question for the guys and ladies..........

[wombat33]

Please......no jokes or wise cracks. I could use the help. Thanks.


I love T-girls like all of us. However unlike most (i think) I have lots of both top and bottom fantasies. (lots)

I have been with many t-girls. Probably 2 dozen or so.

I like making out, mutual touching, mutual oral, and mutual fucking.

I have tried being the bottom a few times (a lot of TS girls don't top)

All five times it was very painful and I had to stop. Even with lots of lube.

I really want to get topped by a gorgeous T-girl and I want to know if any of you ladies or guys know what do do to make the experience less painful.

I have tried a small vibrator and can cope with that. I have tried a few t-girls with smaller dicks, but it still hurt. I have been with several dream girls ready to top me and I had to ask them to stop.

If you know anything that could help please do offer your help. Thanks for your help. Again, please, no wise remarks.

[BeardedOne]

No wise remarks, as requested. :D

Seriously, it is primarily a trust issue. The basic rule is "Relaxation, communication, lubrication", if you are lacking in any of those departments, it can get ugly.

Suggestion: You say you have been with a handful of gurls with whom you've tried this. Try to focus on one gurl, to get comfortable with her. It's a sure bet that you are nervous each time and there is nothing that clamps your ass tighter than anxiety. If you can get comfortable with one person it helps tremendously.

Also, I'm assuming you are dancing with escorts, yes? Not that there's anything wrong with that! :wink: But if you are trying to pop your cherry on the one-hour clock (Or forty-five minute clock, for volume providers :roll: ) then that is something you need to adjust. Save your pennies for a two (Or better yet, multi-hour) session with a favored gurl.

An excellent reference work is Anal Pleasure and Health by Dr. Alex Comfort (What an appropot name. :lol: ), there are some good tips and do's and dont's in it.

Play safe, have fun, and tell us all about it. :D

[wombat33]

No wise remarks, as requested. :D

Seriously, it is primarily a trust issue. The basic rule is "Relaxation, communication, lubrication", if you are lacking in any of those departments, it can get ugly.

Suggestion: You say you have been with a handful of gurls with whom you've tried this. Try to focus on one gurl, to get comfortable with her. It's a sure bet that you are nervous each time and there is nothing that clamps your ass tighter than anxiety. If you can get comfortable with one person it helps tremendously.

Also, I'm assuming you are dancing with escorts, yes? Not that there's anything wrong with that! :wink: But if you are trying to pop your cherry on the one-hour clock (Or forty-five minute clock, for volume providers :roll: ) then that is something you need to adjust. Save your pennies for a two (Or better yet, multi-hour) session with a favored gurl.

An excellent reference work is Anal Pleasure and Health by Dr. Alex Comfort (What an appropot name. :lol: ), there are some good tips and do's and dont's in it.

Play safe, have fun, and tell us all about it. :D


Thank you very much for your taking the time and your information. I genually appreciate it. Yeah, that is a great name for a doctor writing about anal comfort. LOL. Thanks again.