Hello All... new to this scene

[NYCBigGuy]

Hello everyone. I have been a quiet supporter of the TS scene for many years now after discovering a shemale tape in the collection of an old college roommate.

I live in NYC and I see TS girls all over the metro area but I haven't the courage to approach one for fear of being misinterpreted as some kind of jerk.

I found this board by accident and was shocked to see every single one of my favorite TS adult stars representing on this site. It was a very pleasant surprise.

I know that some people frown on the men on this site who are discreet, but the nature of my work and my public face would suffer considerably if I was to just jump out there. However, I am willing to take steps to incorporate my desires into my life as long as I have the support of some new friends who are currently into the scene.

I hope to make those friends here, and as time passes, I will come out of my shell. You have to understand, these desires and passions are new to me and took me by surprise so its going to take some time for me to meet someone and get to know them.

I am not here for sex, but I never realized my attraction to TS girls would be so strong and absolute.

I am a well-educated male, a big teddy-bear type (if there are any TS girls who like bigger men) so I would love to meet a girl who likes good conversation as well as strong emotional passion.

For now, you can call me NYCBigGuy (i.e. 6'1", 280lbs).

:)

[Smog Boy]

Welcome Rookie.

[BeardedOne]

Well versed, polite, spells well...Not a spammer. :D

Do a search for the usual am-i-gay threads to laugh and learn before starting your own. :wink:

Pull up a chair, don't step in anything sticky, and enjoy the show. :peanutbutter

Welcome aboard.

[loki]

Well versed, polite, spells well...Not a spammer. :D

Do a search for the usual am-i-gay threads to laugh and learn before starting your own. :wink:

Pull up a chair, don't step in anything sticky, and enjoy the show. :peanutbutter

Welcome aboard.
Trust him on that one. :oops:I'm new at this too.

[hwbs]

welcome aboard :rock2

[NYCBigGuy]

Well versed, polite, spells well...Not a spammer. :D

Do a search for the usual am-i-gay threads to laugh and learn before starting your own. :wink:

Pull up a chair, don't step in anything sticky, and enjoy the show. :peanutbutter

Welcome aboard.

:lol:

No, I don't think I am gay or anything close. I have no desire for men whatsoever. But there is something about a trannie that drives me wild. I had been supressing this desire for a looooooooonng time, but I can't hold back anymore.

I need my first experience to know for sure.

I hope I can find it soon, because I am going crazy thinking about it all the time.

Are those places from the photo pages good spots to meet real TS girls and not escorts? Or can someone send me a private message telling me where a good, low key, place to go to meet TS girls?

[whatsupwithat]

welcome!

[Fox]

Welcome. :D

[NYCBigGuy]

Well versed, polite, spells well...Not a spammer. :D

Do a search for the usual am-i-gay threads to laugh and learn before starting your own. :wink:

Pull up a chair, don't step in anything sticky, and enjoy the show. :peanutbutter

Welcome aboard.
Trust him on that one. :oops:I'm new at this too.

Yea, but at least you had the balls to post your pic, I am nowhere near ready for that.

Not yet...

:?

[wombat33]

Well versed, polite, spells well...Not a spammer. :D

Do a search for the usual am-i-gay threads to laugh and learn before starting your own. :wink:

Pull up a chair, don't step in anything sticky, and enjoy the show. :peanutbutter

Welcome aboard.

:lol:

No, I don't think I am gay or anything close. I have no desire for men whatsoever. But there is something about a trannie that drives me wild. I had been supressing this desire for a looooooooonng time, but I can't hold back anymore.

I need my first experience to know for sure.

I hope I can find it soon, because I am going crazy thinking about it all the time.

Are those places from the photo pages good spots to meet real TS girls and not escorts? Or can someone send me a private message telling me where a good, low key, place to go to meet TS girls?



ARE YOU LOOKING FOR ROMANCE OR A SEXUAL ADVENTURE WITH A PRO? I CAN HELP YOU WITH THE SECOND ONE (WINK)

[NYCBigGuy]

Well versed, polite, spells well...Not a spammer. :D

Do a search for the usual am-i-gay threads to laugh and learn before starting your own. :wink:

Pull up a chair, don't step in anything sticky, and enjoy the show. :peanutbutter

Welcome aboard.

:lol:

No, I don't think I am gay or anything close. I have no desire for men whatsoever. But there is something about a trannie that drives me wild. I had been supressing this desire for a looooooooonng time, but I can't hold back anymore.

I need my first experience to know for sure.

I hope I can find it soon, because I am going crazy thinking about it all the time.

Are those places from the photo pages good spots to meet real TS girls and not escorts? Or can someone send me a private message telling me where a good, low key, place to go to meet TS girls?



ARE YOU LOOKING FOR ROMANCE OR A SEXUAL ADVENTURE WITH A PRO? I CAN HELP YOU WITH THE SECOND ONE (WINK)

Are both possible?

Tell me what you can do.

[Marilyn]

Here we go again with the "NO ESCORT TS to meet and have my 1st experience with..." line :? When you are not ready to date and/or have a meaningful relationship with a ts lady, and when you have to be on the "low" cuz of your job or whatever else, then you have no choice but to have your first TS experience with an ESCORT!! Gosh! We girls also enjoy dating and having a so called "normal" relationship with men you know, just like genetic women do! :frustrated

[peggygee]

Here we go again with the "NO ESCORT TS to meet and have my 1st experience with..." line :? When you are not ready to date and/or have a meaningful relationship with a ts lady, and when you have to be on the "low" cuz of your job or whatever else, then you have no choice but to have your first TS experience with an ESCORT!! Gosh! We girls also enjoy dating and having a so called "normal" relationship with men you know, just like genetic women do! :frustrated




NYCBigGuy
Rookie Poster
Post subject: Hello All... new to this scene
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Hello everyone. I have been a quiet supporter of the TS scene for many years now after discovering a shemale tape in the collection of an old college roommate.

I live in NYC and I see TS girls all over the metro area but I haven't the courage to approach one for fear of being misinterpreted as some kind of jerk.

I found this board by accident and was shocked to see every single one of my favorite TS adult stars representing on this site. It was a very pleasant surprise.

I know that some people frown on the men on this site who are discreet, but the nature of my work and my public face would suffer considerably if I was to just jump out there. However, I am willing to take steps to incorporate my desires into my life as long as I have the support of some new friends who are currently into the scene.

I hope to make those friends here, and as time passes, I will come out of my shell. You have to understand, these desires and passions are new to me and took me by surprise so its going to take some time for me to meet someone and get to know them.

I am not here for sex, but I never realized my attraction to TS girls would be so strong and absolute.



Marilyn, I gotta admit when the BigGuy came knocking
on the back door, I did get a D / L chaser vibe, but I
thought I would give him the benefit of the doubt.

But I will say that he indeed may want to tweak his
technique or he will find that his best option may be
to seek out the services of an escort, so as to maintain
his discretion.

:2cent

[NYCBigGuy]

[quote=Marilyn]
Marilyn, I gotta admit when the BigGuy came knocking
on the back door, I did get a D / L chaser vibe, but I
thought I would give him the benefit of the doubt.

But I will say that he indeed may want to tweak his
technique or he will find that his best option may be
to seek out the services of an escort, so as to maintain
his discretion.

:2cent

Okay, I guess I should make myself a little bit clearer.

1) Its not something that a person just decides and jumps into without thinking deeply about it. Regardless of what some people here might believe, even though its not a *homosexual* relationship per se, if I go through with this to its logical conclusion, I will most likely be handling a penis that isn't mine for the first time in my life.

That is going to be a massive change of pace for me.

2) I don't WANT an escort, I want to ideally find a place where I can go -- maybe a bar or lounge -- that is frequented by TS girls who aren't sex workers. Is that too much to ask?

3) I am willing to engage in a real relationship as long as the TS is willing to get to know me as well. I am not a thin guy, and am also not a big sloppy fool, I just want to be accepted for who I am, and that is my point. I am not into paying to spend time with someone that isn't a real date. I am not looking down on anyone who chooses to do so, its just not my thing.

4) I am not embarrased to be seen with a TS in the street. I just have never spent ANY time with a TS girl. That would change if I knew of a place where I could go to meet one that wasn't an adult showcase.

I hope this makes sense.

[peggygee]

[quote=Marilyn]
Marilyn, I gotta admit when the BigGuy came knocking
on the back door, I did get a D / L chaser vibe, but I
thought I would give him the benefit of the doubt.

But I will say that he indeed may want to tweak his
technique or he will find that his best option may be
to seek out the services of an escort, so as to maintain
his discretion.

:2cent

Okay, I guess I should make myself a little bit clearer.

1) Its not something that a person just decides and jumps into without thinking deeply about it. Regardless of what some people here might believe, even though its not a *homosexual* relationship per se, if I go through with this to its logical conclusion, I will most likely be handling a penis that isn't mine for the first time in my life.

That is going to be a massive change of pace for me.

2) I don't WANT an escort, I want to ideally find a place where I can go -- maybe a bar or lounge -- that is frequented by TS girls who aren't sex workers. Is that too much to ask?

3) I am willing to engage in a real relationship as long as the TS is willing to get to know me as well. I am not a thin guy, and am also not a big sloppy fool, I just want to be accepted for who I am, and that is my point. I am not into paying to spend time with someone that isn't a real date. I am not looking down on anyone who chooses to do so, its just not my thing.

4) I am not embarrased to be seen with a TS in the street. I just have never spent ANY time with a TS girl. That would change if I knew of a place where I could go to meet one that wasn't an adult showcase.

I hope this makes sense.

Well BigGuy, still trying to give you the benefit of the doubt, but in
an effort to help you, I would like to point out that much like their
genetic female Sisters most transwomen have heard the lines and
the rationales.

Perhaps you may want to give just a little more thought into what
you are contemplating getting into. Often-times this is why men will
avail themselves of the services of an escort.

This way, the man can test the waters, to see if this is the correct
choice for him, rather than having an emotional involvement occur,
when there is still uncertainty on the part of the male.

Thus to summarize, while this is a totally new experience for you,
but for many of the transwomen on the site, this is far from the
first time they have heard these words.

Maybe you may want to observe some of the posts on the forum,
strike up a conversation with someone where there may be a
mutual attraction.

But like the guys have said, try to stay out the sticky.

Oh, and welcome.

:popcorn

[demmie]

You and I brah.