Didn’t plan on it

[alan327]

I always wondered how many guys seen a TS but did not plan to bottom for them only to get talked into it.
Im thinking many of us ended up getting more than we thought.

[kmersh]

I can only speak for myself, but I would say that if you are not willing to bottom, you won't no matter what.

With that said, I am married to a transgender woman and she would NEVER ever ask me to bottom for her and I would NEVER say yes if I was.

[Murmdrum]

I have had probably 20 TS experiences, some with some well known girls..My thing is oral and I like getting facials. Never gave being penetrated a thought. then last April I met Carla Brasil in Boston and she took over and did her thing and before I knew it that monster of hers was inside of me...I cant say I enjoyed it. I didnt get hard..So I have no desire to get railed again

[flabbybody]

Carla’s probably not the best choice for a virgin

[Murmdrum]

Carla’s probably not the best choice for a virgin

oh I know lol....but I wasn't planning on it happening....I just went with it. she was into it and I figured well here we go..

[giovanni_hotel]

Accidentally fucked in the ass??
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[CaptainPlanet]

I can only speak for myself, but I would say that if you are not willing to bottom, you won't no matter what.

With that said, I am married to a transgender woman and she would NEVER ever ask me to bottom for her and I would NEVER say yes if I was.

Yea there's no way your getting talked into it. if your a top your a top.

[gaysian71]

Accidentally fucked in the ass??
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It's kind of like saying, you accidentally cheated on your wife. Actually, it's exactly like that.

[crazyeditor]

I can only speak for myself, but I would say that if you are not willing to bottom, you won't no matter what.

With that said, I am married to a transgender woman and she would NEVER ever ask me to bottom for her and I would NEVER say yes if I was.

Everyone is different. I have always been anal erotic, using toys, my wife and first GF after my divorce both used strapons on me. Then when I started dating my current TS GF I purged all my CD theings and eventually all my toys out of respect for her femininity. She topped me a few times and I didnt even ask for it, then she topped me bare and came inside me and wow that blew my mind, the thought that this person I believed to be deeply in love with would actually inject her DNA into me and my body would soak it up. Now that I have had that experience with her and told her how deeply personal it was she all of a sudden doesn't want to top at all. I say easy come easy go. Our sex life without her topping me is amazing.

[sigsleep]

I would give oral but I would never bottom under no circumstance. What's weird is that I love watching girls top.

[Realgirls4me]

"Different strokes for different folks" is the way Sly Stone once sang it. We are NOT alike, and neither are our fantasies, perversions, and/or preferences in this matter. I see TGs as women, so I approach them as such. I penetrate, they receive. It's that simple to yours truly.

Getting topped just isn't my thing. :)

[LilyRox]

"Different strokes for different folks" is the way Sly Stone once sang it. We are NOT alike, and neither are our fantasies, perversions, and/or preferences in this matter. I see TGs as women, so I approach them as such. I penetrate, they receive. It's that simple to yours truly.

Getting topped just isn't my thing. :)

Wish there were more men like you

[Murmdrum]

Wish there were more men like you

serious question...what part of his comments did you particularly agree with?

[LilyRox]

serious question...what part of his comments did you particularly agree with?

This part


I see TGs as women, so I approach them as such. I penetrate, they receive. It's that simple to yours truly.

[Murmdrum]

This part

I see. thanks for the reply. was just curious.

[BostonBad]

I have had probably 20 TS experiences, some with some well known girls..My thing is oral and I like getting facials. Never gave being penetrated a thought. then last April I met Carla Brasil in Boston and she took over and did her thing and before I knew it that monster of hers was inside of me...I cant say I enjoyed it. I didnt get hard..So I have no desire to get railed again

Did you bleed?

[Torris]

"Different strokes for different folks" is the way Sly Stone once sang it. We are NOT alike, and neither are our fantasies, perversions, and/or preferences in this matter. I see TGs as women, so I approach them as such. I penetrate, they receive. It's that simple to yours truly.

Getting topped just isn't my thing. :)

What is your take on sucking Tgirl cock?

[CaptainPlanet]

What is your take on sucking Tgirl cock?

Not my thing, I prefer eating a nice ass, But I admit it is hot seeing a girl shoot her load while your deep inside.

[filghy2]

We are NOT alike, and neither are our fantasies, perversions, and/or preferences in this matter.

I see TGs as women, so I approach them as such. I penetrate, they receive. It's that simple to yours truly.

You don't see any contradiction in those two statements? Isn't this thread supposed to me about cases where the tgirl initiated the topping?

[BostonBad]

You don't see any contradiction in those two statements? Isn't this thread supposed to me about cases where the tgirl initiated the topping?

Flighty is right.

I was bleeding my first time. I wasn't ready but she was.

[dirtrail]

I don’t know. All the girls I’ve ever been with wanted to be topped.

[Torris]

Not my thing, I prefer eating a nice ass, But I admit it is hot seeing a girl shoot her load while your deep inside.

The reason I ask is that I saw a documentary clip with a Tgirl model who was disappointed when she would date het guys bc they all would suck her cck when she wanted to be fucked like a woman

[seth123]

Has not happened to me but it's a great question and a good heads up for those who might find themselves in this situation. Also, I agree with " filghy2" about this subject getting off track.
Outside of Murmdrums direct response to the direct question a few people seem to be answering a different question altogether. The original poster is not asking if you would bottom or why you would not bottom. He's asking if you did bottom in an unexpected way.....The bragging = "I would NEVER say yes...." and flag waving = "wish there were more men like you..." Diverted the original question into opinions and moved it away from the facts.=

alan327
" I always wondered how many guys seen a TS but did not plan to bottom for them only to get talked into it."

[Realgirls4me]

You don't see any contradiction in those two statements? Isn't this thread supposed to me about cases where the tgirl initiated the topping?
Nope. The first part is basically stating a fact in that we are all different with regards to our preferences and how such preferences might take flight or be manipulated in a tryst/get together, with a TG, etc. Not going to deny that experimentation hasn't taken place in such impromptu encounters, but for the most part, the first urge I get when I come across a beautiful TG is to want to screw her. I once let a beautiful TG have her way (Let her take over the moment to see where it went) and receiving didn't do a thing for me. Nada. I know some guys live for it, but I just didn't see what the big deal was. I still wanted to fuck this beautiful woman's brains out. :)

[CaptainPlanet]

Has not happened to me but it's a great question and a good heads up for those who might find themselves in this situation. Also, I agree with " filghy2" about this subject getting off track.
Outside of Murmdrums direct response to the direct question a few people seem to be answering a different question altogether. The original poster is not asking if you would bottom or why you would not bottom. He's asking if you did bottom in an unexpected way.....The bragging = "I would NEVER say yes...." and flag waving = "wish there were more men like you..." Diverted the original question into opinions and moved it away from the facts.=


Has nothing to do with going off track he asked a question so the responses should be mixed. Just seemed more like a porn fantasy then an actual situation, a lot of girls have amateur onlyfan videos with "Tops" that they claim have never bottomed. That just seems like a story to sell the naive. But anything is possible, I have been seeing TS since 09 and have never had any try with me.

[filghy2]

I once let a beautiful TG have her way (Let her take over the moment to see where it went) and receiving didn't do a thing for me. Nada.

So why didn't you say that in the first place, as it's actually relevant to the topic?

The point I was making is that when you said "I penetrate, they receive" it sounds like you are assuming that your partners preferences will always be in line with yours (or else that only yours matter). Good sexual relations do involve a certain amount of doing things to please your partner. When I was younger I spend many hours eating pussy, even after my tongue got tired. I didn't do it because it did something for me.

Personally, I find it difficult to cum or even maintain an erection while being penetrated, but I still find it satisfying. I actually found it painful at first, but I persisted and now it isn't generally. I think that if you choose to be with TS you should want to experience the range of sexual possibilities, otherwise why not just stick to GGs? To my mind, people who always stay in their comfort zone and don't try different things are not really living. There are many things that I love now that I didn't like at first, eg beer, red wine, olives.

[Yepyepp]

I rarely plan on more than giving oral... But I love that top ts mentality... Being forced / coerced is what makes the stuff awesome :D makes me feel all cute and desireable

[Yepyepp]

Patty XXL I remeber the most btw I said I wasn't ready... She told me go to her bathroom, and get ready... Tops like to top... Have you seen Patricia? There's no way you'd see her as less than a woman, despite her appendage... I think being a Tgirl is as existential as being a normal girl, this tops vs bottoms things has to stop... For one, us bottoms are tougher than you tops... We take dick duhh, we're clearly the danger if this becomes civil war

[alan327]

Wow, im Alan 327 the poster here that started this tread! Good to see the mixed replies to it, yes some off track from what I asked but all very interesting to read!
I’m glad to have gotten the responses , Thanks !