Something I have always wanted to know about crossdressers

[Old Jimbo]

When men decide to give crossdressing a try, do they ever think that if they look too convincing, other men might want to get into a sexual relationship with them or is this just all part of the fun should it ever happen? Are they prepared to go along with it or is it something they never ever think about until it happens?

[iHeart_PONG]

If we are talking about men who dress as women for the purposes of sexual gratification but for all other intents and purposes enjoy their masculinity (i.e. not transgender people), you seem to be lumping them into one boat.

Not all crossdressers want a man. Some enjoy the role playing and self-stimulation where others are still into women only, if even to be dominated by one or pegged. To assume that all crossdressers desire a man is erroneous.

I don't think any crossdresser gets excited by looking rough...they all want to look as convincing as possible FOR THEMSELVES first and their potential mate second, whatever there gender may be. It is part of the allure of gender bending as a fetish.

[Old Jimbo]

My point was that if a male crossdresser is too convincing the unwanted attention from men could in some cases outweigh the satisfaction they get from achieving their aim to be accepted as a woman. In other words is all that effort always worth it?

[iHeart_PONG]

crossdressers want to be accepted as women?

Methinks you are blending what a crossdresser is into what a transwoman is.

[Eponymous Lee]

You can speculate until an actual crossdresser chimes in with an explanation ,but it does not seem possible for any one person to speak for all of them. Look at the odds of the combinations. Male to female , Bi-Male to female, gay male to female and then the rest ...female to male,, lesbian to male, and even more confusing was the trans female to male that I saw with Danni Daniels porn persona. I say it depends on who you ask and when you ask them.


One example in the website trans section, there is a gay male by the name of Ivan Rastrepin known as bumbum_kalibum

https://chaturbate.com/bumbum_kalibum
Profile states :
I am not TS and I am not escort. I am a boy, gay. I just have a special appearance .

[kmersh]

IMHO there is no one right answer, crossdressers as a group span the spectrum of sexuality.

My wife (who is transgender) has a friend who started out as a crossdresser but over time started to live more of his life as a woman, but still enjoys his masculinity just not 100% of the time.

When the topic came up as to why he started to live more of his life as a woman, he said that he enjoyed passing as woman (it gave him sexual gratification) and he wanted to keep the good feelings going, so it was a easy jump to living more and more of his life as a woman.

In his case he strictly likes woman and having a relationship has been difficult because in his experience woman are not always so comfortable with someone who splits time between the two genders.

It is also getting complicated for him because he has had surgery (breast augmentation) and the lines are becoming harder and harder to blur.

[danoblue]

Ever since I saw my first transsexual porn magazine as a kid I've been fascinated. When I watch Trans porn I identify with the girl. I've had many false starts with dressing up but I've been doing it regularly for the past four years and going to a club that caters to Trans and CDs.

I'm into CDs, Trans girls and girls. I've made many friends with both CDs and Trans they all know I like girls but are never threatened by my orientation. We're all friends. I've been with some men when another girl is involved in a threeway.

I love being a girl it just makes me feel so wonderful. The majority of CDs and Trans girls are into men.1371994