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dc_guy_75
05-20-2007, 01:35 AM
I was wondering if anyone has had a relationship with a girl they met here (non-escort). Although, I realize that 90%+ of the visitors are male I've been visiting and posting here, vaguely hoping I'd meet someone.

Have any face-to-face relationships occured here? Have any long term relationships sprung from here? (like on Match.com, we met and were married six months ago, etc).

I may be a little naive, and I realize this is no match.com, but I was just wondering...

Coroner
05-20-2007, 02:10 AM
No and I doubt I would like to.....

BeardedOne
05-20-2007, 02:18 AM
I've had a couple of dinner dates, but no LTRs. Of course, that's relative to my own bend, as I am so bruised and damaged by past relationships with GGs that I have little interest in LTRs (Or much faith in them when/if they occur). Dinner satisfies.

Dkg
05-20-2007, 02:32 AM
You won't. If you really want to meet someone, try suckig it up and going to one of the dc area clubs the transsexuals go to.

Hara_Juku Tgirl
05-20-2007, 02:39 AM
Were you asking if Tgirls on HungAngels would date guys who post on HungAngels? LOL Hmm..I dunno. Never heard except for Allanah and DjAsia.

;)

~Kisses.

HTG

Quinn
05-20-2007, 02:43 AM
Were you asking if Tgirls on HungAngels would date guys who post on HungAngels? LOL Hmm..I dunno. Never heard except for Allanah and DjAsia.

;)

~Kisses.

HTG

There have been others.

-Quinn

BeardedOne
05-20-2007, 02:45 AM
Were you asking if Tgirls on HungAngels date guys who post on HungAngels? LOL Hmm..I dunno. Never heard except for Allanah and DjAsia.

;)

~Kisses.

HTG

Now there was a match made in...Thailand. :wink:

There are a few folx on here that pal around, but I don't know of any/a lot of LTRs borne from HA or one of the other forums. Essentially, the forums are just another online venue akin to chatrooms, etc. and are just as likely to spawn a friendship or more. Over time, I've met a few women (GG, TG, 3G) in person and done dinner or more (One almost did turn into a LTR with a 3G that I met in an AOL chatroom. Unfortunatley, she went back to her girlfriend. :( ).

Never having been much for the social scene (I have pretty much turned into a hermit), online meetings are about all I get these days, but polite, intelligent discourse can go a long way.

Hara_Juku Tgirl
05-20-2007, 02:50 AM
Ok so where are they (the others you spoke of) at? LOL ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

vanished
05-20-2007, 02:55 AM
I was wondering if anyone has had a relationship with a girl they met here (non-escort). Although, I realize that 90%+ of the visitors are male I've been visiting and posting here, vaguely hoping I'd meet someone.

Have any face-to-face relationships occured here? Have any long term relationships sprung from here? (like on Match.com, we met and were married six months ago, etc).

I may be a little naive, and I realize this is no match.com, but I was just wondering...

I don't kiss and tell but I had a pre-HA tawdry affair on the lower east side with a girl that truly "sparkled". She was a fixture on the downtown scene and we had some beautiful times together for a while. It was my first "out" relationship and it was fabulous - very wonderful - she's married now to someone in Italy. Those of you who know her know what a beautiful girl she truly is. Recently, been wanting to find someone again but you just have to wait for that moment....that kismit. Ours was on the roof of the Vault, when she came in dressed in a glamorous gown with a retinue and locked eyes on me and I on her. What a summer night....

General Disarray
05-20-2007, 02:57 AM
I've never really heard of it being done
and I wouldn't expect it because people on this board are always arguing.
It's like my parent's mairrage all over again.

scorpion
05-20-2007, 02:59 AM
I was wondering if anyone has had a relationship with a girl they met here (non-escort). Although, I realize that 90%+ of the visitors are male I've been visiting and posting here, vaguely hoping I'd meet someone.

Have any face-to-face relationships occured here? Have any long term relationships sprung from here? (like on Match.com, we met and were married six months ago, etc).

I may be a little naive, and I realize this is no match.com, but I was just wondering...

Not here but a non escort T girl. from others contact forum.
This time im close to the real Love...I hope...And I gonna fight four it

Quinn
05-20-2007, 03:01 AM
Ok so where are they (the others you spoke of) at? LOL ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

No way am I going to open that can of worms, Hara. I'll leave the option to respond, or not, to someone else. I tell you this though: even most long-time posters would be very surprised.

-Quinn

hwbs
05-20-2007, 03:03 AM
i know people who met directly here...since its not myself i will leave out the names...

vanished
05-20-2007, 03:05 AM
i know people who met directly here...since its not myself i will leave out the names...

I would think so - it's because there are far more lurkers, sweet people of all gender-identification, that note posters and reach out to them - I think the people that post are the vast minority - with nothing to do on a Saturday nite - like me!!!

chefmike
05-20-2007, 03:06 AM
LMFAO...

Ask hondarobot...

BWAAAAAHAAAAHAAAHAAHA!!!!

Hara_Juku Tgirl
05-20-2007, 03:19 AM
Ok so how do we get to learn about HA dating success stories Quinn? ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

hondarobot
05-20-2007, 03:45 AM
I've hung out with Vicki Richter. That's an old story around here. I know of a few girls on the forum that have been to the club that I work at (Hara Juku, Allanah, Gia, I'm sure others) but I didn't meet them, personally.

Do I know of any successful relationships that have occured between members on the HA forum? No.

Someone post a sticky when it happens.

8)

tsntx
05-20-2007, 03:50 AM
i dated a guy that happens to post here but we didnt meet here

whatsupwithat
05-20-2007, 04:01 AM
Met some beautiful people. And made some incredible friends. That's it for me. :)

Quinn
05-20-2007, 04:04 AM
Ok so how do we get to learn about HA dating success stories Quinn? ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

You're really trying to get me in trouble, aren't you? :wink: Also, I'd be a little wary of using the adjective "success" – at least from a long-term relationship perspective. Lastly, the individuals I’m referring to, though they became aware of each other here, didn't hook up through HA, but rather through a different online venue. Now it's time to shut my mouth.

-Quinn

fugaziosbourne
05-20-2007, 04:05 AM
i dated a guy that happens to post here but we didnt meet here
i dated a girl that happens to post here but we didn't meet here...
f'n think the world of you cutie
Gigantic hugs....

Hara_Juku Tgirl
05-20-2007, 04:06 AM
LOL Hehe..Love to tease ya Quinn. ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

dc_guy_75
05-20-2007, 04:06 AM
You won't. If you really want to meet someone, try suckig it up and going to one of the dc area clubs the transsexuals go to.

There's only one club down here, Chaos, and its mediocre at best. Its probably better than most cities, but its still a southern city and somewhat conservative.

In Montreal, NYC, Boston, SF, LA, Barcelona, and Amsterdam the scene its much better.,,, but I'm a little tired of the "scene'

Anyways, I have "sucked it up" and gone to Chaos many times and had alot of fun, but that gets old too... Maybe its easier to meet girls online instead of trying to listen to a conversation over disco remixes.

I'll stop trying to use so many quotes...

Realgirls4me
05-20-2007, 04:24 AM
I was wondering if anyone has had a relationship with a girl they met here (non-escort). Although, I realize that 90%+ of the visitors are male I've been visiting and posting here, vaguely hoping I'd meet someone.

Have any face-to-face relationships occured here? Have any long term relationships sprung from here? (like on Match.com, we met and were married six months ago, etc).

I may be a little naive, and I realize this is no match.com, but I was just wondering...

"Face to face relationships" as in meeting somewhere and placing a face to a handle as several of us did with the girls on their DVD tour a week ago Friday, or to meet someone with something more in mind? You are being rather vague in your queries here by being all over the map as to what exactly it is you -- YOU -- want. If something heavier than a platonic relationship is what you seek, then maybe Match, or an alternative dating site is probably a better context to possibly find something more meaningful or deeper with others also seeking the same thing; there are 100s of them on Match.com alone, let alone the alternative web date sites that exist. Your local TS club scene is obviously another path to take.

As far as meeting quality people just on a friendship level, that's possible anywhere, as long as you two mutually sense a commonality vibe amongst yourselves and don't ignorantly or naively come to the table with any unwarranted and unfair assumptions, generalizations, and stereotypes simply because they post on a board such as this one. It's presumptuous to assume that because a woman posts here, that once you meet her she'll automatically want to get into your pants. ...e.g.,Two TS posters who I met at another forum and who often post here, extended their hands to help me a few years ago by answering questions to help overcome fears I naturally had about my sexuality, and also to get me to visit a TS club for the first time. I consider them my friends for helping "break me in" to this previous unknown world, and I met them in a site similar to this one. Friendships happen. Just remember to come to terms with what you want and that context can be EVERYTHING.

dc_guy_75
05-20-2007, 04:38 AM
I was wondering if anyone has had a relationship with a girl they met here (non-escort). Although, I realize that 90%+ of the visitors are male I've been visiting and posting here, vaguely hoping I'd meet someone.

Have any face-to-face relationships occured here? Have any long term relationships sprung from here? (like on Match.com, we met and were married six months ago, etc).

I may be a little naive, and I realize this is no match.com, but I was just wondering...

"Face to face relationships" as in meeting somewhere and placing a face to a handle as several of us did with the girls on their DVD tour a week ago Friday, or to meet someone with something more in mind? You are being rather vague in your queries here by being all over the map as to what exactly it is you -- YOU -- want. If something heavier than a platonic relationship is what you seek, then maybe Match, or an alternative dating site is probably a better context to possibly find something more meaningful or deeper with others also seeking the same thing; there are 100s of them on Match.com alone, let alone the alternative web date sites that exist. Your local TS club scene is obviously another path to take.

As far as meeting quality people just on a friendship level, that's possible anywhere, as long as you two mutually sense a commonality vibe amongst yourselves and don't ignorantly or naively come to the table with any unwarranted and unfair assumptions, generalizations, and stereotypes simply because they post on a board such as this one. It's presumptuous to assume that because a woman posts here, that once you meet her she'll automatically want to get into your pants. ...e.g.,Two TS posters who I met at another forum and who often post here, extended their hands to help me a few years ago by answering questions to help overcome fears I naturally had about my sexuality, and also to get me to visit a TS club for the first time. I consider them my friends for helping "break me in" to this previous unknown world, and I met them in a site similar to this one. Friendships happen. Just remember to come to terms with what you want and that context can be EVERYTHING.

You have some very good points, and any intimate relationship should be about respect and friendship....

There are many points in your post that I could argue (accusations of ignorance, etc), but I agree with the tone. For me, the attraction is not entirely "sexual", I enjoy talking to almost all women...

Realgirls4me
05-20-2007, 04:51 AM
You have some very good points, and any intimate relationship should be about respect and friendship....

There are many points in your post that I could argue (accusations of ignorance, etc), but I agree with the tone. For me, the attraction is not entirely "sexual", I enjoy talking to any girl...

I wasn't accusing you of ignorance. I'm just saying that you should know what it is you seek first, and then move from there. Find your grove, and then look for a similar groove to line up with. If you want a good steak, go to a steakhouse. If you want a good burger, go to a good burger joint (I went to In and Out Burger today btw). Hung Angels might fall under a Soup Plantation type of place. ;)

TsJennifer
05-20-2007, 04:52 AM
I met my ex bf here and we just broke up about 3 weeks ago and we were together for 2 yrs

trannybanger
05-20-2007, 04:59 AM
I met my ex bf here and we just broke up about 3 weeks ago and we were together for 2 yrs

does this mean you are accepting applications? :D

Realgirls4me
05-20-2007, 05:01 AM
(Starts to type his resumé)

;)

vanished
05-20-2007, 05:13 AM
I met my ex bf here and we just broke up about 3 weeks ago and we were together for 2 yrs

Jennifer, I'm sorry to hear that - is it really and truly over or just a bad patch?

peggygee
05-20-2007, 05:16 AM
what exactly it is you -- YOU -- want. If something heavier than a platonic relationship is what you seek, then maybe Match, or an alternative dating site is probably a better context to possibly find something more meaningful or deeper with others also seeking the same thing; there are 100s of them on Match.com alone, let alone the alternative web date sites that exist. Your local TS club scene is obviously another path to take.

As far as meeting quality people just on a friendship level, that's possible anywhere, as long as you two mutually sense a commonality vibe amongst yourselves and don't ignorantly or naively come to the table with any unwarranted and unfair assumptions, generalizations, and stereotypes simply because they post on a board such as this one. It's presumptuous to assume that because a woman posts here, that once you meet her she'll automatically want to get into your pants. ...

I would agree, there are alot of pre and post op transwomen on
the mainstream dating sites, like True, Match, etc. Often these
women are seeking LTRs.

As compared to the Alt.com, Adultfriend, LVTG, and the like where
people are often seeking friends with benefits, or pay for play situations.

There are also a number of dating sites that cater to the transwomen,
and those that are seeking relationships.

TsJennifer
05-20-2007, 05:28 AM
Thanks for the kind words. Its VERY OVER! I could only take his shit so long! After all the things he did to me I will NEVER take him back! Too much abuse!

Realgirls4me
05-20-2007, 05:48 AM
I would agree, there are alot of pre and post op transwomen on
the mainstream dating sites, like True, Match, etc. Often these
women are seeking LTRs.

As compared to the Alt.com, Adultfriend, LVTG, and the like where
people are often seeking friends with benefits, or pay for play situations.

There are also a number of dating sites that cater to the transwomen,
and those that are seeking relationships.

Leave it to Peggy to cogently take it home. :)

peggygee
05-20-2007, 06:13 AM
I would agree, there are alot of pre and post op transwomen on
the mainstream dating sites, like True, Match, etc. Often these
women are seeking LTRs.

As compared to the Alt.com, Adultfriend, LVTG, and the like where
people are often seeking friends with benefits, or pay for play situations.

There are also a number of dating sites that cater to the transwomen,
and those that are seeking relationships.

Leave it to Peggy to cogently take it home. :)

Well even a 'warrior empress' needs love too. :wink:

dc_guy_75
05-20-2007, 06:41 AM
In summary, a long rant that started all because of me thinking about a guy that I met from HA and has been one of the best friends/lovers/whatever that I've had.

Its nice to hear that you've met someone special here....

Hara_Juku Tgirl
05-20-2007, 06:48 AM
Thanks for the kind words. Its VERY OVER! I could only take his shit so long! After all the things he did to me I will NEVER take him back! Too much abuse!

You're to pretty to put up with him. More power to you girl! ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

Trans_Lover
05-20-2007, 08:12 AM
some dudes here have paid to fuck some of the shim whores

Dkg
05-20-2007, 08:13 AM
You won't. If you really want to meet someone, try suckig it up and going to one of the dc area clubs the transsexuals go to.

There's only one club down here, Chaos, and its mediocre at best. Its probably better than most cities, but its still a southern city and somewhat conservative.

In Montreal, NYC, Boston, SF, LA, Barcelona, and Amsterdam the scene its much better.,,, but I'm a little tired of the "scene'

Anyways, I have "sucked it up" and gone to Chaos many times and had alot of fun, but that gets old too... Maybe its easier to meet girls online instead of trying to listen to a conversation over disco remixes.

I'll stop trying to use so many quotes...

Are you serious? Try Baltimore. There are a few places in Bmore. I myself don't know much about "the scene" but I could see where it gets tiresome after a while. There are plenty of average regular working girls in the area but I doubt they are the type that go to those clubs. I've talked to a few but they were't from HA. One was on myspace and the oter on a personal ad website...real cutie.

Anyways, I hate to say it, but most of the outspoken girls here will see you as "out of there league". Unless you are really "cute/goodlooking". Not that that's anything against them. not sure what else I can tell ya.

a994
05-20-2007, 08:38 AM
Jennifer, you deserve a LOT better than that.

Leora, I'm glad that you did meet someone who was special for you.

And Trans-Lover, it's okay man. We've ALL been turned down by women who were our fantasy stars, struck out at the local club. So curl up with a good book, have some herbal tea. Soon you'll feel your desire to post obnoxious messages on an Internet message baord disappearing and you'll start to relax.;)

TJ347
05-20-2007, 09:09 AM
I think I'm close to making something happen with a special someone... If things go well, I'll definitely let everybody know. But for now, I'm keeping my mouth shut! 8)

Solitary Brother
05-20-2007, 09:14 AM
No because they are all hookers.
GET REAL!