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Sagrfan
11-25-2006, 02:20 PM
Okay, i'm a quite a shy and unconfident guy, and i have to admit that women kinda make me feel as if i'm still a little boy, of late i have been wondering whether it would be easier to be with a t-girl, and part of the thought pattern is, that it might be easier with one as they were born male or is this a dumb thought?

:?

chefmike
11-25-2006, 03:03 PM
And I thought that this was gonna be another "Am I gay?" thread...

A+ for originality!

Sagrfan
11-26-2006, 08:17 AM
Didnt this thread go well ...

TrueBeauty TS
11-26-2006, 09:14 AM
Okay, i'm a quite a shy and unconfident guy, and i have to admit that women kinda make me feel as if i'm still a little boy, of late i have been wondering whether it would be easier to be with a t-girl, and part of the thought pattern is, that it might be easier with one as they were born male or is this a dumb thought?

:?


It's pretty dumb. Sorry.

Quickman
11-26-2006, 10:16 AM
Okay, i'm a quite a shy and unconfident guy, and i have to admit that women kinda make me feel as if i'm still a little boy, of late i have been wondering whether it would be easier to be with a t-girl, and part of the thought pattern is, that it might be easier with one as they were born male or is this a dumb thought?

I believe that although a person can't change his or her nature, assertiveness is a useful skill to learn.

You might want to consider trying to work on building up your confidence through assertiveness training for your own peace of mind.

It's likely to help in relationships regardless of the gender ID of whom your with.

But what do I know, I'm just here for the free porn buffet. :)

Dammit, we're out of big booty pics again....

SexxxyJade
11-26-2006, 10:27 AM
Tho it may be alot easier to relate to a tgirl becuase of the gender relationship you both have, she being born male and can clearly know what makes you tick, sometimes better than you do.
But lets not forget about all of the other things Ts go thru, as far as transitioning and everyday life, which may make us alot harder to deal with than even a genetic female. You just have to weigh your options and realize that either way its gonna be a challange. Just find sumone you like, rather it be TS, GG or male and get to know them, im sure everything else will fall in place.

~kisses

TrueBeauty TS
11-27-2006, 09:29 AM
Okay, i'm a quite a shy and unconfident guy, and i have to admit that women kinda make me feel as if i'm still a little boy, of late i have been wondering whether it would be easier to be with a t-girl, and part of the thought pattern is, that it might be easier with one as they were born male or is this a dumb thought?

:?

Pardon me, but this makes no sense. You feel you strike out with "real" girls so you think you may do better with TS's by default?

First of all, you do realize that a TS will have a penis, don't you? Unless you only go for post -ops, but you didn't state a preference.

Second, I think it's strange to think that a TS will understand men better just because they were born with a male body. If TS's thought just like men, we'd be men.

The original question had nothing to do with the kind of guys TS's are attracted to, it had to do with the sexual orientation of the guy who asked and why he feels scared/ uncomfortable with women.