Personals Advice wanted.

[pedster]

I have recently been in contact with a transexual female on a personals board. We have been talking but like usual (its happened before) its come to the the question of

"why did you search out a t-girl"?

Everytime I answer this question, I sound like a tranny chaser. And I guess I am. I know from previous experience that my preference in women is nice hair, slender figure and for them to be transgendered. Whether its post op, pre op. As long as they are happy then cool..

See what I mean.. I sound like a loony. I don't know why I prefer this in a woman, I can't put my finger on it.. its just a preference.

Advice please. And if you are a lady who has a transgendered history, feel free to insult me, I probably deserve it. But I would defend myself that I am a decent person and have never intentionally hurt anybody.

Thanks in advance...

[suckseed]

No offense, but I'd make sure I wasn't using a name like 'pedster' - it has a creepy ring to it!

[pedster]

explain?

[peggygee]

No offense, but I'd make sure I wasn't using a name like 'pedster' - it has a creepy ring to it!

Funny, I was thinking the same thing.

But given his other statements, so far I haven't found anything too
problematic.

Pedster, would you care to elaborate, what are some of the attributes
of transwomen that you find appealing.

[specialk]

Good thing I went to the store this morning...restocked my popcorn supplies, so help yourself! :popcorn :popcorn :popcorn

[Quinn]

No offense, but I'd make sure I wasn't using a name like 'pedster' - it has a creepy ring to it!

Cosign.

-Quinn

[jiggly]

explain?



Pedster..... most people are going to make the jump to
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pedophile

[blackmagic]

explain?



Pedster..... most people are going to make the jump to
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pedophile

:what

[rick_932]

Everytime I answer this question, I sound like a tranny chaser. And I guess I am. I know from previous experience that my preference in women is nice hair, slender figure and for them to be transgendered. Whether its post op, pre op. As long as they are happy then cool..

what are you specifically telling these girls when they ask that question? we cant really help you if youre not telling us what exactly youre telling them.

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

pedster no offense but your nick makes me automatically think "pedophile"

try a name change

[pedster]

Nice to be thought of in such a way... :cry:

I always assumed that the word was spelt "paedophile".... maybe you american types spell it differently.

Anyway I cant seem to change my name, and until I do it seems I wont get treated very well until I change it.

I find this a rather 'sick' welcome. A little like the paediatrician who had his house burnt down because some idiots thought he was a paedophile.. and couldnt distinguish between the two words..

:cry:

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/magazine/4719364.stm

[suckseed]

Look, I don't think anyone assumes that you're 'that'. But it's an unfortunate name. I'd just start over with a new one. Believe me, I picked 'suckseed' because I thought it was witty given the forum, but since then have wished I picked something a little more suave many times. Start over with a different email address - they're cheap! :)

[Jericho]

Nice to be thought of in such a way... :cry:

I always assumed that the word was spelt "paedophile".... maybe you american types spell it differently.

Anyway I cant seem to change my name, and until I do it seems I wont get treated very well until I change it.

I find this a rather 'sick' welcome. A little like the paediatrician who had his house burnt down because some idiots thought he was a paedophile.. and couldnt distinguish between the two words..

:cry:

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/magazine/4719364.stm

No one's saying you *are* one, just that that particular name puts people in mind of "peds", y'know?

[if you need another email address, pm me, i'll send you a google one]

[peggygee]

Nice to be thought of in such a way... :cry:

I always assumed that the word was spelt "paedophile".... maybe you american types spell it differently.

Anyway I cant seem to change my name, and until I do it seems I wont get treated very well until I change it.

I find this a rather 'sick' welcome. A little like the paediatrician who had his house burnt down because some idiots thought he was a paedophile.. and couldnt distinguish between the two words..

:cry:

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/magazine/4719364.stm

No, by no means did I mean to imply that I inferred you
were into pedophilia, paedophilia or pædophilia
(see spelling differences), it's just that's what comes to
mind when you first hear you name.

[Quinn]

explain?



Pedster..... most people are going to make the jump to
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pedophile

LOL.... Bingo. It's almost like calling yourself the "rapester" and then wondering why people are weirded out.

-Quinn