breast! Atleast I wont be sore! LOL

~Kisses.

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[LG]

The question then is "what do you do once you've met her?" Assuming a guy wants a relationship rather than just a one-night stand (and a one-night stand can be mind-blowing but it isn't what I want right now) how can you keep it up if you live a thousand miles apart?


Move? LOL Im old school when it comes to an LTR type relationships. I'm not moving for any guy! :lol: LD relationships are HARD. Most of it doesnt work cos both of you gets frustrated not being able to see and be with eachother. My 2 cents. LOL ;)

Oh and plan that trip after I get my breast! Atleast I wont be sore! LOL

~Kisses.

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You mean I'll have to move to California?!?!

Just kidding....But I agree that long-distance relationships are almost impossible to sustain.

[yosi]

without computers and no ways to meet transexuals? LOL :lol:
This is a question for the guys who dont live in big cities like NYC, Florida, California, Thailand, Philippines etc.
How do you think would you go abouts meeting a transexual/s then? Anyone :?:
~Kisses.
HTG

We'd have to do it the old fashioned way.
Looking in the back of skin mags, seedy clubs, word of mouth, incredulous rumours...

Along the same lines, without computers/the internet would there be so many 'open' transsexuals? Apart from the 'pioneers', how many would be locked into living a life that's basically a lie?

being a transexual is living a life that's basically a lie ?
says who ?

who gave you the right to judge who is living life as a lie and who isn't?

[Jericho]

We'd have to do it the old fashioned way.
Looking in the back of skin mags, seedy clubs, word of mouth, incredulous rumours...

Along the same lines, without computers/the internet would there be so many 'open' transsexuals? Apart from the 'pioneers', how many would be locked into living a life that's basically a lie?

being a transexual is living a life that's basically a lie ?
says who ?

who gave you the right to judge who is living life as a lie and who isn't?[/quote]

READ WHAT I WROTE ya dopey fukkin muppet, and don't jump to conclusions!

[Jericho]

For the had of thinking <yosi>, without the internet/computers, how many girls would still be living boy lives because they didn't know they could change things for the better.

[Kabuki]

The world would be like the early 90's :lol: You would just have guys drooling over TGs featured on Maury, or Springer. Real Sex or Taxi Cab Confessions would have to comeback. You know they showed a TG every now and then...lol. How about Ricki Lake. She loved some drag queens...lol.

Ok, I just woke-up :lol: Ummm...How did guys meet the ladies in the early 90's? I guess if you lived in South Dakota, the odds were against you.

[LG]

Jericho, I agree with your point, but maybe it was a little open to interpretation as you wrote it originally.

So both of you, quit fighting and don't fuck up the thread. Take it to the Fight Club thread instead. That thread's starting to get boring and we need more action there. :lol:

Anyway, yes newspaper and some magazines might help to meet local girls, but that's as far as it would help. Without the internet, we wouldn't even know much about transexuals (hell, I would have hardly seen that many pictures of them, because only a few magazines are devoted to them) and there would have been no site like HA. I would not be able to chat with girls like Hara. Life would basically suck.

So the internet is the greatest things since sliced bread. In fact, seeing as I don't eat pre-sliced bread but always buy loaves, rolls and baguettes, I'd say the internet is better than sliced bread and- quite possibly- the greatest thing on earth.

Although it sometimes does seem to consist of 95% junk, 4% pop-ups and just 1% interesting and useful material .

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

LOL Without the internet, It would also be a challange for tg's finding guys who are accepting of them. Id assume we'd all still be playing russian roulette with the guys and see which one's "brave" enough to accept us for the "special girls" that we are! LOL

Been there, done that. It's tiring for one and ofcourse not worth the time of day investing in something that might eventually NOT work out as any girls would hoped for. :evil:

Then again I'm a bit torn with that issue. I want a guy to be acepting of me but I dont want a guy to drool for every tg's he see's and or be trannychasing either! LOL Hmm..decisions decisions..very evul! :lol:

~Kisses.

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[Kabuki]

Then again I'm a bit torn with that issue. I want a guy to be acepting of me but I dont want a guy to drool for every tg's he see's and or be trannychasing either! LOL Hmm..decisions decisions..very evul! :lol:

Well, I have faith that you will meet someone who accepts you for who you are. Relationships in general are crazy. TGs and GGs do have things in common. Guys can be asses, and just be after you for one thing. There are some good men out there, so just continue to let your light shine. The right guy will be attracted to your light. That's the Buddhist in me talking :P I know you've won over many guys here with that personality of yours 8) Plus, you're kinda cute :wink: So, just continue to put yourself out there love.

Anyways, I didn't mean to hijack the thread, but I wanted to show some love to Miss. Hara.

[MonsieurValentine]

shit, when you think back to the early nineties when we still didn't have cell phones or email, it's crazy to think how we got around. sad actually.

[CORVETTEDUDE]

without computers and no ways to meet transexuals? LOL :lol:

This is a question for the guys who dont live in big cities like NYC, Florida, California, Thailand, Philippines etc.

How do you think would you go abouts meeting a transexual/s then? Anyone :?:

~Kisses.

HTG


I know, that w/o this computer, I would not have EVER come across you! However, it won't help me accomplish the ultimate goal....meeting you, I don't think!?!?! As far as the rest of it, I'm not inclined to participate in the escort thing, my attraction to you ladies (You in particular) is on a different level. You aren't the way you are to become a toy or are novel curiosity for the rest of the world, male or female. That is not what your realization of who and what you are had in mind for you. Sex is great, but that is not why you are who you are. Please correct me if I'm wrong HJT, I don't think I'm off-base here. If I am, throw me out!!!

[blckhaze]

wow good topic.

WIthout comutors, i dun think i would have ever known about TSs, let alone become interested im them, and Im in NYC!!! Lord know whats would have happened if I met one in a bar, or somewhere else. so GO INTERNET!!

[Azanti]

I probably would not have discovered them.

[SarahG]

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[TJT]

The way I did it then. Drag bars/shows and pagents.

It helped to have a friend competing to let you know who was what. Nothing worse than making a date w/ TV who turns up after the show dressed like your brother.

[yodajazz]

The way I did it then. Drag bars/shows and pagents...
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I found that there were always certain gay bars that catered to the Ts community. I was not entirely comfortable, but I knew what I was looking for. When I met a girls, I would always ask them where else did they hang out. I did meet a couple in straight clubs, only because the people I was hanging out with knew about them.

I used to buy TS magazines regulary from adult bookstores. There were papers that had TS in the classified, but I never met anyone from those. And I bought Screw Magazine, for the TS section. When I was in the Army, I overheard a fellow soldier complaining that he had taken a women home from a bar, only to find out she was TS. I think went there the very next day.

But pagents were a good way to meet people. I found that there were usually better looking ones in the audience than on stage.

I love the internet becuase ther are much greater choices, but there was always ways to meet people, in a medium sized city.

[Willie Escalade]

Thank god my parents decided to settle down in Los Angeles before I was born!

Seriously, I have no idea how I would handle it. I'll admit that I've been exposed to T-girls mainly through the internet, even more so than television and/or porn. I guess I would just make a trip to one of the cities with a large transgender population.

[OEMEnemyNum1]

To answer the original question. I wouldn't.....

I'd probably just settle down and raise a family. Either that, or I'd end up in a bigger city and be just fine.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

Agreed completely, I've met alot of guys online that I would not have found otherwise this way... likewise I have met and been in relationships with guys from offline that ended up not being able to "accept" once they found out (regardless which "stage" of knowing them I told them about the situation). I don't see it as Russian Roulette as much as the stereotype goes, I think although guys can have this reputation for being these barbaric animals that would bash in the skulls of anyone who "tricked them" with a big stick once they find out... I personally believe most guys wouldn't conduct themselves that way (that is not to say they'd be polite about it et al)... but part of that probably goes back to where a girl goes to try to find guys (certain crowds maybe more prong to being violent in response to various things then others). I know GGs that seem to have this supernatural talent for finding the most disgusting, abusive, rejects for boyfriends imaginable... and this can be most similar to those situations.

I hear you. Me and my tgirl friends used to play this game of trying to get with guys at clubs, malls, parties etc. Where guys didnt have any idea's what we were. And we'd play bets how long we could go on seing the guy/s and totally evading intimacy (vaginal fucking). It was fun for awhile up until one of my tgirlfriends got found out (long story..I think they were making up and she had a bad tuck)..The guy was pissed and almost put his cigarette out on her face. Good thing some bucth biker gay men came to her rescue. That was pretty scary just hearing her tell us about it! :evil:

That's what I meant by playing russian roullette. You'll never know how the guy would react. Unfortunately, she carried on doing it. But now she is post-op.

~Kisses.

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