Phone ettiquette with a working Tgirl

[MajorTom]

Ok So I have been a fan for many years and am finally planning to setup a visit with an escort for my birthday this year. This is my first time and I want to do "top only", and Im going to make that clear before I drive 2 hours into the city. Is saying that on the phone cool or will they freak out and hang up and think im the fuzz? If that isnt the way to say it on the phone, what is?
A lot of you out there have had this experience and Im hoping to put your expertise to good use.
TGIF!!!!!

[wombat33]

Ok So I have been a fan for many years and am finally planning to setup a visit with an escort for my birthday this year. This is my first time and I want to do "top only", and Im going to make that clear before I drive 2 hours into the city. Is saying that on the phone cool or will they freak out and hang up and think im the fuzz? If that isnt the way to say it on the phone, what is?
A lot of you out there have had this experience and Im hoping to put your expertise to good use.
TGIF!!!!!



Hey Major,


I would happily give you my experience with this.

I have been to 2 dozen t-girls or more.


1st.......remember that they get like 25 or more crank calls, bullshit calls, buys who want to talk and ask questions all day and so on. They are EASILY annoyed some times and that sucks for guys like us who are REALLY interested.


So.....that said........

I would not be shy. Be ultra friendly, give your first name (oa any first name) and be polite and outgoing.

Then tell them you are sorry for taking up thier time, but you want to make your fantasy clear before you drive 2 hours.

If they hang up..........pick another girl and do same.

THen once you and she agree, give her your number to call you back on and tell her you will call and confirm when you are 30 minutes away.

Chances are they will tell you to go to a certain cornet and call from there. Then when they know you are for real they will give you the addres (Don't be surprised if it is a block or a few blocks away from where they told you to go first)


WHen you get there, they might kiss you or ask you to touch thier cock (to prove you are not a cop)

THen I would suggest kindly asking for a moment to state your fantasy again and asking if that is fine with them (before you pay)

Top fantasies are easier to attain than bottom.

Show up dressed nice, freshly showered, cologne, fresh breath etc.........


THen have a really great time. The very best of luck my frient.

Private Wombatt Sir

[lumberjack]

Another piece of advice; have a backup plan. It's not uncommon to set up a date and have the escort flake on you. If they get a call from a regular or even if they change their mind from the time you set the date, it happens. Do your research ahead of time on who you'd like to see, keep those numbers handy since your making that 2 hour trip.

[BeardedOne]

I've been fortunate to meet the gurls via email/IM before we 'dated'. While I am chatty, I am forthright in telling them that I am serious about the meeting and I =never= stand them up. I try to ascertain what our mutual interests are =before= I make the trip.

I show up in a three-piece suit and actually had one gurl (After our second time together) ask me to 'frump up' next time. :lol: Shower, shave (To whatever extent suits you), and brush your teeth.

Whether or not you see them as a 'whore' is irrelevant, how they see =you= is how you will be treated.

[Harrys Boy]

Beardedone, is that pic in your avatar how you dress before you meet them?

[BeardedOne]

Beardedone, is that pic in your avatar how you dress before you meet them?

Yah, pretty much, though without the sword and feather. :wink:

[GrimFusion]

Beardedone, is that pic in your avatar how you dress before you meet them?

Yah, pretty much, though without the sword and feather. :wink:

Yes, frilled shoulder guards and a 2 point hat are a MUST!

[BeardedOne]

Yes, frilled shoulder guards and a 2 point hat are a MUST!

Hey, it impresses the ladies. :D

[wombat33]

Another piece of advice; have a backup plan. It's not uncommon to set up a date and have the escort flake on you. If they get a call from a regular or even if they change their mind from the time you set the date, it happens. Do your research ahead of time on who you'd like to see, keep those numbers handy since your making that 2 hour trip.


GREAT point here.

[Just Another Guy]

How well would you reccomend being dressed?

[tjh111]

A lot of good advice in all of the previous posts. All of the t-girls I have ever spoken with appreciated my being forthright with them.
However you need to be in mind they are working - so you may very well drive two hours and find someone else snuck in under the radar for your appointment time. It is vital to bear in mind that these ladies need to operate on a first come first served basis (I'll dance over any obvious puns).

[Bic]

ok i have a question as well. being i have yet to fullfill my ultimate dream. first i will be open and let you all know that i lost my virginity at age 22. that was one girl one time. a year later a seconded girl i had relations with lasted about 3-4 days. then not till i was 28 i dated this girl for a year and we had sex every so often. so my guestion is, as i am not 'experaced' at sex,the time you pay for the time you get? i am sure as the sky is blue that i will cum fast. or fatser then i woudl want to. woudl i get a second chance or what? how does that work. if i pay for an hour with the girl do i get the full hour?

i hope that made scense

[suckseed]

I like to combine a sharp image with safe sex: a scuba suit and tie.

Seriously though...join one of the review sites. I found mine in a non-specific (read: gg's mostly) site. The one I chose had 7 out of 7 positives. She was a total GFE, which made everything the fantastic experience it was. I guarantee the money spent will be worth it. Because I knew she kissed, for instance, I was ready, not tentative when it was offered. What a night....
Pro tip: look for your fav before you fork over the cash...you can see if she's there and get a sense of what the guys thought, you just can't read the details. With all the info I had, I was able to keep it short and sweet on the phone. Personally, I think NOT having a bunch of questions separates you from the lookie-loos with their hands in their pants.

[Bic]

whats a GFE> sorry dont know that term

[wombat33]

whats a GFE> sorry dont know that term



Girlfriend Experience.


Usually means they will kiss, cuddle, and maybe let you suck them uncovered, possibly cum for you. Agree guys?

[tjh111]

hi Bic:

to answer your question in a nutshell; you have no gaurantees about anything. You might be with a lady who wants to go with slam bam thank you ma'am! Or might you get the lady you wants to do everyhting to make you cum twice in a hour (I've never been that studly).

Most of the true ladies/pros will at least give you a massage and make an effort to engage you in conversation and the time will pass pretty quickly.

But in 30+ years of visiting pros in every city in America and several in Europe I have only on handful of occassions notched an hour flat. And I've never complained - this part of the biz is predicted on pleasure not minutes.

And a little secret I've learned T-girls are less time sensitive and more open to chatting than women.

[tjh111]

bic:
GFE is girl friend experience.
Uh not sure how lewd we can be here but you get to blast a nut the biblical way...

[johnb]

thinking about doing this soon, thanks for the posts all of you, very good advice

[suckseed]

Girl Friend Experience. She acts like she likes you. Kissin and stuff.
Regarding your situation, Bic: Everyone's different. I'd definitely research to find an understanding woman. Look on craigslist for regular girls. I'm sure you can find someone who thinks you're a great guy. Ever try advertising yourself as a guy without a lot of experience? Some women love that. Whoever you're with, be yourself, be respectful. You shouldn't let life pass you by, man...28 is still young, but you should be more proactive about getting into an actual relationship with a nice woman. One tip: When you go on a date, remember, your only goal is to get a second date if you like her. Don't worry about scoring. Ask her questions. Don't ignore what she's saying because you're too busy having an inner conversation with yourself! There are many nice women on craigslist looking for a nice man. Often, a larger girl will also be a bit self conscious, and not stuck up. It's amazing how big women can have really pretty features. Get a photo taken of yourself where you think you look nice, with a faint smile but NOT a big goofy grin...play it cool. Don't put it in your ad right away. Just write something from the heart. Be sincere. When you get a picture, you can send yours. Most blind dates won't work out - be prepared for that. Go for coffee unless you like paying large tabs. (Yes, you should pay.) Don't have the attitude 'I hope she likes me.' Women can smell that a mile off. Remember, many people are boring or irritating - you want a nice companion.
I'm writing a lot here, but I sense you need a girlfriend more than just a vagina. Good luck!

[Bic]

whats a GFE> sorry dont know that term



Girlfriend Experience.


Usually means they will kiss, cuddle, and maybe let you suck them uncovered, possibly cum for you. Agree guys?


thanks. see part of my fantacy is sucking her uncovered for the experiance i guess and her me. also me topping her or me on my back and she rides mewith her nice cock hittin my stomach :)


hi Bic:

to answer your question in a nutshell; you have no gaurantees about anything. You might be with a lady who wants to go with slam bam thank you ma'am! Or might you get the lady you wants to do everyhting to make you cum twice in a hour (I've never been that studly).

Most of the true ladies/pros will at least give you a massage and make an effort to engage you in conversation and the time will pass pretty quickly.

But in 30+ years of visiting pros in every city in America and several in Europe I have only on handful of occassions notched an hour flat. And I've never complained - this part of the biz is predicted on pleasure not minutes.

And a little secret I've learned T-girls are less time sensitive and more open to chatting than women.

great so i could blow like 2-300 bucks in like 5 min LOL



Girl Friend Experience. She acts like she likes you. Kissin and stuff.
Regarding your situation, Bic: Everyone's different. I'd definitely research to find an understanding woman. Look on craigslist for regular girls. I'm sure you can find someone who thinks you're a great guy. Ever try advertising yourself as a guy without a lot of experience? Some women love that. Whoever you're with, be yourself, be respectful. You shouldn't let life pass you by, man...28 is still young, but you should be more proactive about getting into an actual relationship with a nice woman. One tip: When you go on a date, remember, your only goal is to get a second date if you like her. Don't worry about scoring. Ask her questions. Don't ignore what she's saying because you're too busy having an inner conversation with yourself! There are many nice women on craigslist looking for a nice man. Often, a larger girl will also be a bit self conscious, and not stuck up. It's amazing how big women can have really pretty features. Get a photo taken of yourself where you think you look nice, with a faint smile but NOT a big goofy grin...play it cool. Don't put it in your ad right away. Just write something from the heart. Be sincere. When you get a picture, you can send yours. Most blind dates won't work out - be prepared for that. Go for coffee unless you like paying large tabs. (Yes, you should pay.) Don't have the attitude 'I hope she likes me.' Women can smell that a mile off. Remember, many people are boring or irritating - you want a nice companion.
I'm writing a lot here, but I sense you need a girlfriend more than just a vagina. Good luck!


wow. its liek you know me. scarry. your advice is great. a GFE sounds more what i would want in this case. i like kissing and all that stuff. but i dont want to know she is 'acting' the part. thats impossible im sure but hey, what can you do. yea i am always myself, no need to worry abotu that. also i know i should dress up and pay and all that jazz. thats not my problem. LOL i accually have a thing for 'thick' women. the paris hilton look makes me gag LOL. but your are dead on by saying i need a relationship not a vagnia. see i am the nice guy that finishes last. well sometimes im so nice im not even in the race to compete. im looking for the parking lot LOL. but im the nice guy that get walked on and taken advantage of. my EX wow, did i do everything i could for her andshe did not recipracte in the way i thought she should i put more into it then she did.. yea ill have to look into craigslist and see what its about


thanks everyone :D

[suckseed]

More craigslist tips, Bic:
A totally hot woman advertising no strings sex? That's an ad for a paysite.

Getting a woman to like you is not about 'doing everything for her.'
Never put yourself below a woman. For one thing, there's no challenge there for the woman, and they like a challenge.
Look at Danny Devito. Do you picture him groveling, ever? Hell no. Like me or kiss my ass is his approach. And women respond to it. If you're going to do everything for a woman, it'll be cheaper in the long run to stick to escorts, and you'll heve fewer headaches. Maybe you should get laid. It's great, it's fun, but it ain't everything. Pussy is one of the few things that can make a grown man act like he's 12 and the new Playstation III has just come out. And I'm a big appreciator of both vaginas and their owners, generally. But keep it in perspective. I seriously suggest you find an actor who you think is kind of like you, and study the way he is. Is he funny, cool, silent, chatty? For me, I always thought Jeff Bridges was someone to emulate that I'm kind of like. I couldn't pull off Vin Diesel if there was money in it. Be realistic though. If you're a bigger guy, you might be looking into Jack Black if you're funny and sarcastic, or Drew Carey or John Candy. Or that Tao of Steve guy, I don't know. Being funny is pretty important to a lot of women, if you've a talent for that. Whatever, just find out, and try to develop it. You might try advertising in the platonic section of craigslist. Find a friend who you can not only get some feedback from...she might just turn out to be more, or have a friend. What do you like to do? Advertise for a chick that's into that. Even Playstation!

[Bic]

hey thanks a lot. yea i am learning to be more 'about me' than her. i guyess i learnd the hard way.not to be a dick to her but not kiss her ass. if i were an actor it would be the dude from the capitoal one commerical and the wite guy in hitch. well im white im just saying not will smith lol. or kevin james, the type of people. im funny and nice. know when to be quite and so on. thans for your advice. it is apperacited.