How are you guys meeting TS?

[XvCv16]

Nothing serious I just wanted to make this my first post. I'm just a young guy who discovered TS porn a couple years ago by mistake (a great mistake it was) and the rest is history. Only in the past 2 weeks have a said to myself yes I would love to have a TS experience in real life. As exciting as it was...now its become depressing.

I'm straight guy that's into TGirls so I only like the really feminine passable TGirls and that's not necessarily the ones you meet at your local gay club. Which is not my scene anyway but I will be popping my head into those clubs now that I'm on the prowl. I have looked up escorts which probably end up being my first time but the condom thing is still a huge disappointment. Of course they are necessary with a sex worker but it sucks.
FML

Once again I've been watching lucky guys getting deepthroated by TGirls and then rippingg their little tiny assholes raw. I've watched so many TGirls scream out as they get their asshole filled taking the cum all in their ass and push the cum slowly out their ass.

Y cant I get this??

I hope someone can give some tips and If i can help anyone in the community I will do so as well. Thanks

[SanDiegoPervySage]

Hmmm.....


You're specifically setting out to find a trans woman that you can fuck raw immediately(high risk group)

You watch too much porn

What exactly is the difference between a trans woman you meet at a gay bar and one you meet anywhere else?

I'm assuming you want some chick who looks like Jane Marie/Daisy Taylor/Sara Salazar that will let you fuck them raw but not in an prostitution context, but in a "this guy is so hot I just gotta scream for him to take my holes for free" context. A lot of these girls, you're gonna have to come up out the pocket to fuck because they gotta pay for their transition.


Why cant you get it what you desire? Several reasons(some I listed a above):

You have unrealistic expectations

You are extremely thirsty. Instant turnoff to women

You dont know how to interact with women(trans or cis)

You arent attractive or attractive enough(what makes you stand out to a woman....specifically a woman that is less commonly encountered than most women?)

You don't know where to look(assuming you're looking online)


Now that craigslist is dead, it's a lot harder to meet up with women but you can still find some lucky hits out there. Dating apps like grindr, pof, okc, blendr(lots of these girls are hookers but if you look good enough, some just hit you up to fuck for free). If you're looking online, make sure you have pics that show off your physique, but the key word is physique, which implies you need to be in shape. All of my hookups with women(trans and cis) from dating apps have been a couple pics of me with my shirt off, showing off my body, implying that I'm only looking for sex. It didn't happen very frequently but when it did, they always hit me up first. There is also doublelist.com which is an ok revival of craigslist. I met a lot of passable women off craigslist over the years when it was up, but sometimes it was a bitch to meet off there as well.

[hugecocklatexdoll]

If you go on chaturbate to find the ones with kik, whatsapp or snapchat. Maybe you could eventually get together with someone that special. That's what I'm trying right now. So far so good, I have been getting to know this person better, what her goal is as far as transitioning goes.

[Fitzcarraldo]

If you're looking online, make sure you have pics that show off your physique, but the key word is physique, which implies you need to be in shape. All of my hookups with women(trans and cis) from dating apps have been a couple pics of me with my shirt off, showing off my body, implying that I'm only looking for sex.

How romantic.

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[BostonBad]

I met a very, very pretty ts girl from okcupid. She also had a Fetlife profile. She was my 3rd ts.

She was extremely beautiful and could easily pass for any other girl. Her and I met up and we went to a gay club. I never had been to one before. It was a bit shocking. No dudes hit on me but it seemed like that could have happened real quick. The bathrooms were all for one, one for all. Any gender in any bathroom. Her and I danced got a few drinks and talked. It felt like any other date. Later we made out in the car and she touched her cock because she had precum. She slipped her finger in my mouth and the precum had a taste of oatmeal cookies. I told her and she laughed and said she had oatmeal cookies for lunch.

The next date I took her out fancy and after we fucked and we both cummed 3 times. I swallowed all 3. She was really hot...the best.

[Lester316]

Why can't you get this?

Try looking at the question after reading your own post that describes porn scenes. Also unprotected sex for your first time...

Have you even tried anal before with toys or anything else? Know how to be properly clean?

Try using your brain before asking questions.

[BostonBad]

Leave it to Lester to insult.

To the thread originator, anal is dangerous, so dont do that raw. But if u suck dick and swallow, I'd take 1 or 2 shots of whiskey just after swallowing to wash all that cum down and kill any little buggers in your mouth and throat.

[SanDiegoPervySage]

How romantic.

Aint it?

[Lester316]

Leave it to Lester to insult.

To the thread originator, anal is dangerous, so dont do that raw. But if u suck dick and swallow, I'd take 1 or 2 shots of whiskey just after swallowing to wash all that cum down and kill any little buggers in your mouth and throat.

Suggesting someone use their brain before asking a question isn't an insult it's good advice. Sometimes if you pause and think about things first the answers aren't that hard to come up with on your own.

I see you're back with you alcohol based sex advice though 🙄. Going to give someone who has only really watched porn and has no life experience the Butt Chugging masterclass next? I really hope you don't.

Before anyone asks Butt Chugging is for fools and morons who want to risk alcohol poisoning.

[XvCv16]

Yea u read way too far into this my guy lmaoo. I've never been thirsty around anyone lol I was just going into detail ab my desires which I thought was celebrated around here. Thanks anyway

[XvCv16]

Exactly. Everything he said was eye roll worthy.

[XvCv16]

Thanks for the tips lol and that's a funny story. The oatmeal part isnt my thing but funny none the less. U still talk to her.

[lifeisfiction]

I don't know why anyone would make a mountain out of a mole hill. If you do online, for example Grindr. Have a profile pic of your face. Be willing to go out or do something in public. It's not hard nor is it some sort of magically mystical thing. You don't need shirtless pics, just be you and be honest. You will meet all sorts of people their are some that are looking for a one night stand, and others looking for a friendship or relationship. You can meet people via Snapchat and other places.

And I would tell you this unless you're on prep, you don't want to have spend the next three months saying how stupid I was, how very stupid. Doesn't matter if you top or bottom. I say bring your own condoms. Even if you think there is a 15% chance, because when you're in bed with a hot woman, and you didn't bring condoms, I don't have to explain. I can say knocking on wood, I have not had any std, but still better to be safe than sorry.

[XvCv16]

And just for the record guys if u got tips please post! Dont read so far into the the first post lol we're wasting time arguing over technicalities and semantics. Or maybe I didnt explain in detail what I mean but it was late and I was sleepy.

I'm a straight guy that's only hooked up with cisgender women so course I want my experience with a TGirl to be fantasy like. Maybe it will maybe it won't. Lol but that dont matter I'm just looking for tips from ppl more experienced in this than myself. I'm not gonna hook up with any TGirl whose masculine and in my hometown (not exactly great for TS) most of the TS I know of are really masculine. If that's what ur into fine that's great I'm not. The problem with the clubs here is exactly that but I'm ab to go to some other cities to see what I can find.

Of course going raw is dangerous so is smoking but most still do it. And I domt go raw into every girl anyway. And I would never go raw on a escort DUH...I was simply saying that idea that I have to pay AND wear a condom (as I of course would) makes me less willing to go down that route. That's y I'm thinking maybe I can befriend a TS have some sort of relationship to the point where we get comfortable with each other. Of course going raw is dangerous with anyone but I cant tell u one person I no who doesn't had plenty of sex raw or is not currently doing it. I mean seriously lol I no women who complain that they cant find guys who want to wear them. If U dont feel like a blowjob with a condom on a disappointment well have to agree to disagree.

Thanks for all those with tips and more are welcome! Thanks

[XvCv16]

Thanks for the advice. I'm not going to go on dating apps tho too many guys just send u pics of their assholes lol. Ain't with it. And I agree with the condom sentiment. And I live in a smaller city in middle America its harder to find TS on things like SC and things like that. If I live in NY I may have never made this thread. Lol I no it's not hard and I'll pop the cherry soon but I was posting this to make sure no stone was left unturned. And so far I've got good advice

[chi73inla]

I meet girls on Santa Monica Boulevard, Western Avenue and Garden Grove Boulevard.

[SanDiegoPervySage]

Well now that you clarified that you would actually want to build some type of rapport with the girl and get to really know her before going in raw, that changes things. You initially came off as some dude who wanted to fuck the first passable girl that gave you the green light as soon as possible. And if you live in an area with a small population, you gotta go somewhere else likely. Fewer people, fewer chances to find what you're looking for, especially in this instance

[Laphroaig]

Leave it to Lester to insult.

To the thread originator, anal is dangerous, so dont do that raw. But if u suck dick and swallow, I'd take 1 or 2 shots of whiskey just after swallowing to wash all that cum down and kill any little buggers in your mouth and throat.

Best advice the OP could get would be to totally disregard anything you post.

[Huevos_Rancheros]

I have 25+ years in the game and I am now semi-retired. Happy to share what I know. Assuming your goal is to fuck without having to pay for it (give up the raw dog fantasy. I caught 2 STDs doing it. Not worth it):

1. Be good looking. This always helps.
2. Hang out where you can find TS. Try TS bars, TS club nights, drag shows, gay bars, straight/mixed dance clubs, ethnic dance clubs (Asian or Latin), makeup counters at department stores, or just walk around the downtown of a big city. Get your radar working to spot TS--usually taller and sexier than average GGs (at least the ones you want to fuck).
3. Either or both of you need to drink. This lowers inhibitions--your fear that you are secretly gay and her fear of fucking a stranger.
4. Be happy and confident. This is just standard game technique and applies to TS, GG, gays, pretty much anyone you want to fuck.
5. Have a place ready for fucking. Preferably your place. It should be clean, stocked with condoms, maybe some drinks and weed, nice atmosphere with low lights and music.
6. Throw yourself into it. You give her a blowjob. This lets her know that you accept her how she is. Reciprocate anything she does for you.
7. Be careful with the moaning and screaming. This will be fantastic sex but you still have to live with your neighbors.
8. Pay for her Uber back to her place.

I can't comment on the internet other than I hooked up with a TV for free sex and a pro for paid sex. Neither was as fun as meeting people out in the real world.

[Murmdrum]

Best advice the OP could get would be to totally disregard anything you post.

how did I even know before reading his reply it would involve chugging whiskey after

[BostonBad]

Suggesting someone use their brain before asking a question isn't an insult it's good advice. Sometimes if you pause and think about things first the answers aren't that hard to come up with on your own.

I see you're back with you alcohol based sex advice though 🙄. Going to give someone who has only really watched porn and has no life experience the Butt Chugging masterclass next? I really hope you don't.

Before anyone asks Butt Chugging is for fools and morons who want to risk alcohol poisoning.

Everything that is fun in life carries some sort of risk.
Moderation is key, like butt chugging 1 glass of wine together with 12ccs of Robatussin DM. Then wait and enjoy the sensation. Maybe 1-2 hours later, repeat.

[BostonBad]

Thanks for the tips lol and that's a funny story. The oatmeal part isnt my thing but funny none the less. U still talk to her.

I do not talk to her. She went post op. She is still extremely pretty, and at least I swallowed a few of her loads.

[BostonBad]

I have 25+ years in the game and I am now semi-retired. Happy to share what I know. Assuming your goal is to fuck without having to pay for it (give up the raw dog fantasy. I caught 2 STDs doing it. Not worth it):

1. Be good looking. This always helps.
2. Hang out where you can find TS. Try TS bars, TS club nights, drag shows, gay bars, straight/mixed dance clubs, ethnic dance clubs (Asian or Latin), makeup counters at department stores, or just walk around the downtown of a big city. Get your radar working to spot TS--usually taller and sexier than average GGs (at least the ones you want to fuck).
3. Either or both of you need to drink. This lowers inhibitions--your fear that you are secretly gay and her fear of fucking a stranger.
4. Be happy and confident. This is just standard game technique and applies to TS, GG, gays, pretty much anyone you want to fuck.
5. Have a place ready for fucking. Preferably your place. It should be clean, stocked with condoms, maybe some drinks and weed, nice atmosphere with low lights and music.
6. Throw yourself into it. You give her a blowjob. This lets her know that you accept her how she is. Reciprocate anything she does for you.
7. Be careful with the moaning and screaming. This will be fantastic sex but you still have to live with your neighbors.
8. Pay for her Uber back to her place.

I can't comment on the internet other than I hooked up with a TV for free sex and a pro for paid sex. Neither was as fun as meeting people out in the real world.

#6 is great. Make love to it as you suck.

[Lester316]

Everything that is fun in life carries some sort of risk.
Moderation is key, like butt chugging 1 glass of wine together with 12ccs of Robatussin DM. Then wait and enjoy the sensation. Maybe 1-2 hours later, repeat.

You left prepare for possible alcohol poisoning off of the list along with pack for trip to the hospital...

Anyhow to the OP; clarifying what you meant is a good thing.

If you want to meet people and live in a small area maybe plan a holiday or something around that. I live in the dullest part of the UK so a trip to London or Manchester tends to be helpful for me.

Look into the places where you could go etc (I know others have said similar). But also check out the style of clubs/bars; you don't want to go out in the wrong outfit and stick out like a sore thumb. Aside from that be yourself, relax and treat it like any other normal night out.

100% take condoms if you plan on hooking up; don't get drunk if you have never topped a girl before, I doubt she will appreciate a drunken randy guy going at it wildly.

If you are looking into bottoming at all; get proper advice. You need to be squeaky clean and have had some practice - toys etc - the whole porn first time fantasy is utter bollocks.

Most importantly be patient. There are a lot less t-girls out there obviously population wise and despite some people talking like you can literally just trip over one and end up in bed that's not reality.

Oh and to echo Laphroaig and others ignore Boston's advice he's either a troll, a madman or a fantasist who makes everything up (could be all 3...). And yes that is an insult albeit one based in truth.

[BostonBad]

You left prepare for possible alcohol poisoning off of the list along with pack for trip to the hospital...

Anyhow to the OP; clarifying what you meant is a good thing.

If you want to meet people and live in a small area maybe plan a holiday or something around that. I live in the dullest part of the UK so a trip to London or Manchester tends to be helpful for me.

Look into the places where you could go etc (I know others have said similar). But also check out the style of clubs/bars; you don't want to go out in the wrong outfit and stick out like a sore thumb. Aside from that be yourself, relax and treat it like any other normal night out.

100% take condoms if you plan on hooking up; don't get drunk if you have never topped a girl before, I doubt she will appreciate a drunken randy guy going at it wildly.

If you are looking into bottoming at all; get proper advice. You need to be squeaky clean and have had some practice - toys etc - the whole porn first time fantasy is utter bollocks.

Most importantly be patient. There are a lot less t-girls out there obviously population wise and despite some people talking like you can literally just trip over one and end up in bed that's not reality.

Oh and to echo Laphroaig and others ignore Boston's advice he's either a troll, a madman or a fantasist who makes everything up (could be all 3...). And yes that is an insult albeit one based in truth.

Truth? YOU DON'T KNOW ME FROM ADAM. Anyway, you say buttchugging a glass of wine is dangerous yet you're encouraging a newbie to start having sex? Everything fun requires risk.

Google TS Chriselle. I swallowed her cum 3-4 times per month for over 2 years. Sometimes I'd suck her dick on and off for 3 hours or more.

I'm a madman, that's it.
And Lester316, you're an English semen boi

[Lester316]

Truth? YOU DON'T KNOW ME FROM ADAM. Anyway, you say buttchugging a glass of wine is dangerous yet you're encouraging a newbie to start having sex? Everything fun requires risk.

Google TS Chriselle. I swallowed her cum 3-4 times per month for over 2 years. Sometimes I'd suck her dick on and off for 3 hours or more.

I'm a madman, that's it.
And Lester316, you're an English semen boi

Oh no! I encouraged an adult to have sex, be safe and prepared and not get drunk when he does so; you're right I'm an utter monster, I don't know how I will live with myself.

Meanwhile you suggest taking wine in through your anus which is clearly a sensible and practical thing and obviously why wine was invented.


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[Jericho]

It's all about todgers!

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[SanDiegoPervySage]

Truth? YOU DON'T KNOW ME FROM ADAM. Anyway, you say buttchugging a glass of wine is dangerous yet you're encouraging a newbie to start having sex? Everything fun requires risk.

Google TS Chriselle. I swallowed her cum 3-4 times per month for over 2 years. Sometimes I'd suck her dick on and off for 3 hours or more.

I'm a madman, that's it.
And Lester316, you're an English semen boi

It's shit like this that will keep you having to pay women to tolerate you until you get your nut

[BostonBad]

It's shit like this that will keep you having to pay women to tolerate you until you get your nut

I don't have to. Okcupid has many quality ts women. I have swallowed loads because of that website.