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blacktsjessica
12-18-2004, 07:41 PM
I WENT TO HER PARTY ON 12-17 AND THERE WERE SO MANY MEN THERE SOME OF THEM WERE VERY GOOD LOOKING BUT THE ONLY PROBLEM IS THE GUYS I COME IN CONTACT WITH ARE CHEAP.THEY WANT TO FEEL ME UP AND SAY NASTY THINGS TO ME SO I POLITELY ASK THEM FOR A LAP DANCE AND THEY SAY"IM GOOD LOOKING I SHOULD GET ONE FOR FREE". PLEASE IF THEY WANT TO FEEL ME UP PROVIDE ME WITH SOME FUNDS. I HAVE NO PROBLEM WITH CONVO JUST DON'T COME AT ME LIKE THAT. AND THIS NO REFLECTION ON THE OTHER BLACK GIRLS ,I REPRESENT ME ONLY NOT OTHER GIRLS.

blacktsjessica
12-18-2004, 11:13 PM
YOUR ? ARE RATHER NONSENSE I SAID THAT THE GUYS THAT APPROACH ME TALK EVERTHING I WANT TO HEAR AS SOON AS I TELL THEM WHAT IM ABOUT THEY QUICKLY GIVE CHEAP AND ITS NOT ME IM PRETTY AND SO ARE THE OTHER BLK GIRLS THAT SAY THE SAME THING ITS NOT THE GIRLS FAULT ITS NOBODY FAULT I JUST WANTED TO SIMPLY STATE MY OPINION AND WHAT IM FEELING IM NOT MAKE IT INTO A RACE ISSUE EVERYONE HAVE THERE OWN PREFERNCE I HAVE MY OWN TO I PREFER LATINS TOO BUT WHEN IT COMES TO BUSINESS ITS A TWO WAY STREET

tslover87
12-19-2004, 01:06 AM
I was at the party last night and I saw a lot of beutiful looking sisters and I will say that I really wanted to ask many for a lap dance but was way too nervous or just plain shy.
As for J's response, there is no need to be sarcastic on here when someone is asking a question. It is replies like yours that make people like myself not want to write anything on here.
I want to thank all the ladies that made this nighta very memorable night. Thank you all for coming out.

flabbybody
12-19-2004, 04:15 AM
Jessica
I come to Allanah's parties to see my friends and meet girls. When someone comes on to me with the hard sell lap dance thing, I'm turned off. I'm sorry if if it seems the latin girls are getting that business easier than the sisters. I want to talk to you, get to know you, take your phone number, and meet you in a different enviornment. It's not about $20 grind sessions on the third floor.

Evilhomer
12-19-2004, 04:32 AM
J you need to relax a little ... you seem a bit defensive... even though i somewhat agree with you. I guess it all comes down to personal preferance. I don't think that they are being cheap. Its more of the matter that if you are going to spend your money on a lap dance. you should spend it on the type of girl that you like. I personally don't think i would spend my money on a lap dance and I am not remotely cheap. But if i did you better believe she's going to be HOT. And there is a difference. I would talk to a cute girl but it doesn't mean im willing to spend $20 for her to grind on my lap. Just my 2 cents.

blacktsjessica
12-19-2004, 10:09 AM
THIS ? WASN'T TOWARDS ANY PERTICULAR PERSONS I SHOULD HAVE MADE THE ? A LITTLE DIFFERENT DIDNT MEAN TO SOUND RACES IM NOT I LOVE EVERYONE. MERELY GIVING MY EXPERIENCE ON THE TYPE OF GUYS THAT CAME UP TO ME AND I HAVE FRIENDS AT THE PARTIES THAT SAYS THE SAME THING I JUST SAY THAT THE GUYS I ATTRACT ARE CHEAP THEY WOULD SAY SOMETHING LIKE IM ATTRACTIVE AND I HAVE A BIG COCK I SHOULD GET A DANCE FOR FREE THATS WHY I SAID THEY ARE CHEAP THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH EVERY GUY IN THERE I ALSO HAD LATIN GUYS APPROACH ME ITS EVERYONES PREFENCE ON WHO THEY LIKE AND FOR J YOU MUST BE SOME TIRED CHA CHA QUEEN TO MAKE A COMMENT LIKE ONLY PRETTY GIRLS MAKE $$ AT THESE PARTIES BEAUTY IS IN THE EYE OF BEHOLDER I SAY 90 PERCENT OF THE GIRLS THERE ARE PRETTY IN THEIR OWN WAY SO J YOU KNOW WHAT YOU CAN DO WITH YOUR COMMENTS.

zerrrr
12-19-2004, 11:14 AM
Jessica,

Here is what I goes through my eyes at the parties. I have a boyish face and dress well, which tends to attract a lot of attention from the girls. When a girl approaches me, grabs my crotch, asks to go upstairs where she will give me her phone number I refuse. She then asks for a tip, I blow her off, and she walks away pissed off. Well, jeez honey, maybe if you came onto me with a bit more class than a two bit whore. I get that from latino, black, and asian women.

At the last party, Jenny or Jlo came up to me said that she would give me her number if I paid $80 and went upstairs with her. Let's see, I can either look the number up on eros, shemaleescortreview.com, or any one of the grooby sites for free (well, i am a member) so why pay 80 bucks? I think it comes down to attitude. If the girls have a pushy attitude it turns off the guys. A lot of guys are nervous at the parties. Instead of acting crazy maybe the girls should play it cool and use a soft sell approach. Be cool with the guys and get them to open up with a little conversation.

GroobySteven
12-19-2004, 11:43 AM
Zerr hit the hammer on the head. It's attitude - not sure how you approach guys Jessica (ot what you say to them when they approach you) so this isn't directed at you. I'm more than willing to pay out more than most guys for a good time but I don't want to feel I'm getting hussled for it. If I'm getting played or demands like you mentioned, I'm not paying out anything - I'll walk away and find someone without that attitude.
seanchai

tsluver247
12-19-2004, 12:09 PM
It could be simple supply and demand. Also, rates are generally lower in NYC versus other cities in the US.

phungu2
12-19-2004, 12:16 PM
Jessica,

Here is what I goes through my eyes at the parties. I have a boyish face and dress well, which tends to attract a lot of attention from the girls. When a girl approaches me, grabs my crotch, asks to go upstairs where she will give me her phone number I refuse. She then asks for a tip, I blow her off, and she walks away pissed off. Well, jeez honey, maybe if you came onto me with a bit more class than a two bit whore. I get that from latino, black, and asian women.

At the last party, Jenny or Jlo came up to me said that she would give me her number if I paid $80 and went upstairs with her. .

then its not your boyish face they're after, its whats in your wallet.

if they're interested in you personally, they wont ask for a lapdance or tips etc. they'll just hang around and flirt with you drink talk etc, no business. this applies to trannies at these parties as well as gf strippers etc.

Holger
12-19-2004, 03:29 PM
This is my first post, let's see how it comes out:
I was at one of those parties, and it is a great place to take a small step from virtual to real. I had an experience with a african american girl, she approached me and asked, not politely, more in an angry manner: "Do you want to spend Dollars on me?", you can only say "no" to this, right? And I did, so she yelled at me and left. I call this cheap. No matter which girl approaches me in this way I would have to decline. This is way before it comes to looks or race...
Holger

hillbilly
12-19-2004, 04:50 PM
its all about attitude.

i've gottent to the point that i'll only get a dance from girls i know.

some of the girls are to be honest just a royal pain in the ass.

for example i helped a friend of mine photoshop some pics for this one girl that was at the party. having never met her i went over to introduce myself.

"hi, i'm hillbilly(hahha um not my real name) you're Bonita's friend Marlena?"

looks at me like meat at the is point acting standoffish then the first words out of her mouth are

"you have tip for me?"

"huh"

"you have tip for me?"

"huh? no i'm just saying hi. i helped bonita with your pictures"

"ok, you have tip for me?"

"huh, what!?! hey fuck off"

i walk away

yeah i got pissed. i don't want to sound like some silly old timer wishing it was the old days but there was a time when you could talk to people for fun at parties without a dollar sign smacked like a bullseye on your head. in the end if you didn't want to hook up then that was cool too. you parted ways and at least you have met a new person.

Caleigh
12-19-2004, 05:28 PM
wow, just another reason not to attend these parties

zerrrr
12-19-2004, 06:25 PM
wow, just another reason not to attend these parties

Don't let the conversation discouage you. For every girl huslting there is a cool girl hanging out. Like any bar or club you have to pick the girl you want to be with. A gg could look great in a bar but when you talk to her she can just as easl\ily come off as a hustler.

Seanchai, I feel the exact same way. I have paid more for girls that were fantastic and gave me a great experienced. If the girl made me feel like I was hustled then forget it.

Yes I know and understand that you have to pay your rent and make a living but make me feel special and I will come back time and time again.

Uncut
12-19-2004, 07:51 PM
JESSICA i love black t girls I am from NJ Where are u located?

magic9inch
12-19-2004, 08:03 PM
SORRY TO TELL YOU JESSICA. BUT GIRLS LIE TO YOU TO GET YOU TO PAY FOR LAP DANCES. NOT EVERBODY GO TO PARTY TO WASTE HARD EARN MONEY DOING THE WEEK TO SATISFIED YOUR NEEED. MOST MIGHT GO TO MEET A TGIRL WORTH DATING, NOT A TGIRL ON SOME BULLSHIT, TRYING TO GET RICH OF ME OR ANY OTHER GUY.

blacktsjessica
12-19-2004, 10:20 PM
FIRST LET ME SAY TO MR.J I SAY BEAUTY IS IN THE EYE OF THE BEHOLDER BECAUSE IM A BEAUTIFUL PERSON INSIDE AND OUT DESPITE WHAT I DO $$. IF YOU WANT TO SEE MY PHOTO GO TO THE PERSONAL SECTION AND LOOK FOR MY TOPIC AND YOU SEE FOR YOURSELF. WHERES YOUR PIC YOU HARD MAN. SECOND IM KINDA SHY, ALWAYS HAVE BEEN IM NOT JUST OUT TO GET RICH OFF ANYONE, IM A SMART AND LOVING PERSON I ONLY GIVE TO PEOPLE WHAT THEY GIVE ME .ALL MY TS LIFE WHICH 15 YEARS LIVING AS A WOMEN I BEEN HURT SO MUCH THAT IM SCARED TO TRUST ANYONE. OF COURSE I WOULD LIKE A RELATIONSHIP BUT, I CANT TRUST ANYONE AND I DONT APPROACH THE GUYS THEY COME TO ME. I GREET THEM BY SAYING MY NAME AND A LITTLE CONVO, I MAKE MONEY AT THE PARTIES ITS ONLY SOMETIMES I RUN INTO A ASSHOLE THAT THINKS BECAUSE HES CUTE YOU SHOULD GIVE HIM PLEASURE FOR FREE AND I REFUSE TO DO THAT BECAUSE I LIKE TO WEAR DESIGNER CLOTHES AND SHOES TOO MUCH.BESIDE I AM A HAIRDRESSER AND FASHION DESIGNER PART TIME,SO I DONT DEPEND ON GETTING $$ THIS WAY TO PAY FOR BILLS,IM A GO GETTER AND I DONT DEPEND ON NOONE. I NEVER HAVE AND NEVER WILL. I ALWAYS SAID IF I HAD TO STRUGGLE LIKE SOME OF THE GIRLS NOT KNOWING WHERE THERE NEXT MEAL IS COMING FROM I WILL DRESS LIKE A MAN TO GET A JOB TO PAY MY BILLS .I HAVE WORKED AS A WOMEN AT DEPARTMENT STORES. I GUESS I LIKE EASY $$ BUT ITS NOT ALL ABOUT THE MONEY.

blacktsjessica
12-19-2004, 10:33 PM
HERES SOME PICS OF ME TAKEN 12-2-2004

blacktsjessica
12-19-2004, 10:36 PM
MORE

magic9inch
12-20-2004, 03:27 AM
WITH YOU LOOKING LIKE THAT. YOU SHOULD BE FREE! :lol:

flabbybody
12-20-2004, 03:43 AM
that's a shitty thing to say magic. Jessica's come here to say some personal stuff about her life and she's posted her pic.

there's 2 weeks left to the year. let's make a resolution about not posting what magic9inch wrote. We're in this life together, for better or worse, the girls and the chasers. 2005 will be the year we all like and respect each other. let's have fun and play safe. merry Xmas.

GroobySteven
12-20-2004, 03:49 AM
WITH YOU LOOKING LIKE THAT. YOU SHOULD BE FREE! :lol:


Dozy ignorant twat...

magic9inch
12-20-2004, 04:12 AM
i'm sorry :cry:

Felicia Katt
12-20-2004, 04:13 AM
WITH YOU LOOKING LIKE THAT. YOU SHOULD BE FREE! :lol:

if you look even half as bad as your attitude, no amount of money would be enough.

blacktsjessica
12-20-2004, 09:38 PM
yes j your right a new year is coming in so lets not bring it in with shade . magic9inches i wont go back and fourth on your commint but i have no problem meeting attractive guys so your comment is worth me laughing at thank you for that i appreciate it .

Bigguy
12-20-2004, 09:57 PM
Jessica, is this you I took a picture of up in the lap dance room?

Edit: :-? The picture wasn't that bad

blacktsjessica
12-20-2004, 11:40 PM
bigguy please take that awful pic off here thats a bad pic of me please remove asap

magic9inch
12-21-2004, 12:35 AM
asap asap=TI

flabbybody
12-21-2004, 01:39 AM
You're forgiven magic. we've all said things we wish we could take back.

blacktsjessica
12-21-2004, 04:19 AM
MAGIC YOU ARE SO YES THAT PIC IS NOT GRAND PRIZE, I CAN LAUGH AT STUFF LIKE THIS BECAUSE I KNOW WHO I AM IM SECURE WITH MYSELF AGAIN BIGGUY ASAPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP.

blacktsjessica
12-21-2004, 04:20 AM
MAGIC YOU ARE SO YES THAT PIC IS NOT GRAND PRIZE, I CAN LAUGH AT STUFF LIKE THIS BECAUSE I KNOW WHO I AM IM SECURE WITH MYSELF AGAIN BIGGUY ASAPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP.

TexasTman
12-21-2004, 05:05 AM
Magic is a prick to start with. It comes as no surprise that he doesn't like your pic. he only likes pictures of large cocks.

If you have a giant cock, it doesn't matter WHAT you look like. Magic will like you!

Felicia Katt
12-21-2004, 05:35 AM
i'm sorry :cry:

if you check the times our messages were posted, we were posting at the same time.

If I had seen your apology, I wouldn't have said anything. Now I will just say thank you for doing the right thing


Felicia

magic9inch
12-21-2004, 07:47 AM
THATS A LIE TEXAS MAN
TO ME S. HOLMES ITS NOT ATTRACTIVE
YOU HAVE TO HAVE THE WHOLE PACKAGE TS LADIES. FOR YOU TEXAS MAN STAY THE FUKK OUT MY BUSINESS, YOU BUSH LOVER. I AINT TAKE SHYT BACK WHAT I SAID IN MY OLD POST. FUKK YOU, PAY ME.

ONEWORLD
12-21-2004, 08:27 AM
YOUR ? ARE RATHER NONSENSE I SAID THAT THE GUYS THAT APPROACH ME TALK EVERTHING I WANT TO HEAR AS SOON AS I TELL THEM WHAT IM ABOUT THEY QUICKLY GIVE CHEAP AND ITS NOT ME IM PRETTY AND SO ARE THE OTHER BLK GIRLS THAT SAY THE SAME THING ITS NOT THE GIRLS FAULT ITS NOBODY FAULT I JUST WANTED TO SIMPLY STATE MY OPINION AND WHAT IM FEELING IM NOT MAKE IT INTO A RACE ISSUE EVERYONE HAVE THERE OWN PREFERNCE I HAVE MY OWN TO I PREFER LATINS TOO BUT WHEN IT COMES TO BUSINESS ITS A TWO WAY STREET

MAMA, WHAT ARE YOU GIVING?...THIS ENTIRE THREAD IS NOT A GOOD LOOK FOR YOU...YOU ARE ALL OVER THE PLACE...FIRST RACE IS AN ISSUE, THEN IT'S NOT...YOU HAVE PREFERENCES BUT OTHER CAN'T...WE ALL KNOW THAT THERE ARE TONS OF BLACK TRANSEXUALS,SOME IN YOUR OWN HOUSE, THAT WOULD MAKE THESE DUDES CANCEL THEIR FLIGHTS AND LOOK INTO JOB RELOCATION, LOL...BUT THEY DON'T LIVE LIKE THAT...AND IF THEY DO ESCORT, THERE VERY DISCREET ABOUT IT...LIKE THUG INTELLECT SAID IN ANOTHER POST, THE PHOTOS OF THE BLACK GIRLS LOOK MORE LIKE WEEKEND DRAG QUEENS AND BITCHES THAT ARE SURGED DOWN BUT WOULDN'T KNOW A FEMALE HORMONE IF IT WAS SHOVED UP THEIR ASS, LOL. I THINK THE BEST ANALOGY USED WAS THE ONE ABOUT THE STRIP CLUB.

FOR ANYONE WHO HAS FREQUENTED A STRIP CLUB KNOWS, THERE ARE ALWAYS THE HOT GIRLS THAT JUST HAVE TO SHOW UP AND GET STORMED BY EVERY WALLET IN THE JOINT AND THE UGLY GIRLS THAT HAVE TO GO BY EVERY FUCKING TABLE ASKING FOR A TABLE DANCE…


...SO STOP WHINING, AND START YOUR OWN PARTY :wink:

magic9inch
12-21-2004, 08:37 AM
I HATE STRIP CLUBS. THEY LIE TO MUCH. I CANT STAND STRIP CLUBS.THATS WHY I DONT GO NO MORE. THE LADIES ARE FULL OF SHTIT

ONEWORLD
12-21-2004, 08:41 AM
I HATE STRIP CLUBS. THEY LIE TO MUCH. I CANT STAND STRIP CLUBS.THATS WHY I DONT GO NO MORE. THE LADIES ARE FULL OF SHTIT

YEAH, I WOULD HAVE TO AGREE WITH YOU ON THAT ONE...STRIP CLUBS OR ESCORTS...IT'S ALL A GAME THAT I'VE OUT-GROWNED.

TexasTman
12-21-2004, 03:35 PM
Magic, just look at the history of your posts. All you ever ask for are more pictures of the girls cocks! Get real!

kaysla
12-21-2004, 03:48 PM
I dont understand why the women in these party just want to tell you the price when you say hi to them , then if you dont want to pay for it they want to go tell there girl friends. I was at the bar getting this lovely women a drink when some shedevil came over and sayed " you didnt want to spend the money on me". Why couldn't it be i wanted to get someones number and get to know them and go out or go to dinner , why is it i just have to go to the bathroom and get off and the never get to call her or get to kiss her and make her my women . The problem is, is that there are to many man on this site and in your party who's wife dont know where there going and they have to do it then and there and go home and kiss there wifes , i dont have that problem so women , STOP THINKING WE ALL HAVE WOMEN AT HOME.....

blacktsjessica
12-21-2004, 08:08 PM
ONEWORLD WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT YOU JUST HAD TO PUT YOUR 1CENT IN THIS I REPHASE MY ? BY SAYING NOT EVERY GUY AT THESE PARTIES ARE CHEAP I HAVE GUYS BUYING ME DRINKS AND ASKING MY NAME FIRST BEFORE THEY SSTART TO GET RUDE BY TRYING TO FEEL ME UP SO KEEP YOUR COMMENTS TO YOURSELF BECAUSE ITS WORTH NADA

kaysla
12-21-2004, 08:37 PM
Are you upset because you try to make the party your work place? I think that if your working you should just wear a sign thta says " I dont need to just need the doe". so we know you just there to hide in the bathroom and go to work. Sorry didnt know i was partying at your work place. 8)

ONEWORLD
12-21-2004, 11:27 PM
ONEWORLD WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT YOU JUST HAD TO PUT YOUR 1CENT IN THIS...

1CENT?…NAH MA, THESE WORDS ARE FREE. YOU CAN USE THAT PENNY AS A DOWN PAYMENT ON A NEW PORTFOLIO.
THIS WAS MORE OF AN OPEN LETTER TO THE GUYS WHO ARE NEW TO THE GAME OR NEW TO “THIS LIFE”. TRUE BLACK TRANSEXUALS HAVE TAKEN A BEATING IN THIS THREAD BECAUSE OF YOU. YOU AND THOSE MONEY-HUNGRY MONGRELS AT THE PARTY ARE NOT REPRESENTATIVE OF ALL BLACK TRANSEXUALS; ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU GET OUT OF THE TRI-STATE AREA. YEAH I KNOW THAT YOU CAN’T TAKE YOUR “MONES”, BECAUSE YOU HAVE TO STAY “FUNCTIONAL”, BUT SOME GUYS ARE NOT LOOKING FOR THAT…I THINK IT’S SAFE TO SAY THAT ALL THE GUYS WANTED CONVERSATION THOUGH, SO YOU HAVE FROM NOW TO THE NEXT PARTY TO BREAKOUT A NEWSWEEK OR WALLSTREET JOURNAL AND BONE UPNO PUN ATTENDEDON YOUR CURRENT EVENTS.



I REPHASE MY ? BY SAYING NOT EVERY GUY AT THESE PARTIES ARE CHEAP I HAVE GUYS BUYING ME DRINKS AND ASKING MY NAME FIRST BEFORE THEY SSTART TO GET RUDE BY TRYING TO FEEL ME UP.

YEAH, BUT THAT INITIAL POST WAS THE ONE THAT DID THE DAMAGE MAMA...THOUGH, MOST DUDES THAT RESPONDED NEW THAT YOU ARE NOT A REFLECTION OF ALL BLACK TRANSEXUALS, I STILL FELT COMPELLED TO RESPOND.



SO KEEP YOUR COMMENTS TO YOURSELF BECAUSE ITS WORTH NADA


GEE MISS EBONY, JUDGING FROM SOME OF THE COMMENTS ON THIS BOARD, WHO REALLY IS WORTH NADA :wink:



DUST.

ONEWORLD
12-21-2004, 11:49 PM
If you are a ts doing drag shows, working at gay bars,
and competing in pageants
that is not leading a "st8" life

leading a st8 life is a girl who works a 9-5 or has a career
outside
of this and that world.

…DATING A TRUE TRANSEXUAL THAT DOES PAGEANTS AND SHOWS (NOT A FEMALE IMPERSONATOR) IS NO DIFFERENT FROM DATING A VEGAS SHOW GIRL, A BEAUTY PAGEANT CONTESTANT, OR A STRIPPER…SO GENETIC WOMEN WHO HAVE THESE CAREERS IN ENTERTAINMENT ARE NOT LIVING A “STRAIGHT LIFE” BECAUSE IT’S NOT 9TO5?

hillbilly
12-22-2004, 12:39 AM
yadda yadda yadda.

if jessica doen't like the scene then she should just not go.

simple as simple is.

blacktsjessica
12-22-2004, 01:08 AM
ok this is my last post on this topic. im sorry if i affended anybody, im not a nasty person and i love to attended the parties just for fun, but if a guy wants a lap dance i shall fulfill his desires its simple as that, and happy holidays to everyone to responded to this post no harm intended.

magic9inch
12-22-2004, 03:29 AM
TEXASMAN DONT USE THIS POST TO REACH OUT TO ME LOSER. FUCK YOU, PAY ME

SPOOKABLE_TRANNY
12-22-2004, 06:14 PM
you're pretty?

lmw222001
12-22-2004, 10:06 PM
There's Something Some Guys Just Don't Understand-That's How Most Of The Girls Make Their $$$. They Escort,Have Websites,Make Movies.Do Pix,Lapdance-Whatever. Granted,Sum Of The Girls Are Too Aggressive And Act Like Cheap Tramps But Most Don't.
I've Been With TGirls For Free And Paid For It. That's My Choice.
A TGirl Escort Friend Of Mine Explained It Like This:
Plastic Surgery,Boob Jobs,Medical Care,Hair,Make-Up,Clothes,Websites,
Advertising,Phones.A Decent Apt,Travel Etc,Etc,Etc.
This Takes Sum Serious Cash.
To Be Honest $20.00 For A Lap Dance Is Really Cheap And Should Be Considered Part Of A Fun Nite Out.
Trust Me,I'm Very Handsome But I'm Also Not God's Gift To Women The Way I Used To Think I Was.
This Is The Way The Life Is-It Doesn't Make It Bad Or Good-It's Just The
Way It Is-Try And Have Sum Acceptance And Lighten Up.
There's More Serious Things To Get Upset About.
This Isn't A Personal Attack On Anyone-It's An Opinion And Experience.
Anyway,Happy Holidays To Everyone
8)

thanos
12-23-2004, 08:55 AM
YMMV. I spent a shitload of money at the party and by no mean am I mad about it. I wanted a good time and I got a good time.

But some girls truly need to go to a regular strip club and learn what exactly a lap dance is. Some bad grinding mixed with whipping your cock out is NOT a lap dance.

And Pity the poor fool next to me who was told by one young spanish lady that he'd have to pony up $20 to touch her piece.

Girls like that make it hard for you next party.

phungu2
12-23-2004, 02:50 PM
a lap dance.
And Pity the poor fool next to me who was told by one young spanish lady that he'd have to pony up $20 to touch her piece.
.

so $20 for the "lapdance", $20 for a quick feel. = $40 for 5 minutes of no sex. nice work if you can get it!

highly educated software engineers don't make $40 an HOUR developing brain-busting innovative programs that do magical things.

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Thuggish_Intellect
12-23-2004, 05:52 PM
a lap dance.
And Pity the poor fool next to me who was told by one young spanish lady that he'd have to pony up $20 to touch her piece.
.

so $20 for the "lapdance", $20 for a quick feel. = $40 for 5 minutes of no sex. nice work if you can get it!

highly educated software engineers don't make $40 an HOUR developing brain-busting innovative programs that do magical things.

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Haha...so true...I won't knock a girls hustle...If you're that stupid to pay $40 to feel a freakin cock, i'll save you $20 and let u feel mine...but seriously, guys don't realize that a woman in nature will swoon you out of your last meal if you allow her to and since most transsexuals strive to be the ultimate woman, while still recognizing a true males perspective and feelings, they are in a position to capilitalize off a mans best and worst friend...his dick

intensity
12-23-2004, 11:40 PM
This Jessica is the same girl who posted an ad here as if she were looking for a boyfriend..... and then she will eventually turn around and tell you she's all about the money........she's a whore, and a fucking ignorant one at that.....

magic9inch
12-24-2004, 12:30 AM
You people helping t girls like jessica make a living. paying 200-300 to be with these whores. Fuck that, i am not helping them live the big life you feel me. fuck you, pay me. thats my new slogan.

blacktsjessica
12-24-2004, 03:19 AM
excuse me you'll are talking about me like im not human, im not a whore just because i provide a safe service to somebody and they decide to reward me. that doesnt make me a whore,dont make it sound like im a nasty raunchy ts because im not, i have class about myself while im taking the $$$. and to the person who saiD I posted looking for a boyfriend i didnt know i wasnt suppose to look for companionship, every guy i meet i dont bring up money, he always come at me thinking every ts is about money because thats all they know, so dont call me names and disrespect me because some guy has the $$$ to spend on me thats his business mine yours.WAS YOU ALL MOMA A WHORE WHEN SHES WAS LAYING THERE MAKING YOU'LL ASSES FOR FREE, I WOULD CALL THAT A CHEAP WHORE.

magic9inch
12-24-2004, 04:01 AM
YOU CORNY JESSICA. SPELL CHECK BEFORE YOU WRITE

blacktsjessica
12-24-2004, 04:08 AM
MAGIC2INCH THANK YOU

magic9inch
12-24-2004, 04:17 AM
LOL. REAL FUNNY CORNBALL. I AM NOT FRONTING ON YOUR NON-PRETTY SELF. MY SLOGAN. FUCK YOU, PAY ME

ONEWORLD
12-24-2004, 05:12 AM
excuse me you'll are talking about me like im not human, im not a whore just because i provide a safe service to somebody and they decide to reward me.

WHOA MAMA, PUMP YOUR BRAKES...I NEVER SAID YOU WERE UGLY...MY ONLY ISSUE WAS THE WAY YOU WERE BRINGING RACE INTO SOMETHING THAT IS NOT A RACE ISSUE AND HAVING ALL OF ONE GROUP BEING PAINTED WITH SUCH A BROAD BRUSH...I RESPECT YOU, YOUR CHOICES, AND YOUR HUSTLE...BUT YOU HAVE TO ADMIT, THE WAY YOU PUT YOURSELF OUT THERE, THINKING IT WAS GONNA BE ALL LOVE...WASN'T A GOOD LOOK FOR YOU EITHER...I THINK YOU KNOW THAT IT'S ALL IN THE WAY YOU PRESENT YOURSELF...ANYWAY, MOST OF THESE DUDES ARE JUST VENTING ABOUT ESCORTS IN GENERAL...WITH THAT BEING SAID...





HAVE A GREAT NEW YEAR.

magic9inch
12-24-2004, 07:34 AM
ONEWORLD DONT APOLOGIZE TO THAT MONEY HUNGRY WHORE. FORGET HER.

romeo
12-24-2004, 03:10 PM
MAGIC2INCH THANK YOU


LOL

romeo
12-24-2004, 03:11 PM
MAGIC2INCH THANK YOU


LOL :lol: :lol:

phungu2
12-24-2004, 11:41 PM
is everybody using megabodys keyboard now? with the broken capslock?

Reddman
12-25-2004, 04:39 AM
is everybody using megabodys keyboard now? with the broken capslock?



LOL,it seems that way and I for one did not get the memo.

Reddman
12-25-2004, 05:05 AM
I WENT TO HER PARTY ON 12-17 AND THERE WERE SO MANY MEN THERE SOME OF THEM WERE VERY GOOD LOOKING BUT THE ONLY PROBLEM IS THE GUYS I COME IN CONTACT WITH ARE CHEAP.THEY WANT TO FEEL ME UP AND SAY NASTY THINGS TO ME SO I POLITELY ASK THEM FOR A LAP DANCE AND THEY SAY"IM GOOD LOOKING I SHOULD GET ONE FOR FREE". PLEASE IF THEY WANT TO FEEL ME UP PROVIDE ME WITH SOME FUNDS. I HAVE NO PROBLEM WITH CONVO JUST DON'T COME AT ME LIKE THAT. AND THIS NO REFLECTION ON THE OTHER BLACK GIRLS ,I REPRESENT ME ONLY NOT OTHER GIRLS.


A seemingly valid point and this created a little fire storm of ire. Hey Jessica just chalk it up to the fact that not all men are gentlemen. If someone approaches me with respect that begets respect, of course that works both ways. A hard sell hustler gets nada from me except the gasface the just as grab ass cheapo gets no love from you. Just as you play the odds to make that dough or simply carry on a decent convo the assholes out there play the same to do what they do.

blacktsjessica
12-25-2004, 03:16 PM
thank you mama you are so right merry christmas be safe.

lucx
12-25-2004, 04:22 PM
[quote=blacktsjessica]excuse me you'll are talking about me like im not human, im not a whore just because i provide a safe service to somebody and they decide to reward me.


the crucial words as i see it are "they decide"

They can even decide not to reward you and not to get anything from you, for whatever reason they have (it's up to them)...

I'm Italian and i think i'll never come to Alannah's party but i think there are others like me that goes there to meet nice girls to know personally.... and not only to hook them up...

i think that somebody thinks this parties are like a discount flesh market where, when you go, you have to buy anything they want...

... AND BY THE WAY, I DONT LIKE TO PAY TO MEET A GIRL!!

LBCDO
12-25-2004, 11:11 PM
Man, I guess its a lot different in NY than it is in ATL. I havent been to a party, but come on, how many of you guys actually get out and meet these girls outside of the parties and calling them up on Eros?

I live in ATL. If you go to the clubs in ATL where the TS frequent [formerly backstreet] you walk through a stroll. I used to go to 708 and Backstreet with friends and girls would see me with my TS friend or friends and I would hear all types of shit. "I can turn you out better" "she got the good trade honey" "Ill hook you up for free" "She aint worth shit, shes a runner" blah blah blah. People assuming that I picked up a girl off the street when it was my friend, trying to get me to buy something from them, and assuming that she/them was/were in the same line of business. You know what I would do? Laugh for 2 seconds, say "Thanks, but Im good". Why do people get so offended when you KNOW that there are some girls up there trying to get paid?

It all breaks down to an individuals "game". Ive walked down the stroll and have gotten a phone number from a TS who was working. What some of you dont realize is that it is your APPROACH. Everyone jumped on Jessica for other reasons, but nobody said shit about the guy that was trying to touch/talk freaky to her. If you couldnt get away with saying corny ball ass Balcy from Perfect Strangers shit like "Damn, this dick i got will tickle your belly button" to a GG, why would you say it to a TS? Because you know shes in the sex industry? Because you assume she likes getting talked to like that because shes half dressed? It cracks me up.

Take the $20 example. Have any of you ever been to a real strip club? $20 a lap dance is STANDARD practice! You pay for the girls time. Go to the VIP, depending on where you are, you are going to pay more. In a strip club there is no touching, well, at least out in the open. So If someone pays $20 for a dance and $20 to keep a hand on a girls dick while hes getting it, I dont see nothing wrong with it. They have the option to decline and move on to the next girl.

There are some people that you NEVER hear about them having problems or a bad time. You gotta realize the environment that you are in, as a TS and as an admirer. As a TS, yea, some dudes think that they can get in a GG strip club and get free dances, etc. Trust me, yall are lucky becauseif everyone got what they expect, then things owuld be strict as hell. You want girls to just run around and jump in the lap of every guy there? LOL. I think the clash comes because there are people who dont go to nightclubs at all, dont go to strip clubs at all, and its there first time seeing a TS. Therefore, nobody knows what is expected when you go. When I think about going to an Allanah party, Im thinking about things like:

Dress code [I noticed from the pics a lot of people are there in a Members Only Jacket and docker pants. For you that may be your thing, but Id be damned if Im wearing that to a club]

What time the bar closes and mixed drink price [Make sure I have enough to get something to drink, plus buy a couple for friends/girls and leave a decent tip]

Parking [If I gotta walk far if I leave home with someone it can determine a night right there]

Afterparty [My house, hotel, or if im lucky, hers]

Music [If the music is wack, its hard for me to imagine myself going]

Dance/Tip Money [For a strip club, lets say, Im not going to go there with $60. If you want to have a good time, have a good time! I go to strip clubs with friends and unwind. Expect to spend money! I have dated strippers because I realize what type of bullshit they hear and I make sure that my personality shows more than how horny I am at the moment!]

I go to TS clubs with people I know wont act a fool. Develop your social skills for the type of event that you are going to! Be realistic! If you go to a dance club that is going to play hip hop music all night and you listen Lite 80s music, expect to do some things differently once at the club! For example, that is not the place to learn how to dance to the New Destiny Childs song. Play it cool. Grab a drink, enjoy a dance or two, smile a little, a girl shoots you down, who cares? Dont go there eyes 3 feet wide with a hardon and $6. You look like a victim, and if a girl sees that you arent one, shes going to leave because more than likely thats the only reason she wanted to talk to you even though you were oggling.

Think about it like this. You are going to a club. If clubs arent your thing, they wont become it because you spend $40-$50 at the door and you have a chance to "live out your fantasy". Find someone cool that you feel comfortable talking to and go with them to the parties. There are tons of people on here, at the parties, chatrooms, etc. that are going through the same thing. Dont go in alone expecting to leave with someone. Just go to have a good, wild, time! These are not swinger parties, they are an environment where you get to watch beautiful women show there talents and you happen tobe able to get some close contact fun if you pay for it [i.e. lapdance]. Its all about having fun! Stop getting your feelings hurt because some girls are rude, short, whatever. Movie on, be smooth. Act like things dont bother you. Why do you think people like Megabody are always known to have fun? Go to have a good time, not find a background TS sexpot because sorry buddy, the lifestyle isnt like that!

PS: I dont know about how relevant this is to any of you on this board, but this is something I HATE more than anything from TSs, admirers, GG, guys, whatever. If you are trying to talk to a girl and lets say she is... Puerto Rican. Dont try to be like "Hey Mami" and act like you are Puerto Rican to impress a girl. I DESPISE, HATE, just worse than anything in the world someone who tries to fake the funk. There are HELLA fakers out there, and trust me, it makes you look lame and its the worse mistake you can make, at least in the clubs that I go to. I know tons of girls here in ATL from NY who are black and try to say they are black and dominican and never ate soncocho and lightskinned/mixed girls who swear they are puertorican and dont know what a coqui sounds like. I.E. : ErosNY Shanise: http://www.eros-ny.com/files/ny-shanice2.htm I swear, you lose from the beginning!

blacktsjessica
12-26-2004, 08:49 PM
SHANICE IS ONE OF THE BEAUTIES, ARE YOU SAYING SHE FAKES THE FUNK BY SAYING SHE SOMETHING AND SHES NOT, I DONT UNDERSTAND THE LAST PART AND YOUR OPINION IS RIGHT ON THE MONEY, ICOULDNT SAY IT BETTER. I MEAN ,I WANT TO MEET SOMEONE OUT OF THE $$$ ASPECT BUT I JUST CAN'T. I COULD BE WALKING DOWN THE STREET BOARD DAYLIGHT DIONG MY SHOPPING WHICH IS EVERY WEEK DRESS DOWN JEANS, HAIR PULLED BACK NO MAKE UP COMFITABLE AND SOME GUY WHO SEES ME AND FIGURE OUT WHAT I AM WOULD COME UP TO ME BLUNTLY AND SAY "CAN I FUCK YOU OR WANNA SUCK MY DICK" SO HOW AM I SUPPOSE TO TAKE THAT? I CANT SPEAK FOR ALL TRANSEXUALS BUT TO ME SOME GUYS ONLY SEE US AS A GOOD THING AND HOPE THEY DONT HAVE TO PAY FOR IT AND ITS A SHAME THAT I CANT MEET SOME NICE GUY TO APPROACH ME AND SAY" CAN I TAKE YOU OUT WHATS YOUR NAME" BEFORE HE BRINGS UP HOW BIG AM I, AND AT FIRST I HAD TO SIT BACK AND THINK WHAT AM I DIONG TO MAKE MYSELF SEEM LIKE A CHEAP THRILL TO THESE GUYS, THEN I LOOK HOW I DRESS IN THE DAYTIME AND I REALIZE ITS NOT ME. I DONT TRY TO BE BEAUTFUL IN MY NEIGHBORHOOD BECAUSE ITS THE MIDDLECLASS HOOD AND YOU WANT TO BLEND IN, IT GOES BACK TO WHAT I SAID SOME GUYS JUST WANT A QUICKY AND THATS IT.

ONEWORLD
12-27-2004, 03:03 AM
is everybody using megabodys keyboard now? with the broken capslock?

MEGA WHO?














LET'S GO.

longman
12-28-2004, 09:32 AM
Think of it this way jess, hate the game not the players.

If they started talking to you then ended up with someone else then someone elses' game may have been stronger than yours.

Not to say its your looks or anything, it could just be the game.

For instance : (Mega this happened after I left the afterparty)
I was driving home so I took the West Side Hgwy, While passing the district I glanced & saw 2 girls from the party on the stroll. I pulled up to one & said didn't I see you @ the party? She replied yeah but I left because the guys were trying to give up enough money!
It was shocking because so many girls there weren't about the money.

She then tried to get me to take her to a hotel & hit it & I was like sorry I'm not about that.

Just my 2 cents.

longman
12-28-2004, 09:34 AM
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LBCDO
12-28-2004, 10:25 PM
SHANICE IS ONE OF THE BEAUTIES, ARE YOU SAYING SHE FAKES THE FUNK BY SAYING SHE SOMETHING AND SHES NOT, I DONT UNDERSTAND THE LAST PART

No doubt, she looks good and everything, but shes a faker. Are things that bad in NY where people dont want to be who they really are? The reason I say her in general is because I have a friend who does TS Videos and I gave her as a suggestion as an actress. So he told me to book it. Convo goes like this:

Shanice: Hello?
Me: ?Con Shanice Por Favor?
Shanice: Huh?
Me: Con Shanice, you advertise as being dominican, my bad. I---
Shanice: What are you black or mexican? [I have a up-north type accent, but professional]
Me: Dominican, Im calling to--
Shanice: Sorry, I dont see you people *click*

OBVIOUSLY not dominican. I cant stand a faker. I see hella dudes who try to fake it and hella TSs. My lesson to everyone is dont fake because to a lot of people it is an immediate turn off that will end a convo

lucx
12-29-2004, 08:15 PM
IT GOES BACK TO WHAT I SAID SOME GUYS JUST WANT A QUICKY AND THATS IT.

You said right... SOME GUYS... not ANY GUY!!
maybe some are looking for a cheap trick.. but also others are looking for a real person.... ME? i'm one of the second group....

Invisiboy
12-29-2004, 09:26 PM
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