Why do tgirls gives us guys the run around?

[meatloaf]

On the rare occasion that I've seen a female provider, there's never been any hassle. On the even rarer occassion that I've (attempted) to see a Tgirl provider, it seems they're always rescheduling or pushing back the time or telling me to call back in 5 minutes and then not answering their phone for an hour. Since these girls don't know me, I'm sure it can't be something specific about me that's prompting this behavior. Just today I called a girl off Eros to set up a time. She was sweet and friendly on the phone and wanted to see me at 4. Then when I called at 3 she asked to push it back to 6. Then I called and she said 7:30. Then I called at 7 to confirm and no answer, no answer, no answer.

So is this a general attitude among tgirls? Is it because she's got 5 other customers lined up down the hallway and is running late? Is it me? Do I smell over the phone? I don't think so but I'm starting to wonder.

[stillies77]

i get the exact same thing...all the time.

[BeardedOne]

Why do tgirls gives us guys the run around?

Uh...Because they can? :shrug

[suckseed]

Take it from a guy that had two ka-rappy encounters before following people's advice to read the review sites....read the review sites. And Friday nights? Do you really want to be sloppy thirds? Call her on a Tuesday, set it up for 7 or 8, home by ten with time for 'that was so cool I'm gonna wank right now thinking about it' session and a PB&J sandwich with a Simpsons rerun in bed.

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

Why do tgirls gives us guys the run around?

Uh...Because they can? :shrug

agreed................................even though it's fucked up

in response I'd like to say this to any guy that gets this treatment..........

throw it right back in their faces!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

not all but MANY of these broads hate to get ignored or shitted on, you might find yourself getting a phonecall in the wee hours of the morning because you spazzed out on a broad or treated her like she didn't exist.............

I think alot of it has to with drugs, alcohol, and ego, but that's just IMO

[josh]

the girls don't like it when u set it up a couple days ahead..how realistic is it "oh yeah, let me see u tomrrow and 3pm..that's when i'm gonna be horny and not flake on you... a lot of guys flake on them and so they don't take anyone in particular seriously. spoke to a few..they tend to put regular clients first whom they know what to expect and want and a bump the rest up.

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

valid point

but they screw up guys that are frequent travelers from state to state who only want to make sure they get to see their fantasy girl

[meatloaf]

I don't understand the girls who run eros ads (which cost money) and rent hotels (which costs money) and then blow off prospective customers. I would imagine that for some it's just a way to pay for a fun lifestyle of traveling around and clubbing; once they've made enough money in their stay they might shut down until they need money again. Who knows? Maybe it's time to lower the freak flag. :)

[suckseed]

Actually, think about this (put yourself in their...heels....come to think of it, there's probably enough of that going on here...!)
If an escort has made a couple grand and it comes down to taking the night off and going out and partying in a new town, where she'll more than likely be able to pick up a date on the 'spurt of the moment(ha)', versus sitting in her room and waiting for Mr. Sight Unseen to show so she can walk with $2300 instead, she'll probably opt for going out.
I know what you mean about girls blowing off traveling guys, JW; last year I was passing through LA on my way to Seattle (moving with all my stuff). I spent two hours driving around Burbank, Hollywood and downtown waiting for a certain famous TS who used to post here to return my call, after emailing me a few days before telling me to call her when I got to town. That sucked.
I've got to say, I've gone from 'These chicks are hot' to 'Oh those poor misunderstood exploited girls' to 'You know what? They're hot, they know it, and they're probably spoiled rotten.' I don't despise them for it - it's human nature, and we'd probably do the same thing - if we had our pick of girls clamoring to fuck us (or WHEN in my case...not), we'd get lotsa numbers, flake out on girls we said we'd call, fuck around, blow girls off....the whole thing. No need for pity or anger. It's just a game. You spins the wheel, you takes your chances.

[Dasnasdi]

I don't understand the girls who run eros ads (which cost money) and rent hotels (which costs money) and then blow off prospective customers. I would imagine that for some it's just a way to pay for a fun lifestyle of traveling around and clubbing; once they've made enough money in their stay they might shut down until they need money again. Who knows? Maybe it's time to lower the freak flag. :)
In one case, a big name entertainer came to my rarely visited town, but was impossible to hook up with. She would ask me to call at a certain time, then when I called at that time, there would be no answer. Several hours later, I'd finally get an answer, and again be told to call back.

It turns out preperation for a drag show had consumed all the time she had
while here.

[chefmike]

To quote Dabney Coleman in 'Modern Problems'...
"she's a manipulating bitch..."