I'm not gay but...

[Traslave]

I'm a italian boy, i'm 24 and i live in Bologna.From some years I have discovered the Shemale world, i don't know why, but i like T-girls very much.My greatest desire is to be fucked by a Shemale...I'd love to do to a Shemale all the things that the women make to the men...like blow job with swallows, and take the tranny cock in the ass.Sometime i ask to me if i'm gay, but i find the idea to fuck with a man very disgusting...so i'm not gay, i don't have erection if i see a naked man but if i see a hot shemale I feel me immediately excited.I like women but I prefer women with dick.
Am I so strange? Not gay and not bisex..so what i am?
P.s Sorry for my terrible English.

[Fox]

Hm, there probably should be a sticky to answer this question.

If the idea of being with a man is disgusting to you, then you're not gay. It probably has nothing to do with the penis itself, but rather what it represents. Which is power, control, authority. Very sexy and intriguing qualities in a woman, especially during sex.

I've asked myself the same question multiple times in years past, and the answer I always found was that I'm straight. Not even bisexual. Men do nothing for me romantically or sexually.

So, yeah, don't let anyone give you any psycho-babble about not being straight if females (GG and TG) are the only ones that turn you on.

EDIT: Some might argue that engaging in sexual contact with a penis means that at least on some level there is a level of bi-curiousity on the male's part. Personally, I don't really see this being the case.

It's almost like there becomes two different types of penis. Female one, and male one. Male penis to a straight guy does nothing for him, while female penis is exciting and interesting and sexy. Who knows, maybe it's some kind of subconscious justification for liking "female penis" while not being classified as bi. But still, one has to consider who the penis is attached to. Male or female?

In closing, do a forum search on "Am I gay?" and see what it turns up. I need to get some sleep. :oops:

[hellf]

No..non sei gay tranquillo...

[sharna]

Hm, there probably should be a sticky to answer this question.

If the idea of being with a man is disgusting to you, then you're not gay. It probably has nothing to do with the penis itself, but rather what it represents. Which is power, control, authority. Very sexy and intriguing qualities in a woman, especially during sex.

I've asked myself the same question multiple times in years past, and the answer I always found was that I'm straight. Not even bisexual. Men do nothing for me romantically or sexually.

So, yeah, don't let anyone give you any psycho-babble about not being straight if females (GG and TG) are the only ones that turn you on.

EDIT: Some might argue that engaging in sexual contact with a penis means that at least on some level there is a level of bi-curiousity on the male's part. Personally, I don't really see this being the case.

It's almost like there becomes two different types of penis. Female one, and male one. Male penis to a straight guy does nothing for him, while female penis is exciting and interesting and sexy. Who knows, maybe it's some kind of subconscious justification for liking "female penis" while not being classified as bi. But still, one has to consider who the penis is attached to. Male or female?

In closing, do a forum search on "Am I gay?" and see what it turns up. I need to get some sleep. :oops:
that is the way i think - you are not gay.

[Traslave]

Thx all :wink:

[darkshout]

Beh se ti preoccupa tanto, no non lo sei, sei solamente un amante delle trans :) Come tutti noi :)

[thecollossus30]

You are what you are, in this world there cant be a title

[kardon]

caro traslave, la domanda che ti fai é classica degli amanti dedlle trans: sono gay ? da anni me la pongo, sopratutto da quando ho scoperto quanto mi piace essere fottuto dalle trans. Anch io non potrei mai avere un rapporto con un uomo, proprio non mi piacciono, ed invece amo le donne, però adoro l uccello se attaccato c è una bella trans molto femminile. Penso che incasellare la sessualità all interno di gruppi chiusi sia un errore. Forse quelli come me non sono etero a tutti gli effetti, non sono gay a tutti gli effetti e nemmeno bisessuali in senso stretto. Allora io cosa sono ? Sono una persona che sessualmente non fa parte di una categoria ben definità, probabilmente che con le trans tira fuori quella parte di omosessualità che ,comunque, ogni uomo ha. Non sei d accordo? io smetterei di chiederti cosa sei. Fai ,sessualmente parlando, quello che + ti piace con un altra persona consensiente. Purtroppo abbiamo paura a dire in pubblico queste cose per cui non confessiamo il nostro amore per le trans solo per paura dei giudizi degli altri, ma se ci pensi bene , non facciamo niente di illecito. Una volta una trans mi disse che se è vero che a molte donne piace essere sodomizzate è anche vero che il culo ce l abbiamo anche noi uomini e quindi provare piacere a prenderlo in culo , probabilmente, è + naturale di quel che si pensa.Secondo me il ragionamento di quella trans non fa una grinza

[BillyCuddles]

No..non sei gay tranquillo




Beh se ti preoccupa tanto, no non lo sei, sei solamente un amante delle trans Come tutti noi



caro traslave, la domanda che ti fai é classica degli amanti dedlle trans: sono gay ? da anni me la pongo, sopratutto da quando ho scoperto quanto mi piace essere fottuto dalle trans. Anch io non potrei mai avere un rapporto con un uomo, proprio non mi piacciono, ed invece amo le donne, però adoro l uccello se attaccato c è una bella trans molto femminile. Penso che incasellare la sessualità all interno di gruppi chiusi sia un errore. Forse quelli come me non sono etero a tutti gli effetti, non sono gay a tutti gli effetti e nemmeno bisessuali in senso stretto. Allora io cosa sono ? Sono una persona che sessualmente non fa parte di una categoria ben definità, probabilmente che con le trans tira fuori quella parte di omosessualità che ,comunque, ogni uomo ha. Non sei d accordo? io smetterei di chiederti cosa sei. Fai ,sessualmente parlando, quello che + ti piace con un altra persona consensiente. Purtroppo abbiamo paura a dire in pubblico queste cose per cui non confessiamo il nostro amore per le trans solo per paura dei giudizi degli altri, ma se ci pensi bene , non facciamo niente di illecito. Una volta una trans mi disse che se è vero che a molte donne piace essere sodomizzate è anche vero che il culo ce l abbiamo anche noi uomini e quindi provare piacere a prenderlo in culo , probabilmente, è + naturale di quel che si pensa.Secondo me il ragionamento di quella trans non fa una grinza

Please use English so we can follow along. I feel like I invaded a private Italian club. :frustrated

[lust4ts]

I could try and write something deep and meaningfull like I usually do when it come's to an am I gay thread which I hasen to add this the is about the 100,000th ive read, but fuck it here you go nice and simple girl's look good with cocks it's almost as if something that should look so wrong just looks so right to us TS lovers. Don't worry about it suck her cock let her fuck your arse it's all good. There is now word for us, jsut enjoy your experiences and be safe.

[kardon]

you are right Billy. <but my english is terrible, but if it is not possible to write in italian language i stop my visit on the forum. sorry

[BillyCuddles]

you are right Billy. <but my english is terrible, but if it is not possible to write in italian language i stop my visit on the forum. sorry

I think, based on your response, that your English is GREAT kardon.

I was just making an observation based on my frustration of not being able to follow along on an English board.

Please don't leave.

[kardon]

billy, you are kind but i know e little number of words in english and for me it is a hard work to substaine a conversation. i need a continue look to the italian-english dictionary.in my previous intervent in the forum i say that ; sometimes, is not possible classified one man into a sexual categories like gay,eterosexual or bisex. For example i like sex with woman, i don t like men, but i find lovely TS with big cocks. so i don t know in wich categories i am, i am not etero if i like TS with big cocks? but probably i am not gay if i like woman and i am not bisex because i don t like men. For many years i question me what i am, now i stop to question and i do what i like in sex, the important is to do with the consense of the sexual partner. i am sorry for the mistakes i have done in writing, i hope it s clear my idea

[BillyCuddles]

billy, you are kind but i know e little number of words in english and for me it is a hard work to substaine a conversation. i need a continue look to the italian-english dictionary.in my previous intervent in the forum i say that ; sometimes, is not possible classified one man into a sexual categories like gay,eterosexual or bisex. For example i like sex with woman, i don t like men, but i find lovely TS with big cocks. so i don t know in wich categories i am, i am not etero if i like TS with big cocks? but probably i am not gay if i like woman and i am not bisex because i don t like men. For many years i question me what i am, now i stop to question and i do what i like in sex, the important is to do with the consense of the sexual partner. i am sorry for the mistakes i have done in writing, i hope it s clear my idea

Very Clear. kardon.... I believe everyone in this thread is of the same opinion. Screw Labels.

[tsloverdave]

I normally stay away from the am i gay threads... but for what its worth.... here is my 2 cents worth....

I have asked myself this question many times in the past especially when i first got interested in T*girls.....

Here is my input...... FUCK IT...... YOU are what YOU are...... as long as you can get up everyday and look in the mirror and be happy with yourself and with what you see.... THATS ALL that matters....... I hate labels unless they are Gucci, Versace, Prada etc... (sorry had to put that in bad joke i know but these kinda treads make me like that so had to lighten the mood)... I don't think of myself as gay or bi but there will those people out there who say i am cause at the end of the day T*girls have cocks etc..... and FUCK THEM... at the end of the day this discussion will always be the same as....

1) What came first the chicken or the egg
2) is the glass half full or half empty, etc etc

a difference of opinions between certain people...

I know this probably didn't help you... BUT I hope you are happy with who are and what you like and I honestly think thats ALL that matters....

I hope everyone has a nice evening.. speak soon

dave
xoxo

[loki]

Since all humans start out as females in the womb,and the only thing that turns us into males is the introduction of a certain chemical does it really matter. But i do agree that the thought of having sex with a traditional male is disturbing to say the least.But doing it with a shemale is to me even better than with traditional women.To me there are two kinds of women.One without penises and one with penises.

[BeardedOne]

I ran it through Babelfish and it still came out in another language (No longer Italian, but not very much English either). :lol:

That's not too much difference from how we may translate our sexuality in comparison to the 'norm'.

[Traslave]

Thx to all...i have red your posts and my idea is the same of most of you.
Unfortunately i think that to be fucked by a TGirl will remain a my fantasy, I have never been with a prostitute because i hate the idea to pay for love, so i don't know where i can find a TGilr with which to try...

[Fox]

Yeah, I refuse to pay for sex as well, so I share your sentiment that one would be a bit hard to find. There's tsmatch.com and tsgirlfriend.com (where escorts aren't allowed in the chat room). You could find someone there, but I wouldn't rely on that.

Chances are, theres a tranny hot spot somewhere in your area. There may be a lot of escorts, but there's a good chance you'll meet someone who is not and is looking for a long term relationship.

Good luck. :)

[loki]

We all pay for sex in one way or the other.It might be diner and a movie or drinks and dancing.Paying with money is sometimes avoiding wasting all the time and hassle.Can you really say you wanted a lifetime relationship with all the people you've taken on a date.Or did you do it to get laid. :wink:.It might be time or money or emotion,but we all exchange something for sex.Paying in cash is simply skipping the middleman.

[BillyCuddles]

We all pay for sex in one way or the other.It might be diner and a movie or drinks and dancing.Paying with money is sometimes avoiding wasting all the time and hassle.Can you really say you wanted a lifetime relationship with all the people you've taken on a date.Or did you do it to get laid. :wink:.It might be time or money or emotion,but we all exchange something for sex.Paying in cash is simply skipping the middleman.

I think ego prevents some men from admitting what you say is absolutely true. I've learned over the years that it is actually cheaper finacially and emotionally to "gift" a favorite/regular that can meet my needs. My regular girls get their tribute but I've even been taken to dinner by a few before or after a session. I received a very nice Christmas gift from a provider/ friend. I don't look for Love, but friendship is not out of the question.

Dating for Sex:
Flowers............ $40.00
cab...................$40.00
Dinner..... .........$60.00
Drinks...............$30.00
Club or Movie.... $50.00
Total.........$220.00

You may or may not get laid. If you don't you will repeat this process untill you do so you may double or triple this cost for sex.

Paying a provider
cab...................$30.00
incall.................$200.00

Total.........$230.00

You will get laid. http://devoproductions.com/110104emot19_thumbsup.gif

[Fox]

Heh, I knew someone would bring up that counter-point. It's a good one, too. It's just, personally, if I'm gonna pay, I want to get more than just a fuck, y'know? I want to have some kind of real access to the girl (a casual phone call, maybe hang out) and a chance for a little romance. Something not easily attainable with an escort.

But really, I think it depends on what you're looking for. If it's just sex, an escort is perfect. If it's something more, then not so much.

Ninja Edit: Also, there's no ego involved with refusing to pay for sex. I just think some things should be free (water, air, sex). However I have absolutely nothing against escorts. They do their thing and earn good money, I ain't mad at 'em. More power to them.

[monkey1402]

ive questioned whether im gay, but i have realised im not. an example, i think jennifer paris is fucking hot, but i saw a pic of her as a bloke and i almost puked. the thought of an effeminate male touching me makes me sick. but i wouldnt mind sucking jennifer paris' cock. what does that mean?!

[ezed]

We all pay for sex in one way or the other.It might be diner and a movie or drinks and dancing.Paying with money is sometimes avoiding wasting all the time and hassle.Can you really say you wanted a lifetime relationship with all the people you've taken on a date.Or did you do it to get laid. :wink:.It might be time or money or emotion,but we all exchange something for sex.Paying in cash is simply skipping the middleman.

Fuck! Loki nailed it. MODS! Move him up to the next level, screw the number of posts rule! 8)

[timxxx]

monkey1402 wrote

but i wouldnt mind sucking jennifer paris' cock. what does that mean?! :lol:

[BillyCuddles]

Also, there's no ego involved with refusing to pay for sex. I just think some things should be free (water, air, sex). However I have absolutely nothing against escorts. They do their thing and earn good money, I ain't mad at 'em. More power to them.

I understand your point, but you're still in denial that you do indeed pay for sex now. SEX AIN"T FREE MY FRIEND!

[Fox]

Also, there's no ego involved with refusing to pay for sex. I just think some things should be free (water, air, sex). However I have absolutely nothing against escorts. They do their thing and earn good money, I ain't mad at 'em. More power to them.

I understand your point, but you're still in denial that you do indeed pay for sex now. SEX AIN"T FREE MY FRIEND!

Heh, I'm not saying we don't pay in some way, shape, or form. I just mean paying as a... transaction. You're correct that we end up paying up anyway, and not just that, but with dating, you end up paying more and still aren't guaranteed a hit.

However, what you could end up getting in return might just be worth it (assuming you're looking for something more like myself). After all, you get what you pay for. :wink:

[BillyCuddles]

However, what you could end up getting in return might just be worth it (assuming you're looking for something more like myself). After all, you get what you pay for. :wink:

Well now.. You've changed the topic to Romance which is an entirely different issue. All my responses were reg sex. If you're looking for romance then don't use a hooker. Keep doing what you're doing. http://devoproductions.com/110104smile_71.gif

[werwt22]

Also, there's no ego involved with refusing to pay for sex. I just think some things should be free (water, air, sex). However I have absolutely nothing against escorts. They do their thing and earn good money, I ain't mad at 'em. More power to them.

I understand your point, but you're still in denial that you do indeed pay for sex now. SEX AIN"T FREE MY FRIEND!

I can agree to a certain extent but for the most part I dont. Your not paying for sex....your paying for the opportunity that could lead to sex, friendship, arguement, and/or nothing at all. I mean cmon...do you really consider taking a lady to dinner paying for sex? You telling me you'd never go out to eat in a restaurant other than McDonalds or Wendy's if you werent out on a date with a woman? I think of that more as us just trying to get our foot in the door and stand out. LMAO I once bust a smooth move of taking a girl to Wendy's a long time ago and it didnt work out to well.

[crayons]

Sometime i ask to me if i'm gay, but i find the idea to fuck with a man very disgusting...so i'm not gay, i don't have erection if i see a naked man but if i see a hot shemale I feel me immediately excited.I like women but I prefer women with dick.
Am I so strange? Not gay and not bisex..so what i am?
P.s Sorry for my terrible English.

I think what you have is a shemale fetish. The reason I saw this is because you said you prefer a woman with a dick rather than a woman without. Would you still be interested in a shemale if she didn't have a dick?

[ossumpeiEIEIO]

Just in case you aren't sure...

[man4tgirl4love]

i am not gay but i prefer TS more then woman..

[Martin C.]

I feel the same way you do. I don't have any kind of desire with men, but when I see a shemale I get very excited. I like women too and I prefer them to live with and make love, but when I wanna make a really hardcore sex I prefer a couple of shemales.
Today I was passing by a hairdresser near where I work and there was a beautiful shemale. I got excited and tomorrow I'll go there ,,, but I still have a girlfriend ,,, so. I don't think I'm gay ,,, but if somebody say that I'm I don't care been labeled.

[blacktgirls]

I'm a italian boy, i'm 24 and i live in Bologna.From some years I have discovered the Shemale world, i don't know why, but i like T-girls very much.My greatest desire is to be fucked by a Shemale...I'd love to do to a Shemale all the things that the women make to the men...like blow job with swallows, and take the tranny cock in the ass.Sometime i ask to me if i'm gay, but i find the idea to fuck with a man very disgusting...so i'm not gay, i don't have erection if i see a naked man but if i see a hot shemale I feel me immediately excited.I like women but I prefer women with dick.
Am I so strange? Not gay and not bisex..so what i am?
P.s Sorry for my terrible English. very interesting...... within the perfect scenario that being a monogamous relationship where both partners are STD free, i think the girls could answer this question best . ......in my case ( versatile ) i too would like to suck cock and get fucked by a girl but i would also love to fuck the girl and look into her beautiful eyes while being blown........that's why they call it the best of both worlds! ...........only the girls on HA can answer whether or not they will have a relationship with a guy who is versatile or strictly bottoms.

[BBaggins06]

I'm not gay, but I did stay at a Holiday Inn Express last night ...

[Paladin]

You are definately gay, no doubt about it.

[Supai]

when things get murky just classify as the romans do; top=straight, bottom(while still calling yourself a man)=gay.

Honestly though, if you want monogamous with a transsexual forget the whole bottoming thing. Every guy I've talked to, who after a while admitted to wanting to be topped, was always was one step from the bathhouses or their interest in TS stemmed from sever gender issues within themselves, and quiet frankly thats the last thing I want to deal with. I have my own issues and have made it a point to only date guys that would not find it as such, so no its not hypocritical.

[Ben]

One merely gravitates to physical beauty.
And Gladys Adriane is absolutely beautiful.
Who could possibly resist?

[keerto]

I think what you have is a shemale fetish. The reason I saw this is because you said you prefer a woman with a dick rather than a woman without. Would you still be interested in a shemale if she didn't have a dick?
I've never thinked it in that way. Very good point.