Why are bisexual women revered and bisexual men / tranny chasers put down?

[modelboy1969]

And is that changing in society with the younger generation (those in their 20's)? I am my late 40's and out of the loop now days...

[BellaBellucci]

On the first part: because aesthetic beauty. On the second: because chasers. Don't be thirsty, and few people will have much to say about it.

~B

[josehip]

what the actual fuck

[SanDiegoPervySage]

Being bi and being a chaser are two separate things

[BellaBellucci]

Being bi and being a chaser are two separate things

This.

I was addressing the chasers. For bi men, it's just 'teh ghey' stigma.

~B

[decastro]

same way black chicks hate when black guys date outside race
same way dogs bark at other dogs in other cars

[daltx_m]

because women are beautiful and it's sexually stimulating watching them get it on.
Men are hairy beasts and no one wants to see them naked or you're seen as a fag.
society is not that enlightened. probably never will be.

[undercvrslut]

girls/tgirls are insecure creatures as it is. They worry about their horny, promiscuous, egotistical man spreading their seed every chance they get. Now your going to make them worry about the guy pool as well? I don't think they can handle that much anxiety. Worrying about the whole world.

As a guy, I think girl/tgirl action is hot because I'm not worried about her going full lesbo. It's fun and interesting but I'm not worried she will actually catch feelings for another girl. Girls don't have the same assurance when a guy messes with another guy. They think that he must BE (or turning) full ghey. If only girls/tgirls had the same confidence......sighhhhhh*

I'll establish right now.....even if we experiment like they do......there's really no threat or comparison to their beautiful delicate soft selves!

[holzz]

i don't get it.

being bi is just liking both sexes. like being straight is like the opposite sex, or being gay is likeing the same sex. it's not related at all to one's sexual likes or dislikes, or behaviour thereof.

chasters are bad because look at it from trans women's angle. no matter how hot they are, or settled, or successful, there is a stigma in dating trans women (still), and if they only get fuck buddies or fuck and dump, after a while this gets not only tiresome but hurtful. as cis men, we cannot relate, but then from their standpoint, i can get fully why it's not good. cis women feel that way too sometimes, as just used for sex, but there is no additional stigma in dating them. i think it geets too mcuh for them when they take cannot find men who want more than just sex. and who wants to get just seen as sexual? seeing a passable girl with a ten inch cock in porn is one thing, not every TS woman outthere is like this, or is superhorny.

again, a false comparison.

[Wendy Summers]

It's complicated - the simplest way to boil down the bisexual stigma is it's threatening to our human need to reduce things to a binary... in this instance: straight/ gay.

From a male perspective (which is the dominant perspective in our culture), female bisexuality is easier to accept as it not only validates the fantasy of a male having multiple female lovers, but the gender differences allow for a distancing from seeing the bisexual behavior as a threat to the male's personal definition of their own sexuality.

This is a gross over-simplification of the issue, but it's close enough for the amount of time I'm willing to spend typing on this lol.

Also, I've not had enough coffee yet this morning.

[sockratees]

i don't get it.

being bi is just liking both sexes. like being straight is like the opposite sex, or being gay is likeing the same sex. it's not related at all to one's sexual likes or dislikes, or behaviour thereof.

chasters are bad because look at it from trans women's angle. no matter how hot they are, or settled, or successful, there is a stigma in dating trans women (still), and if they only get fuck buddies or fuck and dump, after a while this gets not only tiresome but hurtful. as cis men, we cannot relate, but then from their standpoint, i can get fully why it's not good. cis women feel that way too sometimes, as just used for sex, but there is no additional stigma in dating them. i think it geets too mcuh for them when they take cannot find men who want more than just sex. and who wants to get just seen as sexual? seeing a passable girl with a ten inch cock in porn is one thing, not every TS woman outthere is like this, or is superhorny.

again, a false comparison.

bisexual women get verbally attacked by lesbian girls all the time for being bi, or they'll try use it as an insult if they don't feel the girl is "lesbian enough"

[Ben in LA]

because women are beautiful and it's sexually stimulating watching them get it on.
Men are hairy beasts and no one wants to see them naked or you're seen as a fag.
society is not that enlightened. probably never will be.
I know of at least five genetic females who are straight that get off watching gay porn.

[undercvrslut]

It's complicated - the simplest way to boil down the bisexual stigma is it's threatening to our human need to reduce things to a binary... in this instance: straight/ gay.

From a male perspective (which is the dominant perspective in our culture), female bisexuality is easier to accept as it not only validates the fantasy of a male having multiple female lovers, but the gender differences allow for a distancing from seeing the bisexual behavior as a threat to the male's personal definition of their own sexuality.

This is a gross over-simplification of the issue, but it's close enough for the amount of time I'm willing to spend typing on this lol.

Also, I've not had enough coffee yet this morning.

So my ultimate question to you would be......... Would you have a relationship with a bi guy?

[Wendy Summers]

So my ultimate question to you would be......... Would you have a relationship with a bi guy?

I have in the past and if I met the right person, could happen in the future. I don't really have hangups over who I date.

[smoothboi]

My straight gf liked gay porn too.

[undercvrslut]

Just don't understand.

If a guy finds it hot when a girl is bi. (It shows she's open-minded, kinky, fun etc.)
Why can't a girl/tgirl find it hot when a guy is bi for the same reasons?

Why is the reaction from girls fear and doubt? They think that he's just in denial that he's just full gay...Guys never second guess a girl if she's full lesbian when she claims to be bi. There's no fear or doubt..