A hello and a few thoughts about TS women

[NjTranceAddict]

First of all, I'd like to say hello to everyone on the board. :) I've been reading it for about a year, and I finally decided to join. There are a lot of idiots that post here, but there's many more level-headed, smart, and overall NICE people that belong to this community.

I am so sick and tired of the men that talk about ts women like they are pieces of garbage, and I'm even sicker and more tired of the ts women that ignore the insults and placate to these men to make a buck. I know why you escort, and I understand your situation, but where has the respect gone? Most men don't view ts women as WOMEN, rather objects of fantasy; a fantay that is fulfilled monetarily. It's sad.

I know it's rare to find a ts woman who has a real job, is naturally-developed and is completely passable. It is, however, not impossible. The fact that most men assume all pretty, passable ts women are escorts just sucks. A lot of ts women are distrustful of most men, which is understandable, but unfortunately most men are willing to pay for sex. Guess what? There are a lot of men out there who have never paid for sex, never will and some actually want a meaningful relationship with a transsexual woman.

I realize this may be perceived as more of a rant as opposed to just my thoughts, but I can no longer stand to see what is going on without voicing my opinion. I welcome all thoughts and criticism, but please, no hate. And again, hello to everyone on the board.
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[Alison Faraday]

Hello,

Welcome :)

Good post. I think you've knocked it on the head. You're not ranting at all. None of us dare say it.

Unfortunately as of late, HA is fast becoming a very negative and hostile place. It just leaves you with that feeling that it's not worth the hassle.

But anyway, welcome. :)

Aly x

[MacShreach]

Hi, well, speaking as one who does pay for sex, I don't see there is any correlation between that and respect. I don't disrespect any of the other people I do business with because I'm paying them money, and, providing the girl is professional in her attitude, clean and honest, I will treat her with great respect. That is simple good manners.

I certainly do not assume that all pretty, passable TS women escort; however as a consumer I would not be interested in purchasing the services of an escort who was not pretty. After all there are plenty of pretty genetic girls out there offering various forms of entertainment. Why would I go with an obvious guy-in-a-skirt when I can spend some time with a cute GG? Makes no sense.

The whole thing is skewed because this and places like it are crawling with gay men who just want one thing, the dick, and the rest of the girl can go hang. Because the girl is reduced to a fetish surrounding a male member, naturally they disrespect her. Every TS I've had has at first been very cautious (to say the least) until I have taken control of the situation (I'm quite dominant) and shown her that I intended to treat her like a lady.

IMO there's nothing wrong with sex for pay-- it does not demean anyone. If people want to crawl in the gutter, do drugs, rob clients and disrespect themselves, that's their own business, it happens, it's sad for the girls, but that's life.

Anyway, welcome aboard, have fun.

[vanished]

Interesting post. A couple of weekends ago I woke up in bed with an attractive tgirl after a lovely evening of mutual ravishing. As I laid there, I thought how beautiful the sun was and whistful I was for the evening already and what would life be like with her.

All we and our women want is a normal, loving life - we are all looking for love. And it's so elusive. But your post says one thing and says it well : don't stop looking for love - someone else is looking - and it may well be for you.