Am I too old?

[martin48]

I'm mid-50s - well-preserved, handsome (so they say), fit, slim, muscular,etc, etc. Hovered round this sort of scene for years, never daring to take any part of the action. Should I jump in? Or forget it and just wait for the Old Folks Home? Would any attractive young ts be willing to be escorted by me?

Ah well!

[dj69]

I say go for it! You obviously feel the urge you want to! You only live once and if you have the opportunity pursue it!

[Dkg]

well.....

:lol:

j/k

[LG]

Jump in, carpe diem and all that. You're only 55 once. In 10 short years time, you'll be in your mid 60s and 55 will seem like a whole decade ago. :D

Seriously? I say give it a shot. Mid-50s isn't past it by any means. You might be a hit- many women like older, distinguished-looking guys. But leave some girls for us younger guys.

:)

[wendy48088]

I'm mid-50s - well-preserved, handsome (so they say), fit, slim, muscular,etc, etc. Hovered round this sort of scene for years, never daring to take any part of the action. Should I jump in? Or forget it and just wait for the Old Folks Home? Would any attractive young ts be willing to be escorted by me?...

The first question that occurs to me is are you going to be paying for her time or not? If so, "if you got the dime, they got the time" usually applies.

If on the other hand you are looking for a TS girlfriend, then I would say that to be fair you should not limit your set of acceptable companions to "any attractive young ts". What about an unattractive (not quite there yet) young TS? What about an older (a few years younger than you) TS?

I don't think it's so much an age thing as much as it is realizing and accepting that everyone is looking for the "best deal" for themselves. In other words, be realistic in what you can attract with what you have and what you are willing to give.

[MacShreach]

I have only 2 words to say to the case of men who are, shall we say, of a mature outlook on life getting away with some outrageously hot women.



Rod




&




Stewart.



Nuff said.

[martin48]

Thanks for replies - yes, sometimes us old uns can do ok. My last friendship was withsome one 25 years younger - but that was different.

OK - you have convinced me. Now just a question of courage like any rookie needs.

[JANIRA]

Sweety, age is all in your head. Your as old as you feel, even if your 80 yet you feel like your 20 , nobody can tell you what age to feel when in reality you may be older. I think you should just go for it, hence there are some tgirls who dont suffer from ageism. GOOD LUCK!

[Trans_Lover]

do it

[sucka4chix]

My only question would be what are you waiting for??
What is there to be afraid of? I can understand shy, but afraid? They're women--- remember that and you'll be fine.AND, you'll be surprised how many LOVE mature men!!!

[Ant-Man]

Hey Martin! Here's some encouragement for you! Think I am lovin' life in my 50's??

[moose146]

do it i know its easy to say im yet to take the plunge but cant wait

[TJT]

Hell,my Dad is 77 and still chasing gg's. I don't see why you can't chase TS's? I'll be chasing both until they lower me into the ground.

BTW,I'm pappy's oldest and he fathered me in his 20's. Do the math. Welcome aboard!

[NadiaUSA]

40's to 50's is perfect.
I get so many emails that start off with " I'm sure you arent interested in me but I'm 50"
That's just the reverse. The toughest category is a broke 20 year old that starts an email with "whats up" or "hey"

I state my preferences right on my site.
www.OrangeCountyTranssexuals.com

[The Piper]

Hello to everyone,new here.
Sorry for taking so long before posting,i've been admiring the view. :D
Funny i've been asking myself this question.
I'm 47.It's nice to see popular opinion is not "sod off you old fart"
Anyway nice to hear and my first post done aswell.

[Dkg]

40's to 50's is perfect.
I get so many emails that start off with " I'm sure you arent interested in me but I'm 50"
That's just the reverse. The toughest category is a broke 20 year old that starts an email with "whats up" or "hey"

I state my preferences right on my site.
www.OrangeCountyTranssexuals.com

hey, what's up?

8)

seriously though, I have money and an education, since when was just saying "hey" or "what's up" a bad thing?....but then again I am a laid back kinda guy....maybe I should cut out the bs and go straight for the point, "you're sooo beautiful, would you marry me?"....

:roll:

[NadiaUSA]

40's to 50's is perfect.
I get so many emails that start off with " I'm sure you arent interested in me but I'm 50"
That's just the reverse. The toughest category is a broke 20 year old that starts an email with "whats up" or "hey"

I state my preferences right on my site.
www.OrangeCountyTranssexuals.com

hey, what's up?

8)

seriously though, I have money and an education, since when was just saying "hey" or "what's up" a bad thing?....but then again I am a laid back kinda guy....maybe I should cut out the bs and go straight for the point, "you're sooo beautiful, would you marry me?"....

:roll:

Unfortunately informal slang is a deal killer. I wish guys really did want to marry us but it is so much more expensive than going the escort route that most guys cant justify it.

I would be a great transsexual housewife if someone had the desire and the means.

I used to have dinner dates for free with prospective suitors but found they were clients looking for a free thrill. So now, to be fair to me and eliminate the users I just charge 400 for dinner.
I have met some very nice gentleman that way but no hubby yet.

[templek]

Nadia wrote:
Unfortunately informal slang is a deal killer. I wish guys really did want to marry us but it is so much more expensive than going the escort route that most guys cant justify it.

I would be a great transsexual housewife if someone had the desire and the means.

I used to have dinner dates for free with prospective suitors but found they were clients looking for a free thrill. So now, to be fair to me and eliminate the users I just charge 400 for dinner.
I have met some very nice gentleman that way but no hubby yet.

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Arent you reinforcing the stereotype that escorts whether GGs or TS, are simply after your money and use what you said as an excuse to charge for dinner dates etc?

I ve met some escorts who will try to charge you for a date even if they contacted you ( by email or text 'just to say hi',) yeah all right to see if they can tempt you again. If you do meet them they will flirt and then make it clear that anything else you have to pay for, full price. Thats why I wouldnt see them as a romance, but as hookers because they always see clients as johns. Then they boast about their 'fuck freinds' those they go to when they want sex. The FFs dont have to pay unlike the poor johns

[NadiaUSA]

If you lived my life you would know how sad it is that we have to protect ourselves from liars and users. Like I said, I tried to do dinner for free but I found that without exception, the guy was a client, not into Long Term Relationships.

I have seen it all. I have sat across the table from complete liars who lied about everything from their name, jobs and everything. I have also see it worse such as seemingly nice guys that want the fascination from me but have shown they dont care it I would get hit by a bus.

A human being can not allow themselves to get beat over the head constantly. Its not healthy.

On the other hand, Every person that has paid the 400 for dinner has been a complete gentleman with little to hide. Everything is on the table.

I am sure I will get complaints about how life is not fair and I should give myself to everyone for free and take all the risk but I have to protect myself.

[TJT]

It's the same old shit married/taken guys do when they're sneaking around w/ gg's,Nadia. It always pissed me off to some extent. Why can't they just tell 'em they're married/dating and let person they're talking to make up their own mind?

It is funny how money cuts the bullshit.

[martin48]

I didn't mean this to get so heavy. Yes, money gets you everything for a short time - well, till it runs out! Doesn't get long-term committment though from either side. Understand where you are coming from though.

[NadiaUSA]

I didn't mean this to get so heavy. Yes, money gets you everything for a short time - well, till it runs out! Doesn't get long-term committment though from either side. Understand where you are coming from though.

What does get a long term committment?

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

I'm mid-50s - well-preserved, handsome (so they say), fit, slim, muscular,etc, etc. Hovered round this sort of scene for years, never daring to take any part of the action. Should I jump in? Or forget it and just wait for the Old Folks Home? Would any attractive young ts be willing to be escorted by me?...

The first question that occurs to me is are you going to be paying for her time or not? If so, "if you got the dime, they got the time" usually applies.

If on the other hand you are looking for a TS girlfriend, then I would say that to be fair you should not limit your set of acceptable companions to "any attractive young ts". What about an unattractive (not quite there yet) young TS? What about an older (a few years younger than you) TS?

What she said! :P I dont think age matters much when you are going to see any escorts sweety. If you have the greens they'll have the means. LOL It's a basic rule of thumb. But if you're looking for a non pro then dont set your standards too high or you're only going to get frustrated!

;)

~Kisses.

HTG

[NadiaUSA]

I dont think age matters much when you are going to see any escorts sweety. If you have the greens they'll have the means.

I honestly don't thinks it's as cold as that. At least not for dinner. If he takes the extra time for dinner, then he is showing that he may be sincerely looking for more than a plain escort experience. The effort is not lost on me.

I would say it is possible to get past the money after trust is built but it takes a little time.

[qeuqheeg222]

go for it..just remember what you are after and proceed from that basis-if you just want to try a new little somthin maybe the escort thing is for you but if you want something deeper you got to go after it like you would any other woman and make sure you get to know what they are REALLY about..money,love,the drama or whatever...you might have to do some homework-the intranet,bar scene,escort reviews to find where to begin..many try and many fail but diamonds can be found trust me....yeah intranet kooks..

[Dkg]

40's to 50's is perfect.
I get so many emails that start off with " I'm sure you arent interested in me but I'm 50"
That's just the reverse. The toughest category is a broke 20 year old that starts an email with "whats up" or "hey"

I state my preferences right on my site.
www.OrangeCountyTranssexuals.com

hey, what's up?

8)

seriously though, I have money and an education, since when was just saying "hey" or "what's up" a bad thing?....but then again I am a laid back kinda guy....maybe I should cut out the bs and go straight for the point, "you're sooo beautiful, would you marry me?"....

:roll:

Unfortunately informal slang is a deal killer. I wish guys really did want to marry us but it is so much more expensive than going the escort route that most guys cant justify it.

I would be a great transsexual housewife if someone had the desire and the means.

I used to have dinner dates for free with prospective suitors but found they were clients looking for a free thrill. So now, to be fair to me and eliminate the users I just charge 400 for dinner.
I have met some very nice gentleman that way but no hubby yet.

Well, that's understandable. Although, There's no way in the world I would pay $400 for dinner with someone. Don't get me wrong, what you do is what you do and if that's acceptable for your and your client or date then all's well, but I see it where If I like someone and want to get to know them better, I'll always be willing to go the extra mile in treating them and making sure they are enjoying themselves while we get to know each other, and to me that's something in itself that's rewarding, and goes beyond monetary value. By paying for something like that, to me it would mean that I don't think much of myself (and apparently niether does she, of me) and that I am the only one truly gettig something out of it and that's just a situation I'd rater not be in. besides, like I said, when I'm with women It's never always about me....usually.

Anways, that's just me and I could see how a few bad experiences with guys could lead you to that route.

[NadiaUSA]

I usually hear objections to paying from younger more idealistic guys.

More well traveled and practical men are happy to cut the BS. If it makes me more relaxed about dealing with jokers and rifraf then it's only a little money.

The truth is most guys dont pay the minimum. They give me more and tell me they dont care about the money, then are plain about what they are looking for in a long term situatuion.

Its so funny how it is so much easier for both of us to relax and be honest.

[Dkg]

Well sure, most likely these are guys who are at a point in their life where they aren't looking for anything more than sex, no strings attatched. I'm at a completely different point in my life. If all I wanted is sex, then yeah I might pay too, although I still probably wouldn't as I never have and don't see myself as the type who has to.

nothing wrong with having ideals....and call me whatever, but I generally like my sex to mean something more than a quick trip to the atm. :wink: