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blackmagic
01-31-2007, 10:56 PM
ive tried roses, ive tried romantic dates, ive tried most of it, even had her head in my lap during a movie and have even seen her in the shower, but seriously i havent got any um ass from my girl yet?

whats goin on is she scared to have sex? i get to kiss her i get to hang with her i get to do everything in the world with kim but no sex!! :roll:

But i dont understand how to really make my move, isnt the girl supposed to make her move or something or how does it work?

if anyone has had sex before, im open to some good advice :D
Fox
01-31-2007, 11:10 PM
I guess you guys haven't talked about it, eh? Maybe she's just not ready. I assume this is the same girl that's in transition? If so, maybe she doesn't feel feminine enough (physically) yet.

For me, I've always had a no pressure approach, and even turned down sex a couple of times just to build a little anticipation (doesn't always work, lemme tell ya lol).

I dunno, I think you should just talk to her and see where she's coming from and go from there.
BeardedOne
01-31-2007, 11:58 PM
Hmm...I'm not sure I can remember that far back, but I seem to recall a stop at an ATM and an argument over why I didn't have a cell phone. :? The results of the former pretty much overshadowed the latter and the evening was pretty nice. :D

I can't really give relationship advice because it's rumored that my picture is going to appear along with the definition "Fiery Train Wreck" on Wikipedia.
Alison Faraday
02-01-2007, 12:21 AM
I can't really give relationship advice because it's rumored that my picture is going to appear along with the definition "Fiery Train Wreck" on Wikipedia.

Awww, don't say that, you love cats. I've told you before Beardy. Get yourself to the UK. The Crowne Plaza in Cambridge is nice (where I went to university too). Could take you round all of the colleges and the sights. Then leave you with some good memories to think about on the flight home.

As for your advice blackmagic. Talk to her. :) Ok, I'll tell you about my relationship. It's based very much on love and trust, we're friends and do everything together. Outright sex doesn't come into it except occasionally. Personally I don't enjoy anal too much unless everything is just right. Hormones can have that effect. I *could* go for the rest of my life without sex if I had to. So when it does happen it's very special and meaningful. Don't think about it. Chat with her about. If she's let you in so far then she trusts you, and that's so special to be able to give that to someone. Well, my pennies worth anyway.

xx
NYCe
02-01-2007, 01:01 AM
Dick in a box.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1dmVU08zVpA
hwbs
02-01-2007, 02:05 AM
Dick in a box.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1dmVU08zVpA


fucking priceless :claps
crayons
02-01-2007, 03:58 AM
ive tried roses, ive tried romantic dates, ive tried most of it, even had her head in my lap during a movie and have even seen her in the shower, but seriously i havent got any um ass from my girl yet?

whats goin on is she scared to have sex? i get to kiss her i get to hang with her i get to do everything in the world with kim but no sex!! :roll:

But i dont understand how to really make my move, isnt the girl supposed to make her move or something or how does it work?

if anyone has had sex before, im open to some good advice :D

blackmagic: I was wondering whether you'd give me permission to use your dilema in my next joke. It's rare to find misfortune of this caliber in my neighborhood.
ezed
02-01-2007, 07:29 AM
Walk into the room and shout "Who want's to get laid??????????"
Kabuki
02-01-2007, 07:32 AM
Dick in a box.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1dmVU08zVpA

How about a box in a box?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3xElIik0Ys0
JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel
02-01-2007, 07:57 AM
Dick in a box.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1dmVU08zVpA

BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Dkg
02-01-2007, 08:00 AM
Dick in a box.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1dmVU08zVpA

lol hell yeah. works every time
blackmagic
02-01-2007, 09:39 AM
As for your advice blackmagic. Talk to her. :) Ok, I'll tell you about my relationship. It's based very much on love and trust, we're friends and do everything together. Outright sex doesn't come into it except occasionally. Personally I don't enjoy anal too much unless everything is just right. Hormones can have that effect. I *could* go for the rest of my life without sex if I had to. So when it does happen it's very special and meaningful. Don't think about it. Chat with her about. If she's let you in so far then she trusts you, and that's so special to be able to give that to someone. Well, my pennies worth anyway. xx

your pennies are worth all the advice in the world, thats seriously some good advice, i mean all this time im sitting here horny as fuck looking at other transsexuals on this site, wishing i could bust a nut in one and then thinking about kim, in a way i never realized how addictive porn really is and just need to busy myself with other things in life.

Talking and opening up to her......... well im not the kinda guy that really wants to sit down and open up, i mean if anything ill take ezeds advice and try it like that JOKINGLY at first and see how she reacts then if all else fails ill try it the "diplomatic way".

Personally i wouldnt enjoy anal either, id beat the living shit out of anyone who sticks anything up my ass. But as for the sex being meaningful i totally understand i mean yeah its love and shes not a slut so yeah i get your drift on that one.

thanks coolgirl :wink:


Walk into the room and shout "Who want's to get laid??????????"

seriously thats probly the upmost best advice ever, thats the best sexual quote ever and deserves to be in the hall of fame!! :wink:


blackmagic: I was wondering whether you'd give me permission to use your dilema in my next joke. It's rare to find misfortune of this caliber in my neighborhood.

:arrow: uhhhhhh sure, just dont slap my name or anything that resembles or portrays to me on the joke

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1dmVU08zVpA

:shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:

HOLY FUCKING SHIT THAT WAS SOME FUCKING GOOD ADVICE, THANKS MODS, its already catching on :!:
Nch22now
02-01-2007, 04:32 PM
Sex is overrated. You'll look back after and wonder why you were so anxious.
truplaya4real
02-01-2007, 04:58 PM
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Shandus
02-02-2007, 05:19 AM
It's not just TG's you have to take it slow with. With my current girl (a GG) we've been going super slow, which is unusual for me. There's something special about her, so I don't want to rock the boat by pressing too hard.
Trogdor
02-02-2007, 05:42 AM
Welcome to my world dude. Getting a fuckin' DATE, let alone sex, is difficult for me. :(

I am still in the dreaded ~Sideshow Bob groan~ friends zone myself :x
Trogdor
02-02-2007, 05:44 AM
Sex is overrated. You'll look back after and wonder why you were so anxious.

Speak for yourself on that one. :P
ezed
02-02-2007, 06:59 AM
Sex is overrated. You'll look back after and wonder why you were so anxious.

So..what happened? Did you lose your dick in the war, or just misplaced it? :?:
Nch22now
02-05-2007, 06:42 AM
Don't get me wrong guys, sex is fun. However, all these teenagers going on about how they need to have sex otherwise their lives won't be complete and they'll never be real men. Get real.

It's fucking sex. It's fun, it's great but don't lose sleep if you ain't getting any.