Question about the parties

[dasonying]

What exactly are they like? What should I expect? Like is it a lot of dancing? or is it more drinking? or is it lounging? I'm trying to find out so when I go, I have the right mindset ya kno?

[sucka4chix]

What exactly are they like? What should I expect? Like is it a lot of dancing? or is it more drinking? or is it lounging? I'm trying to find out so when I go, I have the right mindset ya kno?
It's a party with lotsa beautiful chicks only they have dicks. The girls will be dancing--- more a la strip club than a dance club, but no real stripping. Most of the girls making googly eyes at you will want you to spend $$$ on them, but they will be making those eyes at you.
Get off the bench,get in the game. It's fun.

[TheOne1]

they are exactly like the party pictures posted on this site, only animated and with sound

[Caleigh]

like they say ^^^^^^

[dasonying]

How do u know if they are just after ur money or if they just wanna meet you? Coz I'd rather know before starting a conversation.

[hwbs]

dude you are worrying too much..just show up and go with the flow....

[vanished]

dude you are worrying too much..just show up and go with the flow....

Precisely. Attending these sorts of parties, if you are an admirer, is like being cast into an exotic world where for an evening, you are in the same room breathing and drinking with these gorgeous creatures. Sure some are entrepeneurs - nothing is free in this world. But you would be quite surprised at the genuine kindness and sultry friendliness that will shine through with most of the women there if you simply chat with them. They are there to be loved, adored and admired and you are there to exult in their beauty and admire them in return, perhaps going home with someone that has a connection with you and you with her.

It is beautiful - drench yourself in the erotic exotica. Think of a world without these parties. Hung Angels would be our only source for satisfaction and that would be sad indeed - we need to be with these beauties in person.

And don't forget to show respect.

[Caleigh]

But let's be clear that pretty much all of the girls
at VAPOR are escorts. You are very cute so maybe
they will throw you a freebie but this is a commerical
situation.

Am I wrong?

[hwbs]

you can meet girls ...its not impossible...if a girl says some shit I don't like I will just walk away or tell her to take a hike, lmao...you are in the same situation at normal bars....you ever hear of social climbers.....where I live girls want to see your resume and portfolio b4 you even share a drink....is it any different :idea:

[Caleigh]

I guess that I'm just used to mostly hanging out at
my work where we don't have any TV's at the bar
intentionally to encourage conversation between
strangers at the bar. Conversation about sports,
art, current events, whatever. But that's a bar/rest
not a club, granted.

[specialk]

How do u know if they are just after ur money or if they just wanna meet you? Coz I'd rather know before starting a conversation.

In your case, I would err on the side of caution.....assume they all want your money, the more you flash, the more they like you. :wink:

[dasonying]

Dang, that's what I'm trying not to do. I mean, I'd love to meet a girl that's just like any other girl. I'm not trying to have to pay to be with one. I agree that they are gorgeous, but I think it's rather degrading for both the man and the woman to have monetary exchange. And about telling me that i worry too much...I'm not ballin like u are man. I'm a college student, you know we broke.

[hwbs]

you going to RPI ?

[Caleigh]

Meeting non-escort Tgirls is hard. There must be a
dozen threads on here about it. The situation as I
see it is... at VAPOR the girls are very fine but 99%
are escorts. You go, you party a bit, you go home.
At Ina's Party @The Silver Swan (google it) the girls
are more mixed CD/TV/TG/TS but few(er) escorts.
I don't know this CK party that people talk about.

That, or you start doing some research on all of
those TG personals sites that have also been
mentioned previously.

[hwbs]

I am not looking for a wife at the bars...so it doesnt matter to me what they do 4 a living..

[specialk]

Dang, that's what I'm trying not to do. I mean, I'd love to meet a girl that's just like any other girl. I'm not trying to have to pay to be with one. I agree that they are gorgeous, but I think it's rather degrading for both the man and the woman to have monetary exchange. And about telling me that i worry too much...I'm not ballin like u are man. I'm a college student, you know we broke.

Stay home......when you graduate college and make it to CEO of a fortune 500 company, or are in D.C. in the White House, then go and have a good time. You won't give a shit about money then, you'll have plenty of other peoples to pass around. By then you'll also be over the degradation factor, as a corporate whore yourself! :wink:

[dasonying]

Dang, that's what I'm trying not to do. I mean, I'd love to meet a girl that's just like any other girl. I'm not trying to have to pay to be with one. I agree that they are gorgeous, but I think it's rather degrading for both the man and the woman to have monetary exchange. And about telling me that i worry too much...I'm not ballin like u are man. I'm a college student, you know we broke.

Stay home......when you graduate college and make it to CEO of a fortune 500 company, or are in D.C. in the White House, then go and have a good time. You won't give a shit about money then, you'll have plenty of other peoples to pass around. By then you'll also be over the degradation factor, as a corporate whore yourself! :wink:

Lol. Werd! Well, i guess that's true, but i'll still go check out the party anyway, i'll just not expect anything.

[sucka4chix]

Dang, that's what I'm trying not to do. I mean, I'd love to meet a girl that's just like any other girl. I'm not trying to have to pay to be with one. I agree that they are gorgeous, but I think it's rather degrading for both the man and the woman to have monetary exchange. And about telling me that i worry too much...I'm not ballin like u are man. I'm a college student, you know we broke.

Stay home......when you graduate college and make it to CEO of a fortune 500 company, or are in D.C. in the White House, then go and have a good time. You won't give a shit about money then, you'll have plenty of other peoples to pass around. By then you'll also be over the degradation factor, as a corporate whore yourself! :wink:

Lol. Werd! Well, i guess that's true, but i'll still go check out the party anyway, i'll just not expect anything.
That's the best thing to do. Do you get laid everytime you go to a dance club--- I bet not. Same thing here. Just go have a few drinks,soak up the eye candy. Just enjoy the moment. Don't go looking for a wife OR a lay--- you can still have fun. There will be some girls who ignore you after they find you aren't gonna pay their rent, but they're not all like that.
You need to have SOME $$$ though---admissions not cheap (unless you can get in with the talent) and neither are drinks. $100 will go fast! Don't bring alot though, 'cause just like a strip club, if you bring it you'll spend it.

[the Adrienne Barbeaubot]

Don't I know it.

[the Adrienne Barbeaubot]

Honestly though, just go and have a good time bro! Allanah's and Sunny's parties are really awesome and you'll meet alot of nice people there. Enjoy!

[BeardedOne]

you going to RPI ?

*SNARK!* :lol:

It's about those damned steam tunnels, in'it? :lol: :lol:

It's basic common sense, really. All women want to be treated like queens, so buying some overly inflated drinks and stuffing some garters is to be expected at a club scene. If you don't want to go past that, don't leave the bar with them! Trade emails, or phone numbers, or chocolate cake recipes, if you want to get to know them on a more personal level than the pay-for-play model.

It's really a shame how TS relationships, at any level, are so tainted by the bar/escort scene. I've chatted with some incredible ladies via HA and other forums and, though they were (For the most part) pros, every one was sweet, intelligent (OK, only 94% on that), witty, and human.

If some guy gets grief out of an encounter with a girl from Vapor or Opaline or where-the-fuck-ever, I'm betting that at least 55% of it is on his sorry ass attitude/personality.