ISO a TS who may want to be serious.

[Pauldee2007]

I am glad to belong to this forum. I am ISO a petite young SheM very passable who would like to be in a serious relationship with a st8 gentleman. I briefly had a relationship with a beautiful blond on who looked better than any model I know of and we were in love. But unfortunately I was'nt ready.
Other SheM's I'v met were escorts and I didn't understand if that was the reason these ladies were transforming. Not interested in this
Are there any suggestions where I can begin connecting with great girls
like this?
Thanks for any advice
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Yours Truly
Paul
8)

[suckseed]

My advice: first let's find out - has there EVER been a personal connection made on this forum between a TS and a man?
I'd bet not.

Secondly, Paul, not to be a jerk, but when advertising for a mate, ya might want to spell check. Just give 'er a once over before hitting that submit button. And your signature's generally only needed once. The bottom one's automatic, no? Good luck, but remember, it's hard to have much credibility when you're advertising for someone goodlooking. Why not just specify bust and cock size too while you're at it?

[Danielle Foxxx]

Hummmmm... There are plenty of ladies out there looking for a serious relationship. But I regretfully say that Hung Angels is probably not the right place to be looking.

How about finding a relationship with someone who loves you and you love them in return, despite the fact she has a dick? Does that make any sense. By saying you want a relationship with a shemale are you actually ready to undertake the pressures that come with all the issues she may have?

In the passed my problems have been my inability to trut men, due to my lack of respect for myself dating and believing men who would lie to me and tell me that being with me had something more to do then sex or my dick... Also the fact I started having sex before I was 10... And finally at 14 being rapped and at 16 having concential sex.

Many of us have a strong pass, and you have to be a strong man to be able to see passed all of that into the heart of the a woman.

I have written many blogs on relationships with transgender women, not only do I find that many girls who have it all are very lonely, but also the ones who have very little... So it may not be souly our fault. Look within yourself, work on your issues - and be ready to accept her as she is... not what you want her to be - A SECRETE.

[Pauldee2007]

Well, Thanks for the input. You are certiantly beautiful and all I can say that the thought of being with someone like you is very exciting.
I am a good man and wpold like to meet someone beautiful and nice like you?
I hope I can someday.
Thanks,
Paul
:oops:

[suckseed]

Nice to get your input, Danielle. I'd like to add that there's an apparent vicious circle at work sometimes: Good (but poor)
man wants hot girl; hot girl wants financial security; Financially secure man wants lots of pussy (or dick); hot girl gets cheated on, laments bad men, while good, loving (but not financially secure) man takes what he can get, which is often nothing. Hot girl was wined and dined for a time, but got heart broken; nice poor boy wouldn't have cheated on her, and might just have been so inspired by her love that he becomes financially secure man, grateful to hot girl for FREAKING BELIEVING IN HIM WHEN HE WAS DOWN! Meanwhile, rich guy is convinced women want him for his money. Has trust issues, combined with dick = rarely gets serious about one woman.
Guess which one I am? (No, I'm not a hot girl.)
However, nice poor guy eventually meets nice, fun, smart, attractive but not stunning girl, has such a great time with her that she becomes completely attractive to him, and he realizes that looks aren't the be all and end all.
Hot girl eventually snags rich guy. They both cheat, and eventually have a loveless marriage, or no marriage at all. Maybe her looks fade, maybe his money is lost. Time for alcohol.

[Danielle Foxxx]

SOUNDS LIKE THE NEXT BIG COUNTRY SONG HIT.

Money has nothing to do with it - for me at least. I like a man who's able to take me out to dinners and such, not because I can't afford it, but because I like to be "treated" to a nice evening. I hate name brangs, like Gucci and all that non sense. I shop at cheap clothing stores, because I believe that I make the clothes, they don't make me, I don't feel like I am a Beautiful Flawless creature who's God's ( or Dr. Osternhout's ) gift to tranny chasers, I am actually pretty modest and at times very insecure. I am confident enough to notice that men do turn their heads when I walk by... by what is most important to me is the guy who stops me and asks me about my day... the guy who takes the time to get to know me and is proud of my struggles, me and my ex had this great song dedicated to our love "God bless the broken Road" by Rascal Flatts...

[peggygee]

As a post op transwoman, who doesn't escort,
or work in the industry, I have had ads on a
number of sites, seeking an LTR, some were
TG related, some were mainstream.

I tried a variety of marketing strategies,
differently worded ads, different photos.
My ads had been up for quite a while.

Recently, I have been taking them down.
Why you ask?

Because, for the most part I just wasn't meeting
the type of man that I was seeking.

Now I am a fairly attractive woman, very intelligent,
great sense of humor, honest, loyal, passionate,
sosphisticated.

What was I looking for in a man, well basically the
afore-mentioned qualities. He didn't have to be a rocket
scientist, but hopefully wasn't dumb as a sack of hammers,
able to carry on a intelligent conversation.

Ideally I was hoping for somone between 35-55. Under 35,
and you most likely would not meet my cerebral needs,
over 55 you probably couldn't keep up with me physically :twisted:
What race, human would be fine :)

Though another important qualification was that he be
emotionally stable, emotionally availible, and not a
substance abuser.

Was I concerned about his net worth, no, I make my own
money. But yes he needs to have a job.

Though, now with my ads down, I don't have to waste as
much time responding to men who don't fit my criteria.
With this newly found time I am able to more aggresively
work on my career, and myself.

As to love, romance, the person of my dreams, well that
will happen when it happens, for as the Supremes sang
you can't hurry love. :shrug

So if this one of your problems.
(Pot, crack, opiates, booze,etc)
http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l2/magi43/JesseTokes.jpg

Or if this describes you.
http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l2/magi43/sackofhamersNET.jpg

Then please lose my number, and my email address, forget
my name, like I have done with yours :evil:

[blahblahblah]

I can understand that a lot of tgirls want financially secured man, simply because of the situation
they are in - the society dislikes them, conservative (often even closest family) world treats them
like a freak show, etc. Even most of the guys who like them do it because they worshipping cocks and similar,
they kind of appreciate tgirl if she has nice cock, but etc. It's like selling and buying cows, in a way.
The life is simply more difficult for them to go through, so i consider it being completely understandable.
I also can even understand the porn thing (to an extent - some things inside the porn are completely insane to me)
that many of them do in order to make their living. In fact, when it all comes around - the life has been cruel against
them, so why not take revenge on that fucking life by doing what some of the girls do.. But, what it really hurts me is
that some very talented and nice girls are inside that business, personally i consider that being very bad thing. You must
understand that most (99.9%) normal guys are very hardly going to swallow that part of the girls life and accept living
together with such a girl. That's like a rainbow. The rainbow is so beautiful, so beautiful that it tempts you to go and get
it, but no matter how long you walk towards that beautiful rainbow, you'll never catch it..

[rick_932]

pauldee, try checking out http://www.tgpersonals.com/
i havent had much success on that site but who knows what could happen. youd have better luck there than you would here

[suckseed]

To be sure, my last post is not directed at transexuals per se - I think they're probably just like any women. It's more a matter of men wanting physical perfection, but then getting bored with it once they have it. I have a best friend who's just about perfection to me, inside and out - and she's been dumped by more guys than you would believe. My observations about men who seem to have it all - particularly under 35 - is that they're driven to banging as many women as they can. Men are poor resisters of temptation!
And women would be foolish not to at least expect their man to be self sufficient. For me personally, at the age of 23 my fiance came up to me and told me her grandmother, who's never worked a job in her life (but had several degrees), warned her against marrying me - though I was college educated, clean cut, respectful, intelligent, and obviously crazy about my girl. Grandma should have warned her granddaughter that unless she maintained an interest in her life and the world and grew as a person, her husband to be would get tired of her small-town, narrow view of things. I wish someone had taken me aside and warned me not to marry the first girl I fell in love with! (Actually, she wasn't the first - just the first one that I had a real relationship with.) After three years of not dating, I'm currently seeing three women - and I feel like I'm seeing things more clearly then ever. The one who's occupying my thoughts the most is the one I share the most in common with. Luckily, she's also the smartest, cutest, and classiest of the three. But for the first time ever, I'm not getting so worked up over a woman that I'm convincing myself to give up everything for her.

[Ant_Man]

I can attest to Danielle's assertions that it is not always about the money. I am a classic "starving artist" yet got together with one of the more famous girls often discussed & posted on this forum. We went to movies, dinner, Esta Noche & I met her family. I have a photo I snapped of her with her mother & her nephews which I will share with no one. We lived some distance apart, however, & soon I was reading on her Group page about her new love. He gifted her a $10,000 wide-screen tv.......

A year or so later I had a relationship with a girl I met at Divas who was "coming out" on her job. She would escort part-time. We would spend afternoons shopping or just strolling about San Francisco & she turned me on to some of the best Chinese restaurants in town... Again, the main problem was geographical as I live 55 miles away from the City - I got busy with some photo shoots & suddenly she was seeing a well-known tranny-chaser, well-known at Divas for his deeep pockets........

So yeah I am proof a poor guy can get lucky............