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hillbilly
10-07-2004, 04:43 PM
do you EVER try to explain any of yourself or only try to explain others.

you know all this crap is a reflection of your own self loathing. you don't hate the girls. you hate yourself for liking them.

if it so hard for you walk away. but i know you can't. hating yourself is all you know.

ah you are a constant source of entertainment for me with you name dropping and shit. oh vicki vicki you know i know you and we talk blah blah blah. thats all just your trivial shit to TRY and keep the boys on the board down.

now go play in traffic where you belong ok numbnuts?

good lil fella!

oh yeah where you ever a smurf? just curious. hahhahahhaha. now thats some funny shit!


oh yeah bottom line why are YOU alone? i know its much easier to blame it on the girls (like you lived a perfect life) how bout blaming yourself a little? got the courage? nah i didn't think so.

say hi to pappa smurf for me. he rocks! just wish i could pull his little white beard. where there any tranny's on that show? i can't remember. hahahhah. i must be really bored today.

i'll give it to you MEGA you do inspire the venom in me.

Mugai_hentaisha
10-07-2004, 04:44 PM
Oh Mega Mega Mega some of us can stir shit but you Friend not only make it an art form you are an adept at it. :D

i will agree with you on the "nice Guy" portion of your argument. But it is a problem all people face not just Tgirl and or escorts, but all women, and men in all professions, walks and creeds. It is because deep down we want the "nice guy or nice girl" image but there is a part of us that desire "the darkness" that manifests itself sometimes in an attraction to the "bady guy or bad girl" image. This will be a problem as long as humans are humans. Sorry mega :(

About the Escort thingy........i don't partake of escorts so don't kill me for i will admit it i am very ignorant of the profession as a whole. :roll: I do however have a better than most understanding of people and i have read what the ladies like Vickie, Allanah, and Tara have typed since being here and I agree with you there is some serious brainpower in those sexy bodies of theirs. it is a shame that the only place in this world where they seem to be able to use it is in the sex (adult) industry. But i don't blame them I blame society or certain elements of society that only see them as "freakish" and cannot get past that and see the intelligence and talent that we see in here. Vickie, Allanah, and Tara and the numerous ladies that fall into their catagory to me you are "spinning your wheels" where you are, you have so much more to offer all of us and the world. If you truely love the escort world i have no problem with that, so please do it, I only wish you to be safe, and i wish it was a legal profession so you could form a pension and be able to partake of the same benefits that we in "legal" professions do.

i don't feel cursed for liking looking at ladies like Vickie Allanah and Tara they are very beautiful ladies that allow us to drink of their beauty. I just wish them to be safe and secure in their choices and to live in a world that looks at what is inside them and sees what we see in them.

Hell Mega rock on while you are brash and harsh from time to time like having you out there better than not having you out there :wink:

hillbilly
10-07-2004, 05:16 PM
listen bird brain its getting really really frustratin seeing that you can't spell. its spelled "feud". okay?

i have to post here because i'm addressing what you are saying in your post. which you choose not to comment on.

see ya tweedle dumb!

hillbilly
10-07-2004, 05:24 PM
you're so funny. i bet we could be friends if i wasn't having so much fun goofing on you.

i like how you try and always rally the troops against me. quite amusing. even more amusing is when they partake in it.

i didn't say that you and Vicki aren't friends i said you name drop as to make others feel they are inferior to you. its classic manipulation.

hillbilly
10-07-2004, 05:58 PM
once again glazing right over my point.

okay chump gotta do some work here maybe grab some lunch.

say ciao to the all the little people for me miniMEGA!

Caleigh
10-07-2004, 06:40 PM
i'm really starting to think that Megabody is really an alter ego of Allannah posting crazed stuff to try and stir it up and keep the board active.

hillbilly
10-07-2004, 06:42 PM
ok last post for a little while peanut. you know you really are becoming a full time job for me.

spending time chatting with your charming self i have noticed a few things that you need help with. i have taken the liberty of putting together a few links that you will most definitely find useful. you can do these tasks in any order you like but i really think doing them in order will be most useful to you.

simply follow the links below:

http://www.fritolay.com/consumer/funfoods/products/smartfood.html

http://www.talleryou.com/

http://search.socialworkers.org/default.asp?df=CSW&fn=

http://www.interdys.org/

http://www.hunter.cuny.edu/~english/coursesF04_undergrad.shtml#100level

i realize its a lot of work but i truly believe you will be a better man for it in the end.

best of luck gregg

xoxo
hillbilly

hillbilly
10-07-2004, 06:43 PM
as unreal as it may seem this caricature i affectionately call miniMEGA is 100% real. real short that is.

oh how i love dumb jokes

hillbilly
10-07-2004, 09:29 PM
Mega are you writing your autobiography again? thats cute!

hillbilly
10-07-2004, 10:36 PM
peekaboo! hahahhah. fool.

Triggy
10-08-2004, 02:24 AM
Ok, what is it about these hoodrats that attracts the girls?

And what is it about them that makes them into the girls? I mean, we all share a common interest on this board, but I would guess that we are all from a whole load of diverse backgrounds, different jobs etc?

It just seems odd that a lot of people from a particular sub-culture share an interest in the girls? Just interested if there is any rationale behind it...

I think that the points that Mega makes are interesting. I think that it might seem like he's winding everybody up, but from from what I know (albeit from a pretty isolated place), what he is saying has more that just a slight ring of truth to it.

And after all:
a) he's lived through a lifetime of it and
b) there doesn't seem to be much of a counter-argument from any of the girls themselves.

Love it myself, makes the board more interesting!

hillbilly
10-08-2004, 02:55 AM
the girls are attracted to hoodrats because they ARE hoodrats themsleves. they don't exactly have summer homes on Marthas Vineyard or what have you.

in the end most of us will end up with someone with similar socio-economic background and most likely that is a GG.

i don't think anyone is disputing MEGAs pointl. i personally to point out his condescending tone. there are no shortage of guys in NY with 20+ yrs experience with girls (15 for me) but those people don't generally put down people on the board to make our point.

i personally just like to put down MEGA.

its beyond me why the guy spends so much time around people that he seems to have no respect for.

by all appearances if anything MEGA actually seems to be a quiet shy guy in person who has a big mouth only on here.

if you want to be part of the game just accept the game. we really don't need MEGA or anyone for that matter constantly telling us how it is in a patronizing way.

provocative arguments could be made without disparaging others.

here is a great bulleting board i found about bargirls in thailand. http://www.mangosauce.com/

these guys are funny as hell cheeky british guys who generally seem to accept the game. they are coping with much of the same drama with GG bargirls but with a grain of salt. maybe you won't agree but read it cause its LOL funny.

anyways MEGA is still a shrimp. he's wider than he is tall you know. no not fat. i cant quite tell if he has really small eyes or if his head is just too big. that shit is like a great pumpkin!

oh i digress. hahaha.

Reddman
10-08-2004, 09:17 AM
ok last post for a little while peanut. you know you really are becoming a full time job for me.

spending time chatting with your charming self i have noticed a few things that you need help with. i have taken the liberty of putting together a few links that you will most definitely find useful. you can do these tasks in any order you like but i really think doing them in order will be most useful to you.

simply follow the links below:

http://www.fritolay.com/consumer/funfoods/products/smartfood.html

http://www.talleryou.com/

http://search.socialworkers.org/default.asp?df=CSW&fn=

http://www.interdys.org/

http://www.hunter.cuny.edu/~english/coursesF04_undergrad.shtml#100level

i realize its a lot of work but i truly believe you will be a better man for it in the end.

best of luck gregg

xoxo
hillbilly



LOL that's some old funny shit right thurrr :lol:

Slither
10-08-2004, 10:49 AM
I've been lurking this board and I've got to say..

what's the deal with you? so much bitterness, so much hosility.

I know what you mean, I lived in NYC for 15 years, I know the lifestyle, I know how it is here in Cali. These girls like dick, period, we both know that, so why the anger over it? Why are you so entrenched in a lifestyle that you already know you don't like? You keep contradicting yourself... why do you want a long term relationship with these girls when you keep talking about how busted and broken they are in their 30s? When one of those girls that you're going out with hits 30, are you going to push her aside and move on to the next "TRAINEE" ?

And this "hoodrat" shit is ridiculous, as someone brought up, they go with hoodrats because THEY ARE HOODRATS. They were born on the streets, a lot of these girls had dicks in their asses and mouths before they were in high school, we both know that... they were takin bong hits when they first hit puberty.. its a fucked up way to live but nothing is gonna change it. I dont get how you look down on everyone though? You put down all these hoodrats, but you type like a fuckin hoodrat man.. all this "NIKKA" shit, street slang, are you sure you aren't one too?

this probably comes off as a personal bash to you but it's really not, I dont dislike you.. shit I dont even know you.

Please dont brush this off as a "ah some new guy is trying to start shit with me hes a little rookie blah blah blah", these questions deserve answers.

Slither
10-08-2004, 11:23 AM
But that's just the thing.. you are basically answering your own question. You want to know why they don't want a guy as a "husband" type, but then in the next sentence admit they are hoodrats.

That's exactly it.. they are hoodrats.. they dont know any other life but that, and they dont CARE to know any other life but that. youve just got to accept it...

of course they are not all like that, youve got the Vicki's and Allanah's who are definitely not hoodrats, just living the lifestyle they want... as far as the "I dont want a boyfriend yet" thing, I buy it...I used to date a girl out here in LA who used to do the escort and porn thing, she did a few galleries that are on the net somewhere, just setting herself up for the future. I was tryin to get with her for a WHILE, and after she quit all that shit in her mid20s.. we started dating.. now we broke up because of other stuff, but shes with a guy I know now and I know shes still out of the escort lifestyle..

for most of these girls.. in my opinion.. its a fear of the future.. fear of the unknown, lets face it these girls, as youve stated in previous posts.. they aint working 9-5 office jobs and shit, its just the truth, they dont. they need to be set up for the future, thats why they do the porn and escort shit, they need the money... and I'm talking about the Vicki's, Allanah's, etc. here, not the hoodrats who spend their $$ on blow and weed..., they dont know love, cause they grew up with a guy sticking his dick in their ass, leaving 100 bucks on the dresser and saying "see ya later". they never been loved.. so a guy like you or even me who just wants a "TS Wife", they probably have it in their head that like you said, once they get older and "busted" a dudes not gonna want em, and thats a fact.. cause 95% of the guys into trannys DONT want them after that.

people like you and I that want a long term relationship with these girls are few and far between.. on the daily all they see is the guy who wants a quick thrill

Mugai_hentaisha
10-08-2004, 02:32 PM
Vicki and Allanah are def. a cut above the rest.
:P

hillbilly
10-08-2004, 04:47 PM
hardly seems that i'm not the only one that thinks MEGA constantly contradicts himself.

the short dumb jokes are a simple sidebar for me. if you want to go back to my very very 1st post it basically asked mega what is your deal. pretty similar to what Slither wrote here in this post.

MEGA responded with his usual know it all venom. so seeing as i work from home on the computer i have quite a bit of time to dedicate to busting his balls to amuse myself.

and contrary to MEGAS assertion that i have never posted with out his name in it. that is not quite accurate either. but nonetheless i have to say generally speaking that compared to busting on this blowhard the other posts generally bore me.

the overall point from the very very begining was that MEGA is a hypocrite. from knocking hoodrats to then talking like one. from claiming non violence to saying he will beat my head in or whatever. from lusting after the girls to putting them down. from telling us all how it is with the girls that they are worthless to saying how he wants a good girl.

like how could any girl with any self esteem read his shit and not think he is an asshole? he consistently disparages them.

we all wish we could really be into one of the girls but have to accept the reality of the situation. would you want a relationship with a female prostitute who hung out with hoodrats and had no sense of the future?

you see gregg is the one that thinks he is clever and stirring the pot but in the end who stirred him?

silly wabbits turning twicks is for kids.

if i'm crazy its like a fox.

hillbilly
10-10-2004, 04:57 AM
now J you are putting words in my mouth.

at no point did i call him worthless or a joke. nor am i jealous that he knows a bunch of girls. trust me i don't want these people in my life everyday.

i am beating on his contradictions. not even sure what the hell you are talking abot to be honest with you regarding me.

jealous? that't the last thing i am.

you see i do what i want to do. i find a girl. pay her. have sex with her. and we part ways. simple as that. its what both parties want ultimately more often than not.

i don't come on here and disparage the girls or the girls, except for gregg, and thats the point.

if ANYONE wants many of these girls in there life as friends then they need to reexamine their life. even gregg concedes in a post he considers this a curse at times. so why keeping doing it and hating it. just accept the terms. with 20 years under your belt and you haven't accepted the terms?

do you stay in one positon at a job for 20yrs? what do you think of the person who does? i'm not talking about the person who has no choice. WE have a choice.

i realize you want to debate with me for sport but if you really look into greggs posts you will see the contradictions and pointless antagonism.

did you happen to go to mangosauce.com. now that is some funny shit and to me a healthier perspective than the poison gregg spreads here.

yeah that might be the pot calling the kettle black but at least i know i'm poison.

for example what is this shit from gregg?

LIPOSUCTION......STOP IT...SHE HAS A PERFICT BODY...SHE DID NOT HAVE LIPO, THATS A FACT...... HER GLUTE MUSCLE AND THE POSITION LEANING BACK IN CAUSES THE LOOK YOUR HARPING ON.....MY GOD IF THERE WAS A BIG DICK HANGING OR STANDING THERE A LOT OF YOU GUYS WOULD BE PRAISING HER AND ASKING WHERE HER CONTACT INFO IS....

he's here looking down on us. like what the fuck. most of us here love GG's as well. sorry gregg but i love her too and would never put a dick on her. it's like he is calling YOU and ME screwed up. so what if someone would like her better with a cock?

trust me bro my message is consistent.

see ya in a couple days. i think i'm getting the flu. goodnight!

Mugai_hentaisha
10-10-2004, 08:53 AM
People Mega has one of the most time honored ability that most people hate but i have an extreme fondness for......the Ability to stir shit. You may not agree (and it is your right not too) but I feel if it weren't for people like mega "stirring the pot" so to speak we would still be a Brit colony. So while I may not agree with him on everything, i still strongly support his right to stir the shit, in fact i count on it because deep down i would love to stir the shit up on these forums.

GroobySteven
10-10-2004, 09:39 AM
Although if it wasn't for the Brits you'd all be speaking French now...
...thank god for the Brits, the original shit stirrers! :-)
seanchai

flabbybody
10-10-2004, 06:27 PM
British political scandals are much better than ours. They're usually about hookers and sex.

Vicki Richter
10-10-2004, 11:47 PM
Wow. I go into surgery for a few days and everyone starts talking crazy talk. You know it's true. I really like Gregg. He's a sweetheart. I also think he is legitimate and sincere.

I tell my friends that if they are going to be in a relationship, they should look at guys > 30 years old if not > 40. A lot of the girls I know (I guess like most of the guys who like us) are primarily into looks. I am kind of a paradox in that when I date a guy, I am looking at whether or not he is dependable. Is he a good provider. Is he willing to involve me fully in his life. What I have found is guys over 40 are more grounded. They know what they want and are more likely to not have issues publicly dating a T. I guess historically they have treated me better as well. Don't get me wrong, sex, and sexual compatibility is important too.

In the same respect, I don't think the behavior you are describing is isolated to just transsexual women. Young girls want to date young guys. They are into looks first, and everything else is secondary. At some point that changes but I'm not really sure when. Anyway, I think everyone wants someone. They want one person to love and be loved by. I don't really know why girls go for "hood rats". Maybe some of those guys aren't as bad as they appear.

V

hillbilly
10-11-2004, 06:03 PM
hahah. awesome! good work everybody!

stirring shit is tiring though.

i'm irish/english by the way mussolini.

rock on!

hillbilly
10-11-2004, 08:40 PM
hahahha awesome.

guess that Mussolini reference flew right over your head. but i'm not surprised.

sweet!

GroobySteven
10-11-2004, 08:42 PM
Funnily enough, the first time the French didn't run away from a fight was in their opposition to the Iraqi war. Those Americans were hilarious pouring away quality wine and champagne and renaming French Fries - if would have been funnier if it wasn't so embarressing.
Thankyou to the French for having the balls to stand up to it, correctly or incorrectly isn't the issue - even when the CIA lied about facts (which poor old Colin Powell had to apologise for later) they stood their ground.
The first and possibly last time you'll see a Brit defending a French - good on them, vive la resistance!
seancahi

hillbilly
10-11-2004, 08:49 PM
agreed seanchai.

us americans can be quite silly.

i have never felt so embarassed as in the last year about where i was born.

the US needs some serious self reflection. something we don't seem to be very good at as a whole.

there were certainly other ways to solve this problem more tactfully.

it brings me great sorrow that young men and woman are losing their lives and having their families destroyed over this.

a complete waste of money while we have a mounting national debt.

ahhh. my own country is sometimes foreign to me. so i chase trannies to forget :D

Vicki Richter
10-11-2004, 08:59 PM
I am probably the only person here who gets pissed off because Hillbilly says living here is an "embarassment" to him. I swear you guys go out of your way to get me worked up.

hillbilly
10-11-2004, 09:09 PM
no probably not vicki. i knew somebody was gonna flag me on that.

i should clarify. its embarassing to me that we are involved in this mess in Iraq. that we chose not to work with other nations of the world to solve this problem. a problem mind you that never existed.

i'm embarassed to be in anyway associated with the guards in Iraq that abused the Iraqi prisoners.

just like we have come to make sweeping generalisations of the French. we have now given others cause to make sweeping generalisaions of us.

we are isolating ourselves just as the world gets smaller and smaller due to inexpensive travel and other advances in communication such as the internet.

i would defend this country in heartbeat for a VALID and JUSTIFIED reason.

GroobySteven
10-11-2004, 09:12 PM
BTW GQ this month has an awesome article on the abuse at Abu G**** (sorry to late to remember how to spell it - prison where the abuse took place) recommend everyone with an interest in this to read it, a lot of stuff the news channels didn't report.

I'm not embarressed to live in the USA. I love it. I love the people, I love the country but like anywhere I could have chose to live, there are issues that need changing and I'll complain, fight and campaign to make those changes, however minor.
seanchai

hillbilly
10-11-2004, 09:18 PM
cool i'll be sure to read that article.

i guess as a whole i'm just trying to say that as a nation we need to proceed with bit more humility.

isn't it kind of gross for the strongest and or prettiest person to constantly be telling you they are the strongest or prettiest? its that person(read nation) who more than likely does not know who they are i think.

ps. the best thing about it getting cold here is you can enjoy some hot soup. i love soup!

Ecstatic
10-12-2004, 01:05 AM
I'm not embarressed to live in the USA. I love it. I love the people, I love the country but like anywhere I could have chose to live, there are issues that need changing and I'll complain, fight and campaign to make those changes, however minor.
seanchaiSeanchai, what I love about you man is that you put your money where your mouth is, and your mouth where your beliefs are. Case in point, earlier this year when you ran a special offer to all those who went to see F 9/11 and sent you their ticket stubs. Nobody else that I know of has done such a thing--and not just in this industry, mind you. I am honored to be a Grooby member for the politics alone.

I don't know Mega at all other than reading his posts, which I find alternately insightful, funny, insipid, and just plain rabble-rousing. But that's all cool. I don't much get into that, but it does make for a lively board. My only problem there in fact is reading every post in all caps--hard on the eyes, and a direct (and I'm sure intentional) defiance of the netiquette that using all caps online is the equivalent of shouting. But all that really means is that I sometimes skip over what might be an engaging post otherwise.

It's fascinating to me how many different types of guys and gals you can encounter here. We've all got our own bag. As a happily married 52-year-old man living in a small city 40 miles outside of Boston, my engagement is necessarily limited to knowing a couple of girls well as friends and providers and caring deeply for them; beyond that, engaging in the forums or yahoo groups is the best way for me to participate in this lifestyle.

Say, Vicki, you wouldn't extend your comment about men over 40 as being more desirable for a relationship to guys over 50 now would you? :wink: ah well, I am happily married.... BTW, I hope all went well with your surgery. I can't imagine you being any more beautiful than you already are--true beauty is within, but feeling good about yourself is a part of that. I wish you a speedy recovery.

GroobySteven
10-12-2004, 05:23 AM
Yep - let's see if my mouth gets me into trouble and I have to go running for cover is a certain right-wing, nazi-like Attourney General get's back in.
seanchai

stevenb43
06-26-2007, 08:24 PM
I agree with everything Mega said about the girls...

hwbs
06-26-2007, 08:26 PM
damn u dug deep 4 that one....

Lady Angela
06-26-2007, 09:02 PM
There are many transexual women like myself who are beautiful, feminine middle class professional women married or in a serious relationship with a handsome, masculine professional man, like my man is.

There are more transexual women who are not into porn or hooking, than there is t-women who are doing those things. You guys perhaps know the wrong transexual women.

werwt22
06-26-2007, 10:42 PM
Wow what the hell? Theres like 5 topics being discussed simultaneously. Preferences of Tgirls, nice guys finish last, French vs British, french fries, hood rats, what the fuck? Feel like I'm scrolling through general discussion. Should rename this thread potpourri.

downblow
06-27-2007, 04:19 AM
I've always wondered about the first topic myself.
Most of the guys who go to these clubs would love to have any of those ladies as a girlfriend or wife. So why are they single?
I think the escorting is a way of providing for themselves, so they don't need to rely on anyone. Relationships are so much more difficult for t-girls because like many of said on here, you never know if they want you as a sex object or as a girlfriend. Some have family issues, or whatever and end up breaking off the relationships with the t-girls because of the views of others. That is really unfair. So i think that Vicki and others stay in this field in order to have a more complete life and become more independent and strong willed.

At some point i hope Vicki and the others come to realize, that there is guys out there that would accept them for who they are and would be proud to have them as a wife or girlfriend. Not every guy just wants you for your bodies ladies, some of us want you for your minds too.

Caleigh
06-27-2007, 08:36 AM
Tgirls can provide for themselves (and dependents)
while NOT escorting too.

I think the main impediment is that so few guys are
prepared to be OUT about being with a Tgirl. That
almost NO guy is prepared to date a girl and have
her meet his family and friends and him not caring
THAT THEY KNOW. Which is not the same as hoping
they don't notice and then breaking it off once they
actually have to DEAL with peoples reactions and
their own internalized shame and homophobia and
insecurity.

2cents

MrsKellyPierce
06-27-2007, 08:56 AM
lol at 99 percent would marry. When half just want a dick in their mouth. Mega Body you better go back to the drawing board and do your math over! And I thought Allanah had a man a very cute man according to her myspace pics.

justatransgirl
06-27-2007, 10:40 AM
Not to review a years old thread... but since it's already been done, I have to respectfully disagree with "Lady Angela" regarding her opinon that most transsexuals are not sex workers.

The fact is that numerous studies place the number of transsexuals in sex work at between 30 and 50% and the same studies acknowledge they have woefully undercounted the true numbers of sex workers.

And while there is a percentage of transsexuals who are profesisonals and in supportive loving relationships and living in the mainstream. The facts borne out in the studys are that most transsexuals earn less than $20,000 a year as of 2004 with over 36% earning less than $10,000. And only 8% earning over $60,000.

And yeah, since this is a site for transsexual sex workers and "porn stars" and the guys who love them, there probably is a higher percentage of the "wrong kind" of people here.

To expand on "downblow and Caleigh's" posts I agree that most guys who go to clubs would love to have a TS for a GF or "wife." BUT as DB said, most would not want their families or friends to find out. And no matter how passable or stealth a girl is people will eventually find out. Then they may feel deceived and become angry and hatefull. We've seen this time and time again.

Many men who patronise TS's for sex are looking for an "experience" not a commitment. And god forbid anybody discover their "secret."

That's not BAD, it's just the way it is. And some of us earn our living providing these experiences, either on celluloid or in person.

And while TS's can "provide" for themselves, per the studies qoted above it's largely a matter of how one wishes to live.

Our rent for a 1 bedroom middle class apartment in San Deigo costs $17,000 a year. The GD insurance for my new car (my present one is 5 years old) is going to be $3,000 a year! Those two expenses alone are more than 57% of transsexuals MAKE in a year. And yet they are quite reasonable for anyone earning the median wage.

The median income in San Diego is $64,000 a year http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/San_Diego_County and the average house is nearly $600,000 (Feb/2005). It takes an MINIMUM income of $116,000 to buy a $500,000 house. So even TWO TS's, each earning the median wage, after paying taxes, can't afford a house priced 20% under the median.

And the fact is that many younger TS's, those without professional degrees, who didn't transition on the job for a major corporation, those without maybe completing high school because their families threw them into the street at 16, are unable to get ANY kind of job. While there are inroads being made, discrimination in employment is rampant and only a handfull of states even provide legal protection. Heck in 41 states we can even be refused lodging in a hotel and there isn't a damm thing we can do about it.

So please, when you people tell sex workers to get out of the business and "go find a job" so to speak PLEASE provide a solution that is actually viable - beyond working the midnight shift cleaning toilets at Burger King or being a live in health aide.

Link to a related thread on this topic:
http://www.hungangels.com/board/viewtopic.php?t=14959&postdays=0&postorder=asc&start=40

Link to 2006 San Diego Needs Assessment:
http://www.justatransgirl.com/SanDiegoNeeds.pdf[/url]

Just Jamie's rantings - don't take me too harshly.

Hugs,
TS Jamie[/url]

NYTSJulie
06-27-2007, 11:33 AM
OK ...HERE WE GO...IM CALLING YOU GIRLS OUT....VICKI, YOU KNOW I LOVE YOU AND WE TALK ON THE PHONE , BLAH BLAH BLAH......BUT......I WANNA KNOW WHY YOU GIRLS SPEW THAT BULLSHIT THAT YOU WANNA MEET A NICE GUY WHEN IN FACT IF YOU WERE IN A ROOM WITH 100 GUYS , 99 WERE GREAT GUYS AND 1 WAS A PEICE OF SHIT , WHY IS IT THAT YOU ALWAYS SEEM TO CHOOSE THAT ONE..THE PEICE OF SHIT.....YOU GIRLS SEE THE OTHER 99 GUYS AS POTENTIAL TRICKS OR SUGAR DADDYS

VICKI I WANNA START WITH YOU....YOUR ALONE , YOUR A PRETTY GIRL AND A VERY SMART GIRL AT THAT...I MEAN THAT GUYS, ONE THING I WILL GIVE VICKI, SHE IS SUPER SMART.......SIO IS ALLANAH TOO.....WHY IS IT THAT YOU THINK IN YOUR MIND THAT YOU CANT MEET A NICE GUY, WHEN IN FACT THERE ARE A LOT OF GREAT GUYS WHO WOULD GIVE YOU THE WORLD .....DONT GIVE ME THE CAREER SPEECH OR THE ''IM NOT READY FOR A BOYFRIEND'' SPEECH....ALL THAT IS BULSHIT,..... THE RIGHT GUY WOULD HELP COMPLETE YOU AND HELP YOU WITH A CAREER OR GET YOU STARTED IN A REAL CARRER.....THE ESCORT THING IS NOT A JOB AND NOT A CARRER...( OK YOU GOT A WEBSITE AND DO A FEW MOVIES, BUT FOR HOW LONG, WHERES YOUR PENSION ) ....WATCH SEANCHAI JUMP ON ME FOR THAT ONE.......BUT COME ON, REALISTICALLY ITS NOT...YOU DONT PAY TAXES ( MAYBE ON THE WEBSITE BUT THE REST OF THE GIRLS WHO ESCORT DO NOT ) , ESCORTING IS ILLEGAL, AND YOU DONT GET ANY PENSION. OR FUTURE.....ITS LIKE A DRUG DEALER CALLING HIS DRUG DEALING HIS CARRER, HIS JOB ( I KNOW I DID THAT AND WENT TO JAIL FOR IT AND LOST EVERYTHING...OVER 600 THOUSAND DOLLARS, BUT I LEARNED LESSONS IN LIFE ) .........OK IM GOING OFF WRONG DIRECTION, THATS NEXT TOPIC......GETING BACK ON TRACK , WHY IS IT THAT YOU GIRLS ALWAYS SAY THAT YOU CANT FIND A GREAT GUY AND THAT ALL MEN JUST WANT IS SEX AND THAT TYPE OF BULLSHIT.......I HANG AROUND A WHOLE CREW OF GUYS WHO ARE IN SHAPE ( EXCEPT FOR ONE ) 6 FEET TALL OR TALLER IM THE ONLY SHORT ONE ,MY CREW HAS NO TROUBLE GETTING GENTIC WOMEN, BUT UNFORTUNATLY THEY WANT A TRANNY WIFE,....THEY ALL OWN THIER OWN BUSINESSES AND MOST ARE MILLIONARES...HELL ONE OF MY CREW DRIVES A MERCEDES HE BOUGHT FOR 110,000 DOLLARS......YET TRANNYS WOULD RATHER DATE THE HOOD RAT OR THE 21 YEAROLD GUIDO WHITE BOY WHO HAS A LITTLE BIT OF ABS , SPIKED HAIR, WEARS SUNGLASSES IN A DARK NIGHT CLUB, DROPS SPECIAL K AND X TABS ALL NIGHT AND HE DRIVES A EXPENSIVE CAR DADDY HELPED HIM BUY......THUGS GOT NO MONEY, MOST NEVER WORKED A DAY IN THIER LIFE, THEY GOT NO LICENSE OR CAR, BUT THEY WEAR LABELS , 4XL OVERSIZED LAKER JERSEYS, OVERSIZED JEANS, DOO RAG ON THE HEAD WITH A BASEBALL HAT TURNED SIDEWAYS OVER IT, LITTLE BLACK HAIRS OVER THIER TOP LIP AND OUT THEIR NOSE, WITH GOLD CHAINS AROUND THIER NECK WORTH MORE THEN THEIR OWN PETHETIC LIFE IS WORTH.......WHATS UP WITH THAT SHIT.....


BOTTOM LINE....WHY ARE YOU ALONE WHEN 99% OF THE GUYS ON THIS SITE WOULD MARRY YOU....

FOR MOST GIRLS ( NOT ALL ) ITS , ALL THE DICK YOU CAN EAT....COME TO THINK ABOUT IT, HOW MANYT DICKS YOU THINK THESE GIRLS SUCKED IN A YEAR......500 A YEAR IS A LOW ESTIMATE.....THEN THEY CALL US TRANNY CHASERS....YO' THATS ASSININE.....THATS LIKE A BLACK GUY DISSING A GIRL FOR LIKING BLACK GUYS OR LIKE A ASIAN GIRL RIPPING INTO A GUY FOR LIKING ASIAN GIRLS.....THAT SHIT DONT MAKE SENSE TO ME......THEN THE TRANNY HAS THE BALLS TO CALL US TRANNY CHASERS AND SHE SAYS SHE DONT WANT A GUY WHO LIKES TRANNYS, BUT YET SHE HERSELF FUCKS WITH OTHER TRANNYS AND EVEN DATES THEM.....GAG AT THAT SHIT........I KNOW SEX CHANGE GIRLS WHO GOT THIER DICKS CUT OFF SO THEY COULD BE A LESBO......I WONDER IF IT EVER DAWNED ON THEM THAT THEY WOULD GET MORE GIRLS AND EVEN ENJOY THE SEX WAY MORE IF THEY STILL HAD THEIR DICK AND STAYED BEING A GUY.......THINK ABOUT IT, MORE GIRLS IN THIS WORLD LIKE GUYS THEN LIKE SEX CHANGE GIRLS......

I SAID IT BEFORE ILL SAY IT AGAIN...IM FUCKING CURSED FOR LIKING THIS SHIT....I WISH I COULD JUST PUSH A BUTTON OR FLIP A SWITCH AND TURN IT ALL OFF FOR GOOD, BUT I CANT.....US GUYS THAT WANT A RELATIONSHIP ARE DOOMED........FUCKING DOOMED....THESE GIRLS ARE ALL NUTS AND AFTER THEY HIT THIER 30S AND IF THEY ARE STILL ALIVE ( OVER 10,000 COCKS IN THIER DIRTY STINKY MOUTHS LATER ) THEY LOOK FEIRCE AND ARE READY FOR LOVE....TOO BAD, SO SAD, YOUR FEIRCE...WHOS GAGGING NOW..


LOVE ME OR HATE MY FILTHY GUTS YOU ALL KNOW IM RIGHT.....EXCEPT SOME OF YOU POOR SORRY EXCUSES WHO WANNA SUCK UP TO THE TRANNY.........YOU KNOW GET ON THIER GOOD SIDE....YOU AINT BEEN HERE I BEEN.....ASK MY NEW BOY D....THAT NIKKA BEEN THERE.......


SEANCHAI IF YOU START SPEWING THAT SHIT ABOUT A LOT OF GIRLS DONT LIKE THIS OR LIKE THAT IM GONNA PULL MY HAIR OUT....OOOPS MY BAD I ALREADY DID THAT....SHOW ME A GIRL THAT IS FOR REAL, SEND HER MY WAY, DONT JUST TEASE ME AND TELL ME...HOOK ME UP......

I agree some girls might choose the wrong guys and you have a point, but your also acting like we are a bunch of half baked hookers. That are out turning tricks in efforts get up enough cash to pay for a value meal at McDonald's, lol. I say LOL to that. I own my own house and do VERY well, and dont need a man to make it work. There are hookers and there are business women. I am an escort and I pay taxes, so your statement is not true. Also any girl who takes credit cards will have a Tax ID, and pay Uncle Sam.

NYTSJulie
06-27-2007, 12:52 PM
Just a quick note........MegabodyNYC after rereading your original post........maybe the reason you cant find a relationship isn't due to girls liking the bad boys........but more due to them not liking you. Who would want to date a guy with a bitter personality that is clearly reflected in what you wrote.

NYTSJulie
06-27-2007, 01:03 PM
Also if a ts has been on HRT for for a long time when she gets to her 30's she might be more passable then she was in her 20's. Hormones are like fine wine, the effects get better over the years. I am 30 and I dont think I look busted or beat down like you said girls get.

TomSelis
06-27-2007, 06:44 PM
Also if a ts has been on HRT for for a long time when she gets to her 30's she might be more passable then she was in her 20's. Hormones are like fine wine, the effects get better over the years. I am 30 and I dont think I look busted or beat down like you said girls get.

No, you don't. You know you're cute, stop playing.

The thing you have to understand about Mega (what up Megs!) is he's kind of an enigma. He made strong (but true) statements on the board mixed with a little "WTF!?!", but in real life he's really down to earth. In his defense, maybe he was going through some shit with some girls (which happens from time to time with us guys). But currently, he's with a cute, sweet girl, which is probably why he doesn't post too much anymore.

*shrug* Just my two pence.

BlackAdder
06-27-2007, 07:02 PM
" but your also acting like we are a bunch of half baked hookers"

Cause umm....90% of you are?? I know there are exceptions but cmon, the general stereotype holds true.


I have a friend though that is 19, and shes very feminine looking but it still has her real name and sex on her ID and its been impossible to find her a job anywhere....Im afraid shes moved to vegas to start hooking just so she isnt homeless:(>

whatsupwithat
06-28-2007, 06:57 AM
Tgirls can provide for themselves (and dependents)
while NOT escorting too.

I think the main impediment is that so few guys are
prepared to be OUT about being with a Tgirl. That
almost NO guy is prepared to date a girl and have
her meet his family and friends and him not caring
THAT THEY KNOW. Which is not the same as hoping
they don't notice and then breaking it off once they
actually have to DEAL with peoples reactions and
their own internalized shame and homophobia and
insecurity.

2cents

I disagree. I think there are a lot of guys that don't have a problem being out about it. AND dealing with the aftermath of people's judgements. I feel no shame for who I am and what my sexuality is. But I hope the girls understand that just as we support and empower them, they must support and empower us.

Before I go on and on about this, I would like to ask Lady Angela if she truly believes that the majority of transwomen are like her?

whatsupwithat
06-28-2007, 07:04 AM
BTW. this thread is shaping up to be one of those threads where we sort of veer off in a myriad of directions and by page 8 or so no one knows what the hell the original topic was until someone comes in for the first time and reads the original post *breath* and rekindles the debate all over again.

of course, it was dead until i bumped it...but that's another issue totally. :)

Lady Angela
06-28-2007, 10:48 AM
since many of us t-ladies, with female hormones, facial femininzation surgery, breast implants, ertc. have been made into beautiful, feminine women, and you really can't tell us from genetic women, you don't really need to tell people you are a transexual lady unless you want to.

the man i am with has told some of his friends and family members i am a transexual lady, but many other people he knows he hasn't. like the people he works with.
you don't have to tell people if you don't want to, if you can easily pass as a beautiful, feminine genetic lady, which i can.

i am still pre-op, but how would anyone other than my man know that? i don't let just anyone peek under my skirt.

Lady Angela
06-28-2007, 11:20 AM
To answer your question;
I believe that the majority of transexual women in America where I live, and other developed first world countries, are not in the porn industry. They often are well educated, work jobs, date men, sometimes have srs and have their legal status changed to female and even marry men and adopt children, etc.. and stats show that most transexual ladies in first world countries are not in the porn industry.

Some transexual ladies are just in the porn industry or escort industry for awhile, and then go on to something else, some other job. Or they get married to a guy. Or whatever. They find other things to do.

Before I transitioned from male to female, when I was a femme gay man as a teenager, I was an escort, a submissive femme gay man with long blonde hair, who wore makeup, and had pierced ears, and who sometimes dressed as a lady. Handsome men bought my services, and would want me to dress up as a lady and go out with them, and then they would take me to a hotel or whatever, and I would please them in the ways a ladyboy pleases her man.

Then I lived as a hetrosexual man for awhile, fathered children, my daughters, with a genetic woman, and then I gradually became gay again, got divorced, and started dressing more and more as a woman. I knew I prefered being a beautiful, feminine lady and dating handsome, masculine men, and pleasing them in the ways a ladyboy pleases her man. I loved being feminine and submissive, and being treated like a lady by my handsome man.

I am still close with my genetic woman ex-wife and close with my daughters, and they completely accept my transition from male to female. my daughters now have two moms instead of a mom and a dad, although my beautiful ex-wife is going to remarry soon a handsome man, so my daughters will also have a step-dad. Myself and ex-wife and my daughters are best girlfriends with each other, we enjoy each other and they enjoy me ass a lady. We go out for coffee together, go shopping for dresses, fashion scarves, purses, earrings and jewelry together, etc... My ex-wife and her lady friends call me Angela. My daughters call me mom or Angela.

At any rate, then I decided to transition from male to female, and went on female hormones which gave me a woman's body and woman's figure and woman's soft skin, lived as a woman and got an education, worked, and saved money to complete my transition from male to female.
Then I had my facial and chest hair removed with laser and electrolysis, had my facial feminization surgery done, got beautiful women's breast implants, etc.., and was made into a beautiful feminine lady. I am in my 40s, but I look like a lady in my 30s. I take very good care of myself.

These days I am with a tall, handsome, masculine, loving young man who is a successful lawyer. He considers himself hetrosexual, he has had a child with a genetic lady whom he divorced.
He considers me a lady and his wife, and he is my man and my husband.
I am his loving lady, and I am mostly a housewife, and work part time. I have also attended college as a woman and got a degree.

We live in a condo in a nice suburb, and I own a number of beautiful dresses, skirts and blouses, fashion scarves, lingerie, nylons, women's shoes including high heels, purses, earrings and jewelry, etc., and I dress ultra-feminine, and always wear makeup and earrings, dresses or skirts and blouses,, and everyone assumes I am a beautiful genetic woman, unless I tell them I am a transexual lady.
The men I have dated, including the man I am with now, have bought me most of my dresses, skirts and blouses, fashion scarves, purses, fine jewelry, etc..
I wanted to make myself as beautiful and feminine of a lady as possible, more even than most genetic women, and then be the wife of a tall, handsome, masculine and successful professional man, and lead a nice lifestyle as his lady. And that is what I did.

Like so many femme, gay, working class boys, I wanted to be made into a very beautiful and feminine woman and marry a handsome, wealthy man.
Many boys want to grow up to be baseball players, or other such masculine things.
Many femme gay boys want to grow up to be beautiful, feminine women wearing the most beautiful dresses and exquisite jewelry, living in a luxurious place, and being on the arm of a handsome, masculine man, and pleasing him in the feminine loving ways a beautiful ladyboy pleases her handsome man.

I remember as a femme gay teenaged boy discussing with other femme gay teenaged boys, our dreams to be made into beautiful women and to marry handsome, masculine wealthy men who would love and adore us and take care of us, and we would please them and be their loving, feminine, submissive ladies and wives.

Most of the femme gay boys I knew wanted to transition to being beautiful, feminine women.

While other boys were discussing cars, sports, and girls, us femme gay boys were discussing takng female hormones and transitioning to being beautiful women.
Us femme gay teenaged boys would discuss female fashion mags, what female celebrities we liked and wanted to look like, what beautiful dresses or cute skirts and blouses we wanted to buy and wear, what makeup we liked to wear, what earrings to wear in our pierced ears, and what cute handsome guys we wanted to date. We were girly-girls, and would discusss such things with ourselves and with genetic teenaged girls we knew. We were like the genetic females in many ways. The teenaged girls were growing up to be beautiful, feminine genetic ladies, and us femme gay boys were growing up to be beautiful, feminine transexual ladies.
With the help of modern science, I was transformed from a scrawny plain gay boy into a beautiful, shapely, ultra-feminine woman. It is wonderful. I love being a lady.

As far as places like Thailand goes, I am not sure. I know they have many beautiful, feminine ladyboy escorts there and porn sites for ladyboys from Thailand, Brazil, and certain other countries. Many of those transexual ladies also marry men after they transition from male to female. I know some East Asian and South American transexual women, as well as American transexual women, who are married to American men.

JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel
06-28-2007, 01:21 PM
I agree with everything Mega said about the girls...


damn u dug deep 4 that one....

damn sure did, and in Mega's defense he was going through some shit at the time, but if you saw him recently you'd see he's in a totally different, happier place, dude smiles all the time these days with his chick on his car door sized arm (hehe)

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