WHY THE FUCK.......!!!!

[TomSelis]

Are so many t-girls so damned flaky!!! I could go on a real rant right now and have a Megabody sized moment(it's all love Megs), but I know 90% of you won't know what the fuck I'm talking about.

For real though!!! WTF!!?!?! One of you girls PM me, I need input.

[stillies77]

i think its because all they think we are after is sex or that we want something...they have been through so much that they have trouble trusting people that just IM them out of the blue...at least thats the conclusions i have gotten from trying to IM Allanah and Olivia Love...Holly Sweet is a great person to talk to though...ive actually talked to her on the phone she is a sweetheart...and i played guitar on cam to cam chat for Gia Darling on Yahoo Mess. once...some are really cool and very very easy to talk to while others just seem to not trust you...i dunno what to tell ya.

[Vicki Richter]

Well lets hear the story.

[TomSelis]

Well lets hear the story.

PM me and I will.

[peggygee]

i think its because all they think we are after is sex or that we want something...they have been through so much that they have trouble trusting people that just IM them out of the blue...at least thats the conclusions i have gotten from trying to IM Allanah and Olivia Love...Holly Sweet is a great person to talk to though...ive actually talked to her on the phone she is a sweetheart...and i played guitar on cam to cam chat for Gia Darling on Yahoo Mess. once...some are really cool and very very easy to talk to while others just seem to not trust you...i dunno what to tell ya.

Yeah trust ain't one of my strong suits :smh

Not just in 'the life', but in business and professional
endeavours as well.

However I am very cognizant that my GG friends, go
through much of the same shit.

I also know that men get played as well - everybody
plays the fool sometime :shrug

But Tom, not knowing what it is you have gone through I can't
speak on it, but trust that you are able to make ith through it.

[TomSelis]

i think its because all they think we are after is sex or that we want something...they have been through so much that they have trouble trusting people that just IM them out of the blue...at least thats the conclusions i have gotten from trying to IM Allanah and Olivia Love...Holly Sweet is a great person to talk to though...ive actually talked to her on the phone she is a sweetheart...and i played guitar on cam to cam chat for Gia Darling on Yahoo Mess. once...some are really cool and very very easy to talk to while others just seem to not trust you...i dunno what to tell ya.

I'm not talking about IM'ing....at all....

[Alison Faraday]

Hey Tom,

Stick with those that you know. If someone ignores you then don't even bother expending the energy in trying to figure them out.

I personally can't cope with people going from hot to cold from one minute to the next, so I just don't even bother with them.

There are good people out there. Hang in there. :)

x

[TomSelis]

Hey Tom,

Stick with those that you know. If someone ignores you then don't even bother expending the energy in trying to figure them out.

I personally can't cope with people going from hot to cold from one minute to the next, so I just don't even bother with them.

There are good people out there. Hang in there. :)

x

Thanks Alison, that's what I kinda needed to hear, because that's exactly what happend.

To make a long story short (now that I've calmed down a little bit): I had this chick who's living in stealth wife'd up. I'm talking to her on the phone, we're chillin', going out, going to the grocery store together, I'm carrying her bags six blocks through Harlem in when it's -10 degrees outside. I thought this was some real shit, I really let my guard down. We were talking about some future plans shit.

After a couple of months of that, suddenly she got really 'typical'.....youhavetaknowwhatI'mtalkingabouttokn owwhatI'mtalkingabout.

I'm not talking about an escort here, I'm talking about a TS with a legit job, nice apartment, etc.

*smdh* Y'all gon' fuck around and turn me back into the old me.....

[hwbs]

damn my son....i got your back

[TomSelis]

damn my son....i got your back

LOL!!!!!!!

[Fox]

*smdh* Y'all gon' fuck around and turn me back into the old me.....

Nowadays everybody wanna talk like they got something to say, but nothing comes out when they move their lips, just a bunch of gibberish and motherfuckers act like they forgot about Dre...

Sorry, couldn't resist.

I'm sorry you went through that, man. Did she give any explanation at all? It's pretty fucked up to not to at least tell the person what the deal is.

Keep your head up man. :(

[TomSelis]

Uhhhh....that's a negative Fox. It just went from really hot to a sudden coldness like Alison said. It's probably some shady shit somewhere in there, but that's really not important now, because it'll come out sooner or later.

[peggygee]

Thanks Alison, that's what I kinda needed to hear, because that's exactly what happend.

To make a long story short (now that I've calmed down a little bit): I had this chick who's living in stealth wife'd up. I'm talking to her on the phone, we're chillin', going out, going to the grocery store together, I'm carrying her bags six blocks through Harlem in when it's -10 degrees outside. I thought this was some real shit, I really let my guard down. We were talking about some future plans shit.

After a couple of months of that, suddenly she got really 'typical'.....youhavetaknowwhatI'mtalkingabouttokn owwhatI'mtalkingabout.

I'm not talking about an escort here, I'm talking about a TS with a legit job, nice apartment, etc.

*smdh* Y'all gon' fuck around and turn me back into the old me.....

I hate to see anyone's heart harden. And though as stated I am not
the most trusting person, once I find that a person is trustworthy I am
very open and giving.

I don't know the dynamics of your relationship with this women, but I
would hope that what has happened would not turn you off to an entire
gender.

By the by, there are supermarkets all over Harlem and gypsy cabs, don't
be schlepping groceries 6 blocks, though it was a sweet sentiment, and
would earn someone 'brownie points' with me. 8)

Also, the relationship may not be over, you two may just
be going through a rough patch, try and talk it through with
her as to why there was this misunderstanding - she could
be the one. :wink:

[TomSelis]

Oh c'mon, Tom. You and half the other guys around here need "input". And usually, none of you feel comfortable admitting it until we get you alone. Geez. Do you want it lubed up extra-virgin olive oil as well? Now, please, stop fishing for mercy-fucks like this. ;-)

Hah-hah-hah.....hell. :roll: You're funny (looking), you don't know me so shut the fuck up and mind your business. Go back to trying to get dudes to join your Yahoo site.

Two years later and you still need that hug, huh? You sad, sad woman.

P.S. You only get this one response from me as I usually just ignore your ass. Grown folks talkin'....go play. Mods when do we get an ignore user feature?

[hwbs]

:smoking :popcorn

[BeardedOne]

*Snark* @ "input" :lol:

Wait, let me bend over to get this 'input' better. :wink:

But to basics...

Sounds like the trust thing again. I don't think it is exclusive to any particular gender/sexuality, but it does seem to play more off the female side.

My big crash came from a rather blissful year with a 3G (Gay GG) that seemed to complement me in every way (And vicey-versey) and who kept cooing "I love you" (The biggest lie since "I'm from the government and I promise not to put the check in your mouth") at me right up to the moment she kicked me in the teeth and told me to fuck off.

Who the fuck knows. :shrug

And I wholly agree with the groceries-for-six-blocks shit. Damn, knock over some kid for his wagon.

[peggygee]

And I wholly agree with the groceries-for-six-blocks shit. Damn, knock over some kid for his wagon.

Hell, this is how we roll in my hood :lol:

http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l2/magi43/Shopping20Cart222.jpg

or sometimes like this:
http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l2/magi43/shopping111.jpg

Check out my 4 inch rims, they be spinning baby,
they be spinning :D

[TomSelis]

Umm...before we keep going on the six blocks thing, it wasn't really six blocks but it was freakin cold.

*kthxbye*

Thanks for the 'input' errrr....is this a gay term I'm not familiar with? Peggygee.

[peggygee]

Umm...before we keep going on the six blocks thing, it wasn't really six blocks but it was freakin cold.

*kthxbye*

Thanks for the 'input' errrr....is this a gay term I'm not familiar with? Peggygee.

Can't speak about the 'input' part, twasn't me that commented
on it, nor do I know a lot of gay jargon, not down with GLBT, you know me. :shrug

But I do think the grocery thing is chivalrous and compassionate.
The type of thing that a healthy couple would do, and that you don't
often hear on here much, what with all the 'suck.. and fuc... talk.

Any man that is willing to go shopping is cool in my book. :claps

That's my input :wink:

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

Tom hit me up man, we'll talk

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

oh just so you know I'll be "deleting" the negative posts in those thread, LMAO

[hwbs]

quote- Nowadays everybody wanna talk like they got something to say, but nothing comes out when they move their lips, just a bunch of gibberish and motherfuckers act like they forgot about Dre...

Sorry, couldn't resist


i was just sittin upstairs listening to my will smith cd ,lmao :anon

[TomSelis]

quote- Nowadays everybody wanna talk like they got something to say, but nothing comes out when they move their lips, just a bunch of gibberish and motherfuckers act like they forgot about Dre...


Go Pickles, it's ya birf-day, we gon party like it's ya birf-day, you know we don't give a fuck if it's not ya birf-day!!

LOL

[peggygee]

Thanks for the 'input' errrr....is this a gay term I'm not familiar with? Peggygee.

Excuse me, but I might have had a 'blonde moment' for 48 hours.

But tell me I didn't get called gay here. :smh