help needed i gues

[kaientai]

hello everyone (i've been a long time lurker but decided that i should contribute to the site so here we go)

this wensday i'm of to see my first Tgirl so i bought an enema to be nice and clean down there besides that is there any other advise to be clean down there i have to travel about 2.5 hours to get to her and she's pretty big (24cm) should i eat the day before or on the day itself and using the enema before i go is that good enough any advise or help would be apreciated
thanks
Kaientai

[stogiebear]

If cleanliness is your primary consideration then up to a few hours before your liason will be fine. You should practice caution when receiving an enema - it is a medical procedure. you know!

Also you should check with your MD before using one as it is not safe for everyone. If it is OK to proceed you should enlist the help of another person, as self administration is difficult and possibly dangerous.

Maybe you can make this part of the fun when you meet your friend?

Keep it simple and safe.

For your first time use a Disposable Kit which you can get one at most druggists. It will have instructions...

You will need some lubricant such as KY jelly, gloves, Rubber Sheeting, and a bed pan just in case you can't make it to the bathroom!

Some do nots...

Do not use hot water. It should be warm to the touch only and pay attention to the height of the container. It should be about 15 inches above your derriere and no higher. You want a gentle flow, not a firehose!

Also pay attention to the angle and pressure of insertion and never force the nozzle in. Don't have an enema too often or you may become dependent on them. The solution used should be water only for your first timeand never use alcohol as several people have died doing this.

Good luck with your first time 'on the job!' Sounds like you are gonna have a bit of a drubbing for your first time so I hope she's gentle!

SB

[kaientai]

i hope so to and thanks for the advise i'll probably will post how it went

[stogiebear]

i'll probably will post how it went

Please do... first timer trip reports make fascinating reading! :!:

[Lone Wolf]

Do you intend to take all 24 Inches? Maybe practice up front with a dildoe

[kaientai]

cm not inches and i'll try i guess we'll see what happens i guess i'm dutch so i do not really know how many inches 24 centimeters is i might use a dildo but then again i want her to be the first to enter there haha

[peggygee]

If cleanliness is your primary consideration then up to a few hours before your liason will be fine. You should practice caution when receiving an enema - it is a medical procedure. you know!

Also you should check with your MD before using one as it is not safe for everyone. If it is OK to proceed you should enlist the help of another person, as self administration is difficult and possibly dangerous.

Maybe you can make this part of the fun when you meet your friend?

Keep it simple and safe.

For your first time use a Disposable Kit which you can get one at most druggists. It will have instructions...

You will need some lubricant such as KY jelly, gloves, Rubber Sheeting, and a bed pan just in case you can't make it to the bathroom!

Some do nots...

Do not use hot water. It should be warm to the touch only and pay attention to the height of the container. It should be about 15 inches above your derriere and no higher. You want a gentle flow, not a firehose!

Also pay attention to the angle and pressure of insertion and never force the nozzle in. Don't have an enema too often or you may become dependent on them. The solution used should be water only for your first timeand never use alcohol as several people have died doing this.

Good luck with your first time 'on the job!' Sounds like you are gonna have a bit of a drubbing for your first time so I hope she's gentle!

SB

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or this http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l2/magi43/fleetenema.jpg

At any rate:

The Great Enema Debate: Enemas and Anal Sex

Should you or shouldn't you use an enema before anal sex? A number of our readers have submitted tips on using enemas, and many have questions about it. While the majority seems to favor an enema before butt fucking, you also should hear what the enemies of the enema have to say.

Squeaky Clean

The number one reason for using enemas that people cite is cleanliness. While folks find anal play incredibly sexy, the poop factor can be a turn-off. An anonymous female reader says, "Before you begin anal play with a partner, I STRONGLY recommend giving yourself an enema. It ensures that you won't be grossed out or turned off by the appearance or lingering of fecal matter during or after the process. Cleanliness is a girl's best friend."

Under normal circumstances (i.e., the person getting ass-fucked is healthy, practices normal hygiene, and has regular bowel movements) anal sex is not terribly messy. You will not be cleaning crap off the walls and ceiling. However, for many people, especially anal beginners, just the fear of embarrassment about the presence of fecal matter or odor is an obstacle to enjoyment of anal sex. You shouldn't be so turned off that you need Viagra to overcome sexual dysfunction. If taking an enema reduces anxiety and inhibition around anal play, it may be worthwhile. However, once you and your partner get more comfortable with your ass and each other, you may not feel it's necessary.

When You Gotta Go

Another reason for using enemas before butt sex is practical. If there is "something in the pipe," anal stimulation or bearing down during anal sex can bring on the urge to evacuate. Unless you and your partner are into scat, interrupting sex to take a dump will be, at the least, inconvenient. Janet in Florida writes, "To overcome the urge to evacuate, and control the timing, I give myself an enema the morning before we plan to make love, and when I do I hold the enema water for as long as I possibly can." Another female reader says she likes to prepare with an enema the night before an anal sex session.

However, Patric in New England prefers a different tactic: "An enema is so easy but makes [your ass] all tender. The key is to fast for 24 hours before and [your ass] will be tight and slick. I can fuck a huge cock for days if I haven't eaten, plus it makes it easy to bear down on it." While we commend Patric for his commitment, we don't expect many people to go hungry for the cause of better anal sex.

Others, like this anonymous female reader, just like to keep things simple: "I don't go through special rituals or preparations to have anal sex with my partner...I don't find enemas necessary. I think normal bowel movements are sufficient. I opt for a long, relaxing shower or bath." Many sex advice experts agree with this reader, and recommend that folks just do number two, then clean their asshole and rectum with soap and water. Slipping a soapy finger inside yourself while showering can be good way to get your butt warmed up. Go light on the soap, though, as it can be irritating to your innards.

Enemas Are Evil!

Speaking of irritation, that seems to be the top reason readers cite for *not* using enemas. Some, like Brent from Vancouver, feel very strongly: "Enemas are evil and make things sore; avoid them unless you're really squeamish about what you might find in there. If everyone's healthy, there's nothing that'll hurt you anyhow, and a small amount [of natural secretions] will significantly improve both sensation and lubrication."

OK, maybe enemas aren't the work of the devil, but this reader has a point. They can rinse away the natural secretions and lubrication produced by the mucous membranes inside the rectum. Those secretions are there to protect the anal lining and provide natural lubrication. Of course, anal sex always requires additional lubrication, but the natural layer provides a buffer between the chemical lube and your delicate membranes.

If you do use enemas, to minimize irritation, use plain warm water only. Packaged drugstore enemas contain salt water or other solutions. Gina from California thinks you should just dump them out: "I always like to use an enema, but I pour out the fluid inside the bottle and use water. I swear it makes me feel clean and my asshole isn't on fire."

Freak Nasty

For couples like Gus from Winnipeg and his girlfriend, cleanliness is beside the point: "Sometimes when she's feeling ultra nasty she won't use an enema, and sometimes she won't even wash herself there. This gives the ass that nasty stinky aroma. It just gets me firm the second I smell it." The butt's natural funkiness can be a turn-on for some, so if that's the case, an enema just defeats the purpose.

If want to try anal sex "au naturel" but are still concerned about the possible mess, put a towel down on the bed, put a condom on your dick or dildo for easy cleanup, and keep a supply of kleenex or wet wipes on hand.

Enemas Are Sexy!

Enema eroticism is a subject unto itself. Suffice to say that some people enjoy enemas for their own erotic value or as a part of foreplay before anal sex. Nicolette from Canada recommends "warm water, 1/2 quart given slowly to begin. It can be an extremely erotic experience, touching her as you administer the enema, finger in her pussy, gently fingering her clit, and when she gets a little more excited, some gentle spanks (or not so gentle if she prefers) to her cheeks. Repeat the enema and the procedure until all is clear, then get down to some serious, fantastic buttfucking."

If you are comfortable having your partner administer the enema, it can be a sexy experience for both of you. As with any sort of anal play, communication between is crucial. Let your partner know if you experience any pain or discomfort during the enema so they can stop or reduce the flow.

Sum It Up

In our unscientific survey of reader input, 75% of those who expressed opinions about enemas were in favor, and 25% were against.
People use enemas before anal sex to feel cleaner and prevent the need to evacuate the bowels during sex.
Enema detractors think they are unnecessary and make the asshole and rectum irritated before sex.
Having a regular bowel movement and washing afterward will get your butt reasonably clean.
Some people like to use enemas as a part of foreplay.

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And this endnote:

Misuse of laxatives and enemas . Many people think of laxatives as a cure for constipation. But heavy use of laxatives often is not needed, and laxatives can become habit forming. If you use laxatives too often, your body can begin to rely on them to bring on bowel movements. (Using laxatives too often also can cause diarrhea.) Over time, your body will forget how to work on its own.

For the same reason, if you use enemas too often, your body may begin to depend on them. Too many enemas may stop you from having normal bowel movements. Too much mineral oil, another popular laxative, can lower your body’s ability to use key vitamins (A, D, E, and K). Sometimes mineral oil, if taken along with other drugs that stop blood clots (anticoagulants), can cause unwanted side effects.

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

interesting thread

:popcorn

[jiggly]

1 inch = 2.54 CM . There is your useless information for today

[kaientai]

to peggygee the first picture and thanks for the advise

jiggly thanks for that bit of info haha that would make her about 9 inches ohoh
thanks guys

[suckseed]

Huh. A little light went on there for me. I gave myself the 'whole 9 yards' enema before I went to see my first all-the-way escort last year. I filled a big bag up with warm water, had it over two feet higher than me, and did it at least three times. Plus I don't make it a habit to stick things in my pooper, so reading this it's easy to see why I'm not anxious to do it again.

In fact I think I've developed a bit of a mild phobia about it. I'm ultra-concerned about damaging my body, which is a bit silly I guess, given the six-things-I-shoplifted-out-of-Home-Depot-in-my-ass thread the other day.

But to anyone planning a first time encounter, I'd seriously consider using a toy the day before or whatever. I didn't, and was kind of surprised that things hurt as bad as they did. It was, however, instant I'm-a-top therapy...

[kaientai]

wel as promised

The enema worked great (strange feeling though)

she opened the door in a nice set of lingerie smelling pretty after handeling the "gift" we start kissing and touching slowly she pushes me down to my knees where i am eye to eye with my first cock.

wich soft was pretty big so i started giving her a bj (something i would be doing a lot more during the course of 2 hours including some atempted deepthroat and a bit of gaggin wich i liked) I had told her she was the first for me so she was nice and gentle after a bit of pain (she is 8-9 inches and thick so hey) it felt good and nice

Al said an done a great experience realy great
thanks for al the advice once more