? 4 The Brothers/Latinos

[Thuggish_Intellect]

Being of Black and Dominican blood I often wonder how many guys like me are actually into this whole transsexual thing and more importantly, how’d they realize that they were turned on by transsexuals?

Having grown up in a southern American city “hood” it’s needless to say that transsexuals were few and far between. We had gay and straight, no in between. I mean sure Gay Jamie may have been known to wear his mama’s pants shoes once in a while but I’d never seen a man with full grown breast (who wasn’t an obese slob), womanly hips, hair, makeup, the dress, etc. I think it was one of those infamous episodes of Maury Povich “Guess who’s a Man” episodes that really piqued my interest. There was one chick named Courtney who I swore up and down was a girl because she had on a bikini and looked dammmmmmmmmmmn good in it. Come to find out…SHE WAS A MAN w/ a full package!!! I damned near lost my mind that day. My interest grew more and more and I began searches on the internet for transsexuals but could only find sites featuring guys who looked like my gym teacher in drag, nothing replicating or even touching that beloved day on Maury Povich…until I came across black-tgirls.com. After this, my life would change…lol

It’s kind of odd because in both the black and Latino communities homosexuality is severely looked down upon, yet it exists and thrives. I don’t/never considered myself homosexual because the thought of me seeing another dude who looks like me and has the same equipment as me petrifies me but throw on some titty’s and a cute face and I’m hooked. I sit in think if any of my homey’s are actually into like me. Like if I decided to build up enough courage to attend one of Allanah’s parties would I see an old friend from college, a frat brother, my barber, an associate, an uncle. Sometimes I sit and think about if I could be a fly on the wall of one of these girls rooms who escorts, oh what beautiful secrets would I have to hold onto that’d give me the strength to continue to trod down this what it seems like rhetorical path…

Being in the entertainment industry doesn’t help either. Being as that I don’t have the luxury of anonymity like most others with low profile/low key jobs. I’ve heard and seen the tales of the Eddie Murphy’s, the McGreevy’s, the Tevin Campbell’s, the Hugh Grant’s…How can someone in a position of fame or public interest or for that matter whose job discriminates against pursuing such a lifestyle (military/religion/etc.) be in a serious and committed relationship with a transsexual and continue to live as usual. Maybe in a big market like NY or LA where one can easily be lost in a sea of bodies it can happen but what about smaller markets where everyone knows Reverend Jones or Joe the Fireman or Principal Williams…

[LBCDO]

Damn, we got a lot in common. Que Lo Que Mano! I also come from a dominican and black background, but was raised in "black" in chicago. I ate pork chop sandwiches instead of arroz con habicheulas for a long time, LOL. But I became interested when for my boys 14th birthday we rode out to downtown chicago and saw some girls and I didnt know how to feel. I wasnt repulsed or anything, so I said whatever, fantasized about it, etc. fell in love.

I know how you feel though. In the black and hispanic community anything "queerish" is a big no no. The black community is just hard in general with that topic, with tons fo "DL brothers" with the same for the hispanic community. But you know more than i do that you are bound to see more TSs in a hispanic country then anywhere else. I went to the colombian festival this year here in Atlanta and seen at least 15, conversed with about 7. I heard Costa Rica is flooded, as well as Puerto Rico has a good portion. But you also know how it is if you are seen as gay ina dominican household! Its WAAAAAAAAYYYYYY worse then here in the US. But to behonest, when you go to DR and you talk to the TSs over there, they will tell you the whole island is bisexual. A lot of guys talk their shit, but on the side they are all with it.

Im telling you, tons in common. I also work in the entertainment industry and I thought about how it would effect me. I am a club/artist promoter here and Ive done contracts for tons of celebrities. and believe me, tevin campbell, hugh grant, eddie murphey are only the ones who got caught. A lot of southern rappers get down. There is a dominican/black NY rapper who is talking to a TS friend of mine here in ATL and I think he knows whats up but doesnt care. Have you ever seen Asia Lee? I think thats her name on Yum. Either way, Ive seen her hook up with tons of celebrities. ATL used to have a thick stroll and you would hear from the girls and actually see the celebrities drive through. So dont feel as bad. I guarantee if you check the bookmarks of 10 of your friends, at least 4 have some sort of TS links saved. I talked my way out of a ticket here in ATL and I had a picture of my homegirl sheeba in the car and he recognized it, started talking to me about her, let me go. Im telling you, a lot of people have the same desires we do, they just want to hide it. I say fuck it. I had a semi-passable gf who was hawaiian, black, and puerto rican and guys used to holla at her and not give a fuck. I even caught a homeboy of mine trying to get her number, told him she was my girl, and we been cool and swapping war stoires since!

[magic9inch]

WOW. I'M BLACK FROM THE HOOD. BUT I NEVER KNEW I WOULD LIKE TRANNIES UNTIL I WATCH TOO MUCH PORN AND STROLL OVER CHICKS WITH DICKS ON THE NET. I WAS SHOCK. TOTALLY CLICK OFF THE PAGE. THEN TWO OR THREE DAYS LATER IT HAPPEN AGAIN, THIS TIME I DIDNT RESIST. AND I'M FROM THE HOOD. THEY MAKE FUN OF GAYS ALL DAY ECEPT LESBIANS CUASE THATS SEXY. I ENDED UP HOOKING UP WITH TWO TRANNIES THE SAME NIGHT A YEAR LATER.

[Thuggish_Intellect]

Damn dude we need to talk...it's comforting to see people in the same boat as me, interested in the same things as me, etc. That's one thing holding me back from attending events on the solo (aside from having to work constantly)...I sent you an email regarding the other thread, let me know what you think.

[Kualitee]

Bruthas, I feel you. I've been around the block a time or 2. I Wish I did have a another brutha(local) 2 trade war stories with. I been @ these sistahs since my sophomore year of college(about 20 years old). I had to do a classroom assignment on human sexuality for my Psychology course & everytime I looked up "transexuality or transgenderism" online, I'd get "Adult" links. Well one day, I ran into a picture of Ms. Lisa Lawrence & "that was all she wrote". On the contrary, I did see quite a few t-girls as I was growing up. They were nowhere as fully developed as the sistahs now, but there used to be a few. Back then(here in Miami, FL) I just never really payed it much attention. I wasn't homophobic, It just didn't seem like something I'd "ever" want to try! Thank God For LISA! As for today, I'm pretty low key. I don't mind "paying", actually back up! I do mind, however I understand the "hustle". So for the most part I'm chilling as of late. I log on, "peep" a few picks and if I get "THAT" excited, I'll get with my woman.
Bottom Line Though.........
We're out here. But you know, a brutha is always a "sucka" for some ass anyway. I'm not sure if it's an acquired taste or, we really just like to indulge in the OVERexagerrated figures.


P.S. Long time viewer, 1st time posting!

[Thuggish_Intellect]

I ENDED UP HOOKING UP WITH TWO TRANNIES THE SAME NIGHT A YEAR LATER.


Now that sounds like a story...whewwwwwwwweeeeeeeee due tell...lol

[Thuggish_Intellect]

Bruthas, I feel you. I've been around the block a time or 2. I Wish I did have a another brutha(local) 2 trade war stories with. I been @ these sistahs since my sophomore year of college(about 20 years old). I had to do a classroom assignment on human sexuality for my Psychology course & everytime I looked up "transexuality or transgenderism" online, I'd get "Adult" links. Well one day, I ran into a picture of Ms. Lisa Lawrence & "that was all she wrote". On the contrary, I did see quite a few t-girls as I was growing up. They were nowhere as fully developed as the sistahs now, but there used to be a few. Back then(here in Miami, FL) I just never really payed it much attention. I wasn't homophobic, It just didn't seem like something I'd "ever" want to try! Thank God For LISA! As for today, I'm pretty low key. I don't mind "paying", actually back up! I do mind, however I understand the "hustle". So for the most part I'm chilling as of late. I log on, "peep" a few picks and if I get "THAT" excited, I'll get with my woman.
Bottom Line Though.........
We're out here. But you know, a brutha is always a "sucka" for some ass anyway. I'm not sure if it's an acquired taste or, we really just like to indulge in the OVERexagerrated figures.


P.S. Long time viewer, 1st time posting!



Keep posting my man...we need some sort of support group. It's crazy because I have a girl (GG) and i'm not attracted to her as much sexually as I am mentally/spirtually. The more I grow into my aquired taste I feel as though i'm more and more attracted to transsexuals for the sexual companionship. I've never been with one but it seems as though there more understanding of a mans instrinsic needs sexually.

[Kualitee]

I will, as long as the Topic includes me I will. And, I completely understand what you mean about the "sexual attraction". I don't think I'm more attracted to a transexual woman, but I do have my moments when I crave something a lil different. If you haven't had the "sexual experience" what are you waiting on? Get @ it!

[Thuggish_Intellect]

If you haven't had the "sexual experience" what are you waiting on? Get @ it!


Can't see myself paying for sex...lol...seems like a character flaw to me (maybe it's my youth or my cockiness) aside from that, i'd actually like the chance to date and get to know a transsexual as I would any other girl I was feeling, paying for it somehow tarnishes that ideal day don't you think?

[sexyredman]

Here is my story.

When I was 4 years old I had a playmate through friends of my single parent mother. We were both the same age, but when "Tay" came over to play and we decided on playing "Superfriends", instead of the usual Superman or Batman he always insisted on being Wonderwoman. He also insisted on being rescued by being carried to safety in my arms.

Fastforward 10 years when I am just discovering pornography. At the time I was living out in California where you could get adult trades from the newspaper machine in front of the corner store in my neighborhood. While thumbing through it looking at the ads for the escorts I was shocked to see a picture what appeared to be a beautiful woman but with a raging hard-on. I was shocked, disgusted, repulsed by the image, but in the back of my mind there was this curiosity and intrigue. When I later found out what the abbreviations TV and TS meant then a higher percentage of the beautiful escorts I had been ogling in the adult weeklies from before turned out to be of this variety (some of the old school trans porn stars like Angel and Coco and a lot of others Kim Christy rounded up for her publications and films). Through my adolescent years my fantasies slowly but surely drifted to having an encounter with one of these magical, elusive women. This was bolstered by the occassional Maury Povich or Jerry Springer show that would feature a jaw-droppingly passable transsexual.

In college, with the discovery of the wonders of the internet, scouring the web for pictures became my favorite secret pastime... sometimes to the point of jeopardizing the relationship I had with gg's who wondered where I would disappear off to for hours at a time with no word. In my junior year, I finally manned up enough to go out and seek what I wanted, and destiny practically dropped a situation in my lap that would turn me out to these ladies forever and have me never looking back.

My first experience was a with a well-known Florida escort whose photo has been posted on here. From there I ran wild like a kid in a candy store in Atlanta while I was staying there for a while, meeting fine ladies who were into keeping company with me. I finally settled down in a relationship with a showgirl, a live-in relationship that lasted 3 years.

Now its a different era for the girls we love, as it seems more and more are exploring options besides escorting or doing drag and integrating themselves more into real world situations, making the prospect of a long term meaningful relationship with a t-woman that much more easier to reach for brothers like me who would consider it. In my head part of the stigma attached was the perception by others that all these girls knew was escorting, pulling stunts, and rampant drug use, but now I personally have known and spent time with t-women who are climbing corporate ladders, going for professional and doctoral degrees, and not letting their situation limit their aspirations.

[Thuggish_Intellect]

now I personally have known and spent time with t-women who are climbing corporate ladders, going for professional and doctoral degrees, and not letting their situation limit their aspirations.


Man, I need your black book because all I can find (especially with the black and latina girls) are escorts and sex slaves and I value my safety and health too much to ever go there.

[ONEWORLD]

And, I completely understand what you mean about the "sexual attraction". I don't think I'm more attracted to a transexual woman, but I do have my moments when I crave something a lil different...

EXACTLY...I DON'T HAVE A PREFERENCE BETWEEN EITHER GIRL, JUST WHATEVER I FEEL AT THE TIME, SINCE I'M I GONNA TREAT THEM BOTH THE SAME AND THEY'RE GONNA DO THE SAME FOR ME...BUT BACK ON TOPIC; TRAVELING TO VARIOUS EVENTS, PARTIES, BALLS, PAGEANTS, ETC...I TOO WOULD HAVE ENJOYED A "ROAD DOG" TO PUSH UP ON GIRLS WITH AS IF WE WERE IN A STRAIGHT CLUB...I MEAN I RAN UPON CATS THAT SEEMED COOL UNTIL THEY STARTED ON SOME "PENIS SHIT", I'M LIKE "CHECK PLEASE."...AND ALSO A DUDE LIKE ME HAS A HARD ENOUGH TIME TRYING TO AVOID THE STIGMA OF BEING A "TRANNY CHASER" WITHOUT HAVING TO DEFEND THE FACT THAT I'M NOT "WITH" DUDE I CAME TO THE CLUB WITH...SO I'M AT A POINT WHERE IF I'M SINGLE, THEN DOLO WORKS FOR ME...

[ABSOLUTE SHADE]

When I was 4 years old I had a playmate through friends of my single parent mother. We were both the same age, but when "Tay" came over to play and we decided on playing "Superfriends", instead of the usual Superman or Batman he always insisted on being Wonderwoman. He also insisted on being rescued by being carried to safety in my arms.



OMG...I use 2 that when I was little too..but it went further than being carried to safety.

LOL

[sexyredman]

now I personally have known and spent time with t-women who are climbing corporate ladders, going for professional and doctoral degrees, and not letting their situation limit their aspirations.


Man, I need your black book because all I can find (especially with the black and latina girls) are escorts and sex slaves and I value my safety and health too much to ever go there.

It all depends on where you are looking at what you are looking for... its a tradeoff, for that stability these girls I know have they give up the glamorous and over-the-top aspects of the lifestyle that may be the hook for some.

[NOLADICK]

Am I the only one who feels better when he hears about rappers or athletes into the "girls"? It's never that I wanna out anyone. I think I just like knowing others who remind me of myself are into the girls.

For me though I am beginning to feel its a bisexual tendency that I would not have had if it werent for the girls. I think u get into it because you are attracted to femininity but u eventually open up to things u had not planned on doing in life. The more u do it the further u get comfortable with it and the futher u go.

ITS A TRAP LOL LMao

(NOW I Know i'm not the only one in entertainment who has thought about it)

[LBCDO]

Man, trust me, all types of celebs are into TSs. Just ask a few girls and you will see REAL quick. ball players, rappers, newscasters, politicians. Im not gonna throw anyone out like that, but I will say if you were to name 5 of whoever you think are the most famous rappers from ATL, more than likely at least 3 out of those 5 are tranny chasers. And from what I hear about NY, LOL, forget about it

[wukinpunub68]

I'm a native New Yorker and grew up on LI Subaurbia, of Jamaican decent so homophobia is rampant. for me the attraction to transexual happened because i didn't know the difference i met a girl on a stroll and she gave me head and later i found out she was a man but i liked the head. i eventually saw what everything was all about. I don't look at guys on the street and lust over them, but a transexuall who looks just like a woman i look with appreciation. I have dated a transexual but could never date a guy. I have had sex with guys but it's usually because it's much easier to hook up with a guy than a TS. Head is head. I have told my best friend about me being with TS and he just says thats not his cup of tea, he has meet my TS friends and he really cant tell the difference. Now as far as Celebrities and famous people hooking up with TS, there are no different than you and me just got way more money but the same needs. I have been to Allanah's party and if i run into someone i know then we are both into the same thing period. It's good to know that i'm not the only one but it's been 15 Years now and i'm quite comfortable with my decisions i have made. C'est La Vie

[canihavu]

Trust me, I understand where eveyone is coming from. When I discovered the Tgirl scene, it changed me forever. At first it was very confusing because like Thuggish and some others have stated, the whole homosexualality thing in the black community is crazy. The first Iwas with a Tgirl, I wouldn't go anywhere near her dick (even though I wanted to) I just let her suck me off. It was maybe a two years before I got the nerve to touch one; another year before I performed oral on a TGirl.

Then I remember being like, "am I gay". I used to get approached by "DL" brothas a lot. I wasn't truned on by them at all, but the Tgirls made get the hardest and biggest erections. That used to have my head all messed up. I was like, how can a girl with a dick get me so excited?!?!??! Hell the best head I have ever gotten is from the tgirl I see at least twice a month. i don't even mind throwing her a few dollars; thats how good her head game is.

I even remember several occasions when I when I would fuck a tgirl and then I 'd have to make booty call to one of my GG's I was seeing in the same night, just to make myself feel better.

Other than the cyber world (and the tgirls I have been with) no one knows of my attraction to these ladies. However, from what I have observed over the years, a whole lotta brothas love tgirls.

[Thuggish_Intellect]

Am I the only one who feels better when he hears about rappers or athletes into the "girls"? It's never that I wanna out anyone. I think I just like knowing others who remind me of myself are into the girls.



There are plenty of cats in the industry who are probablly into TS...I think it depends on location. I know of several cats in Miami, LA and ATL that "get down with the get down". I'm in the same boat so it's sort of mutual respect not to out someone. You also have to realize that a lot of these "girls" have been to jail so it's not that uncommon for them to have hood associations. It's just that most cats don't talk about what they did/do while in "lock-up".

[Thuggish_Intellect]

I even remember several occasions when I when I would fuck a tgirl and then I 'd have to make booty call to one of my GG's I was seeing in the same night, just to make myself feel better.


I can cosign this sentiment

[Reddman]

TTT

[SPOOKABLE_TRANNY]

However, from what I have observed over the years, a whole lotta brothas love tgirls.

Yeah. And lots of truck stop queen white crossdressers with beards love black men too!

[canihavu]

However, from what I have observed over the years, a whole lotta brothas love tgirls.

Yeah. And lots of truck stop queen white crossdressers with beards love black men too!

That;s just nasty :x

[soul4real]

Every thing u said im living.

[WendyWilliams]

You guys are NOT alone, When I am in Atlanta, St. Louis, LA, and alot of times here in Ft. Lauderdale well known football/baseball players, rappers, producers, DJ's etc I have met and alot of times spoken about the very same thing you gentleman are. Let me say it again YOU ARE NOT ALONE.

Here is a funny story, I prefer Dominican and or black men personally so a majority are of that nationality. I was in NYC last year and this sexy Dominican guy was telling me how he found my website link on one of his friends computer so he peeked.......Couple weeks later I get an email from him on AOL he sends me a pic of him and his friends at a club, I was shocked 3 of the 7 guys in the pic I had met already. When he and I finally met he kept saying "Oh my dudes would rag on me big time for this, they would never do this". Without telling him I knew some of his friends I tried to ease his conscious that he would be surprised.

I have heard these same stories with MANY guys from diverse backgrounds.

Good Luck Guys

[soul4real]

I have heard these same stories with MANY guys from diverse backgrounds.

Good Luck Guys


Yeah I'm sure there is plenty of us but its still looked down upond badly and still not something that is out in the open. Just like your story 4 friends share the same intrest but would NEVER admitt it to each other. Its just not acceptable thing to discuss.

[BKghost]

Thuggish I have always visited this board. never registered till now after reading your post.

I am from the Caribbean as well, black guy. College educated down south , live and work in NYC now. I have a pretty good job no kids etc.

I have been an avid admirer of Transvestites for like the past 5 years. I have actually had a six month "relationship" with a TV if you wanna call it that. Was the best sex of my life. Till I fucked it up. Think about her everyday since we broke up a year ago. Messed around with another before her. makes 2 Tgirls.
I have a GG as a gf who kinda found out about my inclinations. She doesn't like it, doesn't understand what I see in TV's. NONE OF MY FRIENDS KNOW ABOUT THIS SHIT. So i really just have these pent up desires etc in me with no where to vent or share the shit with anyone I can relate to. Dude, reading your posts. you sound like me.

THE ONLY NEGATIVE AGAINST ME REALLY GOING FOR A LONGTERM RELATIONSHIP WITH A TS IS THE FACT THAT I WANT KIDS OF MY OWN. dunno if dudes can relate but that bugs the shit outa me when i think if i could ever really settle down with a TS.

anyways my thoughts are simply rambling now.

Any other minority NYC dudes on the board.

[AllanahStarrNYC]

zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

if i have to hear one more time about being a celebrity,
your race proceeds who you can not and cant date, i am gonna blow up

when u have enough balls to get tons of surgery, pump hormones, and live your live as the opposite sex then let us talk abou tdifficult choices and lifestyles.

until then, bruised egos and social paranoia, WILL NOT, be acceptable .

stop leaving in fear

especially u thuggish, u worm my last good silicone filled nerve

[BKghost]

I am not living my life in fear.

The "girl" I used to talk to was beauty beyond words. Introduced to my close college buddies, no one could tell. would go clubbing with her and she WOULD GET ME DRINKS FROM GUYS WILLING TO BUY HER STUFF AT THE BAR. YOU COULD NOT TELL.
I fucked up the realtionship, battling with my own inner demons, which included the "kids" ideal in my head.
HOW COULD WE HAVE CHILDREN OF OUR OWN IF THIS GETS REALLY SERIOUS?
I want kids

[mixedprettyboy]

Please. I don't know any brothas or latinos who pay for sex let alone pay some manly drag queen posing as a tranny for sex. You heard that other trannies like Vaniity, who gets celeb clients, so you make up stories that you do too.

[geekmeat]

I never thought that because im black that being with a TS would be harder.
Ive NEVER seen a black dude out publicly with a TS.....never.
I see white dudes and a spanish dude one time though......
It all has to do with insecurities amd honestly transexuals go through way more than we ever will.
I dont care about these so-called "celebrities" because so many fo them ARE gay or whatever but play that role......including bashing gays and trans people......so fuck celebrities.
No one knows about me but if people did I would sweat it.......

[BKghost]

^^^^^^

Dude, what are you talking about, or who are you talking to??

[mixedprettyboy]

^^^^^^

Dude, what are you talking about, or who are you talking to??
You askin me? I'm talkin to that drag queen who decided to bump this tired topic back up again.

[BKghost]

I don't think a TS broght the topic up.

DAMN DUDE, IS ALL THAT NEGATIVITY AND HATE REALLY NECESSARY, SUCH A WASTE OF ENERGY.

YO IF YOU DON'T LIKE SOMEONE, IGNORE THEM.

CHILL HOMIE, ON THE REAL, IT'S NOT THAT SERIOUS.