The difference between Trannie Chasers and Women Chasers?

[bigdawg]

I can't seem to figure it out...

It seems that TS's really disdain so-called 'trannie chasers' yet what's the difference between a trannie chaser and a guy that is always on the hunt for a girl? If a guy is single, then he will do single guy things, whether it is with a TS or GG should make no difference, right?

So I pose these questions to you:
1) Why do TS's look down on 'trannie chasers'?
2) What is the difference btwn a trannie chaser and a guy who also chases girls?
3) Is it contradictory that a TS will lust over every good looking guy that passes her by, yet admonish a guy that is talking to several TS's at a time?
4) Are trannie chasers considered tricks (i.e. Johns)?
5) Does your opinion of a guy that likes TS's change if he a) doesn't pay TS's for sex but picks them up and does the same exact thing with GG's?

This has been perplexing me for some time... so I'd love to hear other peoples thoughts, especially a womans (a la TS) point of view.

[PumpDaddy]

I can't seem to figure it out...

It seems that TS's really disdain so-called 'trannie chasers' yet what's the difference between a trannie chaser and a guy that is always on the hunt for a girl? If a guy is single, then he will do single guy things, whether it is with a TS or GG should make no difference, right?

So I pose these questions to you:
1) Why do TS's look down on 'trannie chasers'?
2) What is the difference btwn a trannie chaser and a guy who also chases girls?
3) Is it contradictory that a TS will lust over every good looking guy that passes her by, yet admonish a guy that is talking to more TS's at a time?
4) Are also trannie chasers considered tricks (i.e. Johns)?
5) Does your opinion of a guy that likes TS's change if he a) doesn't pay TS's for sex but picks them up and does the same exact thing with GG's?

This has been perplexing me for some time... so I'd love to hear other peoples thoughts, especially a womans (a la TS) point of view.


I have an idea. Let's conduct an organized moritorium on pursuing TSs for any reason whatsoever!! Let's shun them altogether for say, a month. Let's not patronize their services, talk to them, or for that matter, even let them see us looking in their general direction. Since trannys don't want to be chased, this will afford a golden opportunity to give them what they want and let them enjoy their privacy and solitude. Good idea? :twisted:

[Dasnasdi]

The reasoning is bizarre, though actually quite simple. The thing we t chasers like the most about a ts is the thing they hate the most about themselves.

If a man doesn't like dick he will reject her, yet if a man likes dick, she will reject him. It makes for a lonely existence, until she gives up on men, and gets with another ts.

Never underestimate just how strongly a ts hates the genitals she was born with. One friend of mine, when she was a child, reached up and grabbed the handle of a pot of boiling water from the stove. Her hope was that the scalding water would hit her crotch and burn the thing away. She has burn scaring on her arm to this day, and is now post-op.

[peggygee]

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[qeuqheeg222]

after pupadaddy's month there sure would be a lot of hungry and homeless tgs.................

[yodajazz]

The reasoning is bizarre, though actually quite simple. The thing we t chasers like the most about a ts is the thing they hate the most about themselves.

If a man doesn't like dick he will reject her, yet if a man likes dick, she will reject him. It makes for a lonely existence, until she gives up on men, and gets with another ts.

Never underestimate just how strongly a ts hates the genitals she was born with. One friend of mine, when she was a child, reached up and grabbed the handle of a pot of boiling water from the stove. Her hope was that the scalding water would hit her crotch and burn the thing away. She has burn scaring on her arm to this day, and is now post-op.

This fits in with what you are saying.

I was watching an “Taxi Cab Confession #3” from 1995 last night. There was a beautiful Hispanic TS in one cab. She described a relationship. When they met he did not know but he was attracted to her. She told him and he freaked out, but they talked on the phone for a few days. He decided that he would not let her status get in the way of a relationship. She felt that he liked her for herself. When they were intimate he refused to look or acknowledge her genitals. She also said that she would get the operation if she got the chance. (I bet she has gotten it by now.) They broke up; he was young and just couldn’t handle the situation, I believe.

I feel that someone could love her for herself both as a pre and post –op. It has been discussed here many times. But it is true generally, that many times people don’t appreciate their admirers.

[Kriss]

Well you are a mischevious one Peggy Gee. Bumping the topic up without offering us "faceless wankers" any clue of how we can pretend we aren't deranged sex addicts. Well I guess you can only set us right if you know how confused we really are. I don't really understand the term 'tranny chaser' and wouldn't use it to describe myself although sadly I have been called one. It's not a term I use, I don't even like writing it here. It's kinda like the 'N bomb', I feel its o.k. for girls to say it but not me. That label is not something I would aspire to be but I am attracted to and somewhat fascinated by TS girls and yes, to some extent I do pursue them. I'm fascinated by all girls, I crave the company of women, I just prefer the sex with TS women right now(now meaning the last 5 years). Don't get me wrong, I can enjoy male company and hang out with a bunch of guys once a week, play some music, smoke, play cards, guy stuff, but I can only take so much. Men are ugly, smell bad, we're full of shit and always so competetive, clamouring for status, in other words 'all mouth and trousers'. I have liked TS girls for many years now but always kept that very separate from my freinds and relations, probably as I don't have logical answers as to why I feel so. My relations with TS women have always been as a client/john/punter but I started to realise that I had to get to know these girls if I am to understand and accept my desires. The more time I spend with TS women OUTSIDE the escort-client relationship, the more I see the girls as something other than sex objects. I find sex is always better with someone you have a connection with, doesn't have to be love, but at least some kind of spark. Does this make me a "t****y chaser"? I guess it still does, maybe it's a state I have to go through before becoming a 'certified t****y expert'. This board is actually an excellent resourse for educating guys that fall into this category. Here we can read the opinions of the girls, interact, learn a bit and get slapped down and clued back up if we get out of line. And some of the girls here are really nice, intelligent personalities who aren't only interested in money, cosmetics and paris bloody hilton.
For sure TS women meet so many guys who are full of shit, the married guys, the "now i've had it, i don't want it" guys, the confused "am i gay?"guys. We can hardly blame the girls for being guarded or even suspicious.
To bigdawg I imagine that the ideal man for most transexual women is a 100% straight guy who's never looked at or even thought about TS porn, Independantly wealthy but with every minute free to romance her, has absolutely no idea that she is TS and is totally cool and accepting when she tells him. so good luck buddy.

[lincspoacher]

Interesting post Kriss ...

Unlike you,I've never been with a TG Escort .. all the TG women in my life,to date have been girls I've met in various ways or places & then gone out with.

I agree (certainly for me) that there has to be something more than just sex .. some of the girls I've met simply weren't compatible with me,nor I with them .. so it never progressed beyond a single date ... that's just the way it goes sometimes (but they've been in the minority,I have to say).

So far I've had 2 serious relationships with TG women (the most recent lasting almost 2 years) .. the fact that I do seek out TG women must,I suppose make me a "Tranny-chaser" .. though like you it's not a term I like,neither do I like the term "Admirer" .. both have a negative,derogatory connotation to them (though I will admit,not totally undeserved in some cases) ..

But from a personal perspective,in reality I'm doing nothing different than I would be doing if my interests were more oriented towards genetic women ... ie .. looking for a date in the hopes of finding the right person for a lasting,loving,stable relationship & provided that both parties are consenting adults .. I fail to see the harm.

Bye for now,

Poacher.

[TomSelis]

I'm going to save my comment for later, but this is going to be good.

:popcorn

[iloveshemales77]

"chubby chasers" is term used for guys who are into fat chicks. It's as derogatory for the guys as it is for the girls. Same applies to the term "tranny chasers".

[muhmuh]

"chubby chasers" is term used for guys who are into fat chicks.

i thought theyre calle hoggers? which of course is even more derogatory

[lincspoacher]

Hi "J",

Firstly permit me to say that I found your last post extremely interesting & you raise quite a few relevant points ... with which I find myself in total agreement.

I can only speak from personal experience to say that my last serious partner met my Daughter (who is normally sharp as a razor) over the course of a full weekend,when both were staying with me and Daughter never suspected that my then GF was anything other than a GG ... they even left me home alone on the Saturday,going into the local Town on a "girlie" retail therapy mission & returning home with the giggles,having consumed a few bottles of Chardonnay ... :lol: 8)

Then my GF was introduced to my local friends (male & female) .. even coming out with us all on more than a few occasions .. to date none have shown the least sign of doubting her gender,or of asking questions .. other than surprise when I announced that we'd split up.

Yes,society does place enormous hurdles in the paths of TG women .. it used to do the same for Gay people until their rights were fought for .. and won .. perhaps it will take the same kind of action to level the playing field again .. who knows ?

That said,I personally know of one Orthopaedic Surgeon & one Police Officer here in UK who have successfully transitioned .. and kept their jobs .. (granted those numbers are miniscule) but it proves that it can be done !

I also agree wholeheartedly with you about the different types of men you describe (one of the reasons I dislike being called an "Admirer") .. I've been to several TG functions (such as the Sparkle event in Manchester last summer) and seen just those types lurking on the fringes.

Without wishing to be patronising,it's just a shame that your post then descended into a personal mud slinging match with Wombat .. for me it spoiled an otherwise very good & positive explanation of why girls feel as they do towards men like me.

Finally I would say that just as TG women dislike having labels hung around their necks .. or people assuming that being Transgendered makes them all alike .. we men (or this one certainly) feel the same .. we are not all the same .. we're individuals .. the good,the bad & the ugly,our reasons for being interested in TG women are many & varied .. as are our methods of meeting & dating them.

All I would ask is that TG women at least extend us the courtesy of finding out a little more about the individual before condemning us all.

Sorry if this has gone on a wee bit ... :roll:

Bye for now,

Poacher.

[DJ_Asia]

there is no difference between women and tranny chasers...

The difference lies w/ the size of the available pool of girls....
When u date females as a sport,the word doesnt spread that you are a chaser/dog/player because not all females are talking to one another

However the TS community is an extremely small incestous community and you date a couple girls,the rest know about it almost the moment it happens.So even if you've only dated a few girls,everybody knows about it cuz the tranny hotline is on fire as soon as you begin or end a relationship.

[lincspoacher]

Hi DJ,

What you say is very true .. which is partly why it behoves any man to treat all TG women with respect or the "jungle drums" will beat out a loud & clear "avoid" message.

Similarly,if one goes to a TG function/event/club already in company with a TG woman & is introduced around it becomes almost the equivalent of the "old boy's" network .. you come recommended as it were.

I have in the past met people socially at such events,then ... no longer dating (for whatever reason) the person who originally introduced me,I've contacted them & usually get the "Oh,yes .. I remember you from such & such a do or place" response ... and one thing leads to another.

Bye for now,

Poacher.

[BlackAdder]

"he is in the nasty, embarressing, shameless, vulgar panty wearing toilet licking lemme get off on her dead sisters corpse catagory"

"cuz the tranny hotline is on fire as soon as you begin or end a relationship."

Damn, i missed reading this board. /sniffle

[TomSelis]

"he is in the nasty, embarressing, shameless, vulgar panty wearing toilet licking lemme get off on her dead sisters corpse catagory"

"cuz the tranny hotline is on fire as soon as you begin or end a relationship."

Damn, i missed reading this board. /sniffle

Where the hell you been man?!

[BlackAdder]

Real lifes a bitch sometimes Tom...

[Navi]

The reasoning is bizarre, though actually quite simple. The thing we t chasers like the most about a ts is the thing they hate the most about themselves.

If a man doesn't like dick he will reject her, yet if a man likes dick, she will reject him. It makes for a lonely existence, until she gives up on men, and gets with another ts.

Never underestimate just how strongly a ts hates the genitals she was born with. One friend of mine, when she was a child, reached up and grabbed the handle of a pot of boiling water from the stove. Her hope was that the scalding water would hit her crotch and burn the thing away. She has burn scaring on her arm to this day, and is now post-op.

This fits in with what you are saying.

I was watching an “Taxi Cab Confession #3” from 1995 last night. There was a beautiful Hispanic TS in one cab. She described a relationship. When they met he did not know but he was attracted to her. She told him and he freaked out, but they talked on the phone for a few days. He decided that he would not let her status get in the way of a relationship. She felt that he liked her for herself. When they were intimate he refused to look or acknowledge her genitals. She also said that she would get the operation if she got the chance. (I bet she has gotten it by now.) They broke up; he was young and just couldn’t handle the situation, I believe.

I feel that someone could love her for herself both as a pre and post –op. It has been discussed here many times. But it is true generally, that many times people don’t appreciate their admirers.

you want to hear something funny, i was at a club and there was a woman, she was hot, green eyes, long red hair, nice body. She we nice and had a brain to. We started to date, we got to a point where we where kissing and fooling round when she told me she had a dick and was a man. I did not know what to think really, it was shocked, I was a taken back, it scared me. At first I did not know what to do. I did not talk to her for about a mouth, she the operation to get ride of dick, which at this time I was still in a state of shock. So I understand the guys point of view. I join the site because I wanted to understand the T girl better,

[BeardedOne]

Real lifes a bitch sometimes Tom...

Real life sux. Learn that. :P

[BeardedOne]

Whuf...Where to begin?

It all comes down to what defines a "chaser", really. In my lifetime, I've had more than 200 partners/lovers yet some don't see me as a "player" or "chaser". While I abhor the concept of the one-nighter, there is often the time that this is the only event on the plate.

When you break it down to the basic concept of "chaser" I don't think there is any difference between those that "chase" gurls from those that "chase" GGs.

If you're a "chaser", "player" or "cock bandit", that's what you are. If the gurls see you as such, it's up to you to tweak their reality to see who you, in your eyes, really are.

[crayons]

The difficulty in answering this question is that nobody has pointed out the facts: a tranny chaser is like a picture collector. They're after the girls stirctly to have sex. Nothing else, and as Arianna pointed out, it's on the DL, and with most of the girls battling with the 'passability' factor, being only considered a 'sex object' probably isn't the best way to be known.

[TomSelis]

...but he embodies the reason TSs in my view are so jaded...and have such low regard to the average "admirer" to them we are all wombats, we are all desperate pathetic scum...and its our duty to point it out if we are not....as well it should be....since we are the minority we must show that we arent like the rest of the ilk...like MEGA says, theres a handful of legitimate succesful thoughtful guys in the scene and the rest are cheating manipulative and often scary folk...its one big mishmash and i think applicable...then again, i wish things were diff and girls could relax and chill and give guys a chance...but i think any girl who comes to this site for example see the conduct and overzealous nature of the posters and must conclude that the dating scene for TSs is quite bleak if at all existant

I agree with this and that right there is the crux of the matter. You have to disprove an already preconceived perception of you. It is what it is, but you just have to plow through that. Then you'll get to another level where you can easily be put right back into that category. Jealous girlfriends putting salt in your game is a good example of that. But that is another topic.

[tsntx]

seems pretty simple to me...

T-girls hate tranny chasing losers just as much as regular girls hate the women chasers... theres no difference except for what each guy is chasing... the problem is neither settle...

[hwbs]

its funny ...when i was in san diego the girls there considered the tranny chasers a good thing...but hey they think abercrombie flip flops are dressed up , lmao

[qeuqheeg222]

men are dogs.plain and simple in most contexts.satisfaction is broken down to the three b's-beer,beef jerky(or any other salty protein-meat),and booty(or breasts).c'mon now how many of us have chased at bars or other events for "chicks".often to only to be shot down with a casual no to vehement "get the hell out of my face".this is rreality for many...i see why some of the girls have an aversion to those of us who are on the dl.how serious can you get living in the dark?i have had tg girlfriends for years and always thought the best way to deal with it was the most real-this is who you are attracted to so be a damn man,stand alone and be proud of it.shit.all of my tg girlfriends met my family and friends,came by my job and the what not...maybe if men would just deal with what they like and suck it up a tg would respect them that much more....plus you can always shout back "you know you'd hit this too when your friends aint around!"....

[lincspoacher]

Hi "J",

Yet again you raise many interesting & sadly,all too true points.

I mentioned girls giving men a chance more as a "thought provoker" than in hope of there being any real change .. but even if only one girl reading it,thought "OK,fair point" I've achieved my objective.

You are quite right .. I am looking for someone to settle down with,someone who will be a partner on an equal basis,someone who will be able to share in all the other aspects of my life (my interest in TG matters is only one).And someone who'll permit me to share in her life too.

I'd disagree that the TG dating scene is either bleak or all but non-existent .. I'm dating someone at the moment,whom I met via a UK based site .. it's early days yet but who knows ?

I can't argue about the types of bloke to whom you refer .. we're all aware of them,I just think there's a different (not necessarily) better way of bringing to the attention of a wider audience that we men are not all the same .. I suppose it's a matter of personal "style" ... Lol.

Bye for now,

Poacher.

[sucka4chix]

A tranny chaser is far different from a man who sleeps with alot of GGs.Very few men are GG chasers. The term chaser suggests an obsessive behavior that a "player" does not exhibit. A tranny chaser is always searching for the next picture, the next video, the next cock. He wants to see what every girl has between her legs. AND, most importantly (and not afore mentioned) he's spending money on this obsession. GGs or TS don't care for guys who spend ALOT OF MONEY ON SEX-- even the strippers and escorts. If you ever go to strip clubs you'll notice that the guy the girls dis at the club for not spending money, is the guy that fucks the girls/dates the girls, not the ones that drop alot of cash.

[peggygee]

A tranny chaser is far different
from a man who sleeps with alot of GGs.Very few men
are GG chasers. The term chaser suggests an obsessive
behavior that a "player" does not exhibit. A tranny chaser
is always searching for the next picture, the next video,
the next cock. He wants to see what every girl has between
her legs. AND, most importantly (and not afore mentioned)
he's spending money on this obsession.

By Jove, Holmes, I think you've got it !!.

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[dabaldone]

A tranny chaser is far different from a man who sleeps with alot of GGs.Very few men are GG chasers. The term chaser suggests an obsessive behavior that a "player" does not exhibit. A tranny chaser is always searching for the next picture, the next video, the next cock. He wants to see what every girl has between her legs. AND, most importantly (and not afore mentioned) he's spending money on this obsession. GGs or TS don't care for guys who spend ALOT OF MONEY ON SEX-- even the strippers and escorts. If you ever go to strip clubs you'll notice that the guy the girls dis at the club for not spending money, is the guy that fucks the girls/dates the girls, not the ones that drop alot of cash.

Damn good description!! nuff said!!!