Is Sex Okay?

[MrsKellyPierce]

On The First Date?

AND NO THIS IS NOT ABOUT ESCORTING...THIS IS A DATE!!! DATE!!

[Tail Gunner]

Would have to say if ya click ya click and there should be nothing wrong with it, but that's just my humble opnion.

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

honestly YES, and I'm not being grimey, it's better to get it out the way, I'd hate to get involved with someone and play the waiting game and when it happens it sucks but you're too invested to leave the relationship which has progressed

[MrsKellyPierce]

Would have to say if ya click ya click and there should be nothing wrong with it, but that's just my humble opnion. Can you really "click" that fast? And how would you feel about the girl after?

[MrsKellyPierce]

Yes lol Leora who knew you were so naughty lol

[MrsKellyPierce]

For me this might sound hyprocritical. But the only people that get it on the first night are the ones that have been paying. And the ones that I choose as clients are the countless men that private me on here or myspace or other sites that just want to experiment or get their first time. I'm like ooh he is cute enough to go on a date with and if he wants to fuck me on the first night he is paying lol

[alrock_ny]

Would have to say if ya click ya click and there should be nothing wrong with it, but that's just my humble opnion. Can you really "click" that fast? And how would you feel about the girl after?

For me, no. If the girl puts out right away, I would probably think less of her. If she puts out with me that quickly, she's probably done so with other guys. Which makes her less than ideal dating material and just a one time fuck.

So I guess it depends on what your intentions are. Do you wanna seriously date the guy or are you looking for a fuck buddy? If you want a bf, then I say make him wait a little. It'll be worth it in the long run.

[MrsKellyPierce]

Would have to say if ya click ya click and there should be nothing wrong with it, but that's just my humble opnion. Can you really "click" that fast? And how would you feel about the girl after?

For me, no. If the girl puts out right away, I would probably think less of her. If she puts out with me that quickly, she's probably done so with other guys. Which makes her less than ideal dating material and just a one time fuck.

So I guess it depends on what your intentions are. Do you wanna seriously date the guy or are you looking for a fuck buddy? If you want a bf, then I say make him wait a little. It'll be worth it in the long run. See thats how I felt too. Even if I am escorting now. When guys come on too strong on the first date or expect sex or a kiss even. I think they are just out for one thing. And they may not be. But thats how I look at it.

[Rory]

hmm, only if it's an accident, like if the floor is slippery or something

[MrsKellyPierce]

hmm, only if it's an accident, like if the floor is slippery or something :lol:

[MrsKellyPierce]

I should amend my one word answer with, if I know it's someone that it isn't going to get too serious with and I'm feeling up for it after a good date.

For example, right now I know that anyone I'd go on a date with, the relationship is never going to develop that fully since I'm leaving in less than a month. But I should still go out and meet people and have a good time, whatever that may be. This is true, are you excited about moving to New York?

[Tail Gunner]

I would not feel less of the person, but if after a few min. when we met we just went at it that's a different story I guess.

[MrsKellyPierce]

I would not feel less of the person, but if after a few min. when we met we just went at it that's a different story I guess. so what would you think of a girl, if she didn't kiss you on the first date? Would you take that as a put-down?

[Tail Gunner]

Would all depend on so many things, conversation, body language, did she decide it was not for her, were we flirty and having fun, it's all so random that it's hard to nail down to one specific event, but if I like here I guess it would be a bummer at least on my side.

[MrsKellyPierce]

I'm very excited to get up there. Most excited to buy new furniture including a vanity and new bed :) I'm still unsure where I'm going to end up though. A friend of mine in New Haven tells me the apartment across from hers is available and it would be cool to have a friend right there but I want to get as close to NYC as I can get (at least I can take the train from New Haven anytime I want). I was going to move straight to NYC but now that I'm coming up on my own I'd first like to live outside of it and get to know it better and maybe met some people there first. Then when my lease runs out I can make the move into the city. Will also allow me time to asses my finances first too, make sure I can afford it. Figure out what I'm going to do. That sounds like a lot of fun. I'm sure you'll make it big in NYC girl. But yeah that is smart on your part.

[MrsKellyPierce]

Would all depend on so many things, conversation, body language, did she decide it was not for her, were we flirty and having fun, it's all so random that it's hard to nail down to one specific event, but if I like here I guess it would be a bummer at least on my side. I guess cause I make it a point never to kiss on the first date just a hug lol

[biGGdaDDy*]

me being a man

i obviously wouldnt see too much of a problem with sexing on the 1st night
but after i chill with you
and you give in....and end up lettin be bust the moment i meet you
dont try to talk to me about integrity and class and all that

[shaKes head]

i dont wanna hear it-



ps--like i said....i dont have beef with sex the 1st night
but sometimes its hard to respect and take a person serious when all they showin you is a fukk

[hwbs]

not with me..def no...in this community it seems to be sex 1st relationship 2nd...i play by my own rules...it helps to weed out thirsty biatches and size queens...they usually have little or no patience :twisted: ...i dont think its wrong to have sex on a first date....it just isnt for me..

[Ecstatic]

Depends on the people involved. For some, yeah, sex on the first date is fine. For others, no, it would cheapen the relationship. For me, it's a moot point since I don't date. (I do hook up with a friend now and then, but that's a pony of a different hue.)

[jiggly]

I'm very excited to get up there. Most excited to buy new furniture including a vanity and new bed :) I'm still unsure where I'm going to end up though. A friend of mine in New Haven tells me the apartment across from hers is available and it would be cool to have a friend right there but I want to get as close to NYC as I can get (at least I can take the train from New Haven anytime I want). I was going to move straight to NYC but now that I'm coming up on my own I'd first like to live outside of it and get to know it better and maybe met some people there first. Then when my lease runs out I can make the move into the city. Will also allow me time to asses my finances first too, make sure I can afford it. Figure out what I'm going to do.

Where in new haven, some of new haven REALLY sucks..... not quite as bad as hartford, but it still sucks.



Would all depend on so many things, conversation, body language, did she decide it was not for her, were we flirty and having fun, it's all so random that it's hard to nail down to one specific event, but if I like here I guess it would be a bummer at least on my side. I guess cause I make it a point never to kiss on the first date just a hug lol

a HUG!!!? I take that as hey, i had a great time, we should do it again sometime...... as friends

[Kriss]

honestly YES, and I'm not being grimey, it's better to get it out the way, I'd hate to get involved with someone and play the waiting game and when it happens it sucks but you're too invested to leave the relationship which has progressed

:claps 8)