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MrsKellyPierce
04-22-2007, 08:37 PM
A Poll of how many guys feel awkward after having sex with a transexual or ashamed. BE HONEST!

MrsKellyPierce
04-22-2007, 08:39 PM
And Guys That Never Been With A Transexual..do you feel it's more a fantasy than anything?

MrsKellyPierce
04-22-2007, 08:42 PM
lol at 14 people viewing and not putting their opinions in...spineless.

Jericho
04-22-2007, 08:46 PM
Nope, felt many things, but never weird or ashamed :shrug

MrsKellyPierce
04-22-2007, 08:47 PM
Or what about those guys that did it once felt awkward and even freaked out a little but decided to try it again and the second time it was better. Lets hear the stories GEEZE.

MrsKellyPierce
04-22-2007, 08:48 PM
Nope, felt many things, but never weird or ashamed :shrug Thats good :) but I think some guys go through it like a fix...they feel awkward after or ashamed for awhile..then the fantasy and yearning for a transexual comes back again...and they repeat the cycle. And I was curious to see if we have any board members like that, I doubt anyone will say they do out of fear which is stupid. It's a message board.

gaiseric
04-22-2007, 08:51 PM
I've had sex with a lot of TS girls over the past 2 years and I can honestly say that I have never once felt ashamed. There have been times when I have floated down the street afterwards but that was normally after being with with one particular girl.
I suppose the main reason why I have never felt ashamed is because, right from the start, I always felt that being with TS's was the most natural thing for me.

Somedude21
04-22-2007, 08:53 PM
And Guys That Never Been With A Transexual..do you feel it's more a fantasy than anything?

Nope. I can very well see myself in a LTR with a transsexual. I'm just not looking for a relationship at the moment is all.

MrsKellyPierce
04-22-2007, 08:55 PM
I've had sex with a lot of TS girls over the past 2 years and I can honestly say that I have never once felt ashamed. There have been times when I have floated down the street afterwards but that was normally after being with with one particular girl.
I suppose the main reason why I have never felt ashamed is because, right from the start, I always felt that being with TS's was the most natural thing for me. I like how you put natural..so I take it you date transexuals then not just sleep with them?

MrsKellyPierce
04-22-2007, 08:56 PM
And Guys That Never Been With A Transexual..do you feel it's more a fantasy than anything?

Nope. I can very well see myself in a LTR with a transsexual. I'm just not looking for a relationship at the moment is all. Are you sure of this, even if you never done anything with the penis..or have you?

Jericho
04-22-2007, 09:04 PM
but I think some guys go through it like a fix...they feel awkward after or ashamed for awhile..then the fantasy and yearning for a transexual comes back again...and they repeat the cycle.

Interesting.
I can't say what's in someone elses head, but i would imagine that's the core reasoning of the 'dirty secret' brigade. The umarried ones, at least.

luvts/tvs
04-22-2007, 09:04 PM
i wouldnt know havent tried it yet but trying to get up the nerve to
funny you should ask that question cause ive wondered that myself
oh well maybe one day

Somedude21
04-22-2007, 09:14 PM
And Guys That Never Been With A Transexual..do you feel it's more a fantasy than anything?

Nope. I can very well see myself in a LTR with a transsexual. I'm just not looking for a relationship at the moment is all. Are you sure of this, even if you never done anything with the penis..or have you?

I've experimented when I was younger. While it was with a boy, I never felt ashamed because of it...despite what my dad tried to drill into me. Yes, I'm quite sure. A TS woman is a woman. I'm attracted to women. So what's the difference? I wouldn't feel any shame at all.

I realize that I can't speak from personal experience, so I'm not 100% sure. But I do know that I don't feel ashamed when I whack off to TS porn. No shame at all there.

LTR_Seeker
04-22-2007, 09:17 PM
I wont be ashamed or feel weird having sex with a female i dont label ts women saying she a ts woman i just say female that what you always been from birth i know very well youre a female in mind body & soul day & day out

gaiseric
04-22-2007, 09:18 PM
Kelly, in answer to your question, yes I have dated Transsexuals as well as slept with them. I am currently seeing a TS girl in London.

hwbs
04-22-2007, 10:31 PM
i was worried that i would feel awkward after my first time ....it was why i was skeptical my first time....there were no weird feelings afterwards... :lol:

Kriss
04-22-2007, 10:40 PM
lol at 14 people viewing and not putting their opinions in...spineless.

BUSY, Not "spineless". I'll get round to it, impatient wench! You're not too old to go over my knee Young Lady..........

whatsupwithat
04-22-2007, 10:41 PM
ashamed? never. well, that's not entirely true. i've felt something akin to shame because i'm really not into the 'just hooking up' thing (aka just sex) with girls and, well, when i have, it hasn't made me feel very good.

so, it's not sex with someone, it's sex without any intimacy that makes me feel bad.

scorpion
04-23-2007, 12:10 AM
I feel fine and very satisfied. I has spend the whole saturday and sunday together whit a real nice tg I has realy been waiting four to see again.
So my answer is . No I should never feel Ashamed or Weird After Sex With A Transexual. Its only make mee feel better 8)

JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel
04-23-2007, 12:14 AM
I don't feel guilty at all.............................. the few times I was with one I enjoyed watching her limp to the bathroom afterwards

Coroner
04-23-2007, 12:23 AM
And Guys That Never Been With A Transexual..do you feel it's more a fantasy than anything?

Itīs not a fantasy to me, Iīm just forced to keep it as a fantasy. If I was with a T-girl, I donīt know if it would be more than a sexual relationship but more than that wouldnīt be a problem. Honestly, all I know about T-girls is limited inside pornography. So, the fantasy is jerking-off...... I donīt feel ashamed after jerking-off but I laugh about myself after that because the imagination I use :lol: itīs just cheap :lol:

jiggly
04-23-2007, 02:26 AM
Im not sure. I used to feel ashamed after i masturbated to a ts, the whole am i gay thing would run through my head. But I feel that way after i climax with a gg (awkward / ashamed, not gay lol) every so often. I havent had the opportunity of actually being with a ts so i cant say if i would be ashamed after i had sex with one. I just cant get passed the whole paying for sex thing, i know i would be ashamed after climaxing (or at least by the time i got back to my car) with an escort, gg or not.

Tail Gunner
04-23-2007, 02:47 AM
As someone who is in the inital phases of a relationship with a transexual I just randomly met, I find that I could not be happier and very lucky at the same time.

Pajj
04-23-2007, 02:54 AM
I guess if I'm honest, I don't think I'd go for escorting, it's like someone putting something beautiful in front of you for a very short time, and then just taking it away again.

I would like to be in a relationship with a ts, i'd love to swap stories with her, as her life is obviously gonna be a lot more interesting than mine, but it's alot harder to find someone, a ts than a gg around here...

MacShreach
04-23-2007, 02:56 AM
Darling I would not be paying good money to let Big Mac have his wicked way if it made me feel bad. :idea:

dc_guy_75
04-23-2007, 03:02 AM
I've never felt ashamed, not anymore than I would with a gg, (especially if you have trouble remembering her name)...

I've felt proud though (that I satisfied her), a few times... ;)

Kriss
04-23-2007, 03:14 AM
i'd love to swap stories with her, .
I FEEL ASHAMED OF THIS JOKE!!!!BUT NEVER AFTER SEX!!!
:lol: yeah right, if you can get a word in edgeways :twisted:


used to feel ashamed after i masturbated to a ts, the whole am i gay thing would run through my head. But I feel that way after i climax with a gg (awkward / ashamed, not gay lol)

When you say "with a gg" do you mean sex "with a gg" or after masturbating over images of "a gg"??

MrsKellyPierce
04-23-2007, 03:45 AM
lol at 14 people viewing and not putting their opinions in...spineless.

BUSY, Not "spineless". I'll get round to it, impatient wench! You're not too old to go over my knee Young Lady.......... Kriss I'll beat you with stick lol :twisted:

dan_drade
04-23-2007, 04:02 AM
A Poll of how many guys feel awkward after having sex with a transexual or ashamed. BE HONEST!

To be honest with you, after my first time with a Transexual woman, I did feel a little akward. But now I think it is the most wonderful feeling ever. I will never go back to dating a GG. The few girls that I have been with were the sweetest girls I have ever met. And it is such a good feeling to wind up in bed close to someone that is a real sweetheart. Don't you think so Kelly?

Blovo
04-23-2007, 04:31 AM
Thats good :) but I think some guys go through it like a fix...they feel awkward after or ashamed for awhile..then the fantasy and yearning for a transexual comes back again...and they repeat the cycle. And I was curious to see if we have any board members like that, I doubt anyone will say they do out of fear which is stupid. It's a message board.

This was proven to be very true for myself. A few years back, when I was a bit younger(18 or so) I had a sexual encounter with a transexual. And afterward I was worried about the whole thing. I questioned my sexuality...the "OMG AM I GAY?!" thing...as well as worried about STD's and all that jazz. So I got myself tested(clean thank goodness) and came to accept that I like what I like "just cause dammit!" :D

I have not had sex with any transexuals since then. Do I think I would get weirded out again? Nah. I'd make it a point to get to know the person a bit more, hopefully to the "friend" level so it is not so akward. I'd rather avoid the "Oh crap! WTF DID I JUST DO! RUN!" feeling. :wink:

canihavu
04-23-2007, 04:35 AM
A Poll of how many guys feel awkward after having sex with a transexual or ashamed. BE HONEST!

Honestly I used to. In fact I would call up a GG and have sex with her after I would deal with a TGirl back in the day...

wombat33
04-23-2007, 04:48 AM
A Poll of how many guys feel awkward after having sex with a transexual or ashamed. BE HONEST!


The first few times I did. But the guilt was nto cause they are trannies............the guilt cae from paying for it and being married at the time.


I ahve been with t-girls on my own (no pros) and there was zero guilt. In fact I have been floating on air with one here in NYC I used to see.

newspimp
04-23-2007, 04:56 AM
I just had my first experience today and the only thing that felt weird was that a fantasy finally came true. That, and how weak my knees felt after I came with her hard cock in my mouth! :P

a994
04-23-2007, 05:00 AM
...but I think some guys go through it like a fix...they feel awkward after or ashamed for awhile..then the fantasy and yearning for a transexual comes back again...and they repeat the cycle.




As one person replied to what you said Kelly, it does encourage the "dirty little secret" or "on the down-low" mentality. That's why I will not seek to do anything intimate with a t-lady until I am sure that I will openly date or marry a t-lady (whether I actually end up doing so or not), relatives' and friends' opinions be damned. I say this because I want to be fair to the lady and not just view her as an object.

ezed
04-23-2007, 06:09 AM
Ashamed or wierd no. Twice it sucked as one girl was all business and the other was constantly running to the bathroom to take a line. All the many other times were wonderful! A fucking blast!

By the way the first time was a wonderful time, I still remember it.

MrsKellyPierce
04-23-2007, 06:58 AM
A Poll of how many guys feel awkward after having sex with a transexual or ashamed. BE HONEST!

Honestly I used to. In fact I would call up a GG and have sex with her after I would deal with a TGirl back in the day... Thank you for being honest.

QUESTION FOR ALL THE PREVIOUS POSTERS THAT BEEN WITH A TRANSEXUAL:

GEEZE have all your TS encounters only been with escorts??

MrsKellyPierce
04-23-2007, 07:01 AM
Thats good :) but I think some guys go through it like a fix...they feel awkward after or ashamed for awhile..then the fantasy and yearning for a transexual comes back again...and they repeat the cycle. And I was curious to see if we have any board members like that, I doubt anyone will say they do out of fear which is stupid. It's a message board.

This was proven to be very true for myself. A few years back, when I was a bit younger(18 or so) I had a sexual encounter with a transexual. And afterward I was worried about the whole thing. I questioned my sexuality...the "OMG AM I GAY?!" thing...as well as worried about STD's and all that jazz. So I got myself tested(clean thank goodness) and came to accept that I like what I like "just cause dammit!" :D

I have not had sex with any transexuals since then. Do I think I would get weirded out again? Nah. I'd make it a point to get to know the person a bit more, hopefully to the "friend" level so it is not so akward. I'd rather avoid the "Oh crap! WTF DID I JUST DO! RUN!" feeling. :wink: Ooh more honesty..I love it.. Thank you!!

dc_guy_75
04-23-2007, 07:25 AM
I've never paid, and I've been with 20 or so...

Blovo
04-23-2007, 09:39 AM
A Poll of how many guys feel awkward after having sex with a transexual or ashamed. BE HONEST!

Honestly I used to. In fact I would call up a GG and have sex with her after I would deal with a TGirl back in the day... Thank you for being honest.

QUESTION FOR ALL THE PREVIOUS POSTERS THAT BEEN WITH A TRANSEXUAL:

GEEZE have all your TS encounters only been with escorts??

hahaha. No, she was not an escort. Just a midnight internet fling.

I am also glad you enjoyed the honesty and the tale of woe. T'was quite an unenjoyable experience. :P

MacShreach
04-23-2007, 10:34 AM
GEEZE have all your TS encounters only been with escorts??

Only the sexual ones, Kelly.

While my commercial coituses with either GG or TG remain a very small proportion of my life total sexual experience, I would reckon these days that over half the women I have had sex with were on pay at the time. I didn't actually keep score in my twenties so it's hard to be sure, but I reckon.

mikejones
04-23-2007, 02:40 PM
Never felt ashamed after sex. Sometimes disappointed though. Some of the escorts are just obvious that they want your money and then want you gone. Didn't run into this too often, but I would feel really empty and disillusioned after these situations.

Believe it or not in my experience most escorts were more than willing to give the true GFE if you treated them with respect. Some were just good actresses, but I think some were actually looking for a real boyfriend.

The amateurs are always gems, but can be more difficult to find.

jiggly
04-24-2007, 03:30 AM
used to feel ashamed after i masturbated to a ts, the whole am i gay thing would run through my head. But I feel that way after i climax with a gg (awkward / ashamed, not gay lol)

When you say "with a gg" do you mean sex "with a gg" or after masturbating over images of "a gg"??

Sex, seems pointless masturbating to a gg, unless she is involved in some weird fetish....

BeardedOne
04-24-2007, 03:35 AM
Just caught up with this (On the road over the weekend).

I vote "No", because I don't feel 'weird or ashamed' after anything sexual/sensual. I mean, really, my last lover was a dyke that would regularly fist me. :roll:

'Awkward' would be another matter, but that has less to do with the act (And who/what it was with) than with the relationship (Or lack thereof). But hey, I'm socially inept and feel awkward giving a quarter to a tolltaker on the highway.

Go figure. :shrug

MrsKellyPierce
04-24-2007, 03:53 AM
I just don't see why you guys go through with it, if an ESCORT is RUDE TO YOU AND ACT LIKE THEY DON'T CARE. I'd be like BYE BYE.

bookaboom
04-24-2007, 04:55 AM
Nope, felt many things, but never weird or ashamed :shrug Thats good :) but I think some guys go through it like a fix...they feel awkward after or ashamed for awhile..then the fantasy and yearning for a transexual comes back again...and they repeat the cycle. And I was curious to see if we have any board members like that, I doubt anyone will say they do out of fear which is stupid. It's a message board.

For me its been like that. Every 12-18 months I need a fix. I do it, enjoy it and then hate myself the next day... Vow never to do it agian. But I do...

MrsKellyPierce
04-24-2007, 04:57 AM
Nope, felt many things, but never weird or ashamed :shrug Thats good :) but I think some guys go through it like a fix...they feel awkward after or ashamed for awhile..then the fantasy and yearning for a transexual comes back again...and they repeat the cycle. And I was curious to see if we have any board members like that, I doubt anyone will say they do out of fear which is stupid. It's a message board.

For me its been like that. Every 12-18 months I need a fix. I do it, enjoy it and then hate myself the next day... Vow never to do it agian. But I do... Can you tell me exactly why you hate yourself etc. Just curious not going to attack you.

freak
04-24-2007, 05:16 AM
I don't feel ashamed, just unsatisfied and disappointed which some could mistake as ashamed.

sexyredman
04-24-2007, 05:21 AM
A Poll of how many guys feel awkward after having sex with a transexual or ashamed. BE HONEST!

Only ashamed at cherry picking in the past.... not really into the girl but having sex with her because she is there... not worth it in the long run.

puttdaddy
05-29-2007, 02:18 AM
Since I've never been with any I'll answer your second question. I definitely don't think of it as just a fantasy. If I met a great girl I'd go for it in a heart beat

Ecstatic
05-29-2007, 04:07 AM
Only if she was an ass, never because she transsexual. ;)


I just don't see why you guys go through with it, if an ESCORT is RUDE TO YOU AND ACT LIKE THEY DON'T CARE. I'd be like BYE BYE.
Generally, the envelope with the stack of 20's is already on her night table, so we're out the money anyway and try to make the best of a bad situation. But there will never be a return visit to such a provider.

Over the past 2-3 years, I have only been with 3 or 4 tg escorts I know well, or friends with benefits. I want a satisfying encounter, whether I'm paying or not, and variety is often a bland spice, lol.

Mike_j
05-29-2007, 04:25 AM
no i dont feel awkward after having sex with a transexual, i was actualy in a Ltr for 3yrs with a Ts